Family › Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by cococandy(f): 10:40pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Acidosis: The loser is the one who sits back and allow random girls walk into her home without acting. I see  |
Family › Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by cococandy(f): 10:37pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Acidosis. Lol. Stop. |
Family › Re: Twitter User Slams Feminists, Teaches Them "How To Keep A Home" by cococandy(f): 10:27pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
bukatyne: It seems this is 2016 year end trend. really |
Celebrities › Re: Chidinma Okeke To Co-host Slimshady Invasion 3.0 by cococandy(f): 9:07pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
hammerT: I have the money, anything u ask, i will foot the bill. Oriaku!
 davidif: I have a mansion in heaven my sister. lol We want both. Heavenly and earthly mansions |
Celebrities › Re: Chidinma Okeke To Co-host Slimshady Invasion 3.0 by cococandy(f): 8:26pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
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Family › Re: A Conversation Between The Wife And A Side Chic by cococandy(f): 8:18pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
If the man wasn't telling her his wife smells like urine to boost her ego and give her morale, they wouldn't be having that conversation. Place the blame where it belongs. Acidosis: This text is enough to provoke her into beating the life out of the side chick, but if such happens, my dearest Nairaland sisters will condemn an angry wife for teaching a side chick a well deserved lesson.
They'll say: "why can't the wife beat her husband instead?" I didn't know women now beat men... smh for our dearest confused sisters.
The woman obviously married a dog, but the she-dog deserves all the beatings she can get from a superior power  |
Celebrities › Re: Chidinma Okeke To Co-host Slimshady Invasion 3.0 by cococandy(f): 7:13pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
Awesome |
Family › Re: Husband Or Househelp? by cococandy(f): 7:10pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: And to think this was composed by a woman.
Smh.
Some minds eschewed in mental slavery are irredeemable. When it comes to silly stuff like this, those women who claim to be 'good exemplary women' are the usually the worst. The man might be having the time of his life enjoying his marriage and they will go drive a wedge between them because they think they have the recipe to a perfect marriage. |
Family › Re: Twitter User Slams Feminists, Teaches Them "How To Keep A Home" by cococandy(f): 7:01pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
As usual |
Family › Re: Husband Or Househelp? by cococandy(f): 6:58pm On Dec 30, 2016 |
What a stupid thread |
Culture › Re: Akure Monarch Replaces Eze Ndigbo With Asiwaju Igbo by cococandy(f): 9:55am On Dec 30, 2016 |
ElsonMorali: isnt it even more stupid and dumb to be crowning yourself a king in another man's ancestral home? Over their own people. Not the natives. |
Romance › Re: Man Cancels Wedding In Anambra, A Day To D-Day After He Caught Fiancée Cheating by cococandy(f): 9:52am On Dec 30, 2016 |
nonjebose: It was actually a guy who claimed to be her cousin that said something like that Hmm. Let's hear from the horse's mouth please. All these psychos on the internet claiming to know those who don't even know they exist. |
Sports › Re: Serena Williams Is Engaged To Alexis Ohanian, Reddit Co-Founder. Gets Backlash by cococandy(f): 9:51am On Dec 30, 2016 |
codemaniacs: is your husband white
next time say black "american" men... Unfortunately many black African men are guilty of that. Even in this website. |
Romance › Re: Man Cancels Wedding In Anambra, A Day To D-Day After He Caught Fiancée Cheating by cococandy(f): 9:13am On Dec 30, 2016 |
Where did the man say she cheated on him?  |
Sports › Re: Serena Williams Is Engaged To Alexis Ohanian, Reddit Co-Founder. Gets Backlash by cococandy(f): 8:51am On Dec 30, 2016 |
But many black men marry other races and disparage black women any chance they get yet it's not news? Pls the critics should take several seats. |
Family › Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by cococandy(f): 8:39am On Dec 30, 2016 |
The OP is a 17 year old girl. @bold summarizes the problem with most Nigerian families and why marital issues are rampant. delishpot: So because she visit your home, she should wake up when you guys wake up? She cooked but you don't like her food, so she is a bad person? Your brother fought with your bad mannered sister means the girl used juju? Why did your sister or brother not tell her you guys don't eat ewedu? So non of you thought it wise to see what she was cooking until food was dished and you found out it was Ewedu? To me, you guys are too pushy and expect her to lick your asses because she is your Bros babe. Many naija sibblings and mothers expect a new wife/babe to serve them and treat them like gods becaise their son/brother wants to marty the girl. Let her be and mind your business. you are just pissed because she did not sweep your room and wipe your butt every morning. If you have worthy concerns, talk to your brother instead of being rude to his guest, I am sure he would consider things from your point of view. If that girl was smart, she would leave your I'll mannered family and look for a better home to marry into. Your brother can turn violent and you the siblings are petty and destructive. You love to destroy relationships if you feel the person hasn't worshiped you well. Look well sef, she senior una well well. |
Crime › Re: Burial Of Temidayo Adeleke, Lady Murdered By Her Cameroonian House Boy (Photos) by cococandy(f): 8:19am On Dec 30, 2016 |
She looks very familiar. May she Rest In Peace, |
Culture › Re: Akure Monarch Replaces Eze Ndigbo With Asiwaju Igbo by cococandy(f): 8:16am On Dec 30, 2016 |
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Culture › Re: Akure Monarch Replaces Eze Ndigbo With Asiwaju Igbo by cococandy(f): 7:53am On Dec 30, 2016 |
Lmao.
How silly. Zero sense. So the asiwaju or whatever will understand Igbo culture enough to pilot the affairs of the igbos over there? This is stupid to say the least |
Family › Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by cococandy(f): 11:15pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Freak101: And you've a good mouth abi??you that you've a good mouth keep it up ehn,the lord is your strength,aunty amebo I don't blame you. I blame your brother. If he didn't give you pocket money to buy airtime will you be here insulting your aunties? 17 year old riffraff waiting for her brother's woman to wake up early in the morning to serve her. Which mouth abi eye were you using to observe and judge her for not waking up early to do house girl for you? If you were older than her, the girl for see pepper for una hand. Obere nsi na emebi ike. |
Family › Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by cococandy(f): 10:03pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Freak101: whatever scare-crow no wonder you can't get along with the lady your brother loves. Bad mouth child. |
Family › Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by cococandy(f): 9:37pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Freak101: Is this one in his right senses at all??why's he my brother if he cannot take care if me?and before he marry the girl,trust me,i would have found my way in life,they aren't married, I'm still his sibling, apply sense when quoting me,you talk like someone that lost all his siblings Okay.  Until reality sets in for you. Welcome to the world teenager. |
Family › Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by cococandy(f): 9:28pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Freak101: Op is a girl uncle and why shouldnt be buy me a phone before he gets his girl a phone??am I not his sibling?or was it not I and my sister our mother left for him before going??why's he my elder brother rif he cannot cater for my needs? Your brother doesn't owe you anything. Better rearrange your mindset to avoid future disappointments. It's good if he helps you. Very good and commendable. But he's not your father who brought you into the world. So it's not his responsibility. better face your studies and hustle to provide for yourself as soon as you can. It's a cold world out there. Just giving you this cold hard reality check Before you pin your hopes of survival on someone and end up disappointed. You're still 17. I hope you learn in time. Starting from now. |
Family › Re: Pregnant And Depressed. by cococandy(f): 9:22pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Thanks! 
I had the family here for Christmas. You know how much work that is to have so many people in your house but today we are leaving to visit friends and will stay there for one night so I will be the guest and relax while they will be serving some delicious food. My friend is a very good cook, like Cococandy, so I cannot wait to get there. I need to pack a few things now and we are ready to go. Yay!   |
Family › Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by cococandy(f): 8:16pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Your brother should not have punched your sister no matter what. That's unacceptable and she should report him to maybe your uncle or elders in your family so that they will sanction him.
As the rest of the matter, you guys mind your business and let him love his girlfriend the way he likes. I can't even see what she did wrong in your post. She cooked with a seasoning you didn't like? She woke up at 7:00am? Your brother ate something he doesn't normally eat because she made it? He gave her a phone? Where's the offense in any of that?
People please. Stop complicating simple matters because of your bias. That girl has done nothing to you guys. You just don't like her because you feel your brother won't be spending as much on you as he used to. So maybe you people are the gold diggers here. Not her. |
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Family › Re: Why Do Women Oppress Quiet Husbands. by cococandy(f): 6:36pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
If the women in your life are like a troop of baboons who need to be supervised every 5 minutes and desirable behaviors have to be enforced in them, you don't have to conclude that's how all women are. How many of you are able to type such poo on daily basis is astounding. Yet you form offended when readers ask you if that's how your mothers are. Do you realize how offensive your post is? Are you dumb? Well obviously but do you have to make a point of displaying it? I think this is a very very stupid post and has nothing to do with OP's predicament. So xtupid. You don't sound like someone who can make any sensible decisions yourself except under the influence of whips. How's that for nice comment? Only on the internet will some arsehole with the IQ of a nitwit proudly pen and post such tripe and think he's made sense. Go home and tell your mother you think she's like a baboon who needs constant supervision to behave well and that left alone her default tendencies are shitty. Let's see how that works out for you. slowpoke BuddhaPalm: Sorry, the characteristics you listed above are not those of a "quiet" man, but of a wimp.
Leave kids unsupervised for 5 minutes and they'll trash your house like a troop of baboons.
The same with women...
In a relationship her default tendency is towards "shitty" behavior.
It is your role as the male to enforce and reinforce the behaviors you want.
Kids are not evil, but if you leave them to their own devices, some of their actions will shock you.
Women too... |
Family › Re: Pregnant And Depressed. by cococandy(f): 6:27pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
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Family › Re: Pregnant And Depressed. by cococandy(f): 11:26am On Dec 29, 2016 |
100 Mindfulness: @troubledheart
It is good you decided to talk to the man who impregnated you. Whether he believes that you want to trap him with the pregnancy or not is pretty irrelevant. He has to know that you are pregnant because he is responsible for the pregnancy - along with you of course. The decision whether you should abort or not should be made together. I hope he is the gentle type and will be sensitive enough.
You have a child so you already know what it takes to raise a child. And you know yourself and if you can handle the responsibility of a second child. Soon you will know if the father of the child is willing to assist you or not, which will be a big factor in your decision, I guess.
If you decide to abort the pregnancy (maybe not), then do it as soon as possible. A few weeks will make a HUGE difference. You do not want to abort when the foetus starts to take on a human shape, it will be more difficult then, psychologically.
For all those here speaking out against abortion, I respect their views but none of them will assist you with the child's upbringing so make your own decision. It is your cross to bear whatever decision you take.
I wish you well from the bottom of my heart. I know it is not easy. Kuddos to you and may the future bring more ease to your life. |
Culture › Re: Sultan Tells Senate To Reject Gender Equality Bill by cococandy(f): 11:11am On Dec 29, 2016 |
If that's such a horrible thing to do why do you think it's okay for the man to do it instead? The woman has no honor? I get it. Your hypocrisy stinks. futprintz: I see...u have a concept of wat a good marriage is....and you wouldn't mind humiliating n dishonouring your dead husband by bringing a second man into your matrimonial home with him because he's dead! Oh wonderful! Goodspeed!!! Besides, it's important to note dat no opinion is absolute on the matter. All depends on the parties/individuals, their idiosyncrasies n the circumstances! Many men/women wouldn't mind allowing different shades of our opinions in their case! Opinions can change considering the above factors...so plzzzzzzz! |
Celebrities › Re: Ubi Franklin Removes Wedding Ring, Flaunts Watch Gift From Ali Baba. Fans React by cococandy(f): 10:42am On Dec 29, 2016 |
What did he do |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:43am On Dec 29, 2016 |
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