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makelove2m:
No one has the capacity to create God as he is supreme, reading from your threads, it seem to me that you were once, messed up by men, never to worry, time will heal your wound, I never support evil and will never support one in future, girls , i mean women should be more careful when selecting who to relate to, if you built your relationship in a shaky foundation, it willl more likely going to fall, your instints will guide you do better judgement, men were like MMM, do not give all you have otherwise, you will regret it later,

= REMENBER THAT THERE ARE BETTER MEN OUT THERE= AND BETTER WOMEN ALSO= SHINE UR EYE=BE YOURSELF, Then you will fine your match

makelove2m:
In this case you are not the one to leave the house but your sister, since am a man, i do advise from the man angle of judgement, men are like dogs, yes, some men, they have preferences but they go for anything accessible at a given time and later regrets their actions, most men think with their genital organs than their God given brain, please go back to your husband house, since he wasn't the one that sent you out but, try to regain strenght this time to win him, yes, you can, i know you can, even the word impossible says , You can make him kneel before you to apologies for all his shortcomings, you have what it takes, don't listen to most people as they were not seeing what you are seeing right now, they may not have the best advise to give to you............. remenber to make yourself relevant financially, if you have not started, start up immediately, very important, ............... thanks anyway for speaking up so many women dies in silent today, as many men do think that since they married the women that they are their slaves, you can never be one, that was in old days

makelove2m:
I never meant that she should worship him but know it that every women, has all that it takes to win any strong man............... yes god made it so she should discover her strenght and put it to work, by doing so, that man will submit willingly and the woman becomes a winner even when it was not announce going by African customs and traditions, atleast the woman wins.,

makelove2m:
Number one offence is to check ur hubby phone, that will make you loose confidence in him and thereafter generate to hatre, so, show more love as ever before, dress to impress him, give him more good food, i tell you, you will win him back, today girls loves married men, so ur husband is not alone...............

byvan03:
Dash me the terror.

thelish:
Hahaha. if my mum were to be ur mum, what will u do then?

EfemenaXY:
Ladies, am I the only one going crazy here??

How can one little person be soooooo demanding?? I'm starting to think I shouldn't have taken time off work when madam is on holidays too, Christmas or no Christmas.

Impeller:
How will you feel in 10yrs time that the child was not even yours? Go for a parternity test without her consent. If the innocent child is truly yours, take the child to your mum...Go out there and work hard for your mum and child. Please, do not marry a bad wife!!!

sekem:
Very funny post.

Guys, I guess y'all can now see why you're always advised to man up from the word go?

This OP learnt the hard way.

He allowed the girl to gain a lot of upper hand in their said relationship.

Which is too bad.

Now he's paying the terrible price for that fatal mistake.

Don't be like the OP.

Once a woman you are with starts showing signs that she has developed some wings, cut her down.

Slap and beat some damn sense into her. Throw her out. End the relationship...

It doesn't matter even if she has the sweetest pûssïe you've tasted in your life.

Just do something to remind her that you're still the man. Let her know that her respect for you is totally unconditional.

Or else...

Richy4:
Do you have a job madam? If you do..., then i suggest you look for a decent accommodation and separate with him for a while.....That will help you clear your head from the cobwebs....It will also give you room to think about what next to do....

I believe you are an introvert...and he was taking an undue advantage of that....get an emergency accommodation for some months...if you are not scarce from him for a while, he will not know your worth....Even if he pleads for you to stay, insist that you are not going away permanently... but you want some time out....you really want to think where the marriage was heading.. And in this situation, you really have to be strong ok...

pmc01:
Everything Madam. Let's start with the fact that you consider it something so mechanical and merely routine, rather than a spontaneous act of intimacy.

You have no right to downplay the importance, especially when you even read the situation is emotionally draining the man, to the extent of affecting his work and productivity.
It will even be more unfair to blame him for this. I have read from experts how important sex is in a marriage, in relation to other aspect of the couple's individual lives.

All the same, let me apologize for coming down to harsh on you.

bbmpin:
I clearly stated that she should "manipulate him" not control!

Funny how you ignore "basic values" all in the name of "women's rights"

Colossians 3:18 "woman be submissive to your man"

pocohantas:
https://www.nairaland.com/3525834/wife-given-me-days-come

OP, go through the above thread.
7mths?
Someone is talking of losing fat, which useless fat is that?
Whereas a brother is getting twice a week and he was advised to get a side chic by many.

pmc01:
You're indeed spoilt and not fit for marriage.
If your husband is satisfied with once a month, should you bring your feminist jargons here to come and spoil other people's homes?

fkdmods:
Pretty sure he needs all the protein he can get.

tunjion:
is he yoruba?