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EfemenaXY:
Haha! See our wife oooohhh!!!

She looks so much like you. She's even got your smirk (1st pic).

Beautiful baby. Lovely daddy daughter pictures Coco.

EfemenaXY:
Lovely pics

Would have loved to see more of African / Nigerian dad and daughter moments though.

LastMumu:
Where Cococandy dey with all those chicken perri-perri wey she dey cook? But tomatoes don come down na.


Oya Cococandy show o Nne, I need your vote today for my babe Ivyy.

stylesco:
Most women always say the vagina goes back to normal after childbirth, but I think the men should be judge.

My hubby has insisted I'll use c-section for our baby so that I can still be tight.
My question is does it really change down there after child birth?

CFCman:


I knew you would show up. Seriously though, I guess that's the reason why Nigerian women, who work in the hospitality industry, barely crack a smile at guests of both genders.

WARRIBLOOD:
My hand work., just now.. Who say boy nor de cook?

successmatters:
If there is an award for "world's biggest hypocrite" Buhari will win it without opposition.

fellis:
This is really unfortunate. I guess this is the type of thing men want to see happening that's why they keep fighting gender equality tooth and nail.


Op get a very good lawyer to help you, sorry about this sad situation. Get a lawyer and tell your mom and aunt to avoid the people from your dad's family for the main time. There are many cases of people getting killed because of landed property so she should be careful.

Acidosis:
The truth is that you can't give them all they ask. What if they demand for a real practice?

Sexual Reproduction is a common subject in primary/secondary schools, we all learned these stuffs but never taught with pornograp.hic images.

Many Nigerians today were raised with those so called funny and flimsy euphemisms, but at the right time we learnt the right words.

You can't control these kids, I wouldn't want a situation where a child will go about harassing my guest and demanding their sexuality (peni.s or vagi.na).

Sometimes, what we do not know, may not kill us. Meanwhile, some of these young girls getting rap.ed by shameless men is not a result of zero knowledge on sexuali.ty., even the adults get rap.ed sometimes. If we give them the knowledge, can we also give them the power to beat a grown giant with 6 six?

You see, I have spoken to her about sexual parts, intercourse, rape and non-penetrative assault and she knows that anyone can pose a threat.

We call her body parts by name and have always done. No pet names. So her Vagina is called “Vagina”. Her buttocks is called “Buttocks or Bum”, her breasts are called “Breasts” A boy’s part is called “joystick”. No “my private place” ” my fluffy bits” or any of those flimsy euphemisms that people like to use. She also has a plan for if anything ever happens. I can’t share it here as it is private to us.

yetseyi:


Instead of advising the OP to speak/deal calmly with the girl its the practice of a minor living with another family that is being castigated. A practice I dont think will ever stop in naija and thats the reality. People have been and will still have minors living with them as whatever we may decide to call it.

A woman gives birth her towns person/family friend sends her 8 year old daughter to "help" aunty with the baby, from there she goes to school Aunty sends some provisions to the parents from time to time,(which I think its a subtle/indirect form of payment same as schooling) she runs errands around the house etc, she grows and begins to help with the children.

^^^ Is the reality is naija except we deceive ourselves. All these ones we are saying is just English.

Acidosis:
They will make every attempt to check the pants of the opposite se.x for proper verification. Satisfy their curiosity on paper, and they will satisfy it further physically, in your absence.

You don't have to give a child alcohol before you explain the impacts on human health.