₦airaland Forum

ismayl:
am sorry for this. am a muslim so i can only giv u advise in islamic way. (not mandatory u accept).; In islam, we are slaves to our parents.u are, to ur mum. each &evrybody has his trials & tribulations. this is urs in the condition of ur master. note however, NO MATTER WHAT, never ever ever hurt ur mother. she loves u & bliv she's doing all ths for ur sake. if she wants u divorce ur wife, sorry u just have to (if u can not in anyway make her accept it).u& what belong to u are her's. so u either find ALL possible way to appease her to accept, or divorce the innocent sister on condition ur mum wont enforce one on u.ur wife already regrets ur union. no matter what happens to u (even if u run mad) ur mom will NEVER EVER abandon u.

Abel202:
[b]CHAI !!!
Dictator Buhari can not stand any opposition.
That is too bad, damned too bad for our democracy.
Under Obasanjo, sitting governors Bola Tinubu and Orji Uzor Kalu were real thorns in his flesh, but he never did anything close to this.
Under Jonathan, Amaechi was a thorn in his flesh, yet he couldnt do something similar to this.

Buhari is busy hounding every dissenting voice. Looking for trouble everywhere. How on earth is he ever gonna succeed this way?

Those applauding him on shall soon make the man over reach himself and self-destruct. His health in just one year is already showing signs of over reach.

The Nigerian democracy consistently improved from 1999 - Obasanjo to Yaradua to Jonathan, but in just one year of Buhari everything is retrogressing - that is too bad.

In 2016 Nigeria the truth is that Buhari's style of Tough Dog approach to everything is unsustainable. This is only one year. If he continues this way he will surely over reach himself, self-destruct- and crash - End of story, another person will take over. We deh here deh watch.. Egwu adighu at all.[/b]

tearoses:
Thanks dear
How are you all doing

I cheated a bit though, all these flowers come back year after year
I just need to prune them in the Autumn or spring and just feed them

tearoses:
Onegai, cococandy and other plant lovers

These are cut flowers from my garden. No need to buy flowers from the shops now until October
Yay!

The red one is a lily
The purple one a lupin
The white one a calla lily
The long pink one is a latvera
The rest are different types and colours of roses
The white rose is called an Iceberg rose, Dont know what the other ones are called.

shaybebaby:
I'll answer that one for you coco, it's fear. These "women" are not empowered and fear taking responsibility for themselves and happiness.
To be truly free from subjugation, you have to accept the rights and responsibilities that comes with it.
Right now, there is the default position that when things go wrong, all they have to do is work harder at pleasing their men and somehow they will be rewarded. Their belief is that men are responsible for their happiness and fulfilment. Take that ideology away and they realise that they are solely responsible for shaping their lives. That is one step too far for many, having no one to blame or look to as a messiah of some sort.
Truly, the thought of taking ownership of oneself is frightening for them, they would rather be owned this absolved of the responsibility of nurturing their self growth.

ifenes:
Women have been oppressed for so long in Nigeria to the point that they think it is normal. After a while the slave will fall in love with his/her chains. Re-education and good reforms is what they need.

SAMBARRY:
so human life is now worth ordinary 150 NAIRA

Isokay.God is watching

SAMBARRY:
Is this a country? So you mean driver,conductor and passengers Got away with murder abi na homicide we go call am.

Even the passengers who witnessed this and kept mute have the blood of the baby stained on their hands

Where's cococandy
efemena
chaircover
greatgod
Edwife
Etcetera

I don taya for this country sef

ifenes:
I see Nigerian ladies enjoy being oppressed. It's good to know. Equality is freedom.

Tolatutu:
Very true, she's no different from the Olori. women like them and many here just pander to what their men want to hear. they just want to be hailed as good "African" wives whereas many of them are not even practicing what they say. Omotola said she doesn't believe in gender equality and the husband is blah blah and women should take care of their homes and blah yet the same Omotola later revealed that its the husband that goes to the market does that sound like something a so called tradition woman would do? The same way Olori says she's not equal to men but she managed to get more divorces than men sef if not for women rights would she as a 2ce divorced woman be able to talk in public . is multiple divorces part of the so called African tradition she's selling

These women will say whatever they think Nigerian men want to hear . What they practice is another issue

sukkot:
cuz you are a part time feminist. who paying the mortgage on ya crib ?

sukkot:
i hope when ya man take you out for lunch you insist on paying half of the cheque. nonsense

Beremx:
Olori go hear am. Wait let Omotola and Stella Damasus come and take her to the correction table.

She will learn to think before yarning dust.

MsGlobalwonder:
lmaooo.. so olori that was a "nobody" this time last year suddenly is more lofty than a veteran that has paid her dues in her profession because she has a differing opinion? Nigerians ehen.. too funny

Tolatutu:
There is no law in place against gender discrimination right now so even if a woman goes to court and the family say its the custom since the Dad didn't leave a will she won't have a real legal leg to stand on. where theres no law theres no crime and that is why it must be spelt out .Abroad you can't be asking stupid questions about someones gender or marital status for things like renting a home and even employment because there are clearly defined laws in place and everyone knows the consequences of such discrimination.

Gender equality does not mention anyone gender, its simply saying no one must be denied oppourtunities based on their gender so it applies to both. Its only more relevant to women in these society because women tend to be the ones discriminated against.

Ministry of women is absolute crap so we dont need that or ministry of men. Nigerian politicians only came up with that to deceive women that their interests are being looked after when clearly we can see those ministries active nothing and are not needed.

Tolatutu:
The most irritating part is all these bimbos that don't have anything in their brain beyond marriage. we are talking about important issues affecting women who can't fight for themselves and all these ones care about is my husband this and that. They really think the law is interested who washes plates in their houses or put on the generator

Tolatutu:
one thing that is clear from the comments here is that the Nigerian educational system is very lacking if so called educated women and men don't even know what gender equality is about how do we then want to explain to the villagers.

Black people try and read and educate yourself before commenting on an issue. The Olori should have done that and she would have realized no one is talking about her marriage.