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adesteve2016:
put it Into prayers... Don't be too negative about your husband.. God will see you through And bless your home...

SamMilla1:
Wait a minute here.
You mean she never supposed to be responsible for any other human being in a society like Nigeria where government social security is non existent?

So you are telling me you don't do anything for any other person except you and your children?
God forbid, but what if your own parents had died when you were 2 years, would it be fine if nobody looked your way to help? No matter how stubborn you might have been?


How difficult is it to develop love?
If her own child does all that she accused this girl of doing, where would she chase her to?

All you this new generation evil silly girls should understand that anybody could be in any position anytime. That's how dynamic this is life.

Like I said, you half-brain non-functional dead woods should always remember that life is very short.

I didn't read where this OP said she is bringing one Kobo to the table, but she is angry her husband bought Gloceries for his uncle who must have had a hand in his upbringing. Or did she think the husband fell from the sky?

bakila:
@@marrymee, cococandy, valprof, SamMilla. First marrymee's motto is "take me seriously at your own risk"
Cococandy if you are a relation of the husband you might not like the op's write up, you will be thinking of trying to give the girl a chance and will do give her one if she is your relation. The other guys I mentioned have a point but were harsh.
Marrymee, if you are serious do not think of giving that girl a bad name to hang her. You do not know how deep the relationship is between your husband and her father. Because you are in a flat today does not mean the girl may not be in a better position in the future.
@Lastpage you have a point.
Again if you send that girl away through the design you have outlined above or due to the girls behavior your husband may never forgive, if he owes that uncle anything on his way "up" to Marry you. If your relation replaces his own it might be worse.

SamMilla1:
You are probably an evil woman.
Take that from me.
All those bunch of lies you told against this girl just to paint her black, would you say the same things if she was your sister?

I can easily tell that you are angry because she came from the husbands side. It's common with all evil women.

Change your ways when you still can, otherwise you will pour hot water or acid on her someday and end up in Prison.

She broke plasma, broke Toilet WC, really? That hard thing? How did she do that? With a sledgehammer or what?
What else did she do?
She broke her shoes, tore her school uniform.
Bed-wets, fights, never do anything such as assignment?

Why don't you just tell us you want her gone so you can bring your own sister?
I am way too intelligent to believe all the rubbish you said about this innocent girl.
Even Lucipher will find it very difficult to win a destruction contest with this 11 year old girl.

On top of that, her father comes for monthly salary in your place, of course with other incentives such as groceries etc.
Where is the mother in all this?
Do you really expect me to believe you?
No mention of one good thing from the girl, not even to fetch water or cook anything?


Your heart is black because I don't see why you were hesistant when your husband wanted to bring her. Do you know their family history?
Who trained your husband? What exactly are you bringing to the table?


You first of all painted the father of the girl with black paints as if you know anything about him.
Evil thing.

And all you people shouting send her home, do you really think this evil thing is telling you all the story?
Do you not believe that if this is a law court, the girl will have her chance to say her own version.
She never wanted her in the first place and she admitted it up there. She just wanted her own relatives to fill the house. It's common with evil women.

bebe2:


and to think he was asking us for dollars

not know that we are from the uk.

show how much he knows his family

Eke40seven:
You need to also explain the concept of income per capita, however, you also need to adjust and put so many things into consideration to arrive at a fair amount. Sending same amount to each individual doesn't necessarily mean that in real term the amount you sent is same...

bebe2:
That is ehh??

The so called uncles are the worst.

Few weeks ago while we were in Nigeria, one of my uncles in law casually strolled into my husbands family house to visit my parents in law only for him to meet my husband in the living room.

They briefly exchanged greetings , within a minute he has started asking my hubby for money. My hubby laughed and said no problem go and greet my parents I will see u before u leave.

He refused oo, insisting on getting some green leafs
" dollars" my Hubby was trying to introduce our 2 kids to him , saying baba, I came with my children but this man refused to even take notice of the kids rather followed my husband to our room and I greeted him. Ahhh my wife u are here, gud ask ur husband to give some green leaf. By then my husbands eldest sister came in jokingly saying don't worry he will see u later. But the man refused ooo, by now I was boiling mad, my husband gave him 5k he refused that he wanted green leaf. Dats when my sis in law took the money from my husband and stylishly took the old man out .

It was so embarrassing, he then went to greet my parents in law before coming back to our room to pray for my husband and thank him for the money.

mekuzi09:
And the Igbos were called names for rejecting him at the poll. Una eye don tear now.

overall90:
the diabolical thing about this stealing of cooked food is that exactly the same thing happened in 1984/85.
Warri has one name for this particular phenomenon which I can remember now.
Buhari is indeed bad luck.

Onegai:
Today is Baby E's birthday and we are all so glad and grateful to God for our little darling. May she continue to grow in happiness and wisdom and may all her days be filled with calm. Amen.

And I am taking down that picture in 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3,2, 1

Breadmaker:
Does that NO3 make sense to you?

oluafam:
I soo much like you. I dislike that word 'thing' she used. For crying out loud that woman(thing) is ten years older than her.

tearoses:
I lost someone I know through C/S.
All operations have a degree of risk regardless of where it is carried out
Even the best surgeons can loose patients due to one reason or another

I've had a C/S and a natural birth
I recovered much quicker after the natural birth and went home the next day after the birth
I was able to bond with my baby quicker and was able to get into a routine quicker.

With the C/S I was in hospital for 5 days
I was in much pain after the C/S and to just even cough was excruciatingly painful
After experiencing both, I will never choose a C/S over a natural birth unless it was life threatening, which it was in my case.

Sex after a vaginal birth? No change
Give mother nature her credit
The vaggy is not like a cheap thin hair band that just breaks due to stretching

If you want my advise, I will say only put yourself at risk if 100% required
or at the very least read up and inform yourself on the complications of surgery
If God forbid you have adhesions, you could be in pain for the rest of your life.....People do.
I Am lucky and the only lasting effect was not feeling any sensation along the line of incision for about 3 years and that was even being cut by one of the best surgeons in the business as I was told.
So I hate to think what other lasting effects other ladies with less experienced surgeons go through.

CFCman:
It probably won't be released unless the case goes to trial, or a gossip site (ie gawker or TMZ) gets a hold of it somehow.

If 'Honorable' Gololo goes ahead to sue the US ambassador and/or the hotel management, the tape would certainly be tendered as evidence in court. It will also be an exhibit in a potential criminal trial.

seangy4konji:
You can never satisfy them.

Enough is never enough. Don't kill yourself because d them.

That cheating nature is in their genes.they can never be loyal to one man,if they are loyal physically?,psychologically they are bleeping brad Pitt or Jason statham.

Once you and your woman be it wife or girl friend start arguing because she does not want you to to press her phone,padlocks it all the time or go outside to receive calls?

Know thT she ain't loyal. Do t get mad though.just keep knackin her furiously when she give it to you. If nt fr fasting I would hav said a lot Of terrible things.

Never trust a woman. They are serpents.

They are just confused set of things.

bebe2:
My dear if u live in an advanced country where c-section is easier to perform and u can afford it pls go for cs.

Dats how most celebrities have their kids.

Vagina birth is crazily painful. And as for weather it changes ur Vagina I will say yes.

But dat don't mean u will be loose or not be able feel ur oga, u might even need extra pressure to get in sometimes if u not probably lubricated.

Bottom line take cs if offered.

ad84ada:
I think someone should visit this Igando court and confirm all this stories. Why always Igando?

SisterCaro:
i do not ever remember Buhari's status stopping me for calling him a "stupid thing" for his lack of competence. If you think i called her a thing because she is a maid and therefore less of a human being, well thats your own interpretation and I cannot be blamed for it.

SisterCaro:
Should i have used nincompoop instead?

Bollinger:
Hello. Hello. I don't seem to have any signal. Are you driving through a tunnel? I can't seem to hear you. Hello. Hello. This At&t sef. Hello. Hello. Mrs foodo, can you call me back? Maybe there'll be better service.

Israellb:
U should keep braggin with it, cos i'll say it's the coolest Dad and Daughter picture i'v ever seen, infact i now have it on my phone here, U did great

Bollinger:
Sorry to hear you weren't feeling well when you tried it. But just give it another shot.

Anyway 4th of July is around the corner and it's a big deal with my organization. Every year we do a huge carnival like celebration and every arm all over the world participates. There is music, games, fireworks and plenty of distractions for the kids as well. This year, where I am, all this is happening plus something new. A cooking competition. Prize is season tickets to watch the broncos. I don't like football but I'll take the prize any day. They are worth upwards of 7K when sold on the black market. Yeah. Sign me up. My wife's bestee, coury, who is also the captain for the cook team came over yesterday and was like "I heard you are the shiit when it comes to cooking awesome foods". And I was like "well, I don't mean to brag, but yeah". And she was like "impress me". And I was like, "ok". And I blew her away with some suya I quickly whipped up. She was so impressed she is entering it as the main dish for the competition. She started asking for the recipe for the spice and I'm like "I can't share it because it was handed down from my great great grand mother. Sorry". Oyibo no go understand say I bought it at a store. Lol.

Prettiepearlz:
Exactly! But when you talk, nairalanders will say all sort of things like, Divorce is not the way, Prayer is the way. Now I am sure the man is praying where he is now and prayer will also help the woman in jail now.
Ps: Your baby is so cute and she has a beautiful smile (her smile made me smile) and yes she looks so much like you . Hugs