Phones › Re: Facebook Blocked Me For Saying This:: by cococandy(f): 7:02pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Couldn't have said it better. RaggedyAnn: He lets them live. So should you. He lets the same sun shine on them that shines on you. It may be clear "what" God hates, but you can never know "who" God hates. So do not condemn anyone to condemn yourself. He has given you a commandment to love, so do that. You're going to have to love the pretty ones and the ugly ones too It's not always going to be easy, but that's on you. Ask for more compassion to keep His commandment. Whenever you're in doubt about how compassionate you need to be to so-called "sinners" ask yourself: What would Christ have done? You'll find that there is no room for hatefulness and judgement; only love, tolerance, forgiveness. Don't make a monster out of yourself because you're presuming to fight God's battles. |
Family › Re: Man Faints As DNA Shows His 4 Kids Belong To Neighbours by cococandy(f): 4:13pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Chai.  |
Family › Re: UPDATES: I Need Help , My Head Is Full. tnk u all for ur contribution. by cococandy(f): 4:11pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
They usually rope people into fixing lashes too once you go to fix your hair or nails. 'Madam I go commot money for you'  Abeg I no dey do again. No means no. tearoses: LOL No be only you o!
That day I only wanted to do my nails but the woman said do your lashes too I dont even know if it was superglue she used Let me just say that was the first and last time I fixed lashes in my life I cant come and go and kill myself because of vainness  |
Family › Re: UPDATES: I Need Help , My Head Is Full. tnk u all for ur contribution. by cococandy(f): 4:08pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Sorry  bebe2: Sometimes my level of stubborNess amazes me. I only went there for nails bur the minute I sat down she started asking about eyelash, I said maybe, but my mind doing kept saying don't do it but typical me went ahead at the last minute.
As I type this am at the doctors , trying to get something for my swollen eye. I can barely see from it.
Aunty coco, I no even see agbalumo with my eye sef
Only brought my regular ogbono, Melon and crayfish  |
Politics › Re: Fuel Scarcity Set To Hit Nigeria Again.. by cococandy(f): 3:45pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Vessi: Guess you weep for your family back in Nigeria  yes o |
Politics › Re: Fuel Scarcity Set To Hit Nigeria Again.. by cococandy(f): 11:05am On Jun 15, 2016 |
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Phones › Re: Facebook Blocked Me For Saying This:: by cococandy(f): 7:29am On Jun 15, 2016 |
OKorowanta: Devil's creation. I go finish full knife for dia throat if I catch one. Hate is understatement. maybe the knife should go in your throat first. Xtupid thing |
Phones › Re: Facebook Blocked Me For Saying This:: by cococandy(f): 7:27am On Jun 15, 2016 |
That one Na small one. Busybody holy pass hypocrite. |
Family › Re: UPDATES: I Need Help , My Head Is Full. tnk u all for ur contribution. by cococandy(f): 11:23pm On Jun 14, 2016*. Modified: 10:52am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Those hair salons where they use hot glue to add the eyelashes on?  I tried one in port harcourt one time and my eyes burned for days. That was the only time except during my wedding that I ever fixed eye lashes in my life. I no know who send me.  Needless to say. I've never fixed lashes again. Ehen. Wetin you carry come back? Palm oil? Agbalumo? Mango? Scent leaf? Should I send my mailing address? bebe2: @tearoses and onegig
for some reason i had a bad feeling about this trip,
maybe i was reading too many scar stories on NL 
we took our soaps , but i didnt add dettol to our bathing water maybe dats why.
and i dont trust dat son of mine, he is a daredevil, i wont be surprised if he has hid and drank tap water.
he did dat in spain, if u say dont do it this, its an invitation for him to try it.
he has been scarrd for life, those black spots dont look like they will fade.
i tried my best, even me sef went to the local salon to fix my eyelash now i have a eye infection, my og warned me not to go but i refused, so its self inflicted i get no sympathy  |
Family › Re: Advice: After Two Wasted Years, I Want Divorce Now by cococandy(f): 10:56pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
100 dasparrow: @Post
Follow your heart. You are the one wearing the shoe. You know where it pricks. Don't listen to hypocritical Nigerians that will tell you to stay and pray. Should you get killed, the same hypocrites will come back here to open their maggot-infested, two-timing mouths and ask why you did not leave the toxic relationship in the first place. Your daughter will become motherless and no Nairalander will raise her for you should you get killed. I know Nigerians....most talk from both ends of their mouths when it comes to marriage. Follow your heart is all I can tell you. |
Agriculture › Re: The Hibiscus Flower Society: Calling All Gardeners, Flower Lovers Etc by cococandy(f): 10:49pm On Jun 14, 2016*. Modified: 10:54am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Onegai: It is. How's your LO? She's fine. Growing bigger everyday. Quick peek.  |
Celebrities › Re: Felix Ochuko ‘Atol-Atol’ Is Dead by cococandy(f): 6:36pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Na wa. How many popular people this month? The death rate is just too high.
If you consider the number of those who died in accidents too and other undocumented deaths, it's just too much.
What's going on? |
Family › Re: Opinion On Gay Murders In Orlando And Gay Bashing In General by cococandy(f): 6:34pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Cosigned |
Agriculture › Re: The Hibiscus Flower Society: Calling All Gardeners, Flower Lovers Etc by cococandy(f): 6:32pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
What a beauty Onegai: Oxalis
Do you know, I'm not quite sure how to pronounce this...
Meet the Purple Clover aka False shamrock plant aka Butterfly plant! Such a pretty indoor plant. It likes bright, indirect light. But look at that purple colour! The colour comes out better if it's not directly in the sun so place it in a lot near a window or a balconey. It actually grows from an edible bulb but its mostly New Zealanders, Indians and Native Americans who eat it (known as a yam to them). When buying plants look at the colour scheme of your house. Purple and yellow and mustard go well together. Give the Oxalis plant a well-drained soil and allow it to dry out between waterings.
By the way the Oxalis shows Photonasty. It opens and closed according to light stimuli. |
Family › Re: Ojb Is Dead by cococandy(f): 3:38pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Eya |
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 3:36pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: Is she still around? I haven't seen that chick for ages... i hope so. Maybe she's just being a silent bystander for now. You know how NL gets boring sometimes. How are you though mami? |
Family › Re: Advice: After Two Wasted Years, I Want Divorce Now by cococandy(f): 5:29am On Jun 14, 2016 |
Congratulations on finding yourself and making the best decision for you.
As for your daughter, don't worry about him coming to claim her later. If he comes while she's still young, he must show willingness to be a good parent to her and of course have no ideas about having sole custody of her.
If he comes when she's grown, it will be her decision to make and no one forgets those who took care of them to follow absentee fellows who turn up out of the blues. |
Family › Re: 16 Rules On How To Be The Perfect Nigerian Wife by cococandy(f): 4:57am On Jun 14, 2016 |
Lmao. This thread is everything.  |
Travel › Re: Polignano, A Little Gem In The Apulian Region Of Italy. by cococandy(f): 1:53am On Jun 14, 2016 |
shaybebaby: Until they bring the bill, lol. I'll post some more pics, not all of polignano, I had no storage left on my phone on this trip so got scuppered on the picture taking. How is our little girl? Don't wait till she starts walking o, if you want to travel, now is great because you don't pay for their seats. Just a little surcharge for their luggage and accommodation. Yea but I don't wanna have to carry her on my body all day long. Who wants to lug a stroller on a vacation? I don't know I feel like I may not feel free |
Romance › Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by cococandy(f): 7:49pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Subom1: This nigga was receiving countless messages from females day in and day out and could not understand why his gf was jealous. To make it worse he cheated on her with his ex and the ex messaged her to inform her about it. He is a good for nothing trifeling player and that's why she left him. Don't mind him. I've read that post someone copied from his previous thread. Na so dem dey pretend like they don't know what they are doing wrong. Coming here to give us one side of the story so that we will lambast the girl. Mtchew. |
Romance › Re: Life Is A Teacher. Jilted By My Fiancee. by cococandy(f): 7:13pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
acxlers2014: My experience buttresses the point that human nature is such that they look out for self first. I met, dated, proposed and did introduction with a lady in her thirties with the anticipation to marry her three months after that. Well I was charged up and ready to go and I was excited about the whole thing. She came over to my station in one of these northern states and she left after few weeks. I had thought everything was fine when I saw her off to the airport. Well a week after her attitude became funny, she started by asking for a postponement on the wedding, then she became very aggressive and later on she barred my numbers and started acting funny. Before I knew what was happening she started insulting me and saying different things about my capabilities as a man. Well by the grace of God I am a doctor in A government hospital and I own a flourishing practice in my domicile. Sadly no matter how much I tried she never seemed to be ready to come back. Well at a point in the deterioration of our relationship she returned my rings engagement and wedding bands and all the gifts I had given her She was interviewed by her pastor, my pastor, my folks and she reiterated that she was not coming back. I did not relent even after all these but I had even a stronger resolve to carry on with the whole process. I thought it was a moment of temporary set back that maybe she may come through. How wrong was I. Several texts afterwards. She came out with a bold statement " MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AS I HAVE MOVED ON WITH MINE". IT hurt but is didn't matter to me. Then the deal breaker.......... she sends me conversations between her and a guy who was chiking her via whatsapp and was professing his love to her and she was tripping. With the caption " I WOULD RATHER MOVE ON WITH THIS GUY, HE IS A BETTER MAN TO YOU". She calls up my folks and tell them that I should stay off her back as well as my siblings. That was the CLOSURE I needed and I must say it was a tough call.
As for her family, they supported their own. Lessons learnt. The truth is when it is gone don't fight it, just move on.
Never put your eggs in one basket, the concept of a side chick for every guy is valid, it is for your sanity, little wonder our fathers always seemed to have one
Old women, middle aged women, girls and baby girls are all the same their psyche is way different maybe it has something to do with hormones.
Never stick to an opinionated women, you can't be so silly to think feminism can work in our society
Beautiful women always feel they have an option.
Lastly never compromise your hustle for a woman. @bold, maybe that is why she left you. What woman in her right mind will accept this kind of trash talking? |
Family › Re: UPDATES: I Need Help , My Head Is Full. tnk u all for ur contribution. by cococandy(f): 4:55pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
bebe2: My kids kept breaking out in rashes,
Couldn't tell if it was mosquito bites or an allergic reaction. sorry |
Politics › Re: EFCC Seizes Diezani's Asokoro House, $2m Worth Of Furnishings, Bulletproof Gym by cococandy(f): 4:50pm On Jun 13, 2016*. Modified: 7:02pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
I learned the woman was rich before going into politics. Is it a crime to be rich now?
Can Okorocha be accused of this without people harping on how he was wealthy before getting into politics. My point? They should make they sure they aren't harassing someone for being affluent.
But of course if they can prove beyond speculations and propaganda that she stole, then let her face the music.
Seeing large amounts of money or jewelry in her home is not proof of embezzlement if the stories about her previous wealth is true. |
Celebrities › Re: Chichi Igbo Berates Olamide For Joking About The Murder Of 50 People In Orlando by cococandy(f): 4:16pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Akshow: And I am very sure u condemn the killing of the igbo woman in kano last week. How is this any different? Where do such hate stem for? What's the justification for taking a human life simply because u dont approve of his life style? Does that make any sense to you? People like you make me sick. Except you are a closeted Gay, I don't see why two men straffing each other should bother u so much to the point if wishing them death. U sound very ignorant, overzealous, psychotic and insane. Most posters on this forum are sickening. I've resigned myself to it. I don't know why I have the misfortune of sharing the same human gene as them. Maybe in my next life I'll be a giraffe or something. The human race can be somewhat disgusting if you listen to the things its members say. I guess it's okay for me to walk into a Muslim area or Amish area and open fire on all of them if I don't support their way of life. Oh well... |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Orlando Attack: Woman & Her Son Chat Before He Was Shot Dead At Orlando Shooting by cococandy(f): 5:47am On Jun 13, 2016 |
banmee: You are trying to educate a Nigerian animal who is used to jungle justice. Seriously I'm disgusted with some posts I'm reading here. What about the terror unleashed on all other parts of the world? Is that caused by gay people? I'm ashamed of my fellow humans sometimes. People like you give me hope. |
Romance › Re: Wife Catches Her Husband With Mistress And Beat The Hell Out Of Her (photos) by cococandy(f): 5:42am On Jun 13, 2016 |
The man sided with the mistress.
Fighting over someone who chose another over you. Duh |
Family › Re: I Can’t Hold Back Sexual Urge Towards My Daughter – Widower Cries Out by cococandy(f): 1:42am On Jun 13, 2016 |
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Family › Re: I Can’t Hold Back Sexual Urge Towards My Daughter – Widower Cries Out by cococandy(f): 1:42am On Jun 13, 2016 |
thorpido: The devil knows how to use some men.Can't understand where this urge comes from.Why don't you marry if you feel lonely instead of having sexual urges towards your daughter. The daughter should be separated from the father as the solution.
Erm...getting pregnant for your boyfriend is not your solution.When the boyfriend says he's not ready for a baby,then your life will be at a cross road. |
Crime › Re: I Did Not Know I Was Hiv Positive Before I Had Sex With Her —rape Suspect (pic) by cococandy(f): 8:28pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
Thank you.  Prettiepearlz: You are welcome sweetie. You just earned my respect for this, was already preparing my mind for bashing especially seeing you are lady as you know we ladies sometimes don't like being corrected. Even if you feel tempted, don't do it, it's not maturity. Please try ma, they are quite a lot of ladies that I will always respect them on this forum, the likes of Cococandy, EfemenaXY(maybe another reason I love her more is because of her beautiful name), Tea roses, ifyalways and quite a lot of them ladies can't remember their names all but this ladies God bless them deeply, I respect them because they never get into silly tribal fights they are far more matured than that and they aren't Yorubas. And also I give it to, thorpido( a well respected medical doctor) and Siena. these people I mentioned are deeply respected and from them wisdom oozes, I like reading their words of wisdom although some people quite disagree with their ideologies but as they say "each to his own" and "what rocks my ships may sink your boat". You can do well to join these well meaning people because if I go by your profile picture I will say you are Medical Doctor right? If yes be well known for that. This message isn't for you alone but to all NCA members and all nairalanders. Peace. |
Crime › Re: Ikorodu Robber And Rapist, Baddo Arrested by cococandy(f): 8:13pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
So they've known he is all this while. |
Celebrities › Re: Maheeda Exposes Man Who Slut-shamed Her After She Turned Down His Sexual Advance by cococandy(f): 6:16pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
Whatever. If he feels he's better than her, he should avoid her page. You can't go dine with the devil and cry wolf when he displays his devilish attitude. If he's not a whoremonger, what's he looking for in the so called LovePeddler's den? spafu: Yet all the naked/pornography pictures that Maheeda has been putting on the net and all the breast revealing dress that you girls have been harassing us with are for the same useless dudes to see and appreciate. So who is more useless horney? |
Celebrities › Re: Maheeda Exposes Man Who Slut-shamed Her After She Turned Down His Sexual Advance by cococandy(f): 4:38pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
CFCman:

The hypocrite secretly mastu'rbates with her pics Obviously. Since he 'knows' that she's a prostitute, what's he looking for on her page? I can't stand such foolish guys. You're judging someone that you wouldn't hesitate to sleep with if given the chance. What on earth makes him think he's better than her. The hypocrisy is annoying honestly. |