Politics › Re: Ijaw Youths At Rhythm 95.7FM Radio Programme In Bayelsa, Attack APC Members by cococandy(f): 10:26pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
WTH? |
Family › Re: Do I Go Back Home? by cococandy(f): 10:24pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
I gat my eyes on you.  Let's see how long this gentlemanliness will last. postmann: Oops! Then there's a twist. Unfortunately it's the final and one can only vote for one candidate.
But I'm satisfied already by your magnanimity which far exceeded my expectation or what I might have deserved. I will understand if you decide to vote for who approached you first.
Nonetheless, I'll knock on your door on Saturday morning.
Please accept my gratitude. |
Politics › Re: FG To Borrow To Pay N165bn Salaries Of Civil Servants - Adeosun by cococandy(f): 9:22pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
What about all the 'recovered loot'? Bet me that money if it really exists will never be accounted for. It will be used to furnish the office of the wife of the president who's ironically not the First Lady and the office of the first daughter of the president.  |
Travel › Re: NCAA Withdraws License Of Three Pilots Over Excess Alcohol Intake by cococandy(f): 9:20pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Just imagine |
Family › Re: Do I Go Back Home? by cococandy(f): 9:09pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Okay. I'll take your word for it. Anyway I hope I can vote for two people because someone secured my vote first. postmann: I was very slow to clash with you the very first time we crossed and even afterwards. And I needed nothing from you then.
Let that count for something.
Insincerity walks in the shadows but I come to you in the open, and if the campaign provides an opportunity to make amends in the open and reach out to you whom I never wanted to have a war of words with, why won't I grab it?
Our differences persist, perhaps to create a healthy debate and entertainment in the jigsaw puzzle of life which could be boring otherwise.
Please accept my sincere apologies rendered on the rooftop of this great forum.
I'll need your vote for _mimzy on Saturday.
Thanks in advance.
You're by no means a cursed woman! |
Family › Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by cococandy(f): 7:05pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
McBrooklyn: Bruh, how you gon say it?? You'll now keep a straight face and be saying a lady molested you?? Your guys gon laff you tire 
The reason why most guys don't report is the fact that there is no harm there after all you didn't lose anything even if you tell it's gonna be funny though  Who told you the guy didn't lose anything? |
Family › Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by cococandy(f): 7:04pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
taemilola: Most Nigerian parents don't like to give their children sex education. they would rather avoid the subject |
Family › Re: Do I Go Back Home? by cococandy(f): 6:53pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
joseph1832: Shoooooooooo was I talking to you? See me see wahala oh? Cococandy, shey I mention your moniker? Abeg oh. just negodu |
Family › Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by cococandy(f): 6:52pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
That's probably the case. Telling her to heat up water and while the water is heating up, she's bathing in the cold. Yet madam doesn't know why the maid sees her as wicked rolled: So this maid baths with cold water then your kids hot water?i saw where you said after putting water on the fire you asked her to go and have her bath. Madam does she bath with cold water? If yes that could be the reason she just wore her uniform under age kids should be left with their parents and it is not your business if they can feed or go to school |
Family › Re: Do I Go Back Home? by cococandy(f): 6:50pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
joseph1832: Hell hath no fury, more than a woman's scorn. Or so they say. your amebo knows no boundaries. |
Family › Re: Do I Go Back Home? by cococandy(f): 6:48pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
postmann: And I trust you are even though we all have our moments. And it was one of such moments we fell out, hard as I tried to avoid it. bros we don't see eye to eye. Sweetening up on me because you want something from me is not sincere. You can ask me to vote for your candidate without the fake niceness. I'll vote for her if I think she's worth the crown. I like you better when you're all bare fanged and spilling your true feelings. What am I supposed to make of this sweetness from you? That you no longer think I'm a curse to womanhood  Abeg. Okay who's she? Mimzy? Let me goan vote and hear word. |
Family › Re: Do I Go Back Home? by cococandy(f): 5:33pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
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Family › Re: Only Ambiverts Will Understand These by cococandy(f): 5:27pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Most people probably belong to this group.
Those intro and extrovert categories have got to be the extreme ends of the spectrum. |
Family › Re: What Would You Do If Your Ward Bring This Book Home (photo) by cococandy(f): 5:18pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
At topic, I see nothing wrong with this depending on the age of the kids. It is very important for growing and curious children to know the truth concerning sex and its consequences. The more they are shielded from the truth, the higher the likelihood that they become easy prey to pervs in their bid to satisfy their curiosity.
Given our culture where sex is a taboo topic, I can understand if many parents are bashful about broaching the topic. But I've decided I won't be that kind of parent. Whatever my kids need to know they will learn from me before they have the chance of being corrupted or molested or both in their bid to teach themselves and satisfy their curiosity.
If we take away the taboo surrounding the topic, the allure won't be as strong. |
Family › Re: What Would You Do If Your Ward Bring This Book Home (photo) by cococandy(f): 5:12pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
How smart of you. What do you think being exposed to this kind of book make them want to do? Have babies? Acidosis: Just look at author's name and you wouldn't be worried.
That's a mini porn right there authored by a westerner who sees nothing wrong in se.x between a 15 year old guy and a 14 year old.
Search the Internet thoroughly, I'm sure you'd find another series for ga.y kids.
Na their life, I won't accept such from a Nigerian school. Teaching your children the rudiments of se.x at 3, 5, or 8 will not make them Virgin at 24, or stop them from getting pregnant at 18. I don't need anyone to teach my kids s.ex, nobody taught me, I can teach myself. |
Family › Re: My Maid Sees Me As The Wicked One While My Husband Is The Good One. by cococandy(f): 4:49pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
So you have a 13yr old child who isn't even grown enough to take care of herself entirely helping you take care of your own children? And you beat her up when she doesn't do things exactly as you want? Yes you're wicked. There's no other way to put it. Send the child back to her parents and your husband should get off his phat asss and help you get the kids ready in the morning before you guys leave the house. He won't stop being a man if he does. And yes I support him not being mean to her like you. You think taking your frustrations out on her will solve your problems?
Look at how you guys are denying this girl a chance to have a normal childhood. She's spending the years that she should be carefree and taken care of on your family helping you raise your own kids. Una no dey shame. |
Family › Re: Do I Go Back Home? by cococandy(f): 4:39pm On Jun 23, 2016 |
Yes it will And I'm not your 'dear' postmann: It's been a while since our path crossed. But will our differences stand in the way of a request, dear cococandy? |
Family › Re: Do I Go Back Home? by cococandy(f): 10:45am On Jun 23, 2016 |
 byvan03: Dating who? When she is already betrothed to the finest of men? Nobody go smell near, they know their cooks when they see them . |
Family › Re: Do I Go Back Home? by cococandy(f): 7:14am On Jun 23, 2016 |
byvan03: Thank you! Whose daughter really? Mcchheeeww
OP why does your mum 's once in a while visit bother you so much, what kind of a person are you really? Nawaooh!! Don't go back home, build your own niche. Umu okorobia these days sef. Let me finish raising this my omoge and see which one will come to date her because he needs someone to cook for him. He will tell me whether if he doesn't know the address to catering schools around him.  |
Family › Re: Do I Go Back Home? by cococandy(f): 5:15am On Jun 23, 2016 |
Look at what lack of home training is causing. I DO mean to be harsh OP. a young person who cannot take care of themselves in basic things like cooking should go back to the drawing board. Maybe you should have learned how to cook before taking the bold step of moving out. For those suggesting girlfriend aka cook, Whose daughter is going to be his glorified cook in the name of girlfriend? Someone like me? Psst.I'm sure if I raised all the girls in Nigeria, men like him will learn to cook by force because I ain't raising no one's maid. The nerve of those even suggesting it. As if a girl getting a boyfriend to foot her bills won't be bashed and taunted for wanting a man for other reasons than love. But it's okay for him to get a girlfriend because of food.  OP Get off your butt and LEARN TO COOK. |
Family › Re: Betrayed By My Blood Sister And Fiance by cococandy(f): 3:52am On Jun 23, 2016 |
 what a monster girl. Good decision to leave the relationship. I don't even know what to say about those guys. So anyone that tempts them will succeed in sleeping with them? No self control? Even nieces-in-law and girlfriend's sister. I doff my cap. prettynerd: tnks everyone for taking ur time to reply, actually heard her side of the story, she said it was consensual, her current boyfrnd had to force her to confess to me after she confessed all her sexcapades to him which is the condition for him to marry her, she didn't even want me to know at all, she even called my fiance ( if i can still call him dat) and was quarelling with him for telling me, she said there was no emotions involved, she was just having weird fun and seduced him cos she thought we won't last too, i've never done anything to hurt her before o, only that i get angry with her a lot for living a careless life, the worst part is that she did same thing to two of my aunts husband. I feel she needs help mentally, but she still behave very normal only for this unveiled secret, STILL SHOCKED! |
Family › Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage by cococandy(f): 4:32pm On Jun 22, 2016 |
Your opinion. hopeforcharles: You see where u lots of feminism gets it all wrong, every gender has their role to play in a family, it's a error for a man to leave his major role to start playing secondary roles in the home. He should hunt the food while the woman prepares it. |
Family › Re: Anyone Here That Doesn't Want To Get Married? by cococandy(f): 4:30pm On Jun 22, 2016 |
That's all. bukatyne: The problem of marriage is that two people decide that un-known faces must run their marriage for them via 'rules' and 'culture'
What stops you two from doing whatever you like as you like it provided both of you are happy?
Most people against marriage still have committed sexual relationships and I wonder what's the difference without the paper? |
Family › Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage by cococandy(f): 4:24pm On Jun 22, 2016 |
The sane man can also learn how to cook. His hand won't break if he does. hopeforcharles: It seems you didn't see the sense in what was written there, if you don't I see it, alot of ladies now only know how to prepare indomie and tea nothing else, and the expect a sane man to endure it all his life Mbanu Ajum. |
Family › Re: Relatives Turning Us Into Their World Bank by cococandy(f): 4:20pm On Jun 22, 2016 |
Do what you can. Don't force yourself. People should have the number of kids they can take care of. Period. |
Family › Re: I Am Now A Father..it's a boy. by cococandy(f): 2:54pm On Jun 22, 2016 |
Congrats OP |
Crime › Re: What Happened To The Thief That Robbed Me Some Months Ago by cococandy(f): 12:46am On Jun 22, 2016 |
Mindfulness: You are not the person to feel ashamed here. At least I am proud of people like you.  Trying to make me feel better.... Typical of you  |
Crime › Re: What Happened To The Thief That Robbed Me Some Months Ago by cococandy(f): 11:21pm On Jun 21, 2016 |
jedimindtrix: We've all heard, times without number of innocent ppl facing jungle justice. This OP should pray not to be so treated, by mistake or on purpose. Aluu4 comes back to mind. I hate this system. I detest the people that celebrate and support it. Seun Osewa and his MODs. You guys should be ashamed of yourselves for putting this on the front page where the whole world can read and form opinions about what animals live in Nigeria. You think it's all about driving traffic to your website? You're also responsible for what you promote. Tssk. Pissed.  |
Crime › Re: What Happened To The Thief That Robbed Me Some Months Ago by cococandy(f): 11:18pm On Jun 21, 2016 |
You can't solve a problem by creating a bigger one. It defies reason. A situation where one innocent person is killed or hurt through the jungle justice method is way worse than when 50 criminals are not brought to justice. porozhniy: What options do the people have? (a) Hand him over to the police, money greases some palms and he's back on the streets the next day to terrorize everyone else. (b) Torch him, problem solved!. I do not in any way support instant justice cos it could be anyone, but unless there is a total overhaul of the criminal justice system in the country, jungle justice isn't going anywhere soon. |
Crime › Re: What Happened To The Thief That Robbed Me Some Months Ago by cococandy(f): 11:15pm On Jun 21, 2016 |
Mindfulness: I can't believe that in the 21st century it still is necessary to explain to people why jungle justice is a dangerous crime in itself.  you'd be surprised at the number of things that still needs to be explained to Nigerians. You'd think common sense makes it unnecessary to go into such explanations. Unfortunately, not many have common sense. For example, what if one is wrongly accused and seriously harmed or killed before a law court can prove him innocent? I don't even know what to say. I feel ashamed about it. Really. |
Crime › Re: What Happened To The Thief That Robbed Me Some Months Ago by cococandy(f): 11:09pm On Jun 21, 2016 |
Very big shame Mindfulness: Welcome to the Jungle!
What a SHAME! |
Crime › Re: What Happened To The Thief That Robbed Me Some Months Ago by cococandy(f): 11:07pm On Jun 21, 2016*. Modified: 4:52am On Jun 22, 2016 |
Don't encourage jungle justice.
I've been robbed twice at gun point during my university days. I don't wish jungle justice on my attackers. I do want them caught and punished though. But not outside the confines of the law. |