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Tchidi

Happy weekend.

fellis:
I think women that can't get any type of male attention in real life are the ones that rush to bring themselves down online so that men will praise them.

They are typically fat, ugly, smelly and dull so they go their whole lives not getting any male attention that's why they become so desperate to the point of turning themselves to footmats online so that men can notice them.

fellis:
You see all these men? They are all superior to you.
They are better than you and their lives have more value than yours.
The first is a theif, the second is a mass murderer and the third are three mentally unbalanced/lunatics in an insane asylum.

They are all superior to you dolly joy.

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I didn't just insult you by the way, you said men will always be superior to women so I am showing you pictures of different men that are superior to you.

Gerrard59:
Nobody is saying men have to wash dishes, however, leaving dishes unwashed and even clothes for your partner to come and wash when you could do it isn't fair. Saying that a lady who comes from work late in the night to come and cook even when you came earlier than her is not fair. What stops the man from cooking and keeping some for his partner? This transcends beyond feminism, it's about doing to others as you want others to do to you.

Furthermore, feminism has helped the world and obliterated useless misconceptions and culture. Why should a lady have a male as a sponsor before she can rent an apartment because she's single? That's what feminism has done to help the society. It has given rights to my sister, nieces, female cousins and definitely my future daughter(s) to do things hitherto they weren't allowed to do or achieve. Saying that women have to put up with terms like "men are polygamous by nature"; which gives you the freewill to cheat isn't fair whatsoever.

Nevertheless, there are fanatics in any system or movement. However, feminism, however you look at it has contributed to global development. It has given rights to those who don't have any, hope to the downtrodden, opportunities to those who didn't have any to grab, dreams to those who never had any, education to illiterates and many more.

I'm proud to be a feminist.

EfemenaXY:
I'm very good thanks

Ke kwanu you, baby, & Oga?

eitsei:
ehn ehn where you come from? Now I get it. Also if she comes she will wash her plates after eating too, she may even help you to clean the house no big deal there... So when your son grow up and marries don't be offended if his wife extends the gesture to you too

hysteriabox:
nope. I never commented in dt fashion.

A home is a habitation of love. Where there is love, there is no law. Dos and donts are commonplace and draw alot of attention where love isnt supreme. If she is busy, why cant d man wash their clothes, or cook? Its nobodys job. Its up to both parties to do whats necessary to keep d right atmosphere in d home. My wife washes my clothes. But i do them when i can or when she is busy. We both do what we have to, period.

Rexleo:
. What's epic?are guys the only ones killing there wives? Go google it and stop droping names of the shondes and arowolos.the weaker vessel aka women have been found to kill there husband's more than the other way round. There is a case going on in Ibadan now where a lawyer of a wife slit the husband troat in the middle of the night after an altercation in the evening, the landlord evev advice the guy to not go home yet after he was stab by the wife.violence is not gender based in marriage. You will not even believe what goes on in marriage. To tell you we have 4 types of abuse,physical, emotional, spiritual, psychological, research as even gone ahead to show that there are about 75% of women that are capable of doing the whole 4 Abuse's on the male folks.

bebe2:
Christian shud not marry too,

Abi no be swearing , oathing or vowing be dat one?

blackpanda:
And so? If he brought 100 SANs nko
Quit this silly obsession with certificate. Everyone can see he is literate. The one that claimed to be a phd holder is the one that put the whole country in this mess we are today

Pls grow up! Good leadership is not by certificate

tearoses:
No Sir!!
Dont get it twisted
Mrs Shonde and Mrs Arowolo suffered in the hands of Lekan Sonde and Arowolo
Their kids who have lost a mother and a father are the ones suffering at the hands of Lekan Shonde and Arowolo
All Titi and Ronke's Loved ones are the ones suffering at the hands of Lekan Shonde and Arowolo
How will you feel if God forbid you were Ronke's Brother?
Be honest
I am almost sure that those kids are being treated as househelps in one uncle or auntys house
They are the ones suffering at the hands of Lekan Shonde and Arowolo

I want to correct your mentality that a woman who is not married due to whatever reason is half a human being.
Its not by force to remain married especially if your life is at risk.
People who are being treated with love and respect in their own marriages dont have 2 heads
I will never advise anyone to stay put in an abusive marriage just to satisfy society

You asked if someone will marry juzzybabe
I ask you, How much have you given to the upkeep of the Arowolo and the Shonde children and how much daddy time have you given them?

WellEndowed:
I think I posted a link to the video...in this video, a woman was describing an incident that occurred in the beach.....Mummy calling daddy names and shouting at dad. 5 year old son present. She turned to her son and said ..."your daddy is an eediot".

Growing up we had this neighbo9ur who would stop at nothing to announce to the whole world how useless her husband was.If this man ever hit his wife, I have no idea...infact if he did, she was crazy enough to tell everyone on the street. She gat mouth.

I just think it's about time we all said something about violence against men. Sometime back I was reading the news online where a hospital/clinic was built in Sweden to care for male rape victims.

lomaxx:
Focus on the bolded.

The first bolded statement might have set the premise for the second.

The second bolded statement looks more like a back-up story to the consequence of anything that might have happened during the course of the first.

Anything.

If it did happen, it would have been normal (married women got pregnant, hence it's their husband's child)

But it didn't happen- now backup story is a lie.

It would be easier to say : ask her why she lied. But then how are you sure you won't get another lie?

Marriage is one funny institution.

texbaba1:
If these women divorce from their husband, is it not another man they will marry? If they choose to be single after divorce, wont they require sex for d rest of their lives? nd if they do require sex, is it not a man dat will gve them the sex?

eyinjuege:
What she simply meant was that he was so committed to making her album a success that he practically was working on the album with her day and night. He accorded her the respect of doing it in her house instead of her spending the odd hours outside her own home.

WellEndowed:
I have, in the past, come in contact with male victims of abuse. It makes me wonder though, why the society hasn't shone light to this issue. Is it too much for me to say that it is difficult if not almost impossible for a man to walk out of a relationship citing abuse than it is a woman.

Society maybe? the fear of being called weaklings or laughed at, is enough to cause a man to sit back and endure it all.

Is it impossible for a woman to rape a man? if such happened, what man would speak up for the whole world to hear?

If we all are fighting for equal rights, shouldn't we fight for these people?


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efemenaxy
sambarry
cococandy
bukatyne
tearroses
edwife
ifyalways
et all

bukatyne:
My sister, it is very tiresome.

Like you opined, women never seem to win for some people.

If this guy marries her and they have problems in future, it is still the wife ; If he even marries a saintly Naija woman in Nigeria and issues still surface, the saintly wife will become demonic!

How are you and family? I saw the peek of omomo and she is beautiful

bukatyne:
Of course,

Because they are not inclined to fast and pray for cheating wives like the Naija sistas here, they are evil.

News flash: Women are beginning to wake up here and strangely, you did not condemn a man who wants to marry a woman for papers aka Paper/Gold digger.

@Bold: Nigerian girls in Nigeria don't do this?

It is well.

Beremx:
I think tomatoes are now entering the market small small. I bought fifty naira worth of tomatoes to fry egg and it was ok. I pray everything comes back to normal.

tchidi

eyeview:
I feel for you.
You're walking into trouble. You've got to understand that the value system women hold in the Us is entirely different from that of ladies obtainable here. Women from there are so empowered by law over the men. Though you'll be the husband,get ready to be thrown out of the house,to be arrested by the cops,etc if she you two have a misunderstanding.
I was besieged with such 'introductions' about ten years ago by aunties in the Us who had 'nice girls' over there they wanted me to meet and marry. First of all,their concept of 'nice girls' are way off the mark by our nigerian standards. For eg,you will run a profile on this 'nice girl' and you will find out that she has a boyfriend whom she spends weekends with,drinks(but occassionally),wears some tattoos in some hidden parts of her body,has smoked. You and I know that by our traditional value system,such doesn't fit the bill of a nice girl,talkless of my christian values.
I know some guys who got married under such arrangements. Today,they are either divorced over there(and the courts always will everything to the lady,leaving the guys to start afresh) or they are constantly being walked out of their own house by the cops because their wives called the cops on them. Some of them now call me to express their regrets and wish to even walk out of the marriage and return to Nigeria.
Most times,your interests are never the same but for the temptation to get 'papers',guys jump in. You should consider what you really want in a marriage.
Goodluck

P/s,there may still be ones whom you can strongly connect with and with good family values too

Beremx:
cococandy, i am back o! I missed this thread like crazy. it's been more than a year I clicked and posted on this mouth watering thread.

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tchidi, i see you nne