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Onegai:
We got a ton of cute onesies from Macy's and they were good quality. I found a Carter's store and picked up plain white onesies from there. Babies R Us was weird for me. The headbands are decent.I want to Balogun market and chartered a lot and now I want more...

Onegai:
Go earthy! I felt like Rachel Roy or one of the cooks on BBC Food using mine. And they're relatively cheap (i got mine from a restaurant supply store in Cali last year). And for one strange reason I have no pots with dreamers in-built. Ewuro4, the only Nigerian food that is steamed is moin-moin.

Onegai:
Macy's is great but don't waste money buying their headbands. Headbands can be pricey over there (i saw one on Etsy for $25 ) I bought some and my mum told me to wait till I get back to Lagos and she was right. 12 cute headbands for N1000 (less than $10). If you know anyone coming over, we can send you some.

EfemenaXY:
So married men don't self-service? Really??



He should go park his "high libido" to one corner. Has he ever given birth? Does he understand what she's going through and that sex is probably the last thing on her mind? How come a married man with 2 kids is insensitive to the fact that his woman who's just given birth to his baby needs time to recover both physically and emotionally?

High libido my foot.



Why should I support an insensitive man?

I've given birth and I know the rigors childbirth puts the body through, especially if wear and tear's been involved (i.e stitching). No two women are the same. Some are sexually responsive shortly after, others aren't. It's her man's job to understand his wife, and if he truly loves and cares for her, he'll control himself.



Your are insensitive.

This is May. Your wife gave birth in January. i.e: [size=18pt]4 months ago[/size] and yet you exercise patience for her, but claim not to understand why this woman, barely [size=18pt]3 weeks[/size] after giving birth isn't happy to get into sex so soon. And I bet even then, you aren't as inflexible as this lady's husband who insists on going raw with no protection.

Mr Bolade005, what gives?

Bolade005:
Why would a married man go self-service?

Didn't she know the man has high libido before marriage? It's her cross and she should deal. The OP is even sexually boring and I'm deeply sorry for her man, there are other ways she could explore and they'd both be happy. Instead of you to educate her on other ways, you're here defending the indefensible.

And before you think I'm insensitive know this, my wife gave birth in January and ever since we've not had sex, she's not completely healed and I don't pressure her because we do explore other means and we are both happy. OP should explore too biko, she should learn to go nasty for her man.

Ewuro4:
True it does look earthy and fancy too but Try the rice cooker one first lol not much different imo.

Least I forget, Congratulations on your new addition. She will be an everlasting joy to her entire family.
Hope you're looking forward to Macy's 2016 holiday dresses? those head bands with gigantic bows gosh they're too cute on baby girls.

Ewuro4:
Nice. Out of curiosity, did you season the fish or just plain?

Lastmumu, which kain dodo be that one na

Mrs0J how una dey for your side

Edwife kudu nne

Cococandy, most pot sets have steamers now.

Best for carrots, asparagus & efo greens without losing their nutrients. stopped boiling greens now. Steaming is the way to go.

Fresh Tilapia peppersoup , very spicy too

Onegai:
When the girl comes to serve water, channel your inner Patience Ozokwor.

refiner:
....am sorry I couldn't tell u did before your painful demise,....

I love u freemann!....I truly do!

..why leaving us so soon....pls come back!..can't bear the pain!..oh God!...why him!!!

are u sure he's dead?...pls!..I Just can't believe dis...could someone tel me dis is just a dream....wake me up pls!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I will always remember u...in my heart u are still alive hale and hearty!...

I won't say rip cos you are still alive...I know!...I can see u...smiling...

I can't stop crying...can someone pls wake me up!...pls.....

Onegai:
Used my bamboo steamer

Steamed Croaker fish with ginger and green onions, served with rice and Chinese sweet and sour veggie sauce.

Ugosample:
Yea.
But both parents made the child so BOTH parents have rights to the child.

One would be wrong to say that it is only the father that has right to the child, or the mother has the right to the child alone

Onegai:
Purity22 (I know I'm going to get my head bitten off for this...) But let me just say it: thank you for beating that girl up. If you were my sister, I'd be so proud of you. Stop worrying if the girl had died, we have a population issue in Nigeria and besides, this is NIGERIA! You'd never get convicted (I believe in diplomacy and violence: there's a time to talk, there's a time to kill. Too much reading of the Old Testament as a child caused this ).

All I could think of is the baby lying unattended to, sitting in its filth, allowed to do whatever (what if the baby had crawled towards some electronics and put live wires into his mouth? What if he had crawled somewhere and something heavy lands on him), the useless pair (his matrimonial bed, his wife's wrapper). Ignoring his child because of cheap lust! Emphasise this part to your husband: he ignored the welfare and safety of his child to gbensh.

Act strange next time you are the guy, let the wife notice something is wrong. When the girl comes in, hiss and act like a Nollywood Mother-in-law.
If the wife asks, say "oh nothing!". You'd have planted seeds in her mind and she will eventually figure it out.

byvan03:
My dear I can't run the risk of being the fool by telling the wife, most times it backfires. Most women know their cheating husbands/bf more than any outsider, telling her is like rubbing it on her face.

Certainly he will protect his brother if he has been unfaithful too but I will rather eer on the side of caution. I have caught a friend's husband, I only started avoiding her because we can't be friend's when am hiding something you should know. She eventually caught him by herself. They made some noise, she threatened to go, a lot of begging and a brand new car followed and they lived happily ever after. Do you know how fooli*sh I would have looked blowing the whistle? Of course the man still cheats.

byvan03:
Tell your husband, let him take it from there. Some men are just disgrace to their family.

Schwartz:
The weather here is madt The most unpredictable weather ever. It can move from 18°c with serious sun and heat. And everyone out happy were t-shirts and shorts, then the next minute it drops to 0°c with very heavy snow. Everywhere suddenly turning white and freezing cold. Next minute, its 6°c and starts to rain with thunder storms.
So in one day we have summer, winter and spring all together . And its supposed to be summer now

SURElee:
Which custom are we talking about? The same custom that TJ didn't consider before all this? So the jam Jam should be left with a man without a means of livelihood to suffer? That Tunji woke up and decided to ruin Tiwa's career since he feels he made her because he no longer earns managerial fees from her, little did he know he was setting himself up and shooting his own feet.

TJ should be with davido's baby mama so they can bass and sniff cocaine together.

This writer must be high on coke. How manay of TJ's children are wt him? That goes to show, he doesn't even want responsibilities, bills etc. Na tiwa pikin he wan come claim? When he never tire to do fine boy about lagos, lekki axis with earrings forming morris chestnut and boris kodjoe with an empty pocket.

scully95:
You want to tell me Tiwa did not know before she ran into it right ? Ok let assume she does not know.

To get to the bottom of it all, you need to look into what went on in LA. When tiwa was a no one and was fcking every man's dick way up.

I guess T balogun must have loved the fckings and so put his everything with the hope of making the best from her.

But see how things turned out... First of all sacking T balogun is more or less like removing the connecting rope between the two or the relationship which is based on mutual business in the first place.

If she did not remove his only life wire, I bet he wont go around begging for money. 45m here..

Accoding to Tiwa, I am even sure those that dropped that kind of money must be servicing her cos she's the loose girl and there is element of truth in everyting T Balogun said about her..

I know this family very well. Teebillz's father is a big boy to the call was formally running all the computer prices in Computer villiage before he diversified to real estate.


T Balogun is a spoilt child and the type that would never beg Tiwa. Things fell apart for him. Rewind to LA,Teebillz is a big boy to the call that has Office in LA. Do you know what it means to have an office down town LA and decided to sell everything because of one girl and the girl now decided to remove his only life wire ?

The issue she said about diverting money could be resolved. Why kill he cat for removing just the eyes from the big fish ?
Someone mostly pushed her to do that..Those people will push her to her fall finally.

madridguy:
Mind your expression bro. I am not supporting the Fulani terrorist for the crime against humanity but calling for such defense can leads to something else.

Roland17:
I love to enjoy all four seasons the US has to offer, maybe that is why i am not fascinated by Florida, Texas and Hawaii except for vacation and short stays..however, like many "normal" human, i look forward to Summer with gusto..this cold is lingering for too long over here and i am at a point where i am done waiting for some heat as i am scared its taking forever and may never arrive it's has been raining all week with a light mix of snow (some days) and some chilly wind which makes me mad

I expressed my displeasure at the current weather to some "abnormal's" and some were telling me they detest the fact that the cold would soon be over na him i tell dem say "una hate me abi"? make una kukuma move go Alaska, South Dakota or Vermont.

Roland17:
Nwanyioma long time.. i hope everyone is doing great over there.

The weather this days just dey make vex..make we kukuma go back to winter sef .

Roland17:
Hey foodies it's been a while.

Weekday lineup..

Jollof Rice with mixed vegetables, liver and gizzard.

Spinach soup with goat meat and cow leg.

Tomatoe stew with Marinated chicken... I actually marinated the chicken over night and the taste is magnificent.

Ripe plantain porridge with vegetables and beef.. Made it with palm oil..

EfemenaXY:
Too long an article.

From the little I read, she went to him of her own free will. So what's the problem?

tearoses:
They are bulbs so will die off eventually
What you need to do is to leave them till they all completely die
Then cut the dead leaves and flowers off
then you can plant them in the garden or put them in a container
They will flower again same time next year.

How is baby? Hope she is good

kevoh:
Not all babies will come out exactly the same way but I'm pretty sure that baby is alive. No point taking photos of a breech birth and posting it when the baby is dead.

Here's a link to why some babies might have blue on some parts of their body http://www.webmd.com/parenting/baby/blue-skin-in-babies
Here's another link of the blogger who posted the original pictures with full story and complete pictures. http://karynloftesnessphotography.com/vaginal-breech-birth/ The same baby is about 8 months old now if I'm not mistaken. http://karynloftesnessphotography.com/silas-alive-and-well/