Politics › Re: Rinu Oduala: If Her Father Had Not Cum Inside Her Mother... by CodeTemplar: 10:09am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Moderators, ban this nonsense thread. |
Politics › Re: Okowa Deports Anambra Woman For Constituting Nuisance In Asaba by CodeTemplar: 10:07am On Apr 08, 2023 |
donbachi: A would have been vice president yes and what is wrong in what Okowa has done via his commissioner? He empowered her before sending her back to her community. |
Romance › Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by CodeTemplar: 10:02am On Apr 08, 2023 |
atheistandproud: One of the many complaints I hear from women is that men are scarce. Really now? Did a mysterious portal suddenly appear and take a majority of the men alive to an alternate dimension? Well of course not.
One thing many guys failed to understand is that women are well versed in a language called double speak. What they mean is not that men aren't available, it's that the type of men that they want are not available. Now who are these men? Oh that's simple, high earners.
Most women want a man that optimally earns significantly more than they do. The conscientious ones will be more than happy to play a supporting role while the indolent ones will spend his money whilst saving hers. His money is our money after all.
What women however fail to realize is that as they start to earn as much and even out earn men, they soon climb into the category of the men that they once wanted. Now that they're earning the same or even more, it is very likely that they won't want those guys anymore.
A woman earning 30k doesn't want a guy earning the same or less. You could say the same for those earning significant more, even into 6 figures monthly. Why? Hypergamy. In one word.
Now for the average woman in society, there's every chance that they are most likely to meet up with average men. How many average men in this society can boast of solid job, much less earning 6 figures? This is why women say that men are scarce. Now why do women balk at the idea of settling with a lower income man?
Using a relationship as a way of explaining the flow of resources between individuals, the individual that earns more will obviously assume the majority of the financial burden of the relationship. They'll also need to sacrifice more, take charge, be more responsible and etcetera. In the case of a (legal) divorce, they also tend to lose more.
Unlike men, most women see a relationship for what it is. Now with a lot of them being a position where they earn the same or even more than the men around them, this proposition doesn't sound too good. Most women have chosen to hold out an wait for the mythical unicorn that is Mr Right. Because seriously, what does she get out of a relationship with a guy who's below her financially? She spends more, gives more, works more etc.
Usually when I hear this, I smile and I say welcome to being a man. I know a lotta women believe that being a man is very easy but a good number are finding out that's it's not so.
For hundreds of thousands of years, when men were sole breadwinners or at least they earned more, this arrangement of whoever earns more provides more was seen as fair and justified by women.
Now that the tables are flipped somewhat, a lot of women are appalled by the idea. The fact that some women have been taken advantage of by men also doesn't seem to help issues. But I could also counter and say women have been taking advantage of men the same way as well, presumably even more.
Ladies you see that middle class earning man making 70 to 100k and possibly more monthly, a lot of you are now those men. There are guys doing sales that earn below you, private school teachers that earn below you etc. These are the men make up the bulk of society.
With equality comes equal responsibility. As Myron would say, equality is not a buffet where you get to pick and choose. Men and women are equal now, so go out ladies, pick a man, take care of him and the children you give him till he or you dies. Let's see if we can see this equality thing through.
I mean look at it from the point of a man. He works hard, built his empire and then marries you just to take care of you and if care's not taken, your family and friends come along for the ride. Ladies can you do that?
I hang up my pen. Let the lamentations begin. what you just analyzed is a social pattern that is erroneous. The pattern was borne out of error and misconception of what God wants from marriage. Money is indirectly a measure of goods and services. Money received for goods and services can be influenced by negotiating power of the earner, demand-supply pressure on prices of goods and services. Now that a man isn't having more money may be a function of these above stated factors and not because he isn't hardworking or willing to work. What the Bible pattern reveal is one where the wife stays back mostly and do the lesser tasks. The man is to do the harder tasks like tilling the ground, cultivating the crop. The women were part of harvest and milling(processing) of food. All these man must earn above woman rubbish are corruption of biblical patterns. |
Crime › Re: Driver Arrested For Stealing Boss N3.5m Van & Selling It For N450k by CodeTemplar: 7:39am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Wicked . |
Politics › Re: Seun Osewa. Nigeria Deserves Chimamanda As Minister Of Information. Tweet. by CodeTemplar: 7:38am On Apr 08, 2023 |
emotionally damaged if you ask me.
We don't need anything that feels like a feminist or alpha male near power in black Africa. |
Family › Re: Which Would You Rather Have? by CodeTemplar: 8:43pm On Apr 07, 2023*. Modified: 7:24pm On Apr 08, 2023 |
Me. Sibling can decide to cut you a meagre amount. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: World News! Events Happening Around The World by CodeTemplar: 8:40pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Uprightness100: 60,000 end noon prayers at Temple Mount; hundreds hail West Bank attack, wave Hamas flags same way they pray on the road in Nigeria. |
Programming › Re: How Do I Go About This System Design ? by CodeTemplar: 7:48pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
There is an SQL formula for age calculation and.an annotation for it within your Bean. I can't remember now. DOB is fixed so the an notion takes the date of birth and su tract current date from it them divide by 365 to get age.
I suspect OP is just cruising.
You could also implement the logic inside the getter method of the age field. |
Politics › Re: Bandits Kidnap 80 Children In Zamfara by CodeTemplar: 7:45pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Just 80? |
Education › Re: How To Download Music From YT? by CodeTemplar: 5:58pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Genyt or clipconverter[dot]cc
For genyt search the track when in genyt, generate links, the download.
For clipconverter, paste YT URL into the input box then click convert. Choose format, then click start. |
Travel › Re: Canada Based Nairalander Spotted Robot Cleaning Mall: Pictures Video by CodeTemplar: 3:35pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Cool. |
Education › Re: FG Approves N320.3bn Intervention Fund To Tertiary Institutions by CodeTemplar: 12:30pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
This news has faded on LIB but just appearing here. A shame.
When will private schools be included? |
Health › Re: NIMSA Opposes The Brain Drain Bill (Official Statement) by CodeTemplar: 12:15pm On Apr 07, 2023*. Modified: 12:58pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Like I said, the solution is for FG to convert subsidy public school trained graduates enjoy into loans and allow them work anywhere they feel they can repay from.
The govt sponsors other professionals that go through the public school system also, so singling out the medical practitioners alone is cleary unfair. |
Education › Re: History Of Money Rituals In Nigeria by CodeTemplar: 11:37am On Apr 07, 2023 |
9182736455O1999: Then cut the BS and stop telling up it's real. Oga, even Jesus magically obtained money from the mouth of a fish. There are power in level and it is very possible for stronger forces to disposses human of their power to get wealth in exchange for the equivalent money that wealth corresponds to. |
Food › Re: Recommend A Good Blender by CodeTemplar: 11:29am On Apr 07, 2023*. Modified: 1:59pm On Apr 08, 2023 |
Grinding stone... Lol.
Try industrial juicers. |
Food › Re: What's The Best Way To Price/buy? Cow Meat. by CodeTemplar: 11:26am On Apr 07, 2023 |
Youngzipan: if you have the money, spend it dont look back or regret. it's people like you that usually makes we us smile, we like ajebo wey dey shy and no sabi price that's why heaven dey hard some of una. Same measure, different prices is cheating. |
Food › Re: Garri Is The Latest Celebrity On Twitter! Tweeps Are Praising It Since Yesterday by CodeTemplar: 10:15am On Apr 07, 2023 |
Can't remember the last time I had this great granular fluid. One of these days, I will go after it once more. Especially that slightly sour one. |
Politics › Re: Femi Fani-Kayode To Obi: Do Us All A Big Favour, Go And Never Come Back by CodeTemplar: 10:05am On Apr 07, 2023 |
Drug addict will always support his supplier. |
Politics › Re: Fulani Herdsmen Raid Umogidi In Benue, Kill Policeman, 45 Others by CodeTemplar: 9:42am On Apr 07, 2023*. Modified: 12:02pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Yes daddy, this is indeed a religious war. |
Agriculture › Re: Onion And Sweet Potato Business by CodeTemplar: 9:37am On Apr 07, 2023 |
Good luck as you look for honest partners on Nairaland. |
Crime › Re: Bandits Abduct Travellers On Abuja-kaduna Highway by CodeTemplar: 9:34am On Apr 07, 2023 |
KingKO22: The bandits, kidnappers and herdsmen of LPDP have resumed their duty after lossing woefully to Asiwaju
Asiwaju will deal with all these LPDP animals
Thank you Daddy in Pandora Obituary voice 🤣😂😂 with trillions in defence budget you want to make me believe a group of few hundred bandits on bikes are uncrushable? |
Crime › Re: Bandits Abduct Travellers On Abuja-kaduna Highway by CodeTemplar: 9:32am On Apr 07, 2023 |
Lol...and one lanky fraudster made us believe the huge defense budgets was meant to end this banditry. 9 tucanos at 45m USD each. Billions of USD in defence budget increase, yet this laughable bandit trend resumes immediately they secured another four years. |
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Crime › Re: Ondo Varsity Graduate Stabbed To Death Over N1,000 Debt by CodeTemplar: 9:27am On Apr 07, 2023 |
One loaf of bread is like N1000. |
Politics › Re: Oyo Assembly Approves Makinde's N50 Billion Loan Request by CodeTemplar: 9:25am On Apr 07, 2023 |
Time to recover vote buying capital. |
Romance › Re: Jacob Married 2 Blood Sisters, Why Is It So Wrong To Have Sex With 2 Sisters Now by CodeTemplar: 9:22am On Apr 07, 2023 |
Marriage you said. He didn't force himself. |
Crime › Re: Man Tied Hands Backwards As He Is Beheaded. Pics by CodeTemplar: 9:21am On Apr 07, 2023 |
Planting season is close, nature is unrelenting indeed. |
Politics › Re: What Shocked Me The Most About The 2023 Elections – Buhari Speaks by CodeTemplar: 9:19am On Apr 07, 2023 |
Naira20: Who still listens or trusts Buhari? Everyone is just waiting for May 29,2023. Walahi...make that day come make the lanky fraudster return to him cow. It is painful we drove a career zoologist for a killer herdsman in 2015. Can a herdsman run a zoo, talkless a drug dealing accountant? |
Politics › Re: What Shocked Me The Most About The 2023 Elections – Buhari Speaks by CodeTemplar: 9:17am On Apr 07, 2023 |
This fraudster still talking. The police watched as thugs loyal to your godforsaken party harassed voters and you are here talking about voter power. Power that's subjective to thuggery power, is that one power? |
Education › Re: Moment Where Sango Spirit Possesses A Student During ‘olokoso’ Stage Play At Eks by CodeTemplar: 9:14am On Apr 07, 2023 |
I wonder what the spirit was waiting for when white men were colonizing and enslaving the adherents of Sango olukoso. With the prices of LNG and firewood, we still need that sango fire o. |
Investment › Re: Who Have Legit Online Earnings Platform by CodeTemplar: 4:40am On Apr 07, 2023 |
BMC job is the surest. |
Family › Re: Naira Scarcity; What's The Situation In Your Area? by CodeTemplar: 4:39am On Apr 07, 2023 |
Better than 3 weeks ago. Banks are full of customer trying to withdraw but no enough to transact at pre-design level. |