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yinkaOdutuyo:
Can you explain this pls, it's very useful bro

see if there is anything I av learnt about a Nigerian lady is that they are not emotional stable..in the sense that some one who says she loves u today might wake up tomorrow morning to say she is no more feeling the vibe between u both and decide to call it quit all because she fancy a better live with someone else..in a nutshell always be ready for the unexpected when you are in a relationship with Nigerian ladies..

she is yet to meet the highest bidder..

finally something is fishing only time would tell

Rilwayne001:
I have seen guys talk about their relationship problem on this board a lot of time. You see many of them on Twitter and on IG simping on every girls post like their life depends on it. A real alpha male, or beta male or whatever you may call it, need not, and never be obsessed with a girl, it's a total waste of time and effort. We all need to stop it and take the red pill. No matter how appealing she may, you don't ever need her as much as she needs you.

First of all, you have to understand no one gives a Bleep about you in this life, AS A MAN. Both male and female no one cares about you. The closest thing you can get as a man to being cared about is if you're useful. Implicit to the role of a provider isn't being loved for who you are but what you can do.

You must have heard that saying "true love is rare", it's just one of the bitter truth that you must drink and let it radiate throughout your body.

Most people are just using one another out of practicality. MEN HAVE NO INHERENT VALUE. Women and children on the other hand are valued simply for existing. One of the major reason why it's always a hard transition for man transiting from boyhood to manhood. THEir NO LONGER LOVED SIMPLY FOR EXISTING. THEIR WORTHINESS MUST BE PROVED OR THEY REMAIN NOTHING IN THE EYES OF EVERYONE.

Women preserve their value, while men create it. This is why average woman is more valuable than average man especially in this society that favors women.

A typical example is the fact that, an average women gets provided everything by her father till she's married to her husband. Her husband continues the provision. When the husband is aged and couldn't produce, her son takes over in the provision. So obviously she practically does nothing or really need not do anything. And this is why the feminists argument on inequality is a total balderdash as it only focuses on the winner.

This is it, for you as a MAN, success isn't a lifestyle choice for you. It's a must for you, because it's a matter of LIFE and DEATH. Life, because you can only be cared for and loved for, solely for what you can provide, and it's a death sentence for you if you can't, because you'll be useless to everyone and even yourself. No one will even pay you an eye.

Success is a lifestyle choice for women. Because a woman that fails in academic or business-wise can just give up and become a mother. The husband role is to take up the role. She'll still be wanted for who she is.

But who's interested in a loser man

Bro, nobody.

So to make things easy, make your academic/career or business, whichever like you'll like to venture your FIRST PRIORITY. Your SECOND PRIORITY should be your family, your parents and sibling, because if everyone runs away from you, at least to some certain extent they can't run away. Then you can make her your 3rd.

Don't waste your mind thinking of a woman that'll probably leave you for a better successful man when e red for you. A word is enough for the wise..

This is not saying you shouldn't have a girlfriend, but never make her your priority until you're married to her. Don't spend your money unnecessarily on her.

Take the red pill..

Cc: lalasticala seun

O.G

callmeRichie:
"Somebody heeeelp!, somebody heeeelp!! I don't know them!!!"

THIS IS A LONG RIDE GUYS, JUST CHILL AND ENJOY, DROP YOUR EXPERIENCES TOO, EITHER FUNNY OR SOUR. BLESS UP GUYS!!!

It still cracks me up whenever I remember that line as that was the first time I was robbed with a gun and axe to my face!

Myself being an innocent fresher, had a roommate (my best friend), none of us never had the experience until then sha.

That cool evening, we were just chilling outside our room's veranda with hot suya and Mirinda as usual few minutes past 8pm for that matter.

Then 2 guys came in through the gate; my hostel being a luxurious looking structure and fully occupied with big ballers (Gees) and few crazy big runz girls, so it's always rosy, people trolling in every now and then. How many people do you wanna query?

Back to the gist ojare, the 2 guys came in with a very bright torch light and were coming towards us, one of the flashed the torch to my face constantly, I was like "who be this?", for like 30secs the torch was still in my face, so we thought it was one of our guys.

So I mentioned the name, Abdullah??(not his real name), dude didn't respond, my roommate had a torch besides him too, so he just switched it on too to one of the guys' face to really see who it was.

I blocked my face with my left hand, (meanwhile, my right hand was still holding a hot suya streak and my mouth still dancing) and I saw a fresh looking short gun!!!

Yeeepa! what is this I didn't know when I dropped the suya and started shivering, lol. Different thoughts came to my mind, were they here to assassinate us?? this must be a misconception o, should I run My roommate never saw the gun and fierce looking axe yet oo.

The guy he flashed the torch light to reached out to him to slap his face, my guy managed to dodge it, that was when he saw the gun and axe!! Menh, this is not a joke!!!

When I saw he knew what's up too, omo Iyami mo japaa ni oooo (i took to my heels), my guy on seeing this, he followed me too instantly! so I was in the front, took the backyard cuz our hostel was like a flat, 2 flats built in L shape which intercrossed.

Those guys never believed we would run, maybe they lose guard I don't know, buh when my guy was trying to run too, the guy holding the axe tried to butchered his arm, but thank God he wasn't fast enough, though my guy sustained a scratch at his back.

As I was running through the compound finding the gate, I was just shouting "Somebody heeeelp!, somebody heeeelp!! I don't know them, I don't know them!!!"

It still baffled me, none of them reacted! Some said "they thought we were playing", imagine! Other said, they didn't hear!?

well I never knew, it was my guy following me all the while, I thought it was one of the thieves, I even shutted the gate against him (i didn't know he was the one following me yet) until I fell down outside the gate, and already gave up he then called my name, "guy, guy, guy, èmini(I'm the one). Then I cooled down and we ran away together.

Those guys became unrest, took our phones we left while playing Mega99 , quickly ransacked the rest of the rooms collected their phones and laptops. They thought we went to call the police or SUG or neighbors, not long at all, they started firing!!!

like seriously, so those guns were loaded!, shouting up and down; "if you be mopol, police, army, come out now make we fight! come out, your papa!" we hid at a neighboring house(indegenes) then, so we heard all they were saying.

Within 5 minutes, of staying there, the man just said "make we come dey go, they have gone, there's no problem again", what's this man saying? his children bluntly refused him though.

We didn't stay long there sha, we just decided to go pass the night in one of our friend's place.

Mind you, I was just wearing a trouser alone, no singlet sef, my guy own better, he was wearing one basketball armless jacket, and a short nicker, naso we trekked go our friend's hostel ooo

comedian and see as people dey look at me, a half naked guy walking on the street. we didn't even have money to pay for bike, so we kuku resolved to trekking make we no go fall into another trap again

The next day we went back to the hostel, saw gun cartridges like 5 or so on the floor! Menhh no be joke oo!

Glory to God, both of us are really doing good, most of the time when will remember this event, nah laugh galore

Funny enough, those guys came back 2 weeks after again, buh my roommate wasn't around this time, he traveled home. So I was the only one and one hostel brother that came to pass the night with me were robbed.

That one is another funny tale anticipate.


So guys feel free to drop your experience too, either funny or sour.... keep it rolling guys!!

bro u just broke my ribs.lolx

taking her for granted hw?

JOBgame:
My girlfriend lives with her friends in her house i rented for her,so normally i do visit her on weekend to have fun.obviously last week saturday as usally i was with my bea having hot s*x it happen that her friends were out so i was not worried about it,only god know how manage her friends get to record the event.early sunday morning chatting on whatsapp when her first friend inbox me the the video telling me that "am a great fucker that she will like to have a taste" i was shock and suprised@the same time.pls i love my girlfriend and don't wanna cheat on her pls i need help!!!

this might just be a set guy with the consent of ur babe..think with ur head not with ur dick this time bro..

[quote author=Twinkletwin post=90396679]Lol so it means our girls should keep getting killed because of rape? And this monsters won't stop [/quot..u right to some extent

just get ready for bashing from nairaland.

pansophist:
Losing weight is all about diet, not exercise. You can lose weight even if you sit on one place all day (but slowly), you just need to eat fewer calories and fewer junks.

tanks bro

happy birthday man..wishing you the best life got to offer

me self nw no know who to believe again oh..maybe tomorrow nw we go hear say na wizkid rape person. ..#say no to rape#

pansophist:
For guys that want to get fit without going to gym, it is 100% possible. You need to get a skipping rope (works your cardiovascular) or sprint/jog, then do push-ups. With just skipping rope, push up, and eating clean, you will look fit and strong.

We need more guys to join the journey. At least if you achieve a healthy look during this corona, then it's a good start. I lost my sister recently and fell into depression, and added 15kg of fat after binge eating to cope, but I am over it now and lost almost everything, just 3 more kg more to lose. I lost it in just two months (March to May).

If I can do it, you can do it too. Shoot your question, and get free personal coaching

Ariza, you wan join? I see you are looking

which is more best in loosing weight.sorry for your lose bro..pls I need answer

whytediamond:
Three sides to a story.
1. Her side 2. His side 3. The truth
Let's say NO to Rape

shikena

Kelvin581:
make una say something na.. than this na

bro just do as he says for nw,then next time when she coming to visit tell him,his reaction would determined the next step u would take..

PrettyPrint:
mtcheeeeew.


You were d one claiming levels just now and now you want to make it seem like I'm the one.


I don't think you're really intelligent in real life. And you're the first guy I'm insulting here too. Sorry about that

set awon slay mama..audio life

PrettyPrint:
everybody de here de claim levels

Na people wey poor pass de always talk say "you know who I b?" like dat cream seller up there claiming levels too

I know who u be na Kim K..lolx

PrettyPrint:
you sure say you never send me dm before?

lolx.never I get levels

Millennialaku:

there is a foolish scammer here on nairaland claiming to be the girl in the third picture

the moniker of the dingbat is cc prettyprint

lazy man no go find work . only God knows the amount of randy he~goats you have scammed

do google image search if you think i am lying

so u remember bro..i was about saying that too

Red flag bro..japa

what other proof do u need to knw that ur G.F who is about to become your EX if u used up head well had sex with that guy..bro that girl ain't loyal..

Darkseid:
This thread is proof that a lot of Nairalanders have very low IQ. Most just read the title and click on reply without reading the contents.

u just on point..seriously they would never read meaning to something before jumping into conclusion

lol.this life isn't fair a times this why as a guy u got to hassle up.GOD bless those Guys hustling out their day and night to make it in life.

the part u said u av to beg her to pick up call got me laughing..see never u beg a girl to love you because the outcome is not always good..try cutting communication with her in every way u can so that u can move on with ur life..this is 2020 bro be wise...Las Las u go day alright sha

Charleys:
Then how do I get my Rep back now that she's using this rumours to destroy my Rep.

Hope you know, rumours run fast. Especially when the women decide to blacklist me as an effeminate man.

simple instruction stay away from married women..it seems up mind is already made up ND u are looking for someone to justify up action..

lolx.bro tank u stars u just miss a time bomb.

Lol.free indeed bro go and give thanksgiving in church

Respect55:
This life is just a small place. You will think you are sharp but when the time is come, your sin will surely find you out.

Some weeks back, a guy saw my wares online and came around to pick some footwears since we are in same city. He kept on talking on phone with a particular girl (my girl) about the type of shoe she likes. Remember I just gave her a new pair when she requested for one. Not even up to a month.

So this guy selected 3 pairs of shoes - two males shoes and one female own. He just told me to packet them that he would call me when money comes in. Fast-forward to today, he called in the afternoon and gave me a location to bring the shoe that he went out with his girl and will be traveling in the morning.

I dressed up, picked up the shoes at the shop and dashed to the location only to meet him with my girlfriend.

I just pretended like nothing happened, passed the shoes to him. She was shocked to the marrow but the guy never noticed. He asked her to wear the shoe so as to see how it suits but she just told him that he shouldn't bother that it's OK.

He paid me and as I was about leaving, he called me back and introduced me to his girl. I told her my name like we just met and left.

That's just it. I'm out for good. I'm free

U don't av to buy a car or something worth millons to show u care for someone bt the little u give wholeheartedly goes a long way to show that she care's.

lereinter:
When I saw the topic, I thought your gf were to be working with CBN or their likes

But how can you write that someone working in ShopRite is stingy

She has not got enough to spare with you

Well

If you don't give her does she complain heavily

Lolx.bt majority are the female folks

Payperboii:
Guys de that table too oh