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Family › Re: How Do I Deal With A Denied Pregnancy? by coogar: 11:01pm On Nov 16, 2013
kulyie: gringrin what is the use of that advise,that is what she will end up doing,abi since when they have been giving her previous advise on other threads about her and her boyfriend isshh,which one did she listen to.she may dump the child beside toilet,dumpsite,under a car or on the street as we usually see.i wont be suprised anyway
she's too young - her hormones are still raging.

and by the way you've been emphasizing,she is only 18.is an 18 year old girl not supposed to know better.the last time i checked gold circle condom is not up to 200 naira,birth control pills is not even up to 300 naira or better still,didnt common sense tell her to calculate her safe period,ovulation etc before meeting her boyfriend.what is the use of crying over spilled milk,nawa o.
kids at 18 know the right thing - but they still choose to do their own thing & ignore the risks or the consequences of their actions. at 18, i was worse.....i did many risky stuff that should have killed me - i didn't even think i could die. i thought i was immortal.

The boy will still come back again with sugar coated mouth and find another lie to cook for her,she too will swallow it and baby 2 comes along.stop been diplomatic,say the truth and let the devil be ashamed.nawa o
no....
this time around they would have learnt a lesson or two. the poor lad is probably somewhere now staring at the ceiling & fighting insomnia. no man sleeps easy with the knowledge he's about to father a child.
Family › Re: How Do I Deal With A Denied Pregnancy? by coogar: 7:27pm On Nov 16, 2013
[quote author=baby_123]Coogar! Couplehuh You call these two a couple in light of all these? They have shown that both of them with their heads together are quite childish and not too bright. They wanted to be adults bad enough, they have their chance. This boy has shown he doesn't have her best interest at heart yet you want her to make such a decision with him? This kind of girl? Whatever her parents decide they will support her through it. I know you are looking out for the boy here, but this type of argument from even you is a new low Coogar.[/quote]maybe this is the kick on the backside they need to knock them back into the real world. some kids learn from the sermons of their parents while some kids don't learn until they experience the harsh realities of life.

i am not looking out for this boy - he's shown to be irresponsible but that does not necessarily mean he would forever be a plonker. whatever the parents decide? really? this is what parents that give their underage girls out for marriage also think - "we will support her through it" cheesy
Family › Re: What Is Is With Ese Walters And Married Men? by coogar: 7:17pm On Nov 16, 2013
[quote author=baby_123]Lmao. Really Coogarhuh[/quote]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lj5OZ50R6kA

watch it, it's interesting.
movie won 6 academy awards & the soundtrack stayed #1 on billboard charts for 19 weeks. grin
Family › Re: How Do I Deal With A Denied Pregnancy? by coogar: 7:14pm On Nov 16, 2013
[quote author=baby_123]So the girls that commit multiple abortions for their boyfriends under similar circumstances are telling scripts? Some girls are dangerously gullible. They shouldn't be allowed to make a decision without their parents till they start acting mature. The nerve of this useless boy after all this? He is even deciding what happens. This is baffling. When he should be begging or taking responsibility. He is giving conditions[/quote]they are kids....
girls that commit multiple abortions are blinded by puppy-love. letting the parents make the decision is not necessarily the right idea as well. some parents make the wrong decision for their wards.

a religious mum would definitely ask the girl to keep the baby - just because she's a christian or catholic. the parent will not even consider the hardship ahead. this is a sensitive issue, only the couple involved should be allowed to make their decision.
Family › Re: Family Section Debate: Elimination Round by coogar: 7:07pm On Nov 16, 2013
ileobatojo: Bwahahaha!! grin grin
That's what you get for doing village runs. What again did you expect after collecting yam while your mates were collecting black briefcases and brown envelopes? Dane gun and juju of course!
don't worry - your own day of reckoning is near.

Tgirl4real: Because we do not have equal number of contestants with opposing views, we will go with Plan B.


Topic for Quater Final

Sex before Marriage: Right or Wrong?


The successful contestants are to pick a side they would be debating on. Please mail me with your choice, it will be on a first come first serve basis.


Also visit the feedback thread to get the guideline for the next round.


Thank you.
sex before marriage as a topic is tantalising - but i can bet there would me more than 200 quoted bible verses to argue for/against it.
Family › Re: How Do I Deal With A Denied Pregnancy? by coogar: 6:58pm On Nov 16, 2013
[quote author=baby_123]Now you see why we are not taking it easy on her. She wrote it on this thread that he said he wanted her to have his baby. You need to go back and read all she wrote. Very annoying. The guy said if she doesn't abort he will cut her off. If she does then maybe they can continue the relationship. Lmao[/quote]sounds like a script written by zeb ejiro.....
Family › Re: Family Section Debate: Elimination Round by coogar: 6:56pm On Nov 16, 2013
ileobatojo: Stop hating. Don't worry, I'll let you in on the deal. tongue

Ok, I'm running off before I get warned for derailing. cheesy
the deal? hell no
i collected a sack of yams from contestant 4 and he's been eliminated. he's outside my yard now with a dane gun & juju. grin
Family › Re: How Do I Deal With A Denied Pregnancy? by coogar: 6:52pm On Nov 16, 2013
Merkki: Only 18? At 18, were you like her? Didn't you know what you wanted in life? Did you go through her other threads and comments? I bet you didn't. We don't want her to come back with another unwanted child thread, that's why we are 'preaching'.
at 18, i was probably worse but i knew what i wanted. no babe was going to get pregnant for me so i did the needful.

[quote author=baby_123]Did you miss the part where she wrote it was planned? By both of them? When she actually got pregnant the boy changed his mind. He also has to learn that things like that are not a joke. You can't just not want pregnancy when it happens, especially when you asked for it[/quote]it was planned? hehehehe
maybe the boy was testing his potency or her fertility. kids & experiment. even then, i think she needs counselling. however, what kinda boy backs off after putting a girl in the family way? there's more to this story, abeg.

it sounds fake!!!
Family › Re: What Is Is With Ese Walters And Married Men? by coogar: 6:47pm On Nov 16, 2013
[quote author=baby_123]Lmao. I wonder if Coogar can be bewitched to give up all his money like he claims he can be bewitched to give up his sense of responsibility, control and his wife's sense of pride in him[/quote]anyone can be bewitched in nigeria grin
i was only 7 when i saw nneka - the pretty serpent & i have known this fact since then.
Family › Re: How Do I Deal With A Denied Pregnancy? by coogar: 6:42pm On Nov 16, 2013
[quote author=baby_123]Some people are adults but because of mental handicaps they need other adults to make decisions for them. She may drop out of school and am sure she will be glad to. She never wanted to go to school anyway. She wanted to be a mother. She got her wish. Let her deal with it and raise the child.[/quote]this is harsh.....
she's only 18. at that age, most teens don't even think of the consequences of their actions. she had sex & thought maybe taking saline solution would take care of the business.

who would be glad to drop out of school for an unwanted baby. easy on the criticism. the OP needs encouragement & counselling. she's made the mistake already - let's proffer solution.
Family › Re: Family Section Debate: Elimination Round by coogar: 6:38pm On Nov 16, 2013
ileobatojo: Stop feeling cool. The woman knows about your math 'prowess' *cough* *cough*. That's why she's giving you a step by step guide. grin grin
my math skillz are peerless.

ileoba - i am on the phone with FBI & they are trying to establish a link between you & contestant 5. there's a CCTV footage of you meeting someone @ starbucks on thursday morning & a brown envelope was exchanged.
Family › Re: How Do I Deal With A Denied Pregnancy? by coogar: 6:34pm On Nov 16, 2013
[quote author=baby_123]They will both learn a lesson of a lifetime whatever her parents decide. Some parents take their kids for abortion. At least it will be safer that way. This girl needs help from herself and destructive tendencies. She shouldn't make a decision on that baby without her parents knowledge or an adult.[/quote]according to the nigerian law, she's no longer a child. she need not an adult to make a life-changing decision. this pregnancy will slow her down - she might have to drop out of school!
Family › Re: Family Section Debate: Elimination Round by coogar: 6:29pm On Nov 16, 2013
Tgirl4real: @ Coogar,

Contestant NO. 5 won. cheesy
thanks for this vital information. grin
Family › Re: How Do I Deal With A Denied Pregnancy? by coogar: 6:21pm On Nov 16, 2013
[quote author=baby_123]Her type will go back to this boy to take her for abortion. The useless and evil boy will take her where she will either get killed or lose her ability to have kids in the future. This girl is not sharp at all. She will make this same mistake over and over. Let her tell her parents. She is simply very gullible, trusting and with no plan for her life at all. She needs serious guidance and help[/quote]she's only 18, go easy on her.
even adults make this kinda mistake. the boy isn't ready. what's he supposed to do? the boy might not even have N100 in his pocket.

Merkki: The Girl will definitely go back to that guy. She is that dumb and gullible. You all are just advising her for nothing.
love is blind.....
Family › Re: Family Section Debate 2013 - Make it a Date by coogar: 6:12pm On Nov 16, 2013
ileobatojo: Congratulations to the contestants and all the best for the next round! Special kudos to contestant #5 whoever you are cheesy; strong work. First position very well deserved!
this famzing is suspicious.
i want to see your statement of account to be sure there's no recent deposit in it. grin
Family › Re: Family Section Debate: Elimination Round by coogar: 6:10pm On Nov 16, 2013
[quote author=Sisi_Kill]Do we want to find out now?

I say we wait until the very end.

I love suspense!! cheesy[/quote]no wonder you watch crime & investigation. who did the homicide? the husband or.......?
Family › Re: How Do I Deal With A Denied Pregnancy? by coogar: 6:09pm On Nov 16, 2013
OlamiB: I just found out am 5weeks pregnant, i told my BF about it and all he said was that i should get an abortion to keep the relationship going, or i may decide to have the baby without a father cos he is not ready to be a father yet. He said he'd deny ever knowing me if i decide to keep the baby. I dnt know what to do cos am strongly against abortion, i havent told my parents yet because they wont take it likely with me all. Mum has warned me several times against it, in as much as i know my parents would eventually be there for me, i have a strict dad that may desown me by the time he finds out. He also promised to remove me on 2go, block me on whatsap and facebook and also buy a new set of numbers so he wnt have anytin to do with my again. This is driving me so crazy i dnt know what to do. This is the guy i love so much, i never believe he could do this to me, i'd eventually be an object of ridicule among frnds and family if i decide to keep the baby.
it's a no-brainer.
abort the baby & move on. don't bring another child that you can't care for into this world.

dust yourself & move on. if you go ahead & have the child with the plan of leaving the baby by a river or a dumpster, then i will personally look for you & kill you.
Family › Re: Family Section Debate: Elimination Round by coogar: 5:59pm On Nov 16, 2013
so who won this round?
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Ethiopia- WCQ (2 - 0) On 16th November 2013 by coogar: 5:30pm On Nov 16, 2013
Arosa: Bobo na watin be the name of your school?
ogwashiukwu memorial secondary school. grin
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Ethiopia- WCQ (2 - 0) On 16th November 2013 by coogar: 5:26pm On Nov 16, 2013
alligatorswerve: its "stretched".
This place is already crowded, nor kill person will bad spelling abeg
she's correct -
it's stretchered. it's ironic you are the villager here. when you carry an injured player out with a stretcher then he's been stretchered out.

you should ask for a refund - the years spent educating you was a sheer waste of time.
Family › Re: What Is Is With Ese Walters And Married Men? by coogar: 4:08pm On Nov 16, 2013
[quote author=baby_123]Everyone has free will. When you have something to lose, you exercise that free will cautiously if you have all your senses completely with you. No doubt girls chase men, but to make Nigerian men out to be prey is a very funny thing. Please don't say that again.[/quote]nigerian men are preys....
many of them were bewitched into adultery - a large chunk of these chics use all sort of spiritual powers to nail their men & suck him dry till they find another rich man to mess with.

i cannot believe you are now agreeing women chase men......just like ese set out to ruin a pastor. ese only came out to confess because the pastor realised his error & went back to his family. if the pastor confessed his sin in his closet, he would be forgiven. it's not about standing in front of our screens.

who even wants to hear the sordid details of how ese was riding the pastor?

[quote author=tpia@]like i said, let us just wait for her to tell us the next batch of men trying to get into her pants.

thats all![/quote]wait till she mentions their husband or dad.....
Family › Re: What Is Is With Ese Walters And Married Men? by coogar: 3:45pm On Nov 16, 2013
[quote author=baby_123]Who approached those women? The married man. A man with a wife at home who successfully convinced an outsider that there is space for her in his home. Lola Alao the adviser got married to her own man already. Women don't like to share their men except they don't love him at all. Lola herself is an only wife. Go back and ask her why she didn't practice what she preached here. The predators charm and deception seems to have worn off. And that Bose? Does she have a choice than to settle?[/quote]approached?
i said these women chase men - the women do all the chasing & scheming. some resort to juju & whatnot to prey on men. are you kidding me? all those career runs girl in don't chase married men?

it seems you are not getting my point. these girls hustle to sleep with married men. they have come to a conclusion most single men are broke & uncaring....married men pay & getting paid is their single motivation.

byvan: Coogar and co with this "men are goats being led to the slaughter"theory again undecided

Abeg baby123 and Chillisauce has said all, i no get strength to type.
rich men are preys in nigeria - preys to sluts, whöres, hoodrats, runs girl, etc. ask yourself why these runs girl don't chase after the average vulcaniser or roadside mechanics? are we not talking about the same nigeria where most of the female undergraduates confessed live on camera they keep an average of 5-6 men at the same time for various purposes?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Nairaland Fantasy Premier League 2013/2014 by coogar: 11:44am On Nov 16, 2013
this thread should be renamed the self-destruction of ipukulu. from next season, the main league should be divided into 2 divisions. NL premier league & NL proving grounds.

only 20-30 teams should be in the premier league while the others should only get the code for the lower division. there should be promotion & relegation - especially when people commit harakiri like ipukulu scumbags fc has done.
Family › Re: What Is Is With Ese Walters And Married Men? by coogar: 11:31am On Nov 16, 2013
[quote author=baby_123]Hahaha?! Nigerian men are prey? Am sure even you laughed yourself to convulsion typing that. Wandering in London where she was living? Who left his wife and family, bought a ticket, booked a penthouse suite, got on a plane and lodged with a woman that was not his wife in another country? Who is the wanderer! More like Ajala travel sef.[/quote]were you there? are you even sure the incident painted by ese walters really happened? when was the last time ese walters did any psych evaluation? what's her mental state?

as for the married men are preys in nigeria - i stand by that claim & i will defend it with everything i have got. grin below are some of the links of top nollywood actresses in nigeria advising single women to chase married men.

http://ireporterstv.co/if-a-married-man-makes-you-happy-please-go-for-it-lola-alao/

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2013/11/actresses-prefer-married-men-bose-arowosegbe/
TV/Movies › Re: "Scandal" Fan Page. by coogar: 12:16am On Nov 16, 2013
shezy: she did the audition of scandal with Gabrielle union.though i like her but i would have prefered Union.
gabrielle union is cute - i like her.

alutacontinua: Kinda felt they were gonna introduce the 'Olivia's mum is alive' into it! Anybody that has not been shown dead and slaughtered and shred into pieces in an American series should never be considered dead! undecided


The rape part is still sub-standard to me though. Nice twist I must say but I mean, which kain rape scene is that? when the husband is just upstairs? It's too fake, they shld av tried a lil better! cool
it's not that fake - mellie stopped struggling after a while cos she had already figured out how she would use that incident to her advantage.
Family › Re: Family Section Debate 2013 - Make it a Date by coogar: 12:06am On Nov 16, 2013
luvable sam: I don't think ileobatojo(if dats d name) would make a good judge...she is very rude, Obnoxious, mean n wud make a terrible judge cos she is baised.....As she is in favour of a certain gender,she would never see anything good in what a contestant that writes in favor of the other gender on the topic 'Abuse' .

she would never be fair....my view
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Family › Re: CONFESSION: ''I Have Hidden My HIV Status From My Husband For Four Years" by coogar: 12:03am On Nov 16, 2013
the heart of a woman is deeper than the pacific ocean. this woman is evil!!!!
Family › Re: What Is Is With Ese Walters And Married Men? by coogar: 11:58pm On Nov 15, 2013
[quote author=baby_123]Yes, she has shown remorse and has shown she is intent on staying on the straight and narrow. The thing is in Nigeria, married men are married and living single. It is disgusting. Anything in skirts is chased. Married or not. I think as a man, you should ponder more on the rewards of being a respectable man. So in future, they will not disgrace you publicly like this.[/quote]married men are preys in nigeria.
with the amount of hungry girls roaming the country, it's inevitable that you would have single chics pursuing married men aggressively. the snag is - you won't see these girls around men with low income. it simply means money is the motive.


Put to eternal rest? So you wish her death now Coogar for disgracing wandering pri*cks. grin grin grin. Orishrishi. I hope more girls are like her and reject these randy men. If they all chase you away and disgrace you, will you diehuh You are going on about this as if you will die if cheating partners finish, or they start to disgrace men that will not sit in one place.
lol @ wandering dïcks.....
ese was the one that left the comfort of her house to visit the pastor in his hotel room. she ended up going there for 7 days consecutively. i ask again - who was really doing the wandering in the real sense of it?
Family › Re: What Is Is With Ese Walters And Married Men? by coogar: 10:57pm On Nov 15, 2013
[quote author=baby_123]What history? That she confessed her sins and felt guilty for desecrating the house of God? And she confronted a pastor who could not even defend himself? Sounds like a brave girl with a conscience and lots of moral compass to me. Someone that can admit wrongs and show remorse is much better, braver and stronger than one who pretends to be what they are not.[/quote]remorse?
pastor biodun's chapter closed & she's already involved in another scandal with another married man. it doesn't sound like someone with any iota of remorse.

ese is an attention seeker - an effect of being a victim of statutory räpe by a blood relative. she will continue to collide with scandal after scandal until someone puts her into eternal rest.
Family › Re: What Is Is With Ese Walters And Married Men? by coogar: 10:49pm On Nov 15, 2013
[quote author=baby_123]Why do you feel she has no credibility. undecided[/quote]cos her history & her present life lack any credibility. in a nutshell, ese has no moral compass.
Family › Re: What Is Is With Ese Walters And Married Men? by coogar: 10:46pm On Nov 15, 2013
[quote author=tpia@]can anyone provide concrete evidence of an affair between ese walters and the pastor, emeka obasi, or any of the men she says are trying to get into her pants.

thanks.

in addition, a blog write up is not evidence of an affair, thank you.[/quote]it's the gospel truth cos ese said so. nigerians are the only people that judge based on one side of a story. ese has no credibility to be taken seriously.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Nairaland Fantasy Premier League 2013/2014 by coogar: 9:59pm On Nov 15, 2013
ibime should be castrated.....

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