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No, it's not wrong. And there's nothing wrong with it either.

That must have been one hell of a job!

semid4lyfe:
Babies fully fed do nothing but play & sleep

Babies fully fed sometimes are impossible, especially when they're teething. They cry non-stop, are always irritated and want 100% attention. You might not have the space for PS and movies.

Child support enforcement is a high priority for the United States government. . .
http://travel.state.gov/family/services/support/support_2596.html

So what do u expect us to tell you? to go our there and have an affair? what happens if you're caught? you think your husband will "suffer the pain of betrayal and live in distrust forever just as you've had to live"? You'd be surprised. The society accepts that men can marry many wives so their infidelity is mostly overlooked and pardoned even by their wives, this is not true for a married woman who cannot for instance marry two husbands, so what would be the rationale for infidelity? vendetta?.

I always say 'to err is human, to forgive divine'. Let by-gones be by-gone. Free your spirit of all this evil thoughts, be optimistic and learn to trust once again. Be happy!

july123:
In the province, intimacy with a child under the age of 14 brings an automatic despoil conviction and a lengthy jail sentence.
'Anyone who had sexual relations with a girl under 14 means they have committed despoil and is to be punished severely.'

14 is age of consent?

FBS:
Ok maybe not for 6 months. . .3 months won't be bad. 
I feel they will both appreciate each other more.

Would you do it?

They probably need some space, as they grow older they get into each other's way. Different rooms might just be the solution.

Yes.

FBS:
I asked when will this sort of "development" reach Nigeria. If it ever will.

I don't think any Nigerian man would stay home for six months to look after a baby while his wife goes to work.

Why do I keep seeing this topic?

It's cool, so long as his parents realize we're a couple and let us be.

My mum couldn't lay a finger on any of us, she never ever did it. My dad was the disciplinarian and he actually had canes in different shapes and sizes kept in a corner of his room to frighten us.

Imaginations running wild again. But let me give you the benefit of doubt and say you could at least have waited for your dad to pass away before taking over his wife! It's allowed in those days!

We're finally getting there.

'Trouble sleep, yanga wan wake am'.

The same reason women cheat.

Do they now?

Is he back from church then?

Drink plenty of milk, it helps.

Don't play with typhoid fever, it's deadly! Tell your cousin to go see his doctor again.

bsparks:
Why can't he get his dues 'when he wants he dues'.

Is that what you call it? his dues? that's what it is to you? Well, you can go on and have your dues because in Nigeria, you're free to do just that, the law allows it. A husband cannot be convicted of r a p e on his wife when they are still living together. But if they are separated, and he sought her out and forced himself on her, it is r a p e and he is liable for conviction. Section 358 of the Criminal Code Act, Laws of Federal Republic of Nigeria 1990 CAP 77 states that r a p e is punishable with life imprisonment.

In most advanced countries of the world, r a p e of a spouse is a crime. And especially in all the states of USA and UK, it is particularly specified that marriage is not a defense for a crime.

What's he saying?

woye77:
A month after our wedding I still hadn’t allowed him near me until he forced himself on me one night.
Since then, it has been a tug of war getting me to sleep with him.

Unbelievable!!!

Any of my kids.

Simply tell her it's time to leave.

No.

Yes. I'll miss him greatly.