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adult91:
she would come to my house. my mom likes her so much

What kind of person are you?
How the hell she will come back from a cheating journey to your house?
Even your mum will stop to like her the moment she knows her daughter in-law to be is sleeping around.

It is all your fault. You cause your girlfriend to cheat with ease. You make it so easy for her. You've been over soft with her regarding such matters.

She know you are extremely weak! And that there is nothing you will do even if she cheat. And here you are, proving her right.

How I wish you were like me.
She wouldn't have try it in the first place.
Not to talk of coming to my house after the deal have been done.

For a girl I want to marry? Never! Not on this planet.
For me, I don't have any problem with her cheating. Since is her decision and what she wants, no problem.

Is her life. But let her not think of coming back to me again if not I will get problem with her.

truthsayer009:
Rest bawo! Oga leave me. Lemme shoot my shot Jejely

Take time please!

I beg go ahead. Shoot ur shot sharperly sharperly. No time
Which rest?
Afterall the relationship ended about 3yrs ago.

truthsayer009:
See ehn, It's sometimes necessary for Women not assume that they always know how a Man thinks. That's why it's good Women should have a Male figure in their lives, perhaps Father or a close Uncle/Friend they can relate with & reveal some important info.

Red flag that has been showing since.

Even Pilots & Iraq soldiers don't spend such time away from their loved ones. Na ordinary Asaba to Lagos

Op definitely didn't tell us the whole truth. She make us believe the relationship lasted for 5 good years. But the truth is that the relationship lasted for about 2.5 yrs.
Even when the relationship was active, I'm not even sure if it was strong enough.

Now people are commenting base on incomplete information. Is not good

truthsayer009:
Ahan ahan, why are you trying to cock block this guy na? I'm also in Asaba & about to shoot my shot to the OP, please don't put sand in our garri abeg.

Don't shoot any shot at OP.
She's in Lag. Not Asaba.
Besides, I think she needs some rest for now

LolaO:
Thank you.

I'm fine health-wise...
Plus, I've not seen him in going to 2 years, we just talk on phone before the disappearance.

Would I take him back if he comes back? No

I think your relationship wasn't that of 5yrs.
But about 3yrs. Going by this your very comment, it probably ended about 3yrs ago.
The guy not giving you reason for his action is not good. You deserve to know. At least you can make adjustments if you're at fault in your next relationship.

It appears you are new to relationship matter.
Welcome to reality.
In your relationship, take things easy. Before building your life around someone, be 100% sure the person is also building his life around you.

Be sure to always be on the good side. That is; make sure you are not hurting or treating people bad.

Always remember that anything can happen at anytime. I mean anything. Even your sweetest relationship can go down at anytime with or without reason.

When you keep your mind like that, you won't be surprise if, and when things happened. You will only worry about it for few days then move on. This kind of mindset enable you to take things simple and make life easy.

Note:
I didn't say you should expect anything to happen at anytime.

GreatResearcher:
Fellow husbands in the house, are your wives attitudes while in marriage the same as when the were in courtship? I realized women characters change from almost good to very worst once they get married.

Most tmes we wonder if the women we got married to are they women we dated. What could be the cause of this change in character.

Your wife didn't change. You are the one that set your marriage up for failure. You build your marriage on the wrong foundation. Sorry.

But on a serious note,
I strongly suspect that karma is after you.

dinodesmond:
Ladies with this head of a thing. smh for them. They will cheat on their men because one bastard can give them head. And if they are caught they quickly lay the blame at their guys' feet saying if you love me truly you should be free to give me head-job, u know I love it.

She's not in the mood for sex but tell you want to give her head, she will instantly be the mood and you can't say you are no longer interested.

Its not easy to give a lady a head job biko except her pussy can emit fragrance scent naturally.

Bros, forget that thing. Even if the pusy emit diamond along with silver and gold, I won't still give head

Xsenga:
and u would want her to give u head abi?����

Want is a passive word.
As long as she want me to give her head, I will be cool with her because I can decline it. And of course she can decline if I want her to give me head and I will be cool with it as well.

Problem will however arise when you want to make it compulsory. It won't work. Never! I will rather break up

I don't give head. I can't!
Even if she's beautiful, extra neat and without any form of disease, I can't still give her head. It is impossible!!

I'm my girl's first love.
I escaped that ex thing

lefulefu:
gbam!

Another gbam!!

Lamanii22:
Hmmmm... Oh dear God help me... Thank you so much.. I really appreciate you hun...

I followed your question as well as the answer you got - Good answer.
Don't be scared about the future. Just do what you are suppose to do and you will be fine.

Understand that the will of God for you in marriage is very simple. God is very clear about it. If you are in doubt, consult the Holy Bible.

Make no mistake about it. Don't Mary an unbeliever.
Mary A True Believer. Someone that knows God and have the fear of God.
This is the ground on which you must build your marriage and be happy. Otherwise......

mathew247:
When she came in to my life I was about sending my bro overseas, and she witnessed my brother left for overseas. I built house for my villa in 2017 ,honestly if she had stayed I would've married her,remember I stated that she's the best I've seen thus far and we never heard issues so I been dey think say na joke. Na to move on be the koko. I'm beginning to think it's better as she left now.

It is impossible for any relationship to be established without first passing through the crisis phase.
In your next relationship, make sure it pass through a major crisis and still stand thereafter before counting on it.

You can help create the crisis if it fails to come naturally.

Don't beg any girl to stay with you if she decides to leave you. Except you defaulted

Writercruze:
The break up stage is the crisis and power struggle stage. A whole lot of things happen during that stage. Many marriages and relationship break up during this stage.

You made so many valid points. But I think Power Struggle should be separated from crisis. Crisis is a stand alone phase of a relationship and usually don't last longer.

But power struggle seems to be continuous and can last longer until one person wins the fight and take the power structure in a relationship

Beverlyjean:
Comprehension and understanding is quite difficult for some people... The crisis and power struggle stage is the break up stage , but if u survive it , then the chances of break up is almost 0%

Exactly. It is only crisis that establish or break relationships. Crisis bring out the true colors of each person in a relationship.
In the process, a relationship is established or broken.

pocohantas:
The kind of threads we need. Not toto matter everytime.

Thought I was the only one.
I just tire!
Here is something more refreshing, of more benefits. Something for our future.
I've subscribe to the thread already. Looking carefully for the best option to put my hard earned money.

ubunja:
it pains you that what I write is a wonder to people doesn't it.

How about linking to the books, quora, Reddit, and YouTubes that present the Short Break-Up as I did...

Pepper them bro.
I dey ur back on this one

tolijascro:
Nothing can make me stop the habit....one guy won 30m on the bet9ja betting platform last week....i know my time will come....you can't tell me shit abaku lasho ewure

In fact, we will die there!
Just kidding though.
But like seriously, no quitting.
I'm still working on something and sure to be hitting big soon

Exponental:
When I become rich.... Toyota wont be in my fleet.
The car is for the masses

You are free to buy the car of your choice.
But don't allow pride to destroy you.

chieveboy:
https://we.tl/t-mTIxxNdn72 to download from We transfer.com or read from Adobe cloud link l posted earlier. Thanks.

Screenshot of the promo copy that is now in my domain attached.
I'm now going to read this book not because I find it very interesting, but just because of you!

Yes, I'm going to read it all because of the effort you put in to bringing it to me and most people here.

I may report back after going through the book.

I really appreciate your effort, thank you very much

RiyadhGoddess:
Kosi wahala

What's the link for unbelievers in manipulating or commanding the earth?

Btw, kosi wahala?

chieveboy:
its online, the hard copy can be ordered from Amazon. The soft copy is more affordable and is gotten from Okadabooks.com Mobile App. Simply visit www.iamjames.net and click "purchase"... You can also purchase the Kindle version. Thanks and best wishes.

Unfortunately, the site is no longer available.
Just a parked domain now

chieveboy:
haha . This may be hard to believe, this thread was mainly for sharing and educational purpose and was not an advertisement. I have no business what so ever to share this here, l was merely drawn to the light and Calibre of the people behind the dictation of the book to the author. Am sorry to say you didn't get much from my post about the book.

21 days...do you know what happens if you perform certain activities in a 21 day period? Do you know the circles of 3s, 9s, 12s or that of the 7s in creation and consequently manifestation? What are each days of the week perculiar for and how do you key in? You sounded like a friend earlier on in this thread who finished the book within one day and came saying there is nothing to it , the mind can be such a hindrance...

Here is a tip: if you must do anything, make sure it gets down to your 'stomach'. Your stomach is a creator, thanks to your heart. There you have it ...another key to the universe

it's available on the website only. Thanks.

I will check on the site to for the prelude then.
You don't need to worry. Like I said earlier, I got the message already.

Regarding what can be done performing certain activities in 21days? It shouldn't come to you as a surprise. Because you are part of a divine nature. In fact, your life is not ordinary. You can actually achieve anything within the human realm provided you are willing and ready to pay the price. You don't need anyone to tell you that.

@Riya, thanks for keeping to your promise.
I really appreciate you and all the effort you put in. I learnt a lot from you already.

Any question from me?
Yes, sure.

Wait for it

RiyadhGoddess:
Thanks for this.

You are most welcome

Dantedasz:
Can't you give me an idea of how I can command the earth? I don't think I can wait for this OP that refuses to go straight to the point. Can you recommend any books or authors?

Do you believe in God?
If yes, go here;

Jeremiah 22 vs. 29

"O earths, earth, earth, hear the word of the LORD"

The earth has ears
The earth listens to commandments.
You can command the earth to fight for you, release her blessings, and miracles for you.

I advised you to do some readings outside this thread. Don't depend on OP, or wait for her to tell you everything.

You may find the info at this link useful and helpful.

Go here
https://praject.org/index.php/programmes/monday-prayer-program/8-top/44-thursday-prayer-program-16


@Riya, I'm not trying to hijack your thread o.
I'm only trying to help the ministry to grow.

Like attracts like.

Hope you understand?

Dantedasz:
Sorry I am lost here. How do you command the earth to work for you? Do you just will it into working for you by magic?
Like saying, "Let there be light!" Then light magically appears or what?

Don't be lost. Understanding how to command the Earth to work for you calls for much reading. I will advise you to spend sometime and read this thread from the beginning to the latest post by @Riya. Then continue to follow this thread.

Outside this thread, do some Cosmic reading and you will understand better

chieveboy:
Ow, it's actually in a digital format not PDF. It can only be accessed via Okadabooks app.

I'm very much interested in exploring the universe to know more. But I won't go for this book because I checked with the contents you posted and got the message already except for the prelude. Is the prelude available in the free version or on Okada book?

RiyaGoddess:
To understand things of the spirit, ask the Holy Spirit for understanding...

You can actually do better than that.
Understand that you didn't set out to create this topic. And that not everybody knows that you are explaining a previous comment in full details here.

Dantedasz:
Please what exactly are you talking about? You seem to be jumping from passage to passage and all over the place. What is your point please?

This thread was born out of curiosity from people who were interested in knowing more about a comment that was made by RiyaGoddesss on another thread.
That comment was about the authority at the disposal of man over the earth.
Many start asking for more explanation.
So she promised to start a new thread to explain in full details.
Now, the explanation of the single comment is what this this thread is all about.

The point is that you have power over the earth (All Creatures) And that you can command the Earth to work or act in your favor. And not the other way round.

If you are interested in knowing and understanding how the universe works, you will understand this topic and find it very interesting.

But if otherwise, you will struggle to understand a thing here.

I decided to follow you after you promise to open a thread that will explain in detail the comment you made on the bet9ja soldier scam thread. It's good that you kept to your promise.
I'm following

psalmuelwater:
RomanceLanders, lets tell him the truth. My brother, you have been friendzoned for life. The worst zone a man can ever find himself

The girl didn't friendzone him. He friendzoned himself instead. All the while he never told the girl what he wanted (dating). Instead he decided to start spending on her.
She has to call him to order. It was then he knew or remembered that what he wanted is dating.

I think he's lucky that the girl is a good girl. Otherwise...