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BusinessRe: Stripe Payment Gateway Integration Shopify Store For Nigerians by CosmicJames(op): 7:20pm On Sep 08, 2019
HerrDamilord:
It's a year later .. Is it back?
Nope. I'm not sure I will still offer it.
I will advise you go for Paystack.
All you need to accept $$ is a GTB Dom account
RomanceRe: Why Are You Not In Any Relationship, by CosmicJames(m): 7:02am On Sep 07, 2019
Blackivy29:
I'm 16. I dont need to date nah. Thanks though. But school is more important.
I actually didn't advice you to start dating.
The advice is for you to have a positive attitude and mindset towards people and relationship.
That's what will help you attract a good guy when you are ready
RomanceRe: Why Are You Not In Any Relationship, by CosmicJames(m):
Blackivy29:
Focusing on other aspects of my life now.
Relationship is a distraction. Not that it would even end well. angry
There is what is called "Mental Obstacle"
I see you developing a mental obstacle that will later hurt your future love and relationship.

I understand that some relationship can be very bad and stressful. But there are blissful relationships as well.

I will advise you not to keep a bad ending conclusion for your future relationship due to past failed relationship.

Think and always believe that you will be lucky, and that you will find true love with happy ending. ➕ always be good to others and you will find true love.
RomanceRe: Guys Which Of These Two Ladies Would You Prefer To Marry. by CosmicJames(m): 4:21pm On Sep 03, 2019
Judybash93:
Yansh grin
Yes, yansh. But just for banging.
RomanceRe: Guys Which Of These Two Ladies Would You Prefer To Marry. by CosmicJames(m): 4:19pm On Sep 03, 2019
Toks2008:
I concur 200% but I have seen these things play out in reality. Guys will say behaviour over attraction but when faced with the situation they usually go for attraction.
For me, if she's not beautiful, I can't marry her.
If she's with bad character, I can't marry her.

But there are women with both beauty and good character. They (Good character and beauty) are the ones for me

I will rather stay unmarried.
I definitely won't settle for less. Never!
CelebritiesRe: James Brown Now Dressing As A Man After Bobrisky’s Ordeal by CosmicJames(m): 2:51pm On Sep 02, 2019
PennywysCares:
onyi baby is that ur back on the DP?

abeg make we mingle

Send me ur control number biko
You're on the internet
CrimeRe: Deeper Life Pastor, Tunde, Commits Suicide In Ogun After Being Duped by CosmicJames(m): 2:25pm On Sep 02, 2019
7thLemonLOVER:
We are all fighting various battles that other people are oblivious of.
Atimes you wonder if God is really involved in anything
God gave us "WILL"
God doesn't directly interfere in our "WILL"
Most of our problems are from the decisions we make.
If we make a decision ignoring what God has said concerning that decision, what then will God do?
God is not happy when we suffer.
But God did know that He equipped us with everything we need to succeed despite the challenges.

That's why you hear God saying "His people perish for lack of knowledge"

If you look closely, you will see that everything have been programmed already by God.

We just have to make the right decisions and succeed. Or by default make bad decisions and perish.

I'm a Suicide survivor. I was once ready to commit suicide and end it all. At that point, I was already disconnected from life and lost interest in everything. Nothing on earth could have saved me from crossing over except God Himself.

Remember that I have lost interest in everything including God. But I think God has mercy on me because I had a last and final thought that asked me to choose between committing the suicide, or call upon God for the last time. Then if He didn't answer me, I should go ahead and commit the suicide.

I have to choose between the two decisions.
Then I choose to pray and for the first time in my entire life, I have a personal encounter with my Maker (God) and knew for sure that God truly exists! Did God answer me? Yes He did! Otherwise I wouldn't have been here telling you the story.

Just know that it takes EXTRAORDINARY GRACE to escape the spirit of suicide.

Did you notice that God is actually involved in my life but I have to make the right decision and succeed?
CelebritiesRe: Peter Okoye Celebrates His Wife, Lola Omotayo, On Her Birthday by CosmicJames(m): 11:41am On Sep 02, 2019
Biingoo:
Those eyes kiss
Yes, those eyes.
RomanceRe: Investing Emotions In A Woman Is A Sure Way To Disaster For A Man ...... by CosmicJames(m): 12:00am On Sep 02, 2019
MrBrownJay1:
Whatever you may think of women, we certainly CANT live without them...yes, some are useless but that certainly wont make me turn away from them completely, and certainly not FEAR them (that's what cowards do).

Any man who fear women to the point that he is scared shitless of telling women what he really feels about them, is no better than teenage kids fearing their parents. Immature bunch!
There are stages in life. I think most people who preaches the fear of women are in a certain state (mostly 20s) where they chase and see women as a big deal. So they end up developing and using some weird ideas and mentality to help their dating game.

Or they are always attracting the kind of women that will suit their mentality to keep their beliefs about women intact. And to prove to their conscious self that they are right about what women are. That becomes their reality. And it will definitely hurt them later in life

But the real reality is different. A real man is the man that is able to profess his love to a woman, love the woman without reservations and at the same time put that woman in check and balance.

There is no point being afraid. Just be yourself. Stay in power. Learn how to handle women. Don't be a carbon copy of yourself out of fear.

Women are precious gift from nature. They are good people.
RomanceRe: Investing Emotions In A Woman Is A Sure Way To Disaster For A Man ...... by CosmicJames(m): 11:22pm On Sep 01, 2019
MrBrownJay1:
STOP writing rubbish....since the dude wrote that he views women has a father view his kids THEREFORE there certainly ain't NO attraction neither....Unless you foolishly believe a father has sexual attraction for his kids....duh!
Some fathers do have sexual attraction for their daughters.
RomanceRe: Investing Emotions In A Woman Is A Sure Way To Disaster For A Man ...... by CosmicJames(m): 11:16pm On Sep 01, 2019
ubunja:
if he didn't mention ATTRACTION don't mention it for him.

Go back to him and ask if he feels attraction or not.

Don't say things people didn't say. You become a liar. Ask him about attraction then take it from there.
But @MrBrownJay1 didn't mention gay. You did.
RomanceRe: Help!!! I Do Not Love Her Again by CosmicJames(m): 8:04pm On Sep 01, 2019
Money2000:
Hello Nlers... Please, I live a couple life in Lagos with my girlfriend of 4 years now.

There is this other girl i have always like, but nothing happened because she had a man.
So, last week she told me she had break up... and my love for her hasn't died yet.

My current gf is faithful and loyal, but my heart keeps telling me that I should break up with her and date the new babe.

Also. My current gf is slender, and I am a guy who cherish big ass. I really dont know what to do, I'm really confused, help!
Learn to love your girl. Decide to make her happy and not the other way around. Think about what you guys have been through. She deserves the the best and not a broken heart.
Please don't hurt her.

But if you insist that you must hurt her, then wait for karma
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Types Of Spirits That Make Nigerian Youths Mentally Lazy And Unproductive by CosmicJames(m): 10:57am On Aug 28, 2019
moneyadulttube:
To add to the list is Betting. It has destroyed the youth's creative and innovative thinking. The earlier it is controlled the better for the future generation. It has also caused the increased fast lane money syndrome in our society today.
FG is making money from betting. Who will then control it and how?
Betting is not the problem of Nigeria. The govt is.
Music/RadioWho Know This Song? "So Amaze To Be In Love" by CosmicJames(op): 1:10am On Aug 27, 2019
Please I'm looking for the song that sings in part:

"So Amaze To Be In Love, Follow You To The Sky Above"

Not sure if I get the lyrics correctly.

I love this song so much.
But I don't know who sings it. I don't also know the title of the song.
I heard it in the background of a radio program.

Please if you know this song, do let me know the title or who sings it in the comment section.

Thank you
RomanceRe: What Made You Fall In Love With Your Present Lover? by CosmicJames(m): 2:12am On Aug 22, 2019
She is so beautiful. I just wanted to have sex with her and move on to another girl. So I approached her and luckily for me, she accepted. I have the sex that I wanted but I got trapped in her love and remain with her till date.

She very loyal, calm, and respectful. I never knew she was a virgin until we get to the end point.
BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 13 by CosmicJames(m): 9:56pm On Aug 21, 2019
fucc12:
it's getting frustrating guy
I don tire
come this weekend if I no chop alabi, I go quit punting
I understand the feeling.
But don't quit. You can win. In fact, you will win!
The biggest question now is;

How Can You Win?

Strategy with little luck. Yes. You need a good strategy to predict the games correctly before you can win.

Don't be in a hurry to get the money. No. It will be hard to win that way.

Take some time to study each league to understand and know their pattern of game. Then you can know what to predict there.

Don't depend on luck alone. Do some research. Calculate and observe
It will take a while to figure it out.

But once you figured it out, you will be on your way to breaking the bank!

For me, I've spent over 6months studying the system and developing my own strategy.

I'm yet to win my first game. But I know that I will surely win. And that I will win big!
So I will not quit
RomanceRe: I Don't Understand Girls by CosmicJames(m): 9:14pm On Aug 18, 2019
Zinny25:
I get him things, Cook in my house and take to him. The cost of transportation from my house to his is #600, I see him often, I have never asked for transportation fare. I go to fast food get him things whenever I wanna visit. what I'm saying in essence is that guys can never be pleased,u ask them for money they call you golddigger,u don't but instead give them they say u r too desperate.

I don't go into relationship for monetary gains, I'm very ok,at least I'm contented with what I have, that's why I keep working hard,next time get your facts straight about me before coming to my comment to rant
You're one in a million!
I pray you meet someone special like you someday
CelebritiesRe: Photos Of DJ Kaywise New House: "Latest Landlord" by CosmicJames(m): 11:00pm On Aug 13, 2019
NoSidonLook:
Nice one for him

God bless his hustle

I wonder why most landlord's nowadays don't like having gardens in their houses

I'm not sure I would own a house without a garden ...no matter how little ...I just love nature's green cool

Anyways congrats to the latest landlord in town cool
Thought I was the only one who see that the compound is too small for a big house like that.
I definitely won't buy such a house.
Although a house with a wider compound space will be more expensive.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Nigerians Spend N730 Billion On Sports Betting Annually by CosmicJames(m): 1:40pm On Aug 13, 2019
millionboi2:
I was happy wen I saw d amount as I know 1b is my share
Your head dey there.
My share there na over 50b!
RomanceRe: Groom Walks Out After Seeing Bride Kiss Another Man On Wedding Day (Video) by CosmicJames(m): 10:43am On Aug 13, 2019
Kennitrust:
The nature of women is very complex
Nothing complex about this.
Just pure stupidity and foolishness on the side of this very woman.
I think nemesis just catch up with her.
I think she will make a bad wife to kiss another guy on their wedding day
BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 13 by CosmicJames(m): 3:28am On Aug 13, 2019
Rootprof:
Brazil league very hard to predict... Carry them over they will play under play them under they will play over play them straight win they will play draw now play them draw weaker team will win cry
Avoid some country leagues until you fully understand them. Don't bet in every league.
The work of some league is to cut people's slips.

Predict only where they usually play what you expect most of the time.
It will increase the accuracy of your predictions.
BusinessRe: Introduction To Dropshipping Business - How To Make Over $3000 - Free Tutorial by CosmicJames(op): 3:04am On Aug 13, 2019
CosmicJames:
First, there were always tough challenges in the way of doing most of the things I now share especially this dropshipping business of which were overcames a couple of months ago.

Secondly, the truth is that I love sharing and helping people. Another truth is that I now know a whole lot of things on making money online.
The last but not the least truth is that there is no way I can practically do everything that I know, but I can actually share them if I want.

That's why if you observe carefully, I usually said "How To Make" and not "How I Make" in my headlines to give room for honesty because I don't deceive or scam people.
And by the special grace of God, through my teachings, help and support, a lot of people have benefited in one way or the other. Some are actually making money online, and they are ever grateful

I'm actually active in the game bro. But I'm now very selective about the online business model I work and concentrate on based on my level of knowledge now.

Did you know about Kikimat, the social network for the next generation? That's a project I personally created. Kikimat, when fully developed to its full potential will be generating millions of Dollars/month in the new future.

I also have in place a solid plan to launch other great projects like job marketplace similar to Fiverr and a full-fledged e-commerce platform where you can open a store and sell your products on the platform like it is done on eBay and Amazon and Etsy in the future.

So you see, I have some really big dreams and the things I now share are very primary to me so I don't care given them away free. You will agree with me that most of the things I share freely are far better than what some people put in an e-book and sell for money

A teacher who teach doesn't need to do all that he teaches. But if you follow what he teaches, you will succeed.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Nigerians Spend N730 Billion On Sports Betting Annually by CosmicJames(m):
DameB:
How does one cash in on this? 2 billion dollars nor be small money shocked shocked
Strategy. Now you know this kind of money is up already for grabs. You have to develop a strategy that can help you get your own share in the billions that are changing hands everyday.

Don't depend on luck alone. Use the available datas and information to do your calculations and you will do well. You can predict some game correctly and win.

You can't win every time. But as long as your winning is greater than your losses, then the biz is profitable

We also ask the question you asked and are discussing how to get own share of the billions. You can join us in our fb group
CelebritiesRe: Toyin Lawani Charges Men N20million To Get Down With Her by CosmicJames(m): 9:48am On Aug 06, 2019
adebayo10977:
I don't need to Bleep her again with my hard earned money cuz I've already seen her pussy beneath the transparent pant she wore..........
Everything is open already.
What's there again to see?
RomanceRe: Having Difficulty In Deflowering My Virgin Wife by CosmicJames(m): 8:02am On Aug 06, 2019
Skmoda:
She changed due to influence of friends and she also develops bad character.....that I bear for long before everything go kablooey....
I see. That was really bad of her.
The friends changed her.
Mine doesn't keep friends like that and is helping
RomanceRe: If Your Girl Does These 5 Things, Then She’s The Best For You by CosmicJames(m): 7:58am On Aug 06, 2019
pacino26:
Mehn I doubt. There's the 21 question more like 40 sef;

Did she stay back when you wanted to resign from a posh job and start up on your own?

Did she allow you to send a car present home when you guys are yet to use one for flexing?

Did she commit to move in with your parents while you roam the country?

Did she give up everything including a career path cuz she believes you're more than anything in the world?

Now has she been faithful to the point where you can take an oath to that fact if asked to?

Have you sold a car present you got for her and she didn't complain about it? angry

You know I understand you saying you're luckier but nnam I'm they luckiest cheesy
OK, ok. Got it. I think you and I are the luckiest guys in the world!

Sometimes I even wonder what I have done to deserve her
RomanceRe: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by CosmicJames(m): 7:48am On Aug 06, 2019
SingleGuy9999:
bro I've thought of lowering my standards already but it's not like they are high before...I find it hard to relate well with these high class girls so normally I tend to vibe more with normal average girls, tho I noticed Im more attracted to fair girls but I've liked like 2 dark girls before...
I don't see how I wanna lower my standards again except u mean I should purposely go for girls I'm not into...and that's not what I want, I want someone I care about
And as for confidence, I can't build it up when I keep getting rejected, no matter how much I try when I think of asking a girl out I always get the feeling that it'll end same way...
Seems only way to genuinely build up that confidence towards girls is to be accepted at least once
I can't imagine getting rejected 7 times in a roll!
Honestly, that's will be too to handle.
But do not worry brother.

You will get a girl that will say yes to you - guaranteed.

But there is something you must do before you approach any girl again.
Good a thing, it doesn't require money so you are good to go.

I spotted the problem you are having and is not money or physical outlook.

I understand that this is a matter of importance to you. So I take time to explain things and in the dimension that let you see the light of the day.

Read carefully. What I'm going to tell you now will save you from rejection, boost your confidence and get you not only girls but whatever you want. Maybe no body have told you what I'm about to tell you now. But it's actually your problem and you must solve it first. Your problem is you! Not the girls. I will explain below.

Here it comes.

Connect with your other Self (Your Inner Man Or Inner Voice)

You are scattered from within. You do not even agree with yourself that you will get a girl before starting the approach. You can't succeed that way.

Is just like you are traveling north, but you are going south. You will never arrive at your destination. As a matter of fact, your inner voice is always telling you something each time but you seem not to agree with inner voice or you never listens.

Your inner voice actually told you not to go after many of those girls that rejected you. But it either you ignore or didn't listen. Funny enough, it (ur inner voice) will still return to inform you that you were informed not to go after that girl but you didn't listen. This will in turn weaken your spirit, kills your morals and destroy your confidence faster.
Make it a point to always listen to your inner voice.

If your inner voice say don't go after her, then save yourself the stress. But if your inner voice say go after her, then fire down! But accept her in your mind first. Believe that she will say YES to you.

Make your imagination positive. You will get a girl. This thing is not hard. But it must happen in your mind first. The real problem is that rejection is happening in your mind. That has to be changed. This will take us to the next point - your state of mind.

Change Your state of Mind (your belief)

Yes, you will have to change your state of mind from rejection to Acceptance. This is of prime importance.
You do not believe you will get the girls before you start. You actually believe you won't get the girls and that the girls will reject you before you even start going after them. Then at the end you wonder why you are being rejected each time?

It will surprise you, but you are actually the one rejecting these girls. The girls really want to be with you. But by default, you are rejecting them.

You have to agree with your inner voice then accept them first in your mind before you start.

It's not magic. Nothing is wrong with you. It's just your mind condition. Your mind is sabotaging your efforts. It is unknown to you. But your mind develop this way over time after multiple rejections.
You now have the belief that a girl will reject you even before you approach her. And what you believe have a way of determining what happens to you.

I don't have enough time to explain the last point which is your Mentality towards women. But if you understand and apply these two points that have been explained, then the last point will fall in place.

Good luck brother
RomanceRe: If Your Girl Does These 5 Things, Then She’s The Best For You by CosmicJames(m): 11:07pm On Aug 05, 2019
pacino26:
You get to see five every century, counting yours and mine I think they are just three left. cheesy cheesy cheesy
� lough wan kill me! That's a very tiny stats.
Let say 1 in every 1,000.
But like seriously, these set of girls seems to be on the moon. A high powered Rocket is required to go to the moon and bring them down.

Does she stay when the going gets tough (no money) and allows you to have sex at will and at anytime?

Does she pay her T fare to come visit you even when she's not working and never complain

Does she bear with you and believe in you?

Does she take you for who you are, make you happy and give you peace of mind?

Is she contented and happy with what you give to her even though it is not much?

Is she happy to be with you?

I can continue. But let me just stop here.

Looks like I'm luckier than you in this regard brother.
RomanceRe: If Your Girl Does These 5 Things, Then She’s The Best For You by CosmicJames(m): 6:30pm On Aug 05, 2019
pacino26:
My apologies bro, I understand you've been on the wrong side of romance cheesy cheesy cheesy

Some of us are very lucky to have such ladies described above in our lives. My advice is that you get a girl who sees you more than you see yourself daily in the mirror. Till then don't overrule the qualities listed.
You right. Some of us that enjoys the listed qualities are very lucky. To be honest, such ladies are very rare to come by.

They may be just five out of every 200 women.
That's why it's sounds like a mirage to many guys
RomanceRe: If Your Girl Does These 5 Things, Then She’s The Best For You by CosmicJames(m): 6:21pm On Aug 05, 2019
ubunja:
It's not human nature. Air is free but we value it.

We are trained to consider easy women as sluts and hard to get women as virtuous.

Teenage boys kissing girls don't consider the girls sluts. It's when they grow up that they get indoctrinated that girls that are easy to kiss are sluts
Yeah, I got it wrong there. It's actually not human nature. Rather a kind of set of believe that have been garbaged in
RomanceRe: If Your Girl Does These 5 Things, Then She’s The Best For You by CosmicJames(m): 6:14pm On Aug 05, 2019
ubunja:
it's funny because women only see you as an ATM.
Lose your job she goes.

Don't let emotions cloud you on this one.










Also, what do you need from a woman that you can't do for yourself?
No. I'm not clouded with any emotion.
But I see a thought pattern that's not very correct.
I'm trying to correct it. But if you insist that you must continue with such thought pattern, then fine. I will have to hold my peace. After all, you are entitle to your opinion.

I understand your point though. But it appears no woman have chosen you yet. Otherwise you wouldn't have been generalizing things like this.

All women are not the same. Not every woman will see you as an ATM. It actually depends on what the woman wants.

Let me introduce @Maria to answer you in this regard, and I quote:

"when a woman cherishes you, she does everything she can do to see you happy. Yes men choose who they marry, but women choose who they want to make happy. A happy marriage is one in which the man marries one who is ready to sacrifice all for him"

What will you say about that?

Women are more than just a sex intimacy gadget.
A good woman can be a source of happiness to a man
RomanceRe: If Your Girl Does These 5 Things, Then She’s The Best For You by CosmicJames(m): 5:35pm On Aug 05, 2019
ubunja:
yes sir.

We're trained to believe "easy come easy go"
But it's not true.
No. We are not trained to believe it.
And it doesn't apply to women alone.
It's just human nature not to value what they get easily.
I nearly lost the best girl ever as a result of such bad mentality because she falls in easily.

But I'm lucky enough not to loose her.
I use my six sense though

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