₦airaland Forum

michelin89:
Are you saying that the woman is on the same level with animals? That's what I understand from your post. Since the woman was created later her role isn't more important than that of a donkey or a horse or a camel men use for transportation. Just like these animals all a woman can do is give birth and take care of the kids and of the man.

That's not what am saying. what am really saying is that The woman is a helper God created for the man. he didn't creat her to rule over tht man but to assist him when he needs her most.

Genesis 2:20-22

But for Adam [a] no suitable helper was found. 21 So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man's ribs and closed up the place with flesh. 22 Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib [c] he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man
That's why you say "behind a successful man, there's always a woman."
Your role in a family is to [b]assist, Help not to rule.

michelin89:
You can't use just the Nigerian culture to prove that men are meant to be leaders. the fact that they are here doesn't imply it should be so worldwide. If the rest of the world was of the same opinion nothing like women emancipation would be today. Get your facts right: Nigeria isn't equal to the world. There are still some matriarchal societies out there.

What other culture is there to use.
Even in Overseas, when a girl is getting married, it's her father that gives her out not the mother.
If you're planing to become the head of your family, it's ok after all we're in a free world. Everyone is free to express his/herself.
But note: the man is the head of the family because nature made him so.
And if you don't believe in God, then common sense would let every wise individual read between the lines.

michelin89:
If people really think men are born to rule, why would they in the first place elelect a female president? Who cares if the number is minor but just the fact that a woman has become a president, a leader of a country where there are both men and women is enough to say that this leadership role isn't natural and a divine order as you claim (definitely it isn't a divine order as GOD DOESN'T EXIST)

We're in the 21st century.
That a country elected a female president doesn't make the woman dominant over the man. What happened is civilization. People of nowadys believe that a woman should have the same rights as the man. That's why in our world today, you can find female ministers, female governors, female lawyers,and even a female president.
But note one thing: this women all have husbands. And their position in the country or their present status doesn't make them superior over their husbands. They still take others from their men, they are submissive and also very mute on delicate issues that concerns the family.
If a woman in this field feels she can over throw her husband, believe me there would be no peace in that family and she would be the one to have the regrets.

michelin89:
I'll spare my comment because I have nothing to say concerning the content of a book I have an inexistent consideration for!

What's your religion?

bri:
thanks crazy kid for that
but don´t u think this can also happen when someone is lusting(pretence)?

It can't happen.
Lust is different from love. It doesn't last that long and the guy would be more intrested in making love with you than confinding in you on delicate issues.

uchetobi:
Besides guys are more troublesome and restless.

Habba!

Hmm

_{Has my application been taken?}

Everyone isn't a fraudster.
It depends. I know that there are lots of average Nigerians who are trust worthy.

The way he looks at you,

The way he talks to you

How he react towards you when he's angry

How easily he confides in you. ie tells you hidden things about his past.

The way he treats you in the presence of his friends.

The way he responds to you when you need him most.

Those are the basic things a girl needs to know when she claims to be in love with a guy.

Go and write a book. You will make some money from it.

Here is my Cv.

Surname Name: Kid

Other names: Crazy

Date of birth: 22- 3- 1920

Place of birth: In the forest

Sex: male

Nationality: Biafra

Religion: Hindu

Home Address: 21 rituals road opposite 419 bus-stop Ikeja Lagos Nigeria

Phone Number: 23401

E-mail: crazy-kid01@hotmail.com

Marital status: Both (married and single depends on how you look at it)

Name of schools attended: Peoples mental school Ikeja 1921- 1922
Obtained a degree in madness there.

1923-1933: Crazy institution of Nigeria Bsc in Abnormal behaviour.

Working experience: In relationship 1940-1950

Another relationship: 1950-1955

Marriage: 1955-1960

Divorce: 1960-1970

Marriage again: 1970-2000

Single again: 2000-till date

Number of Children: Uncountable.


References:
1: Seun Owner of Nairaland
phone number never mind

2. Jaybaby:

3. Marlet01:

This is my humbe cv.
If my application is taken, try as much as possible to get me informed.

Have a lovely day.

Put you picture so we would know if you sef _fine

It can work provided that both of you are in love.

But if you become too choosy like you are doing.
"she's too fat"
she's to dark
she's too tall
she's too short
Then you are the one whose going to ruin that relatioship because you won't be able to believe in yourself that something good can come out of it.

Oracle:
when i read the subject i thought it was Olusegun Obasanjo's wedding

Me too

Am planing on having 3 children. [2 boys 1 girl]

Whoever comes first doesn't really matter.

Omo Eko:
You want a loving boyfriend from Nairaland , and why don't wait for the guys to ran after you, abi you be wowo girl.

kitaun:
chei!!!

my landline no is 0404402401K . . . NO MIND THE K JARE

or beta still my Gsm no; 080-Kit-419-666 - - -> toll free

expecting your call, midnite call too welcome

Lmao

A man was always complaining to God how lazy his wife was.
One Night, he felt he had enough and when he went to bed, he prayed to God.

Dear Lord he said, I go to work everyday and put in 8 hours while my wife merely stays at home. Am sick and tired of all this, I want her to know what I go through. So please allow her body to switch with mine for a day Amen.

God in his infinite wisdom granted him his wish.

The next morning, when he woke up, he was transformed into a woman.
He arose, cooked breakfast for his wife who was now a man, woke up the kids, set out their clothes, fed them breakfast, packed their lunches, drove them to school, came home and picked up the dry cleaning, took it to the cleaners and stopped at the bank to make a deposit, went groceries, paid the bills and balanced the checkbook.

By the time he bathed the dog, it was already I: PM. He hurried to make the beds, dust and mop the kitchen floor, ran to the school to pick up the kids and got into an argument with them on the way home.

When they got home, he got them organized to do their home work, then set up the ironing board and watched TV while he did the ironing.

At 4:30PM, he began peeling yams and washing vegetables for porridge.

After supper, he cleaned the kitchen, ran the dish washer, folded the lundry, bathed the kids and put them to bed.

At 9: Pm he was exhausted. Though his daily chores weren’t finished, he went to bed, and as expected, he made love with his wife who had become a man.

The next morning, he awoke and immediately knelt by the bed and said.
H lord, I don’t know what I was thinking all day.
Please, Oh please, transform me back into a man.

The lord in his infinite wisdom replied: My son, I feel you’ve learnt your lesson and I will be happy to transform you back to a man.

But things are different now my son. You got pregnant last night which means you will have to wait for nine months.

Why can't you control yourself.
You are the one who said you love the girl. So if you claim to be in love as you said, why couldn't you put it into pratice?

If she was the one who did this to you, how would you feel?

He must have eaten too much

:-x

Next time she comes to you, tell her what's on your mind.

Because if that relationship continues, believe me you might get into a serious quarrel with your brother

Hm

nice one just like your name.

michelin89:
I don't think that passage was meant to be interpreted literally. Even the Christian phylosophy agrees that the image the bible was referring to wasn't physical but rather emotional and spiritual. Henceforth it can't be used as an evidence of the leadership of man!

Why not?

God created man first and gave him dominion over the whole earth.
If you need traditional explanation, that isn't a problem.

When a girl is getting married, who does the guy pay bride price to?
Who gives out the girl to the guy? Isn’t it the father?
Why can't the mother say hey I carried her in my womb for nine months so anything thing that concerns her is my business?

Also in terms of leadership, it still falls back to men.
How many female leaders do we have?

It’s even in the bible

1 Corinthians 14:33-35

33For God is not a God of disorder but of peace.
As in all the congregations of the saints, 34women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says. 35If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak

have you heard that?
Am woman must inquire from her husband why?
Because he is the head of the home full stop.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

Na wah oh!

I would love to meet all the beautiful girls on Nairaland

There's nothing difficult to understand. It's no longer news again

Genesis 1:26-28

26 Then God said, "Let us make man in our image, in our likeness, and let them rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air, over the livestock, over all the earth, [a] and over all the creatures that move along the ground."

27 So God created man in his own image,
in the image of God he created him;
male and female he created them.

28 God blessed them and said to them, "Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air and over every living creature that moves on the ground."

Man is in the likeness of God so he has to be the head.
The woman is just a rib God took out from the man while he was in a deep sleep to creat.

Ok thanks for the advise

Hmmmm.

If i have that kind of dog, i won't bother closing my doors before going to bed.