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doughziay:
Not rape or unfavourable circumstances dear

She dated the guy for 3years and blamed the incident on 'mistake'

But why would ladies who have a child or two decide to be silent about it until u are deep down in the relationship?

What's the difference saying it at the beginning or after a long period of time. To me, they are the same.

Not always.. The man gets to know the woman without any bias. When you know who she is deep down, then U can decide if she is worth it/not. Telling the guy later increases her chances of still being in that relationship..

....tho i'd rather he knows from the start.

hmm...

DarkTroll:
Leave me be! Ordinary e-kiss u no fit gimme.

Oya take
- Monday
- Tuesday
- Wednesday
- Thursday
- Friday
- Saturday
- Sunday

...one for each day of the week.

Kondomatic:
Abia.



You sure say your hand go reach my face? #lmao

With my Denrele-heels, I'll make a permanent partition in the middle of ur head!

DarkTroll:
Too used to that to quit now.

And I have friends who drink less and excerice as much as I do , but they have sagging stomachs nonetheless.

I think I'm unduly favoured by the gods

Vain much!

Kondomatic:
Wetin you go do? Beat me?

Ul wish ur eyes looked as good as that pix when I'm done!

Kondomatic:
Her eyes and lips be like Creamish own.

Hahahahahahaha. Tallesty1.. If I catch u!!

dre11:
www.punchng.com/pastor-catches-wife-in-hotel-with-choirmaster/

Happy birthday dear. Hope ur day was n still is awesome. Many more years!

MarieSucre:
Creamish
Sixix

I am sorry both. I apologize for the deception. If you had only gone through my post history you would have immediately known that I am not only female but also speak out for women. I was trolling with heavy layers of sarcasm.

Ndo, ejo, I am sorry. Hope it has started raining in your side o. This heat no be here.

No ish babe.. D yeye rain only fell once..yday night.praying for a repeat.

joseph1832:
Oh lord! Have I made myself appear to thee that I want to argue? God no, that's not my intention cream.

I'm sorry.

Hey.. We cool.

joseph1832:
Personally I believe women beg more than men.

A man can't just meet you today, then whosh, he's asking you for money for bb subscription or whatever...

Its not a battle of who does it the most... Its knowing that begging isn't restricted to any gender..and yes they do...maybe not for subscription but for other things.

I don't want to argue on this Joe.

vivalavida:
U mean men beg? I doubt this. Men kwa? Mba nu

Lolz... Ur surprised? I guess its because ur ish is with ladies.. Yeah some men ask for assistance but personally, I help only those I feel are genuine.

Back to ur post... Get back wit ur girl. U never know what u have till its gone. I don't fancy the idea of begging. Very degrading.. Sheesh.

AVRecruit:
i have a working class female friend. when she gives birth she does not want to take about 3 years off work to care for the child. She said why should she be the one to take the time off and not the father i.e. feminist mentality. I then asked her where are the breasts the man will use to breast feed the baby - she didnt say anything again.

3 years off work? Wow. Wherez DAT done?

dmcdad:
Don't worry I'm with you. Anybody wey want trouble you on this matter just mention me. I dey your back.

Thanks Twinnie!

lezz:
I thought you'll accompany that with a kiss

dmcdad:
Well... I get your point. As for the emboldened, I guess I am the wrong person cause I am never in support of infidelity either from the man or from the woman. So, I guess for your mischief, your shot hit bar.

Besides, relax babe. 19th of... no dey do anyhow.

Yeah...we no de do anyhow. Just giving dem a lil shake..

lezz:
My creamish, I cannot beleive you have that opinion of me. How can you infer that I will suggest cheating is a man's birthright?

You'll soon be gauging the level of my faithfulness personally.

I already am... Doesn't change ur opinion on it does it?

lezz:
I am yet to meet a pastor whose wife's love for him has not been dimmed and dampen by the demands of Sunday rites and Congregational demands.

Pastors are often wont to make the church a rival for the affection of their wives.

And I rank pastors amongst

Celebrities
Politicians
Native doctors

Whose marital partners are often deprived of regular _fuck and attention.

Yeah UV a point there..

dmcdad:
Calm down sist... Its easier said than done. Although frankly, I am not a party to divorce, but then, this will be a very hard pill to swallow.

Its a hard pill for anybody to swallow... I only made DAT statement cos some men believe its their God given right to cheat and they have recently deemed it necessary to inform women to swallow it without complaint.

....and I'm also in d mood for some small mischief..

postmann:
I don't see any problem giving paternity leave to men.
As long as it was not forced on him.

I'm well aware of the paternity leave debate a couple of years back in the UK.

If it was conceived with good intentions, it is very much welcome. But it shouldn't be forced on any man.

Equal salary for same job description. Well, for government establishments where profit is of minimal value, I don't see it as a problem.

But for the privately owned, profit oriented firms, that's injustice.
Even in America, women don't earn as much as men in the same job description.

There is a ceiling to the gender pretence.


In my work dispensation, we get to calculate total man hour and we find out women are lacking behind considerably and so is their total output.

This is not debatable. It is obvious.

@last line... OK then. No debate coming from me.

joseph1832:
What if both husband and wife work in the same organization?

Both are allowed to go.. (Again speaking from my experience).

Toks2008:
www.nairaland.com/2560505/before-divorce-adulterous-wife

Naa... U believe its OK for men to cheat and for their wives to remain n not complain... Cos men r wired to be polygamous... Etc..

And from ur article, u won't take ur wife cheating a second time... But she should be able to take u cheating all the time.. I'm just err..wondering why ud be pissed and expect her not to be pissed...

Feminism crap aside, some organizations (like mine) give Paternity leave to men who's wives just put to bed..

Equal salary shouldn't rily be a problem when its the same job description...

My opinion tho..

Lezz & Toks2008 ... I guess u should tell d pastor DAT d wife luvs him...and luv doesn't translate to loyalty. He shouldn't leave d wife just because she cheated...

Yomieluv:
Since i got married last year,i just realized that the rate women come after me has turned to an alarming rate. Despite knowing my marital status,some dont care.

The last straw was when a married woman within my office openly profess love to me yesterday. It takes God's grace for me to overcome the temptations.

Has anyone noticed this,or expreinced this?

Sad reality of life. I pray more grace for u and all responsible married men out there.

Ur post is true only when the man is sensible. Some allow the new wealth distract them no matter how much d babe did for him. Dem go still cheat or dump d babe.

Kondomatic:
Goan sleep

Goan unban yasef!

Dahveydson:
True.. Lol, he sure owes you guys! You should be a shareholder or something.

I wish... nwayz, I miss the good'ol days..and the good ppl we had then..

newpisces:
I take it that you are have a nice job and/or financially ok. If you see why and where guys are desperate to get a source of living, you will understand why they will sign any contract as long as they have the job.
May God deliver our youths from poverty.

Life is harsh. Iv had my fair share of hardship. For over a year back in 2006, I earned 30k monthly with a lot of responsibilities. Keep working hard and u will rise. I totally understand why someone will sign up for a contract job..

but my point is..

Don't get a headache over something U cannot change. Make the best of what you have currently and U will be lifted at the right time. I'm speaking from experience cos Iv seen a lot. No condition is permanent.

Dahveydson:
Just went through the first pages of this thread, awed at the kind of fun that use to be on NL.


And creamish, the fact that you've been a NLander for so long is just wow!

U know back then, internet wasn't readily available for kids... so it was fun. We stood by Seun thru thick n thin. He owes us.. lolz.

amokeme:
wow! Wow! Wow! you got to be kidding me! what did I just read?? Oh my goodness, ma( that is if you are a woman which I strongly doubt), you must have been through alot . May God liberate you in Jesus name!
Things are happening g in this life...

@ Kondomatic I think this is your kind of woman.

A man is behind that handle. It's waayyy too obvious. Either that or she has been irredeemably brainwashed.

misreal:
oh lawd,somebody get me a diamond ring and a diamond suv,i have seen my wife..runs away from thread to tell my mama..



pls marriage is not slavery madam.and not everything is the woman's fault.

Ul end up marrying a man... datz no woman there..