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Strange but why not?

Synzu:
This ashawo don start again

LMAO... Lezz d Lyricist!

lezz:
He is our domiciled, insecure, buffoonish, skeletal bozo, who steals rap lines from Facebook and got banned for 6months.

My sweet thoughts exactly!

coolscott:
The thing about having exes like that is that your man will know you slept with them (just as their own spouses know you did intimate things with their better halves if introductions are ever made)

My man has his own exes. He is mature enuff to know not to bother having headaches for nuttn.

Like I said, I know where to draw the borderline. U don't go having friendly hangout wit ur exes... Datz a No-No! Our communication starts and ends wit "Hi..howz d family?" "fine thanks." "Enjoy ur day! and regards to them". Everyone knows and respects their boundaries.

The fact that I'm able to greet or respond to them when greeted means there is no enmity.

stephanos:
its over 6years of friendship and i just take him as a brother, knows everyone in my family though the young lady is known to just few

As unfortunate as d situation is, I think you should talk to him. If he isn't ready to be in a relationship wit her, he should let her go. Ur feelings for her might affect your relationship wit ur friend. Are you willing to take that risk? If yes, ur friend needs to know ur intentions cos he might feel betrayed if he finds out for himself.

Well...u know ur friend better than we do. If ur sure he wouldn't mind u dating his ex, then go ahead. But tread carefully.. Be sure it's worth the risk before beginning anything with her.

If u don't want to date her, avoid her at all cost.

Its a dicey situation. How much does ur friendship wit this guy mean to u?

lezz:
My friend shut tha fvck up, you insecure sleazebag. Darkenedbaboon!!!

1 you have only spent 4hrs in nairaland yet you are qualified to rank who Nairaland best phraseologists are? Compaoun nuisance

2. Until now you have only made I post this month

3. Until now you have only 5 post for the whole of 2016

4. You have only 12 posts to this account and you deny being an alternate? Self-wanking _imbecile.

You are organically _stupid if you think you pulled this off.

Your account is just a cowardly, self-worshiping alternate of someone who is desperate to be part of the swing of events. You're a fraud and a self-doubting kid.

4hrs duration on your entire Nairaland duration and you know everyone? Bwahahaha. Desperation really blurred your need to be thorough.

...I think I know who DAT is....

darkenedrebel:
Exactly, Agbo Areo cannot drink from the same chalice as Lascelles Abercrombie. It would be a taboo if they decide to tread the same pathway.

Whatever rocks ur canoe. Enuff wit d mentions. U will be ignored.

darkenedrebel:
I've humbled myself by tendering an apology for that - and in return, you chose to bloviate with this comment(& the first part of it that I considered inappurtenant by erasing) So abeg, park well. Message gotten loud & clear!

Whatever Dark... U owe me nuttn. We are clearly not on d same virtual path.

Hey Lezz.. Ur name should be up there.. Or are u playing the humility card?

Okijajuju1:
Do you know why Konji na Bastard? Because e no get Discipline..

...To whom it may concern...



...it does not concern me.

Okijajuju1:
Have you heard the 'old firewood' saying..

Drawn lines can always be erased o..


#Just Saying.


_{Barman, bring 1 Fanta Ginger ale make I take hold body for old time sake.}

hehehe... not in my case. It's called discipline.

takuradua:
Known to you intooto and lady a semi family member already with wedding just a formality

My point here is...as a sister, I will know both sides of the story. As it is, I cannot give a candid sisterly advice.

As an NL reader, Il advise he leaves the babe...esp if it got him depressed.

Hallenjay:
u stuck dem in friendzone

D'u even understand the concept of Friendzone?

How do u friendzone an ex when both o'y'all moved on amicably? This isn't an FWB issue..so don't get it twisted as well. We date, we break up, we move on, life goes on. No enmity.


Strange but true

OP... ask ur Dad why Bride Price is paid.. U seem to have things mixed up here. How much is this Bride Price that is giving you so much concern?

Secondly .. If this issue irks u so much, then U and your male folks need to ZIP up!

takuradua:
Imagine you are his sister...... Now advice...

Am I just entering the picture of his story at this point or do I know the history of their relationship?

takuradua:
Is that important now?

It's a factor to consider if the guy in question wants to make a sincere decision.

Haywhymido:
dat is how all some women behave, regardless of age. they see demselves as competitors. U people r really ur own worst enemy.

corrected.

JoeBlocks:
Really? Like you attend the wedding?

I could if I want to. Funny enuff, all my exes are still friends of mine. I know where to draw the borderline tho.

JoeBlocks:
How can we be sure be cheated? He was never caught with his pen1s in another girls vagina was he?

Well..we will never know..will we?

Awkward initially but when I get used to the union, it's aight.

OK...so.. while he was in the US, he dint cheat right? If he is so troubled, he can end the engagement.

darkenedrebel:
Your men? This is not a battle of the séxes.

Joan of Arc didn't die for the love of her country. She was burnt on stake because of her refusal to denounce Christ. Just like St. Agnes, St. Paul and so many others saints. That's not the type of love the pic op posted is talking about.



Juliet loved Romeo but committing suicide after finding out your lover is dead is not love, it's obsession.
I refuse to talk about the others anymore to avoid aggravating any kerfuffle.



Relax. It was a sarcastic compliment. It doesn't mean you are a child. I didn't know who Stella Adadevoh was until you mentioned her as well.

You know what, I don't think you're mad cos I said I was impressed with the "Parveen" büllshït. I think you are still mad from our convo where I misread your comment on "discipled" and tried to turn it around instead of admitting my error.
Okay, I'm sorry and I apologise. Can we please move past this?

I don't get mad at pple FYI. I just weigh the significance of whatever lil impact they've had so far in my life and advise myself on whether they are worth my time or not...especially after having some conversation/meeting with them. I'd rather ignore and move past anyone who I might find less important than dilly-dally words or mix spaces with them.

What irked me about our last convo wasn't about the misunderstanding of my view...but ur final comment... d one I chose to ignore.

dhebo:
and u still went ahead to withdraw?u for dance shoki if for say d thing fall on u

A very silly move..her point could have easily been proven with a snapshot of the ATM from a lil distance..

mazizitonene:
yea, i garrit. i know ur type....... you dont wana let ya feelings out yet.....no p, i've got loadsa patience not jonathan tho........

meanwhile i'l be right here watching yhu.........and d initial formnz ....

....and then it happened that in the year 3016 AD, archaeologists discover d remains of a man who legend says died patiently waiting for the moon to turn blue..

darkenedrebel:
You know Farzana Parveen?. What have you been reading? I'm impressed!!.

•Joan of Arc was martyred for her faith like many other Catholic saints. She didn't die for a loved one, neither did Stella or Mother Theresa.

The ones that did close to such on the list are Parveen & Juliet, and it wasn't even sacrificial love - like when you place your head in the guillotine so that a comrade can live. Parveen broke a law in the Sharia. And She(Juliet) only stabbed herself after she found Romeo dead. It became obsession and not love the minute she did that, don't you think?

Ur men died for individual luv. Joan and Stella died for the luv of their country. I don't see how that isn't praise worthy..

Parveen married d man she luvd knowing fully well the consequences and she was killed for it.

Mother Theresa died from an illness she got while caring for the poor and sick in India... If that isn't luv, then I dunno what is..

Juliet could av easily moved on after Romeo died..but she didn't cos she couldn't imagine life without him.. She died for the luv she had for him.

As for u being impressed cos I know about Parveen.. Gimme a break. I'm not a child. ..

JoeBlocks:
Of course, I've seen it like 3 times. Mind you, I have a wedding this Saturday to attend and the bride wants to do this same washing of her husbands feet.

OK..well datz new to me. Strange but OK I guess. Take pics pls..

JoeBlocks:
Not really, what makes me different from you is because I look at things holistically, not myopically.

Innovation is a concept that many add to so many things... Once upon a time, pre wedding pictures weren't really a big deal in Nigeria.

So.... Have u ever seen a bride washing the groom's feet at a wedding?

mazizitonene:
see how she tactically avoid my proposal

anyway sha.....your point has been duly noted

mazizitonene:
awww.....but hey, i dont mind though, we could share you know...afterall itz all about love....and there is love in sharing
and since you support gender equality...we can turn the rules and let you marry more than one husband (polyandry)......
and oh, and dont worry, you'l be the bread winner, i'l be one of the house husbands......wacha say ?....yhu agree ?

Not sure how u got the "I support gender equality" from the list i gave.

Nwayz... Im neither for nor against Gender Equality. I wont go all out advocating for any gender rights.. If any woman wants to do whatever, I dont see why she can't. Same applies to men. We must not speak many many english to justify anything. Nowadays, we have transgenders...men who'd rather be women and women who'd rather be men... Gender issues everywhere..

As long as I live, I will do whatever I want to do because I want to do it...not because of any gender equality brouhaha..

..at least she isn't leading u on.. Let her be for ur sanity sake.

JoeBlocks:
Yet another thread where the OP is just giving his opinion, but you can't seem to ignore the progesterone coming from Estharfabian, adaure4ever and the likes...


I mean, how come its okay for a guy to kneel down and propose to a girl and most guys don't see it as demeaning and not okay for a girl to kneel down and wash her husband's feet at their weeding and most girls see it as demeaning?

And here I go giving my own opinion.

Is this act done really in any wedding? never heard..