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IamLEGEND1:
we're all allowed a little bit of shallowness

and there is something called a gym these days

and I know how women love to complain about how little time they have to even think of hitting the gym........ I'll do whatever I can to help free up some time for the lady.

afterall, we're in it together forever right. so we might as well enjoy it. physically and otherwise.

I don't expect you to all of a sudden start looking like a model,but just something visually stimulating. is that too much to ask for?

you won't like going out with ur lady and people be thinking she is ur elder sister.

This post makes better sense than ur 1st.

dmcdad:
Wow... Thats not bad. I just hope you aint seeing these guys, you know....

And I hope they dont see you or cross your path.

Amen oo...Wont ever see them.

Thanks & Enjoy ur day!

dmcdad:
Fine fine fine.

You around Lag?

naa...up north.

dmcdad:
Hello birthday mate. How is it going?

Going well thanks. Howdy?

Na Sacred cows? A place where cows have more value than humans...

Nwayz..not my problem..

Blackeard:
gee...I wonder why

Lol.. U just had to..right?

Bon nuit et bon rêve..

tellwisdom:
Una no dey get tired of this "Talk to her" lines?? Gosh

In marriage, communication is key & can never be overdone. The moment it gets tiring for u, issues will build up so fast, depression will set in & d cracks gradually break up ur home.

OP is in a lifetime commitment.. Not some bf gf house play ..

SMH... I guess nuttn is "un-stealable" nowadays..

RiloKiley:
Nope. She's not the romantic type if thats what you mean. she's very down to earth.
Okay dont laugh but yesterday when she noticed I wasn't happy she went and made a special dish for me, kept it hot till I was ready to eat. Its not her normal behaviour. Does that count?

Ofcourse that counts!!!!!!


Like I said..not everyone knows how to say "Sorry" or "Thank you"...but in their actions, U'll see it. Never overlook anything done out of the ordinary. She'z aight. Still have that talk with her but atleast now U have a faint idea of the kinda person she just might be.

U cannot allow urself wallow up in depression. Sit her down and have a heart-to-heart talk with her. Spare no detail. Let her know exactly whatz going on in ur mind/heart. Shez not a mind reader so until u guys have this talk, she may never know shez hurting u badly.

Im glad U take care of her but i want to ask U honestly.. I know some people rily don't verbally appreciate ppl but they make some gestures of appreciation...something U might overlook or shrug off.. Have U ever noticed her doing anything for u which might be out of the ordinary?

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Rainess:
It's not a tattoo, it is paint...

I tire oo... Big difference..

Looks like a painting by an artist playing with colours..

Toke killed it! ... Nice.

BUTCHCASSIDY:
Congrats. Lemme guess
you met her on nairaland shey?

Oya O desperate assbkissing niggas there is hope for una. Keep sending those PMs

Someonez jealous....

Tallesty1:
That's what happens when you allow your children to have everything their way.

Modern day parents need to learn how to say "NO" and mean it.

If you allow you child/children to have everything their own way then expect disaster the first time you will say "No" to their request.

BTW, this kain thing no dey happen from the place I came from, cause.

1. Even rats no fit see where mumsy dey hide money.

2. Who give you time to watch television?

3. Who are you to say yes when mom said NO?

You can't nah.....

This cracked me up.

There is no way on earth dat child is escaping some serious spanking...but e no reach to disfigure the child cos at the end of it all, its still U who pays the hospital bills to take care of the wounds..

The woman went too far.. How old is the child BTW? @Ishilove

Hi attempt to lift the ref is truly priceless..

SweetTee:
OP, agreed, there is something wrong with the mentality. Unfortunately, our girls are taught to be dependent on their male counterparts, which is wrong. It is also the same way that our boys are taught that it it the woman's role to do the housework and all other domestic chores, which is also wrong. This is a two sided problem caused by society, because of the defined roles of men and women. The only thing that can fix this mentality is time. With time, hopefully things improve.

Cheers.

Started with Adam & Eve.. Eve was dependent on Adam. They are our ancestors. Go figure..

cuvox:
show me a man who understands women..... we don't... we just pretend we do....

U think men are less complicated? Stop making this a general topic .. Study ur partner..he/she can't be rocket science. Don't attach your views about one woman to another. It would only get you confused.

Randyhot:
..awwww my swery is here..gud mornin hun

Morning Randyhot.. Howdy?

Randyhot:
Both of you are as cheap as sawdust.(No offense)

Dint know sawdust was dat cheap..

To each his own. U can't ever have a parallel opinion on anything because humans differ. One man's meat is another man's poison. I can't stand any man who lays his hands on a woman for whatever reason except in genuine self-defense.

Some men brag about beating women with pride.. datz their trophy..whatever gives them that sense of achievement. I respect men who know where to draw the line. Don't put up with it if u cannot handle it. Walk away.

As for the ladies, if she feels she needs some decking to remain sensible, cool...Deck her.. but be careful lest U get a jail term for murder. She may have been exposed to beating as a child.

Finally, the fact that some women luv being beat while some others don't hardly makes women complicated. It just defines their individuality. I like soccer...some ladies don't.. dat don't mean ladies are complicated.

mrsmith11:
Please is it compulsory/very necessary for a woman to undergo a scan to confirm if her uterus has move back to the normal position after her 1st child before thinking of getting pregnant again

Never heard... means its not compulsory. Mothers in rural areas have many kids and I doubt they go for scans.

Way too much going on.. Luv d shades tho.

ThundrCork:
What would you say about the man who's wife accused him in court of fin.gering his daughter while bathing her? What if it was a cheap lie just so the verdict will favor her? I bet the public will just laugh it off if it were the wife that was accused by the husband of fo.ndling with their sons pe.nis while bathing him? Like someone mentioned above, the public is biased against men especially when it's a sexually related offence. Mind you in this case, it's not the society but the wife pointing accusing fingers at him

How many wives d'u have in the society? How many have accused their husbands?


Don't generalize. The fact that it happened in one family dosn't form a norm in all families.

PunkyVeer:
Lol, I was thinking the same thing, chuckling to myself. They look like something someone would wear in space. Space sandals They look kinda futuristic.

The metallic thing there meehhnn! Yeah very futuristic..

damiloladuke:
see topics making frontpage in those days...when Nairaland never do CROWD JUJU

Lolz....There was no Front_Page then...

Whatz d name of the sandals you've got on? they caught my attention..