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lezz:
Like hell you do. You can't even pen a line of simple english sentence to save your life.

You snored through your english classes. All your posts on nairaland are marked by poor articulation, language distortions and stunted social adjustment.

You always make the word nuisance seems so underwhelming. I'll give you that.

HEHEHEHEHEEHEHE.... OUCH much!!

Nothing like the good ol' wisdom. Always better than physical & verbal combat.

Its a heartbreaking situation but no one can tell U what to do. It's a decision you will live with so pray about it and make this decision for yourself.

MagicBishop:
His a catholic priest and that alone discredits him from any logical reasoning.

https://www.znakovi-vremena.net/know-your-popes/pope15.jpg

Even among Jesus's 12 Disciples, there was a corrupt man. Does that mean that all His Disciples were corrupt? So what exactly is your problem with Catholics? D'u think a few bad eggs justifies anything you've said? Every religion has bad eggs amongst it's followers.

Please..get a hobby & stop hating.

hmm... is it wrong to date her? not sure tho..

Sodiumdawg:
Tell dem!

Indomie pipul!

BB King, Diana Ross, Teddy Pendergrass, John Denver, Peter Tosh, Jimmy Cliff, Mick Jagger, Nat King Cole........

Plenty Legends!

Na CB, JB, Snoop and 50Cent dem know!

......and Olamide..



RIP David... Condolences to Iman..

Mrbigman1:
I can be your Jason babie. *winks*

Hahahahh... Ur hired!

Mrbigman1:
Jason please. His the American jet li.

Yeah me too...

ilawanson44:
The girl is a pathological LIAR! She was not RAPED!

Who does not know that Nigerian ladies and women of today use rape to get both attention, sympathy and empathy.

...and u know this for certain because u are her god and creator?? smh

This is exactly the reason why rape victims keep their mouth shut.

Juliearth:
what if she s telling you the truth? you should be able to trust your instincts and decipher. IMO,you should not bring up ur relationship issues here on nairaland except if you dnt want the relationship to grow in the first place(virtually everyone here is a prophet of doom and a non constructive critic). you should be matured enought to sort out your ishes afterall maturity is not attained by an increament in age but in ones ability to make life-changing decisions. "FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND IF YOU LOVE HER,U SHD TAKE HER BACK REGARDLESS OF WHETHER SHE WAS TRULY RAPED OR NOT. LOVE IS FORGIVING"

Thank you. My point exactly.

Kamxin:
I think one soul is too much to be lost

Parable of lost sheep says this.

So his move to the Catholic church now terms him "a LOST soul"?

I see so many people who believe themselves to be "gods" unto others. So many people who don't know or choose to ignore the fact that there are truly rape cases here and there... U see threads on rape make FP yet people are so quick to judge!!!!

It takes guts for a rape victim to open up and admit being raped because it sometimes leads to stigmatization..not to mention the kind of comments y'all have thrown at her.. If it took her 2 weeks to open up, it means she had to think thoroughly about U..@OP.. She needed to be sure u wont judge her... SO what if she was truly raped?? Will U confirm her initial doubts about confiding in you by judging her unfairly??

I'm even more shocked at the ladies condemning her. I pray none of u experience it.


My sincere advice @OP.. don't be too quick to condemn her. Everyone has a PAST. What you should do is observe her while you date her..that is if indeed you are even interested .. Please don't waste both your time & hers if your doubt overwhelms your "Aye"

hrhobi1:
Why are you here? You are definitely not single. You wanna destroy some men hearts abi

A few months back, I was single..

Nwayz... im out.

Why is this Anglican Bishop so pained that he had to release a statement??

adren:
My pastor's wife uses an iphone6.. i use an iphone 5s.. Apparently, she had a little problem accessing one of its features..
So, she sought for help from me been a co- iphone user..
As soon as i was done.. i was bored and checked her playlist while she was away to listen to an heavenly-inspired that would transfer me to the spirit realm..

I got as much as i was looking for and indeed my desires that moment was met..

Minutes later, i was stunned when i stumbled on 'falila ketan' by olamide..
i did see others from wizkid, godwin but that olamide got me bewildered..

it wasn't a joke ooo..i have been reminiscing on certain things ever since..

question is. does that matter??
does my pastor's wife choice of song have anything to do with her faith??

should i keep on trusting God in her life??
matured answers only..

R u sure U din't also go thru her pictures for some "uplifting" images?


SMH...

Yaksson:
WHO SAID TROUSERS ARE HISTORICALLY MEANT FOR MEN ALONE? THAT IS WHY WE HAVE MALE AND FEMALE TROUSERS DESIGNED AS SUCH, I CANT WEAR A FEMALE TROUSER AND A FEMALE SHOULD NOT WEAR MINE! BUT TROUSERS WERE ORIGINALLY WORN BY BOTH SEXES (http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trousers )
AGAIN, CLOTHES WORN BY INDIVIDUALS FROM DIFFERENT PARTS OF THE WORLD ARE DIFFERENT, THE WOMEN IN ISRAEL WORE APPAREL WHILE DURING THAT TIME, AFRICANS WORE WHAT? CULTURAL DIFFERENCES ARE OFTEN FOUND ACROSS BACKGROUNDS, SO NOT ALL WOMEN MUST WEAR APPAREL.

Secondly...I don't think the Jewish men at the time the Bible was written wore trousers...they also wore gowns. So how exactly is it that you (OP) believe the Bible is referring to "Trousers" when it was not even in existence then?

darkenedrebel:
This sounds like something a spiritualist would say before blowing white powder into empty space. Try to be more coherent.

lolz...

jcflex:
To me, am ok with what the man did.
this thing will have been happening over and over again.

they will have agree that by so so time, we are leaving for the outing, a woman that know how long it will take her to make up should start her preparation on time, they will not, they will be waiting for the man to start first, knowing fully well that a man can dress up within 10-15min.

thereby keeping the man waiting unnecessarily, now that she was left behind, the man will be blame from all angle, but am sure nx time they have outing together, the woman will be the one waiting for the husband inside the car.
and that is how it should be,

Woman will be going up and down inside the house without knowing what they are even looking for.

The husband act right

diportivo:
I wld do same .... .over and over again

While patience is a virtue waiting endlessly cos u want to "be beautiful" for few hours doesnt make sense to me

While i'm not disputing your angle of reasoning, I'd like to advise that you judge only after you have heard the woman's reason for coming out late. Taking care of chores, cooking, kids..etc.. may have caused some delay. All the man has to do is eat, have his bath and dress up..(in most cases).. while she needs to tidy up some things.

Whatever the case, I rily want to know if this function (whatever they were preparing to attend) is rily worth the pain and quarrel that will ensue upon his return.

WOW!!!


Amazingly creepy stuff. Its a good thing the writer put some humour in this piece or it'd av been too gruesome!

Hi,

U feel this way cos u are blinded by d "luv" u feel for ur ex-mistress. U do not want to reconcile wit ur wife because u don't want to lose d chance of ever rekindling ur romance wit ur mistress.

U say u were hurt by ur wife years back....u are hurting her now wit ur extra marital affair..yet she wants to make it work. God is trying to get DAT fish scale away from ur eyes by making ur mistress "move on" yet u are adamant on ruining ur 16yr old marriage.

Good thing u care for ur wife.. At least we can start from there. I'll advise u leave dis mirage u have made up to replace ur marriage and pray to God for the grace to restore ur marriage. U have been unfair to ur wife as well so there is no need to dwell on ur wife's past.

Toks2008:
You look dapper and take away...Happy new year.

Thanks.

When will we get it right?

fabiano09:
thats what i dont understand,the point they are trying to prove is quite inane,and to think this cat-fight is over their fellow female is double appalling.

Lolz... I know some dark skinned guys with a couple of stretch marks on their shoulder/ biceps.. Wondering if they also use hydroquinone creams...

Disneylady:
Because she's suppose to use non-hydroquinone cream that doesn't bring stretch marks

Hmm....so everyone wit stretch marks uses hydroquinone cream? Fascinating...

Disneylady:
Well wasn't expecting her to have it though

..go on.....because...?

36 year old...

very distant cousin...

sleeps in same room with ur daughters...

walks in when they are bathing...

jobless...

calls u mummy...

Is this a joke??

abisquare:
[sub][/sub]Rants of a mother in pains. Its been days. And it still feel like a magic like a dream I gave u a special name since d first day I felt u in me. A name befitting a prince that u re I loved you with everytin in me. A mothers pure undilitued love,knowing you were growing inside me gives joy. And I waited patiently to hold u in my arm.to cuddle and give u a mothers warmth and love. Alas it was all day dreaming I never get the chance to hold you. Before u sleep on peacefully. No amount of my tears could bring u back. Sleep on my prince. am a greiving mother. Bt I break to be strong again. Cos I know u re in a special place. U fought just as I fought. U re a macho man. My macho man. I wish I held u just once just once may be my pains will not be dis much. Ya allah ease my pains. Ease my pains. I love u ray, we all love you. Alhamdulilahi for everything.

I know the feeling. May God console you with more sons & daughters.

It is well.

If I may, I'll advise you find something to do that you are passionate about. It will help ease the pain when U are busy. I hope your hubby is always there by U cos u need all the comfort u can get.

Disneylady:
She's got stretch marks on her boobs!

....this is a mystery to U because....?

He has probably heard horror stories of Nigerian Prison life and is utterly devastated at the thought of experiencing it personally.


Still doesn't make sense tho...why do they want to deport him based on his mother's nationality? What about his dad?

Mindfulness:
First of all, why do you make your parents' marriage your business? Stay out of it. It is for them to sort out their issues. The more people get involved, the more complicated it becomes. Your mother is an adult so let her deal with her issues, her husband and her marriage on her own.

Secondly, your dad sponsors your education with the pocket money he gives you and you should be grateful. And as long as it his money you are spending, it is his right to complain if you are not spending his money wisely and you said that you do not manage your finances appropriately.

Thirdly, I acknowledge that your father has a somewhat difficult personality but I can also see that he has managed to take care of the family financially quite well and that he cares about you else he would not give you money and wouldn't care how you go about your finances so appreciate it.

Instead of complaining about what he does not do right, focus on what he does for you and appreciate it!

Well said..

Somehow, I dont know why this thought keeps coming to my head "perhaps U are not ur father's child and he knows...somehow i feel the story is incomplete".

Nwayz, don't focus on regret. Focus on proving him wrong about his notion on you being a disappointment. Focus all the negative energy I see in your write up towards being someone he can be proud of. There is no better way to change the perception ur father has of u than being the exact opposite of what he has labelled u.

Start saving. Use the opportunity availed u in ur service year wisely. I assume u will most likely serve in a different state. Be smart. Remember ur goal is to make it. Don't let ur dad feel like u are trying to rub shoulders with him cos no matter how u want to see it, HE IS and WILL ALWAYS BE UR DAD. Start giving him his due respect.

U need to leave that house real soon so make all "legitimate" effort to do so.

Good luck!

cyprus000:
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I don't want to go into your love life with him,cos I apply the law of moses in such scenario.

I'm only interested in you having custody of your kids.

Legally, you do have a strong case against him when it comes to custody of your kid.

They are has follows:-

*he abadoned his responsibility to them has a father with no upkeep.

*he put them through emotional strain, by his insensitivity to their feelings.
E.g not being there to encourage them in their engagements...he doesn't show up on their special day lyk birthdays and end of the year party.

* he even left them stranded in the middle of danger.
With good lawyer. You will be able to establish his incompetence to have custody of your kids.

Just try to get him admit that he did left you and your kids stranded or get one or two witness to help butress your case.
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In addition to the highlighted, the age of the kids is another strong point for u. If you have endured physical and verbal abuse, please leave before he kills you.

Only time will reveal his true intentions. For now, take it slow.


I'm curious.. what was his explanation with respect to his "wife and kids"?