Valenciabaddie:
:I created an harmless thread yesterday seeking advice without mentioning names or tagging any moniker, I didnt even think it could make front page .only for @ Lovethaa to drive to my house,harass my sister and forced me to delete the post when I couldn't delete or modify it he took my phone threw it away,i left him to go after my phone, he came after me saying I walked out on him and as we were arguing he gave me a slap ,
Just because people were commenting that person must be a ritualist for using black soap , I don't know why it would affect you when your name or picture is not attached to the post but I guess Guilty conscience will not let you be
Even before you told me our relationship is over I have made up my mind already about you because God knows I tried my best
you're a fake and woman beater , coming on Nairaland creating threads to make you look like a responsible person.
I regret the day I met you and I won't curse you but you will definitely regret your actions ... And I have already reported you to the police, even though I know u can buy your way through but you won't buy your way through the bad things that will follow cos I have also gone naked and curse you..

Please I want to ask you why do you see everything as fetish, every little thing your mind will run to fetish, fetish, that was how you posted in your other thread that wizkid is fetish

olawumi171:
Gudafternun nairalander,pls pardon my mistakes in dis write up and your sincere advice will be appreciated
It has always be my prayer to settle down maritally before my 30,am 27yrs old,am a lady who believe in having a source of income before thinking of marriage and also worked for watever stuff l needed ,l dont wait for any guys am a teacher and presently am an investor,Now where l needed advice is l met a guy last week,but we were able to meet yesterday, so during d discussion,he said he has no intention of getting married in d next 5 oryrs to come,dat he doesn't want to be caged, and what he need is a relationship where both him and the lady will just discuss about school or work,what we are actually talking about his work and family and mine also,before he said dat,so before l left, he asked me to be his girlfriend,but l told him dat l will reply him later,,so yesterday evening l called him and explained myself to him,but wat surprised me and confused me,is d message he sent this morning where he said he is getting attached and probably falling in love with me, pls what should l do now,don't know the reply to give him,when l told him my age,and told him ,what has been my desire from God,he said we dont know what the future hold,dat we should start somewhere,pls what should l do,should l accept his proposal and hope for the future as he said or l should declined,l dont just know ,he called not quite long begging me for a chance

April this year you were dating a lawyer that wanted you to see his family and was ready for marriage, you no gree, now you want to date another guy who is not ready for marriage in 5 years time and you are here asking for suggestion. Please what do women really want?

SamNaijaboy:
So the men that their wives "changed" were not the head to start? Why do they call it "change" then

That is why I said be a man and not a sissy, men instill that into their women, so no room for change. Women only change for sissy men. So choose the one you want to be

SamNaijaboy:
Na so. Then he won't be the head once she arrives there. Then it will "equality"

The way you start with a woman that's the way you end with her. If you show her you are her head from beginning, she will always know that you are her head, no room for power dragging. Be a man and not a sissy

notok:

That only happens in Africa . When it's it's time to pay bills women will remember that the man is the head , I hope she'll also be submissive and not start asking for equality when they get over there.

My simple question to you is " is the man the head of family" if your answer is yes, then the man should stop whining and do what a head is expected to do without complaining

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

I once gave a girl that spent 5k to visit me 8k when she was leaving and she was ungrateful and asked me what is this i am giving her as if she gave me money to keep for her. That was the last day I had anything to do with her again. Mind you, I have spent over 80k on this this girl in question before. So my advise is cut her off. You don't need ungrateful girl around you, even knowing fully that you have a burial at hand.smh

canttedra:
The recent topic on the home page motivated me to make this post, anonymously of course.

We were dating before I left Nigeria. We've been dating for about three years. Sometime last year I got a new job in the US (I schooled there so it was easy), and moved away from the country. Until a few weeks ago, we talked nearly every other day. It's always fun talking to her. But lately, things have started to get a little rough because of something that came up, and which I would like to believe is not my fault.

Prior to dating her, since I was a kid in university, I made myself a few promises relating to women:

1. I will never pay a woman's school fees
2. I will never rent a house or apartment for a woman, nor furnish an existing apartment
3. I will never sponsor a woman abroad.

Of course, this does not mean that I won't buy a woman gifts (I do that regularly), or take her on a nice trip. I just do not envisage myself pulling a woman up the social ladder. I prefer she makes her own growth moves as it relates to finances or relocation.

I made these promises based on the fact that I expected that whomever I make a partner should be able to make something of their own selves. I do not want to be anybody's savior or anyone's get-out-of-jail card. This resolution has made lose a few women in the past who thought the relationship should be based on what they can get out of it, and my girlfriend knows this.

The situation right now is that there is a path for her to come to America through studying. We already talked about her applying for graduate studies and then transitioning here into a better job. However, she now feels that would be stressful and may not work. Instead, she thinks it's better if I return to Nigeria this December to marry her and then sponsor her eventually to the US. That's not going to happen. This has created a rift and we have not been talking for a while now.

Am I being unreasonable here? How can I make her realize she can be her own person and not have to depend on someone else to "sponsor" her? It just drives me nuts that she knows this about me but is now vehemently insisting that this is the only viable option.

Oga you are not serious! This is a lady you want to marry for crying out loud, don't you know when it comes to marriage, man is the provider while the lady supports with what she has. Oga if you are still interested in marrying her, marry her that bring some money as the husband and she brings the one she has and support you then you use that to take her over to the country where you are and you enjoy your marriage over there with her. Cut out this selfishness mentality. This is someone you love and want to spend the rest of your life with. So I don't see the big deal here

vivymako:
Mine is height... I really love tall guys with good physique

I am tall, check my number down and chat me up, will like to give you a December to remember

uni69:


No wahala

My number is on my signature, you can chat me up asap

Godpikin4real:

Na ur ancestor u de refer to as small pikin ba?
Father, forgive them for they don't know what they're doing.

Amen

uni69:


So sorry but the court has been destroyed during the end sars protest, and i would have loved to show you around o

You can show me around too, I am in Lagos

Godpikin4real:

On the ground of werin concern you?

Come this small pikin you no get respect again ooo

Godpikin4real:


On what grounds pls if I may ask.

And on what ground are you asking him that question?

Mekudi:
I'm a graphic designer, I used to create whatsapp & telegram group where I teach people how to design and I also make cool money from designing for people
POS & Selling gas ,i stop selling on credit since the day a customer raised her voice on me for asking her about my #600(2kg) that she refused to pay for almost 2 months, she said is it because of #600 I'm sending her kids to remind her of the debt. She still haven't pay me till today and I'm sure she as been using gas to cook ,some will buy gas from me on credit and when it's time for them to pay they'll say the gas doesn't last that1kg supposed to last them for 2weeks but it only last them for 4 days bla bla bla , they'll say na only Noddles they cook , they'll end up not paying or pay reluctantly,they are many like that, when they have cash they go to another shop ,when they want credit , they'll come to my shop
The day I stopped selling on credit , debtor's have stopped coming to my shop and I have been having savings and profit

On my POS ,Some will do fake transfer to my acc, rushing me to give them cash ,I won't release cash untill I confirm the credit on my bank app,some close neighbor will come and drop Thier ATM on my desk that their kid is sick and they needed cash ( 2k-5k) , they'll say their husband have send them money but it hasn't reflect in their acc or they are expecting money from a debtor, family or friends asking me to give them the cash and withdraw it later on their ATM card when money get to the card , I'll reject such, Some people have stopped greeting me cus of that.they said I'm too strict . If my business ruin na them go still mock me behind

Some strange guys will come to my shop to withdraw 200k and above and if I charge them 5k ,they will oblige(why can't they go to ATM stand) , I'll then tell them I'll snap them with them posing with the ATM card and request for Thier ID , they'll decline, I'll tell them to patronise another POS , what If the ATM card is a stolen card , I'll be the one to be in trouble while the guy that come to withdraw will be no where to be found . But if it's someone I know very well, I'll give him cash once I know he is my regular customer and he/ she owns the ATM card

Bros can I get your whatsapp I need to inquire somethings from you. Or you can chat me up with my number on my signature thanks

Anneka101:
I'm shock that a while first lady of the most populated black country would abandon her office and run away to a foreign land.


I mean for what exactly


Nigeria is on auto pilot, now I believe.

Ann is that your hair?

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HerMajestyCares:






Funny Enough My Mum MOSTLY WILL BE HAPPY WITH THIS NEWS,AS SHE AND MY DAD HAS DECIDED NOT TO LET ME TRAVEL BACK TO THE U.S,
THE STORY OF HOW THEY DRAGGED ME BACK TO NIGERIA IS FOR ANOTHER DAY ,
All BECAUSE OF COVID 19.

So My MUM Will Agree with F.G on this One



But I still hate this A.P.C evil Administration,See How Nigerians Are in Hardship






WHERE IS OUR NAIRALAND PREACHERS,
WE ENJOY YOUR PREACHING AND ADVICE




I thank Jesus for Wealth and life.

I say again, why are you like this?

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Roycemadeit:

You should read on the great tribulation...

OK sir, I have read it, so what next

Titugirl:

True!

Hey I have a public speaker in ph, who will be willing to help build you up.

Roycemadeit:

You gat it twisted...
You obviously don't know what your Bible says.

Please master, what did the bible say?

Roycemadeit:


Where is the one world government that would be before the Rapture?

One world government will be at full glare during the antichrist reign, when you can't buy or sell without the mark of the beast. A these will happen before the rapture takes place

futurerex:
You people should be calming down abeg!.

Mark of the beast comes after rapture of the saints. During this period, a thousand year will be like a day before God.

Free your mind and enjoy world latest technologies.

Mark of the beast comes before rapture and not after rapture.

BRATISLAVA:
Read with your eyes, not your penis. We all know you think he's innocent because he's an innocent man, much like yourself, and you think women are evil, like all the other male tards on this forum.

Stop ranting and show me what I asked

BRATISLAVA:


She said she reported him and nothing came out of it. Why don't you men read without bias against women whenever you see a rape accusation? It's probably police like you who think every woman is lying and every man is a saint, that refused to do anything when she says she reported it.

Please help show me where she said it, maybe I didn't see

JoyJones2000:
What is the meaning of OMFG CHRIS are u okay?can't u at least remove that letter F, some people without sense of reasoning eh

Joy, you have just captured my heart with this comment. I must know you

You said he raped you in his house, that means you know where he is staying and didn't report him to police or take police to his house, you waited until you saw him in an event and you shouted at him and he ran off and you didn't still trace him back home, only to come online to shout he raped you. Abeg sis tell us another story.

Incrizz:
I think I'm Going To Die By Being Beheaded for the testimony of CHRIST.

Wow, what an honour that GOD would invite me to the marriage super of The Bridegroom, wow.
Thank YOU so much JESUS.

Hehe...don't get me wrong, I will employ every GOD-given skill to ensure I stay alive from the schemes and devices of the antichrist zombies till JESUS returns.

But to get beheaded for the testimony CHRIST, wow what an awesome privilege and grace.
Thank YOU JESUS.
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That the rapture is AFTER the tribulation is clearly stated in Mathew 24.
Kindly see:
https://www.nairaland.com/6058638/rapture-after-tribulation-clearly-stated

I thank God for your life, have followed your writings, believe me when I say you know your onion when it comes to biblical revelations and mysteries. I support your believe of tribulation before rapture. Don't mind people who insist on rapture before tribulation

NiRfreak:


I din't...I never even heard of such.

It might be your employer that applied with your account number for your salary. It's 30k your salary on a normal day??

E be like say any body wey begin run beauty pageant ,the next thing na to rush go begin this kind cap

Omihanifa:
Don't know who organises the most useless award between this OP and Alex reports

The rates at which the two of them churn out awards is just too alarming

Na Alex reports get the two accounts

They can hold mega rally in this covid time, and then tell people not to enjoy their Christmas festivity who is deceiving who?