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eustacedunn: I have been looking for a platform
Though not to really fill a form
But I am ready to willingly mingle
Presenting my stuffs, very simple
I write poems so I am a poet
I don't really wanna write in duet
because we are people
People that write and sing in triple

How do I meet you all
So that I don't fall
I mean 'fall off' the lane
The ideal lane that makes us main.

www.eustacedunn..com

I am so sorry for the late response
Welcome newbie!

What Your Bag-Holding Technique Says About You

Prior to today's career planning class, I never observed the importance of bag-holding techniques.
Handbags were just fashion items to me. I wasn't really into handbags and could rock them till they drop.
(Lolz, levels don change I rock good handbags now )

Do you know employers(especially in North America) pay attention to these little details?
Our personalities are evaluated by these techniques
I thought the traditional firm handshake, eye contact and presentation(.i.e. dress sense)were the only determinants.
But, I was wrong! Not only the shrinks get to play psychology.
Give the right impression - wear that handbag right!

By the way, I am the Arm-crook hook: A sense of superiority


**I hope the uploaded picture is clear enough.
I have tried my best to resize and crop the picture. If it doesn't come out well, I will keep trying***

testing if this works

still small!

aletheia: @Mod. Please help. I am trying to create a topic in this section but the spam bot keeps hiding my posts and banning me. Would appreciate it if you can rectify that. Thanks in advance.

Sorry for the inconvenience.
I unhide both. Can you please clarify, which is the updated version? There is no point having duplicate threads.
Thanks

[quote author=Mynd_44]This place used to fun[/quote]Probably, we should stick to only chatting and networking or the usual lively poems that made the thread interesting.
The idea of this chat room was for people to derail and have fun. Serious discussions were meant to occur on serious threads(.i.e. the threads with stories, associations, etc).
There has been a decline in participation. I trust you to revive the fun.

[quote author=Larry-Sun]I need your help urgently, Cud. Some mosquitoes have infested my thread. They have derailed it so much that the thread is now threatening to crash. Please, do something.

https://www.nairaland.com/1182846/nairaland-detection-club/3[/quote]

white mosquito: Anty cuddles,
PLS,
i wont plead not guilty because i am. I can only pray that the truth wil be my saving grace. Its just that sometimes iv so many things to say that i forget on whose thread im sayin it. I sincerely apologize. I know u to be merciful as u r just. Im going to apologize to larry now. Plz, ban me from anywher but the literature section, i wont last the night! Plz. I promise to be of good behaviour from now on.
Humbly,
white mosquito.

Please, you guys should understand that this is a complaints thread and serious things should be reported or discussed here.
Desist from derailing a thread and also make it known what is expected on the thread. When it gets offensive or unruly, then, you can inform me.
Thanks

^Nice!
Reminds me of my first degree at school. Lolz, I studied a little bit of warfare and strategies in war and I remember Sun Tzu, Machiavelli & Carl von Clausewitz.
One particular one comes to mind, the principles of war - Surprise

Surprise is the consequence of shock and confusion induced by the deliberate or incidental introduction of the unexpected.

I have always thought this was a better approach to warfare because its very unpredictable and it makes retaliation uneasy or almost impossible.

"We don't need to make it better"

Improvement comes with many costs.

It costs time and money to make something better. It's risky, as well, because trying to make something better might make it worse. Perhaps making it better for the masses makes it worse for the people who already like it. And risk brings fear, because that means someone is going to be held responsible, and so the lizard brain wants out.

Which is why, unless there's an urgent reason to make something better right now, most organizations naturally don't volunteer to improve.

Operating systems, government programs, established non-profits, teachers with tenure, market leaders, businesses with long-standing customers--these organizations are all facing an uphill battle in creating a culture where there's an urgency to improve.

Just because it's uphill doesn't mean it's hopeless, though. One of the most essential tasks a leader faces is understanding just how much the team is afraid of making things better (because it usually means making things worse--for some people).


....Copied from Seth Godin, a great mentor people should follow for business & marketing advise. I have him on Facebook, twitter and Linked in.
I check out his blog sometimes. His videos on youtube are very inspirational!

Tgirl4real: Lol

Nice one Bosun. I see u finally found someone else.

Try to put a name to ur poem if u meant it for someone.

Hi, Cuddle, pls mail me. Thanks.

Hi, Tgirl, I have mailed you. Thanks.

koolkamzzy: LOL lotta funny names on here. you never see "omi obo"

Hey!
Happy new year.
How are you dear?
I should involve you in these games too.

Lmao at all these new names - hollow shark, coven bastard and Egyptian koko master.
What do these names mean exactly?

festoy: Deep calleth to deep. Wisdom answereth to wisdom. Just as iron sharpeneth iron

Nice!

I like it, very precise and strong.

firestar: Ha!

We are expectant

Pharoh: ^^ I actually wanted to take my time and go into detailed step by step description but just turned it into that for the game to end today and move to something else.

I even removed the image i added before at the end of the comment but don't know if u saw it before i removed it.

Good its over so where are the other peeps?.

[quote author=Efemena_xy]^^ Lol! Step-by-step indeed!

You want make Cuddles carry this thread go sexuality section?

Yeah, I did see the image. Beautiful picture...put it back pls

@Cuddles: Game ended - any comments from you?[/quote]The actual game thread (.i.e.where your game was played)was deleted because it wasn't complete and organized.
Besides, it caused a lot of e-fights and allegations that seem to be ongoing

Overall, I will score you guys, average.
There was more drama on this thread than the actual game thread (very distasteful & childish)
Thank you for your time & participation. I hope we can partner in future initiatives like this.

HumbledbYGrace: Hi Cuddlemii

My post has been hidden and I got banned for what I don't know. Can you please look into this

https://www.nairaland.com/1120471/home-last/12

Thank you

I have released your post.
You were not banned. Thanks

Edited

^^^Nice, without the abbreviations of course

You want to know what will be nicer? Your current profile pic embedded in this poem


***tgirl, you got to pay me for my reviews***

No, I don't want to go first

Tgirl4real: I'm still searching for a suitable Val for my broda Scopy.

Cuddle, are u available?

I write great poems.

lolz, scopy has a thousand and one babes!
chat central alone is enough proof.

getting him a Val should be easy, he has made a name for himself as a charmer (.i.e. way with words)

Lol!
What's with these advises for women, marriages and relationships?
Do they sense desperation & depression in women?
I wish I were a man sometimes, being a woman can makes one feel powerless and weak.
Anyhoo, enjoy the 7 reasons why he's going out with her and not you(he is going out with me, I refuse to be referred to as you in this context)Don't mind me!


Seven Reasons Why He’s Going Out With Her and Not You…


Don’t you hate that? You give a guy, the best years of your life or you’ve liked that guy for ages but yet he keeps choosing these tramps over you?

N.B not that I’m bitter about my ex’s new girlfriend or anything…..kmt

So what’s going on? What’s so good about her? What was it that he couldn’t or didn’t see in you?
He most likely isn’t going to tell you why but I have seven reasons why he chose her and not you.

1. GOD’S TIME IS THE RIGHT TIME- Timing is everything. It’s not your time to be with him or it will never be your time.
Sometimes some things aren’t meant to be.

2. Attraction – Hard pill to swallow but it could be that she’s more attractive than you, in which case you can’t blame him.
We all want someone on our arm that we can be proud of but one man’s trash can be another man’s treasure right?

3. Confidence – If you like to constantly point out your flaws just so he could dispute them, chances are he was thinking ‘On to the next one!’
Guys like confident girls who are confident in their own skin. If you were guilty of this, you just gave him the green light to pick a more confident chick, sucks huh?

4. She trusts him- If you were the sort of girl who checked their man’s phone while he went to the toilet or did some military style interrogation
when he went out with his boys? That sort of behavior screams crazy/needy/out of control/ neurotic freak. If you trusted him, you might have kept him.

5. She knows he’s not psychic – What do I mean? Basically when a guy asks you ‘what’s wrong?‘ TELL HIM. They are not psychic, they won’t just ‘know’.
This kind of behaviour drives guys up the wall, and they hate it. As I always say communication is KEY. I realize I’m guilty of this one *sighs*

6. She understands that his bank account isn’t bottomless – If you were one of those girls always demanding money for this or that,
it’s no wonder you found yourself suddenly single. This other chick is probably within his price range.

7. She respects him – If you complained at everything he did instead of giving constructive criticism. No guy likes to stick around for abuse.
Odds are this new chick probably shows she appreciates him not just when he does something for her but constantly, guys need love too, you know!

To sum it all up, you and her are two different women and he choosing her has no reflection on you as a woman.
He’s made his choice and the best revenge you can do is meet someone who knows your worth and stop thinking about your ex because trust me he isn't thinking about you.

Disagree with the reasons above or just have a view?
Then let me know by dropping a comment ..
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SimplySEA: Ok...! Gat2get back to form! Long time cuddlemi. Mis u

Hi dear, long time!

Welcome!