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OP, the point is no human being wants to be used.

Alphas will dump whoever presents constant negative reinforcements and move on to other options with ease as a result of their genetic endowments. Betas however do not have this luxury so would try to beta provide hoping that it would be enough to keep their prized possessions.

Betas are the less fortunate men and women who are not so much endowed with good looks. They are the needy and clingy people who will do anything to please a partner in a relationship because of their insecurities and vulnerabilities.

When alphas post on Facebook for instance, they get hundreds of likes. but Its a lot different when a beta sticks up his or her little head for some validations. T

So, the betas learn over time that they are not the hot shiit that mummy and daddy may have gotten them to think they were. they also realize that Alphas will not place anybody's feelings or interest above theirs.

Some may understand that they are not genetically designed to receive love from those they desire and
will adjust accordingly by ignoring the cravings for alpha co.ck and pussy, and settling for something more closer to home.

others sadly will stay on this cause in pursuit of this constantly fleeting pleasure, not minding the pitfalls. Those who become successful in their careers may employ the use of money to momentarily tame their object of lust. Others will provide favours just to receive some validations.

This the cycle that rinses and repeats till fade.


The point being made here is that Alpha qualities are not learned. what you have are coping mechanisms, otherwise known as game, pickup or even miseducation.


The problem with miseducation however is that the guys whose only chance of furcking pusssy is by paying up or beta providing may be misled into abandoning thier tried, tested and trusted technique for something as vague and worthless as game.

we all got issues

What a load of made up nonsense

Is it just me or did anyone notice the dead fish psychopathic stare in the boyfriend's eyes? Once I see such predatory stare in your eyes, I no say na evil de lurk behind.

I hope it's nothing to do with the boy's rear end

Some old layers are still playing hard to get.

If you can't try to be selfish even for once in your life, how are other people supposed to like and appreciate the unique individual that you are?

Op, you caused your problems the moment you started to put up with this lousy behavioir. The best you could have done as soon as you noticed this should have been to end the dead relationship and move on to something fresh so that she too could connect with somebody she is more in tune with.

But, unfortunately, you stayed and now you're even planning to wife somebody who obviously no longer has any sexual desires for you. How long more do you really believe you can cope with this before you completely lose it?

I used to be like this but that was in my early twenties when I didn't have much understanding about how life works.

If you would learn to always put you first before any other consideration (except of course in situations that are to do with your work and your boss), you wouldn't have this problem. Think.

Op you have very low self esteem which explains Why you would remain in a relationship where your needs are not being met.

All the relationships I have had with much younger girls have been nothing but a bunch of pure filth. They are just way too immature for the task that a committed relationship demands.
But some men, while chasing the allure of youth, would throw caution to wind and try to lock up a kid in marriage thinking they can fool nature. But as we have seen, it always ends in tears.

To the men who want to settle, please ignore these kids (no matter how strongly you feel) and date much closer to your age bracket for your peace of mind.
But if you have the means and you want to be a sugar daddy, then go ahead but don't expect anything too serious, except you want to trade your happiness and probably your life too for some cute face and firm skin.

Op the women like the food more than they like you. Do you look that hideous?

the slap, although a bit disproportionate, still falls within the ambit of reasonable force which one is allowed to apply in self defence.

Even when the State put you in the dock, you are entitled to a lawyer who will defend you in court.

The woman in this case took the laws into her hands and the man, did the reasonable thing by defending himself. QED.

Amakavula:
The guy started off with too much respect, don't over respectful women, it shows us you lack capacity.

Be bold ( not arrogant ) fearless ( not stupid ) and careless( with subliminal tact ) about chatting with ladies, that shiitt ticks us off with good vibe, shows you are in charge and have capacity.

If I was the guy, I would start off with something, a little negative, have the lady on the defense from the go; then swoop in to save the day ( gets a few laughs too)

Maybe talk about:

You: "..my friend always say ladies on filters are low key scammers ?"

she is curious, asks why,
You : " pretty and worwor ones hide behind it," hard to tell which is which.."

she laughs
You laugh

You: you know you can't hide forever?
She : " that I worwor ? "
You: " are you saying you are cos I never concluded ? "

Now you have neg her, have her high esteem in check, you can just ignore the conversation and ask other things. It becomes easy for you. ( don't try this with me you will fail , but it works for my Male friends I advised )

A man with power, money, or fame would never over respect anyone.

Imagine Wizkid chatting her, he wouldn't try to over praise because he is the prize. You are to him anyone, adopt that mentality all women has.

The girl may have taken one look at his profile and decided he is not superior, hence her flaky and dismissive attitude.

What can be more meaningful thank asking a human being what he or she does for a living.

koyyess:
You are the garbage yourself.

You just don't know it yet.

You want a real alpha male to walk up to a used up sack with no redeemable features and is now masquerading as a feminist. Why exactly would he want to do such thing?

koyyess:
No point trying to educate regressive baboons.

Regressive baboons are like earth worms and the word 'feminist' is like salt to them.

They rather misinterpret the meaning of the name intentionally to make themselves sleep better at night.

It takes a real alpha male( not a self proclaimed counterfeit) to walk up boldly to a feminist.

Regressive baboons would develop high bp for just thinking about it.

Let them misinterpret it a 101 times. They can never stop the movement. It is spreading like wild fire.

Las las they will become completely depressed and mentally deranged because they know the world hates them and only a few number of fish brained females give them attention. It is already happening.

Or can't you see how most of these regressive baboons are turning suicidal, becoming angry f@ggots, buying sex dolls, committing bestiality, becoming frustrated and animalistic in nature? Even non feminists can no longer handle them.

What a load of garbage.

budaatum:
"Better than any one on this forum"? Is that what threatens you?

You really are working hard to prove you are a pig. Go on and grunt harder so we have no doubt.

That must be your father's picture, the one who grunts so hard while ravaging your dirty stinking pozay. It's clear the both of you are meant for each cos I can't think of any other animal that could withstand such acrid stench of decay from an overused slack hoe.

budaatum:
"Better than any one on this forum"? Is that what threatens you?

You really are working hard to prove you are a pig. Go on and grunt harder so we have no doubt.

Your father is a pig and everybody knows that he fvcks you. But what they don't know is that you really like it and look forward to it. Now go and play with the pig you stupid cougar

budaatum:
You must be one of those pigs we are talking about, half brain in head the rest in pants. Didn't the elders in your home teach you not to behave like a pig and to respect your mother and father?

No, you can't date me! I'm way past your level as you can very clearly see in the thread where we did post pictures. Go dig it up and see.

Just cos pigs of all classes get to dump cum in you and grunt away doesn't make you better than any one on this forum.

And what makes you think I would ever consider an unattractive harpy with a dirty stinking vagina that's been severally passed around with wiped in shiite and stale piss?

ubunja:
oh please. women are whôrés. they chase money.


what NL, YouTube and many other platforms are doing is revealing the hidden truth that has always been there.

minds are not corrupted but they're being freed. for too long men didn't know the Game. for the first time in human history men are discussing women, not Science not Maths not Physics but Women. and women are TERRIFIED.

games Up.

This comment deserves a fvcking beer followed up with a shot! Great comment ubunja. I tell you sometimes, the men who frequent this community may not know each other, but there is certainly solidarity across all the important fronts we’re facing here today. I find I need to come here, because there are so many overtures by certain girls in my rotation or associates to “join” the modern world. I know I am not crazy, this community validates it.

budaatum:
My opinion: Men are pigs! And no, they haven't angered me. I'm in fact going to go make myself a bacon and egg sandwich and attach a photo before I eat it just to prove to you that pigs don't anger me.

Make sure you laugh please Stephani3e. Laugh

Your posting sandwich and bacon. Why not upload your pix let's see how ugly and frustrated you are. All the pretty gals are doing that here. So, what's stopping you.

Obviously, men are pigs because they're not asking you out or don't bother to stay long enough for a sequel. Would you blame them? Who wants to go out with an idiot sired by a pig?

Blame your father and mother for passing on their worthless genetics.

Maybe you are not handsome and you are trying to nail a girl above your looks threshold who apparently is already hooked to a top tier slayer and maybe has her own money too.

You forget that this is 2019 and women have become liberated and empowered, thereby rendering your protectionism and provisioning as useless as a nugget in the middle of a desert.

Beautiful women nowadays will mostly sleep with handsome guys without asking for a penny because it is what they enjoy. Anyone who says looks don't matter to women obviously has been sold a lie or hasn't started dating yet.

Women as I know them are very visual creatures and even if she is past her prime, she'll still try one last time to hook up with Prince Charming, failure of which leaves them very bitter and caustic towards the nice but not hot guys.

So for better luck next time, try rolling with your looks match or even a step or two below and watch how everything becomes easy. With this system too, you can date and sleep with any age grade and you'll still get to burst your nuts in the end without breaking much sweat

However if you insist on slaying a stunner with your cash, then you must look out for those who want what you're offering and are ready to play. it's called the beta box game. Your mistake is however trying to trick her into love with cash. The only love you need is the one you give to yourself.

vheckthor1:
Guys am thinking of something today, what if we the youth of Nigeria have a massive peaceful protest on October 1, we can use the time between now and October 1 to create awareness. We need to speakout massively, let this spoilers know that we have a voice. If we can unite we will be free, I believe if we put behind our differences and ethical/religious bigotry that decides us and we unite with one voice to protest against the insanity in our country that could be a starting step to the walk of making Nigeria great.
I so much love this country and Her present condition breaks my heart. cry cry

And what exactly would you be protesting against? The population of this country has massively outstripped available resources and this is exactly what happens to countries that keep breeding like rats without any form of control.

Op should not underestimate the power of female validation. I know of one Eliot Rogers in the US who went on a mass shooting spree which eventually claimed his own life and it was discovered that he was ticked off because the women he wanted didn't consider him attractive enough for a rantic relationship.

Having good looks as a man can give you a very good head start in life if you can properly channel the rock solid confidence that comes with it.

Probably had Incomplete abortion and the foetus didn't get properly expelled or it kept growing and died later due to repeated procedure. A scan would have confirmed this and necessary procedures carried out to expel it if the girl had opened up to her carers or the docs.

the lesson other young women can take from this is the need to speak up when in complicated situations. it is better to be alive and be scorned by family for a little while than to keep mum for fear of conflict, only to lose your womb or even your life in the end.

Parents too need to stop being too hard on their children and accept the fact that the times are changing and in these days and time, teenage pregnancies are sometimes inevitable.

RIP to the young soul.

it's the jobless mofos sliding into DMs upandan that I blame for this extremely flaky attitude being displayed by these bitter and caustically unfeminie harpies. The time you could use in chasing something noble, you are busy chasing pvssy that's been commercialised and sold to the highest bidder and at the end of the day, only gives you fleeting pleasure.

See next Level stealing. This one na habitual criminal I swear. Just send her to prison already...

xyz123456:
Stay at home wife is bae if you are an honest man and don't have side chicks. Only married man understands. Any other thing is manage manage. If you never marry, you cannot understand having a submissive wife. You will never understand..

So what you're saying is your wife is submissive to you not because she finds you worthy as a partner and as a husband, but because she is not economically empowered?

Nothing can be off putting and irritating as a woman who depends on a man for nearly all her needs in a relationship. I know things are hard but for Christ's sake, you as woman also have a life which you need to nurture and maintain, hence the need to work and earn a living.

It's a different thing if a man is blessed and he elects to carry all the family burden alone. But it is absurd to expect a man who earns barely enough to fend for himself, to now take on all the family responsibilities by himself alone.

funny enough, it is these same women who trap men into marriage with their desperation and constant pressures and reminders the time isn't on her side and even getting pregnant despite being fully aware of the man's financial status.

An exception however is where the man pressures the woman into marriage and prevents her from hooking up with other better suitors. In this circumstance, it is the man's duty to provide for the woman and children. but nothing stops the woman from helping if she can. But by God, if your mounting pressures on man to tie the knot, then you better be ready to meet him half way in the financial department. many marriages have crashed because a woman felt she could take away a man's philandering independence and still suffocate him to death with provisional duties.

xyz123456:
Great comment. Men from South wants to eat their cake and have it. My wife is very submissive cos I take care of all our expenses. Even when I had little, I struggled to provide. No woman will be submissive when she is also contributing to house expenses. So we have to choose 1.

Well you can eat your submission while other men get to save the extra quid for rough times and old age. Except of course you have a decent job which allows you to do the provisioning and still have something to put aside for the future.

Aren't they a bit too old to still be mucking about?

ifex370:
There are some mistakes you can't make if you truly know what you want..

Allow her be with someone else, you've had your chance

Op this is the best answer you can get here. Obviously your instincts convinced you that the girl you had high hopes for was slipping away and you turned possessive based on what you observed. So saying you acted out of order just because you feel lonely and miserable now is in effect trying to say your intuition is wrong, which usually is not true in most cases.

For instance, if truly as you said, she is what every man would want to keep, what then makes you think other men are not trying hard to get hold of her and she not stylishly entertaining these men?

But, it would seem that you have managed to convince yourself that neutering your gender alliance is what will eventually get to keep her. Well, not everyone will agree with you on that but its your choice to make.

The lions be like Wo! wo! Wait who the hell are these? Oh my God, they are coming. Ruuuuunnnn!!!!!!!