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GIDIBANKZ:
See dat Olosho oo......for e mind...make prettymike juat carry am qo hotel den after dat nite make dem qive am 100k..... Idiot girl

and she fit get boyfriend fa!

Saffi:
It doesn’t make sense because it’s the truth, and the truth hurts. Name any rich man who’s a part of Mgtow, and follow the lifestyle?

You are very correct in your observation. MGTOWs are average frustrated men who kept trying to pull women after repeated failures till the penny dropped. So they came to the full realisation that they are not genetically designed to receive love and they don't have the financial wherewithal to pay for it. MGTOW movement for them is a coping mechanism. I doubt that these guys really desire to go their own way. Its just an internet community where they gather to vent their spleen and complain about how the system is not fair to them. They also read other people's story to understand that they are not in this alone, which gives them a bit of comfort.

There are however men who have been divorce raped or frustrated by the boredom that a marriage or committed relationship brings so they refuse to commit anymore. These men are also part of the MGTOW but they are meeting and having fun with other women in open relationships.

Op please include viewers discretion

Op you need to stop blaming the poor lady. She has what the world wants - primal capital and she is ready to make the best out of what she has. You on the other hand want primal capital but you lack the wherewithal to get and keep one.

You can consider all of what you did for her in the past as what gave you access to her honeypot. But sadly, as you have realized, they are not enough to tie her down to a spot. The girl was never and has never been yours because her beauty is in high demand and the big spenders are smashing her.

I've dated similar girls in the past and they're always like this. But instinctively, unlike you op, I never went out of my way to do things for them. So it was always easy to detach and hop to the next one.

As for how to get her out of your head, you must know that she was never yours at any point in time. She was only loyal to you because of the goodies she was receiving from you. But now she has moved on to another more financially buoyant dude because ladies like her are rich men's cum dumpster. Some rich men get high adrenaline rush from dumping cum in them and they don't care that they are lavishing money on these hoez.

But it is madness for you as a financially unstable young man to want to spend such obscene money just to bleep stupid puci. This is what you have been doing all these while and now youre hooked.

I suggest you just blank her out of your mind for now and move on with your life.

Hmmm.......Until Slim Joe decides to run along

Such beauty and a beastly looking thing

Ugly thing .....Mtcheeew

Op, Alpha male is the male equivalent of a beautiful woman. He has way too many choices that he is unable to commit to one woman. Please note the emphasis unable. The alpha male gets way too many attentions and sexual indications of interest from the ladies that makes settling with one woman an anathema to him.

An apha male is blessed by nature with good looks and such physical strength that he could easily make you his biitch in an instant. These two combinations and little hard work are what drives a man to become successful in life. Any three combination of money, romance and excitement will certainly have the ladies rising like a cobra in a wicker basket. But the alpha male does not necessarily use the money to seduce women as he doesn't need to. instead he uses that to get himself a nice house, good ride and clothes to keep him shining gleam clean like a god. I'm sure you must have heard the popular phrase men are scum, stingy, jerks. They tactics used to manipulate the alpha male into committing and providing but they don't always work.

Forget that poverty has made so many women in this country to deaden their loins to the amorous pool of the alpha male's charm and they are now settling for the average dude who consistently provides. But you can bet your nickle and dime that the girl you are adoring and doing everything to please and provide for her needs hasn't really given up hope of an alpha male coming someday to rescue her from perpetual boredom.

It is this this realisation that has made certain men to go their way, aka MGTOW. These men feel that the system has been rigged against them by nature and therefore are no longer willing to play on an uneven field.

osazsky:
Some nigerians are funny,they criticize christainty, they prefer d relegion of destruction and the one dat promises 7 virgins and 40 pro boys in the after life,this one that supports terrorism or the one dat pays tithe which is better,but freeza has never been bold to condemn imans for not educating thier terrorist bro to desist from such babaric act ,but onece he hears a pst name he gets an erection,he expect pastors to tarr roads,provide electricity,jobs and security for all citizens without holding dis govt accountable,but he doesnt know that tithe is not compulsary but tax is.my question is what is happening to our tax not tithe ,and some foollish nairalanders will criticize both relegion claiming am an anthiest,they believe in d theory of evolution,that thier great grand parents,grand parents were apes,monkeys and babbons but in the process of time they were fortunate to be humans but thier grand parents werent,my prayer for this set of people on nairaland is that they will be the once to continue this evolution theory they will give birth to premature alien looking babies ,cuz i heard that aliens are 10000 years ahead of us,then thier premature babies will grow as aliens ,get married and give birth to zombies and vampires,those who believe this pls this is my prayer for u,evolution will not end in your time amen,they also said the earth was created from an explosion,this peole funny die but na islam funny pass .no wonder they are eager to die.just cuz of virgins nd bro boys kia c enjoyment,freeze is either a muslim or an anthiest,any category he falls into good for him,whats my own self spits.walks out of thread

This is the most insanely idiotic thing I have ever read in this forum. At no point in your rambling, incoherent statement were you ever close to anything resembling a rational thought. Thanks to you, everyone is now dumber on this forum, having read the rubbish you just typed. I award you no point and may God have mercy on your soul.

I'm sure Cardiff are not dumb. they will declare force majeure

This Yigiyaga guy is one deluded lemming with no grasp of how things work in real life.

To think he still has the audacity to display this pig level ignorance at nearly 40 years is quite outstanding.

Op please ignore that nasty piece of crap. The scum carry on being scum, because that's all they are, and all they ever will be, the dregs of society, every stinking one of them.

This marriage issue is really complicated. As a man, sometimes, you find the one that you have always wanted with good looks, good character, prospect of a good job or even working, but then all of a sudden, you feel trapped or you lose interest in this so called one.

You wonder why you are depressed and miserable, despite the prospect of having good looking children and a woman that is ready to do house chores and still meet you halfway in the Oza room. This leaves one to wonder if man and woman are really meant to live together as husband and wife.


Personally, I do not believe a man or woman should discard the possibility of experiencing love with diverse people in order to stick with one person and raise children. I have cohabited with several women and I can say boldly that it's either you get tired of the union someday or they will walk out on you to find fresh air. It's just human nature. Marriage/cohabitation is tiresome, boring, unnatural and a sure way of sinking one into misery and depression.


My belief is that the mind should be open to the prospect of endless possibilities and not be limited by a mere piece of paper that is designed for the sake of fostering civilisation and society not minding that the participants may be disgruntled.

I would rather take a back seat and enjoy what life has got to offer than lumber myself with a woman, a woman's problem and children. people say loneliness will hit you at old age but I doubt there will much be fewer single adult men and women in the next few years to keep one really isolated. The times are changing and more single men mean more single women as well. We'll see.

call it off already

Capensis:
He is a stupid man. These days they see us paying rent for girls, and they, with their peanut salaries, also want to pay rent for women.

Any man, who is living on rent, and I do not care if you pay 10m rent, but pays rent for a lady, is a fool. He probably boasted how wealthy he is and how secure his job is, so he can Bleep a big girl, then went ahead to use 'Salary' to pay rent for a girl. While he moves around with big beards.

These days, bearded guys are the most wretched ones. They think growing beards is what makes a man masculine.

The girl needs to recover real quick and get people to come beat the hell out of his broke asss.

You dey rent for which girl? common shut up.

Hmmm!

Op that girl by her actions has become a source of major discomfort for you, which is why your instinct keeps pushing you to get rid. So deleting her number is just defence mechanism to shield you from further hurt.

I wish you would take the hint and walk and not bother looking for her. She is not the only woman in this world and trust me, you are much better without her.

just move on. You'll be fine.

Modified: I see you guys are back already but make no. mistake, chances are you might have to walk on egg shells to maintain this relationship which in itself sucks. good luck.

The principle of force majeure may be applied if he is not found.
Seems bleak but let's hope for the best.

No mention of whether the phone was found on them

IjebuWarrior:
Thunder fire your life!

who owns this stray mongrel?

op maybe you're ugly, skinny, not manly or look a little boy that didn't pass through puberty. looks really matter in life and the blame should go to whoever bestowed you with such shitty genetics.
however, you must learn to accept yourself the way you are and hopefully, over time something may change or you may discover what works for you.

but for now, you should concentrate on your studies and strive to become gainfully employed when you leave school to give you some leverage.

Marriage is an uphill task as the op may have found out.

maybe it's time to loosen your grip on your wife and let her breathe some fresh air. She has given you three handsome boys and served you faithfully for the last fifteen years. What more could ask of her?

You need to cut her some slack and let her live her life the way it pleases her. if you can't take it, you know what to do. This is 2019 and you must learn to control your jealousy cos you don't own her, Marriage or not.

Who knows, maybe she even married you because you were ready but never truly fancied you. So you can imagine the torture she has had to endure all these while.

Lastly, if your claim to be every woman's dream is anything to go by, then why aren't you going out there to choose from the abundance of beautiful women who are dreaming to have you, rather than creating a thread on nairaland. Get yourself a more beautiful woman and watch your insecurities disappear.

This guy is ugly and insecure and is seeking validation at all cost, albeit in the wrong quarters. But as posters above have said, it will surely end in tears.

He should have taken the hint the first time the ex rejected him, but it seems he's hell bent on pursuing an agenda and this agenda is driven by nothing but insecurity. His actions bear the hallmark of a pathetic little man and it is no surprise the ex turned down his proposal.

I see he is trying to justify his actions, not even giving a care about the emotional hurt he is causing the ex and such insensitivity can only come from a place of lack. He is a weak man with very limited options and I'm sure he knows and feels this in his inner recesses.

Funny enough, it seems he is willing to risk everything in order to spite his ex and maybe feel wanted, but this is a dangerous game he is playing. he could be setting himself up for something that may end up consuming him and the happiness that he seeks.

I can't really decide if it is the bra that is standing or the Olympus

The Liverpool City Council once turned down a request to expand anfield to 100,000 seater capacity, citing infrastructure constraints. Sadly, in Nigeria, everything goes. the traffic gridlock being experienced around the nyanya/keffi axis of the FCT is because infrastructure is overstretched compared to the millions of people residing around the area. we have such towns/district as Mararaba, Ado, Masaka, one man village, new nyanya, Karu, Orozo and Nyanya and many other villages all relying on the already overstretched expressway.

Anyway, I hope there is enough infrastructure to support the crowd that this project will be attracting to the Airport road multi carriageway. the AMCC, Development Control, FCDA and other relevant agencies should have a good look at this before we create another major obstruction in a very important entry and exit point to the nation's capital city.

jubril, shouldn't you be packing?

Op there is nothing super cute about you. you have receding hairline, probably Norwood 2, making your upper third much longer than other parts of your face. as result, your face lacks symmetry. you also have black spots from acne which is another looks killer. You have weak chin and patchy beards and it seems you need to pout also to enable your lips close properly. your height seems a bit decent and you have a good nose on your face but that is as far as it gets. Put simply, you're just an average guy and you shouldn't expect any cuty to break barriers for you.

Stooi76:
i have it for sale 80k

pictures please

I've seen the video on IG and there is a comment where someone pointed out the CCTV was moving with the "thief"

We should all get behind Buhari and push him out of this country. What kind of heartless and useless government will introduce 60 percent tariff hike on imported items without considering the effect it will have on the already impoverished citizens? This government sought to take food out of our mouth and bellies with their useless polices and now they trying to stop Nigerians from protesting with a useless court injunction. How clueless can they get?

Buhari's administration is pure evil and should be resisted by any well meaning person in this country.

Op just move on. She's gone and you don't need to prove shiiit. Your life is your life so long as you are comfortable in it. No car? No fine house? So fvcking what. It doesn't matter. At least your paying your bills and meeting your basic needs.

Your ex is not the only pretty woman in the world and you wouldn't want to lock her down if she wants to be with another man. There are tons of other women out there that you too could get with and I'm sure you'll be even much happier with the next one.

Lastly, what happened to you is life and it happens to the best of us. So no need to wallow in self pity. You've seen the best of her. Time to move on to other things. Those saying you should get a bigger house or car to spite her have no idea what class struggle really is. Truth is we are as good and as successful as the opportunities and privileges that life has bestowed on us.

sureheaven:
It’s abysmal seeing a party of supposedly elites wetting themselves and grasping on all straws since announcement of atiku’s presidential condidacy.

Atiku is corrupt? If so, why are you telling us? Take your evidence to the efcc and let them deal with him. Atiku has thrown open the challenge on several occasions.

..if you have no evidence against Atiku, pls shut it and save us this sophomoric banters



Ur statement is bereft of common sense. Asking if Atiku is corrupt and why he’s not taken to efcc is shoes completely u are baby kid or a baby adult.
U shld have directed ur question to why Atiku was busy begging OBJ whose book my watch that’s sold internationally contained pages of allegation against Atiku’s evil deed.
He couldn’t sue obj for defamation of character, libel and slander rather he took pastors and imam begging for forgiveness.
Aisha Buhari was alleged by PDP of having hand in halibuton scandal that she couldn’t travel to US, the woman proved her critics wrong, she traveled to US.
Atiku was also alleged of same, till today he can’t step his leg in US. [b]His counterpart Jefferson is still in prison [/b]while u are supporting him to be president in Nigeria.
That Atiku isn’t probed doesn’t mean he is not a thief but because the system is weak as a result of corruption to fight big thieves like Atiku.

Jefferson is not in prison
https://www.washingtonpost.com/national/ex-congressman-william-j-jefferson-is-released-from-prison/2017/12/01/43dc026c-cf27-11e7-a1a3-0d1e45a6de3d_story.html?noredirect=on&utm_term=.701db4e4f432