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RIP Mr. Deji Tinubu.

A colleague of mine in the office said he quit watching football after nearly suffering a heart attack while Arsenal was losing to one of the lowly rated teams.

Hope their Jekyll and Hyde form didn't contribute to this.

good job. But let's watch as Buhari's morbid fear for any form of decency try to mess up this golden opportunity

Ugly girls are the real problem of the womenfolk

This is what happens when you try to wife a slay queen. She'll be out there to maximize her potentials with men, while you are expecting her to stick to you alone. e no de work like that

Op just hit your head on the rock, hit again if it feels good, then come back and ask us whether you should keep hitting it. Get the drift?

That girl knows what she wants and she has gone for it. Are you really sure you know what you want?

Benita27:
It's not by force that the person dating you must marry you. She may have found a better man in whom she's getting married to than she previously did in you. Move on!, and quit whining. It would either be your loss or hers later. Nigerian guys have this mentality that spending on a girlfriend in the course of a relationship automatically equal loyalty/marriage. I see that as benefits of being together. She may have also added some value to your life in some other way.

This is how you become a used up sack with no resale value.It's hardly surprising as we know your type too well. Soon, you'll start running from church to church to cast and bind the demons, when in fact it is you who have squandered your prime fertility years by being dumb as a box of rock. Keep deceiving yourself.

Benita27:
It's not by force that the person dating you must marry you. She may have found a better man in whom she's getting married to than she previously did in you. Move on!, and quit whining. It would either be your loss or hers later. Nigerian guys have this mentality that spending on a girlfriend in the course of a relationship automatically equal loyalty/marriage. I see that as benefits of being together. She may have also added some value to your life in some other way.

This is how you become a used up sack with no resale value. Keep deceiving yourself.

this some fvcked up shii

But the girl was honest enough to have told the guy she didn't fancy anything romantic with him until he started acting tough. She even demonstrated this by chatting all night (apparently with other men), answered with one syllables and came a bit late, all of which are obvious signs of disinterest.

Seriously, when did the time come that one average guy will come and go and be acting like James Bond of the pickup world knowing fully well that some of these women control the sexual market place and are extremely picky about who they pair with.

At any rate, why would the guy even text her if really he was put off by her attitude and didn't want anything further?

Moral of the story: You need to be at your best - fitness and appearance wise to get any headway with some women because they have so many options and it would seem they have retired the logic sections of their brain in deference to their emotions. As a result, they are extremely picky, and will judge you based on the vibes you give off. Sometimes, you don't even get more than a few minutes before their mind is made up.


Verdict: The guy let his ego come between him and somebody he could have used as Bleep buddy with a little cajoling, working on his ankle and getting a better haircut. I'm sure all these plus his huge salary would have had her juices flowing. Me I like fvck oh, and I like to win. Na why I de yarn this way o.

To think that Buhari used six precious months to appoint these conniving bunch of thieves is the biggest joke of the 21st century

Maybe family and friends considered op lucky to have been blessed with such a woman because they felt the girl was too good for him or he didn't have what it takes to keep such a lady grounded and humble, which could be why the op lets her get away with murder as compensation. Op even admits this by saying the wife is more popular in the church in the new area they just moved into, meaning OP is invisible as a result of being overshadowed by his wife's charms, charisma and possibly beauty.

To describe your wife as having the strength of three men and come on here to complain about how she mistreats you suggests that you are the sissy and crybaby in this relationship. Your wife is actually the one who wears the pants and she is doing all she can to fill the leadership void you have left in your home. But we know women make poor leaders and that's why God in his infinite wisdom ordained you as the head of the home.

But you say you've not been into your bedroom for more than five minutes in the last 6 months; meaning you have been walking on egg shells in your own home and you expect your wife to still desire, respect, submit and yearn for you. Where is the manliness in your actions that should attract any strong willed woman to you?


Your wife yearns for a strong masculine figure to look up to and make her happy and you must let her ago if you cannot inspire the fear and love of you in her.

MrFly:
Am i being betrayed? What should i do?

No you are being loved intensely

THT80:
LOL. It's a good thing you deleted the comment. I applaud you for having the wisdom to acknowledge your intellectual superior.

Unfortunately, his earlier post was right. Do yourself one favour; go outside and see the guys the cute chicks are coming to club with. Go to fast food joints, supermarkets, parks and see the guys that are bringing the arm candies to the show. See the cute couple walking hand in hand on the side walk and notice how the guy could easily steal your woman with just a wink if he really wanted to. Be practical for at least once. Leave the house and observe what is happening outside then come back and tell us what you see.

Love/romance is the language of beautiful people. Stop this self delusional thoughts about game and macho stuffs. They don't work in the long run as your mask will eventually slip . You'd be longing constantly for her hot body and this will give you away. Your primal instinct is far stronger than any social conditioning you can ever come up with. You may not even get the opportunity to game her if she doesn't approve of you in the first place, meaning all your game will just be there in your head without an outlet for practice.

On the other hand, if you want to swap your low maintenance plain Jane for a hot girl in her prime (assuming you're not genetically gifted), then go to the club or any hangout where these ratchet pozays converge and pick your speck; pay your dues and masturbate into her hole. But if you're still nursing the blue pill thought of settling down with the one, then wait till she is past her prime and is desperate for a partner and then you might stand a chance because then your stock would have risen in comparison to hers.

Raskasal:
Like seriously? How do I care less?

Get another babe to divide your attention and gradually move on. But never try to end the relationship abruptly as it would be akin to matching the accelerator and the brake at the same time since you're still in love with her. You'd be in for a bumpy ride and this could lead to toxic emotions - depression, anger, spite. These emotions could kill you bro and I mean every bit of it.

The challenge you must face however to rid you of your current weakness which is your love for her is to find another woman. Your girl is not the only woman in this world and it seems she is not keen about spending the rest of her life with you. Her happiness too should count which is why you need to let her walk.

Lastly, before you embark on a relationship that could lead to marriage, you need to try as much as possible to study the person before you even propose. Ideally, the woman should be the one pressuring you into marriage with her nice and sweet nature and maybe you eventually commit when you're sure you two are compatible. But never yield to the lustful greed of trying to settle with a woman just because you are charmed by her beauty and you want to keep her to yourself alone; unless you are sure the feeling is mutual because her happiness should equally be as important as yours for the union to at least last the legendary first four years.

How can a 40 years old man marry a girl who is nearly half his age and expect the union to last? Did he even consider the girl's happiness as a factor?

Tell your friend to get over his greed grief and and look for his age mates if wants anything with the semblance of a meaningful union.

dealslip:
I know where you are coming from but I won't be able to answer your question because you are obviously ignorant of the psychology of life. [/b]Not everyone is for sale. If you observed I didn't even mention money once in my write up. [b]You are evidently unenlightened and depend on money to maintain a relationship. You still don't realize that people who marry for money only despite their spouses irrational behavior or looks have have cognitive dissonance issues. Their self esteem is attached to money. This is still a psychological problem. That is why people sacrifice their happiness for money in some abusive relationship. It means they can't stand on their own. They aren't whole spirit, soul and body.

Stop with all the adhominem attacks as they are just not necessary. I said relationships are governed by such factors as looks money and status. There is a popular saying that birds of the same feather flock together. It means folks of similar looks threshold, similar societal status, people who have physical beauty to trade for material wealth, are most likely to be seen together……in a romantic relationship. This is practical matter, not some idealistic codswallop.

And what are you saying that not everyone desires money. Are you having a laugh? It is either you have lost touch with reality or you're simply in denial. You need money to buy food, clothes and shelter. Without money, you don’t even exist. Period. Humans are hard wired to seek comfort, shelter and survival and in this day and time, only money gets you that. Money is the path to least resistance.

You could suppress this natural desire by saying money is not everything, but bear in mind that this is just a coping mechanism when money seems out of reach or when you want to take a moral high ground. Yet, deep down, you know you don’t amount to much without money in this material life. This is a fact because money makes the world go round. Even the Bible says money answereth all things. So, who are you to dispute this age long biblical wisdom?

dealslip:
She is right though. People who are attracted to people with destructive habits and imbalanced state of mind are called Co Dependents. They are often victims of abuse especially parental. This is why they usually attract such partners. It is a compulsive attitude and Co dependents feel compelled to fulfill because they are looking for acceptance they never got. Most co dependents compromise their personal space, sacrifice so much just to please their partners in return for a pat in the back. Most narcissistic personality then take advantage of such weakness using it as a bargain
Such Co dependents attend to their ego while they give them acceptance they crave for in return. Where this isn't met the narcissistic personality withhold their affection from the Co dependent. The Co dependents who are addicted to getting acceptance will give in. Most co dependents are shamed into thinking they are at fault by the narcissistic when it is the other way round. That's why she feels she fails her partners. Such narcissist have mastered the art of manipulation

Cope. Will you stay with a short, ugly, balding, broke man if he treated you badly. Would you even give him more than a passing glance Let alone let him into your life?

Truth is, looks, money and status is everything when it comes to attraction and relationship not some personality psychobabble.

If you do a thorough background check, you'll see that most of these men she's complaining about have one thing in common: they are good looking and well off and have an abundance of women at their beck and call. They get validation and attention in overdose from lots of beautiful women.

So be honest with yourself and tell me why these men should stick with you even when they know they can be happier elsewhere, especially considering that you are nearly past your prime? You see! It is neediness that drives these women into hanging on to 'prince charming, hoping he'll grow to love them, even when it's obvious these guys aren't even into them in the first place.

So, sweetheart, tell yourself the truth that these men are way beyond your league and you don't have what it takes to keep them for a sequel because you didn't win the genetic lottery. Find your level and quit yelping like a pathetic love sick puppy .

Why is it that these people think we want to see them without cloths on? They then moan when they get exploited. Nothing we haven't seen before love, so put you cloths back on. Thanks.

with this mindless barbaric onslaught by Fulani herdsmen, is it still surprising that folks are importing pump action rifles from Turkey to defend themselves

removing an item in the exclusive list and placing it in the residual or concurent list is still the same as restructuring so we are gradualy starting to have a consensus which is nice to see?

The only way to achieve the devolution that the sultan so craves of course is by tinkering with the provisions
of the status book to remove some of the items that are the exclusive preserve of FG to ensure they are evenly spread.


From there, we move on to financial autonomy for state legislators to reduce the overbearing influence of state govs.

villagers

You, de call woman, she no de pick, she insults you, won't listen to you but agrees with every lame shiit your hommie spits and you still assume youre the most eligible bachelor op. Im not understanding.

It's obvious that bae has moved on. You wouldn't lock your bird inside if she wants to get with another fella except you were mynd44 (ha ha ha). The lads would call on a friday 9t, you would go to club and then you will realize she's not the only girl in the world.

NwaAmaikpe:



Uncles love to put their nose all up in their niece's business.
They are even more inquisitive than a jealous boyfriend.


The nosy uncle just put sand in somebody's garri.

Pathetic rubbish from a pathetically dumb and poorly educated moronn

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Whoever wrote this disgusting shiit is a mediocre piece of shiit. How many women have you been with or observed in a relation to come here and start cackling like a hen in chicken soup? The fact is men and women love according to thier options. Most women have more options, so are more picky. But they too become clingy and needy as they age and thier option is reduced. But to come here and say women are incapable of loving men is as laughable as it is ridiculous because you are invariably saying women do not produce the dopamine and oxytocin hormone thats responsible for bonding and attachment.

Op calm down as a broken relationship is not the end of the world. Maybe the girl didn't really love you to begin with or she has found someone she thinks is better. Again you must understand that rejection is a normal part of life and you need to learn to accept that.

Buhari has been pumped full with with synthetic hallucinogen which keeps him real high in spirit. The pastor has no need to lie.

Didn't Custioms clampe down on these pump action rifles?

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