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The issue is Buhari has no WAEC certificate yet he claims to have one. It's the same as the Ex Finance Minister who claimed to have an exemption certificate which was forged. The army has said they only have a recommendation by his school principal that he will pass certain subjects if he were to sit for them.

Buhari's claim is still subsisting because no commission of inquiry has established this falsehood. The so-called Mr. integrity has neihther bothered to request the certified true copy from Cambridge.

The former Attorney General under Jonathan, Mohammed Adoke frustrated every attempt to establish this falsehood via judicial proceedings. Buhari too hired over a dozen sans to ensure that truth remains elusive.as soon as he became President.

Anyone still calling Buhari Mr. Integrity with these glaring facts is merely playing the ostrich. it's like taking a trip out of reality land.

What a bunch of pure filth.

INEC is saying it cannot verify that Buhari actually has a certificate in line with section 137 (1(j) of the 1999 Constitution, which stipulates that a candidate for an election will be disqualified if he presents a forged certificate.

Buhari stated in his submission to the INEC that he has a WAEC certificate obtained in 1961 domiciled with the military but has made no attempt to retrieve same. Should he not be compelled by a supposed independent INEC to attach a photocopy to back up his claim?

As job seekers, Nigerians are made to provide their credentials for verification. Is the INEC saying an applicant to the highest position in this country cannot have his certificate verified except the court authorizes so?

INEC must realize that the same constitution that gave it powers to disqualify Zamfara State for not conducting primaries also grants it statutory powers to disqualify any candidate with forged certificate. If Buhari cannot present a certificate to back up his claim, then it is deemed that he has none which is the same as forgery.

Those posting hurtful comments should remember these are human beings with emotions.

To the couple, I say HML. May your union be merry and fruitful and may you never tire of loving each other.

Just to be pedantic, the op should add fees to that headline

When you see so much patronizing statements from these leeching hoez, you can tell they are smarting up to dig their claws. tomorrow they'll say they are feminists. Feminism kill you there.

safarigirl:
it is a Nairaland phenomenon ALONE

The people on this site are sad, that is why they only see things from a negative standpoint. They posted this story in Twitter and instagram and everyone had nothing but jokes and laughs. But on this site, you find only comments from bitter and hateful people. Joyless people that live to judge others for the slightest thing.


Did you see the original post? No. Somebody came and posted what they liked, none of you saw the original post,but the first comments and many more are insulting the lady, calling her all sorts of names even with the scraps they have for information. Your lives are so sad that you can't imagine women making jokes like this. They must be hos and gold diggers


Nairaland is filled with kids and sadists. Terrible humans that only embrace negativity. Just look at this thread and see it

To hell with you and your herd mentality. The fact twitter folks made jokes about it doesn't mean we all have to react the same way. And you have the nerves to come here and tell us how we should react to an issue after calling us names. Do you think its all schoolboys you are dealing with?. You even went further to say all nairalanders are kids and sadists which is nothing but more trolling nonsense to wind us up just to have your kick. So who now is the one with a sad life? please Just stick to twitter and allow us to react in peace.

Asking me for money like say I be your papa

KOPT33:
Do not tell me pele, please. I am not hurt in any way What's all the pele for?

Op it's either you are saying this to feel good about your life or you are one confused little prick. In your post, you kept mentioning specific amounts you spent on food and how they far exceeded what you would normally spend on yourself. You even said at a stage that you spent beyond your limit. If you we'rent hurt in anyway, why did you say it's worst date of your life? Now people are sympathizing with you and you are acting all cool like it's no big deal. Who are you really trying to impress?


You also come across as one lonely loser with no social life. Why would you just meet a lady at the ATM and you start trying to befriend her? Don't you have other girls within your social circle that you could have picked from? You are just desperate for female validation and the ladies can sense this which is why they are taking advantage.


My advice is to come off your high horse and do a proper introspection to understand if you truly deserve love from the girls you are approaching and trying to trick with expensive dates that you can hardly afford. Look for girls of your grade that will appreciate you for who you really are and not going after arm candies who will place you where you rightly belong. What that girl did to you is reality check in my view. She doesn't see you as deserving of her company, which is why she kept ignoring you during the date and asked to be paid in the end. It's a cold world out there and nobody owes you affection or tact as you put it.

happybee:
*sighs* that's why I'm here... What would you have done please?

May be her ex has better prospects and you don't have what it takes to lock her down like Mynd44 lol. If your worth your salt OP, you wouldn't even be here debating over a lady who is two timing. So, prove to yourself that you're the real deal and upgrade to a better bird or you go tails in between legs like a loser and apologize for spoiling her fun time with a real man.


The problem with Nairaland is most people spitting these grizzles haven't seen the op in real life and don't even know if he is deserving of love in the first place. Now they are telling you to walk away from what could possibly be your only opportunity of female validation, even if it is as a second option.

Like I said earlier, prove to yourself that you are lovable in an exclusive setting and not as a reserve backup. From there, you know what to do.

gentlegenius:
I have noticed strange ideas and beliefs here on Nairaland, but more strange to me is the misconception some guys seems to develop about women recently... If you check some threads here that has something to do with how men can attract women or what women find attractive in men, you'll see lots of comments that goes this way: 'Make money... Make more and more money, then women will follow you'. The funny thing is that such comments are only coming from guys, not the women themselves. Many guys seems to believe that the aroma of money is the only thing women perceive, so the more you get money, the more women will perch on you like flies on shit.
But this is a completely wrong believe. Attraction has little or nothing to do with money and material things. Women like money, no doubt about that, but what women find attractive in men is far from money. Apart from looks, which really doesn't mean much to most ladies, there are some key character traits that draws women to men. If you focus only on making money and showing it off, without developing these key character traits, women will only follow your money and not you. They'll only be attracted to your money and not to you. Take note of this. Though they can give you sex, pretend to love you, and some will even get so desperate to marry you, but all these is not because they find your attractive; It's simply because they find your money attractive. The moment you run out of money, or maybe you just stop spending it on them, they will drop you like a piece of hot iron.
I have seen a few guys who doesn't have money, yet beautiful ladies still get naturally attracted to them. This is because they are the REAL men that women don't joke with because they are not easy to come by.
Though money is good to have, but If all you do is make money and enjoy the attention women give you, then be rest assured that any woman that comes to you because of your money must have had a real guy somewhere that she naturally finds attractive, and most of the money she'll collect from you will end up in that guy's pocket. She doesn't care about you, except in pretence to get what she wants, but she passionately care about the other guy (who may not even have money). So at the end of each relationship you had with them, you'll discover that you were the greatest fool. It's high time you stop fooling yourself around, believing that money is the only thing that will make you attractive to women. If money is the only thing you have to offer, even when you get married, the marriage will only last as long as your money last.

Money is just like beauty... If all a woman has to offer is her beauty, then she'll only attract men who comes to her due to LUST and not LOVE... All they want from her is her body, not her company. She might think guys are rushing her but the truth is that they are actually rushing those features on her body that provoke their LUST. They only find those features attractive and not her, so they are there to enjoy those things while they last.

Conclusion: Money & Beauty are good to have, but they are two things that has little or nothing to do with love and attraction.
So find out and develop those important qualities that can make you naturally attractive and irresistible to the opposite sex.

Lol at the bolded

Somebody should get that girl dental braces to at least correct this horrible case of malocclusion because with that look, I doubt' the men would want to stick around long enough for a sequel.

Tracked, trailed, opened fire......Abeg these guys were shot at close range possibly after they had surrendered.

State police or we sink

Operation sink the Bismarck

iLegendd:
What most men don't know is: women don't want men that love them — they only want their money. What women want is men they love, not men that love them.

This is why women easily break the hearts of men who love them, but hardly break the hearts of men they love.

This is what every man needs to understand in this life to avoid becoming a woman's walking ATM - aka maga. Good looks gets you pure undiluted lust while money gets you humility and submission.

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Admin401:
Melanin is actually beautiful. Explain how we got the Nose and Skull shape.

Are we not allowed to be different? Anyway, science says our air is already warm and does not need to warmed any further before it gets into the lungs. Whites have narrower nose to warm the air. Please look beyond silly aesthetics and try to be happy with yourself.

As for skull shapes, Africa is the home of our ancestors and we didn't require further adaptations and mutations in skull shape to survive. its all about survival bro. It's a simple sturvs.

Please don't forget blacks are nearer the equator and require melanin to shied them from the ultraviolet rays of the sun which can predispose you to DNA mutations and skin cancer. Sunlight energy is damaging to the human skin and needs to be controlled and that is where melanin comes into play. It is the sun screen that makes our skin, black and eyes brown to defend us against UV light. It also stimulates the production of vitamin D for strong healthy bones and teeth. We are not ugly. Instead, we have adapted to our climate. Would you rather blacks died off on a massive scale in the name of so-called white beauty? I think not. Call it ugly, but black is what toughens us against ultraviolet rays without which you could have a disaster of cataclysmic proportion.

I can't say I've ever heard of this person and have no idea what she does for a living, but obviously she likes to remind people that she's around by taking her clothes off. I think she looks common tbh. No class whatsoever. And I've forgotten her name already!

Frankicent:
You mean money abi? OK cause me don't know that money is the way, and truth... Even big guys like Davido and Wizkid will get reject. Everybody has class..

You think money answer all... Pele

Samir Nasir with all the millions still got friend zoned by his model girlfriend, Anara Atunes in 2015 and he quit the relationship saying loneliness is better than fake love.

Op, I have been in your shoes several times before. Not married though but have cohabited with women and this is how the relationships would usually tail off. In the beginning, she would be the one waking you in the night to have fun and still asking for it as you are about to leave in the morning. But then out of the blues, the whole thing starts to fizzle. She would say not now, I want to sleep, I have headache, we'll do it later, not in the mood and picking up quarrels each time you try to initiate it.

This really troubled me as I started to feel inadequate. Then on closer observations,realized they had lost their feelings/attraction to me for whatever reasons. It was painful but it's the honest truth. Cohabitation killed the passion in my case. One of the girls was even actively lusting after my cousin that stayed with me but avoiding me at the same time. The guy didn't bulge though cos of integrity. It helped me realize something vital.

Nowadays, I try as much as possible to avoid cohabitation. The max I'll let any woman stay with me is one week and I ask her to leave if she is not yet making attempts to do so, feelings or no feelings. I now understand that letting her stay any further would mean handing her full control of my sexual market place, and bringing about scarcity and subsequent drama.

The new girls I meet nowadays are so much fun in contrast to what I experienced while cohabiting. The most exciting part is seeing how they are unable to take their hands off my body and wanting to please me in anyway possible. Still I realize I need to hold frame as I know what is coming if I don't do so. I never imagined it would come to this but this is life.

In your case, you are already lumbered with a woman and children and it is now your prerogative to decide between a sexless life and going out there to have your fun. You need to let your wife know though that your needs must be met and you don't care how it is met. Sometimes, you just have to be selfish in this life to be happy. Life is really short and I don't think I would ever want to walk on egg shells in my own house for anybody ever again.

Tallino25:
@akinbam we are course mates like i said earlier how do you think i should react or behave when i see her in class in trying to distance myself from her

Tell her you thought about what she said and you think it actually makes sense because emotional relationship shouldn't really be a priority now. Then take it further by saying how nice it was of her to not let you stray from the main purpose that you are in school which is to learn and make good grades. say all these with a smile just to save face because you already goofed. Let her know u'll still be around to assist when needed (but this is should just be subterfuge to save face).

Then gradually pull away and start scanning around for the girls that may have been giving off some indications of interest that you weren't noticing. I can guarantee you that you are better off with them than someone who feels no love for you.

Lets see how long this one runs before the legs fall off

Goal ni o! goal ni o. goal ni o!

These hoes ain't just loyal and that is their nature. It's factory fitted man. If they are not panning after good looks, they are aching for a rich dude, meaning they'll still try to destroy a beautiful relationship either way. Trust me, I've seen it all. Only thing I wanna do now is fvck cos I never met a biitch that I can trust. I've had bitches bite me when I was really in love (duh) despite claiming they were different at the outset. Its all bullshit. These hoez are remarkably similar.

Some guys are desperate for something more meaningful with a woman, love, a proper relationship and blah blah. Fair enough, I understand that desire, but all this shit still applies. You will get bleeped. It’s not a question of if, but when.

My advice to op and other niggyz is live your life on your own terms and don’t feel like you have some fucking duty to these ungrateful harpies who’ll never appreciate all the sweat and toil you put into making ends meat. If you’re not already lumbered with a woman, a woman’s problems, and a kid, sit back, sip a JD & Coke from a cocktail straw and let it all fucking burn.

Op this guy likes you but you are trying to escalate with logic which is the wrong way. Just start fvcking other girls and don't give a care about how she reacts. It's then you will see the sexy side of her.

5minsmadness:
When u lack sexual satisfaction in matrimony

As a man this can be very frustrating. The woman you knew that was very sexually active premaritally suddenly develops cold feet after marriage. She relaxes and loses her sexiness. She talks of being tired all the time and you as the man is turned into a houseboy doing all you can around the house to please madam and make sure she is well rested so you can get down to business in the bedroom later in the day. Most women still don't find this effort by the man enough and use the opportunity to take advantage of their husbands and use sex in blackmailing them (if u can't do so and so then we can't have sex). This is a man that is used to having sex three times a week and suddenly finds himself settling for it once or twice a month.

Men are sexual beings. Sex is a major part of our repertoire. If it wasn't so you wouldn't see so many cases of infidelity on the part of the man. Sex is important, very important to us. Sex is food. And if the wife denies him this meal he gets angry, irritable, commandeering and cold. A religious man will try and keep himself in check by practicing holiness, but you will always notice the bitter undertones in all the things he does. The grumpiness, the sadness, distancing himself away from the wife and choosing to watch TV instead, etc. A carnal man(for want of a better word) will simply take his business elsewhere. He will find sex either in porn.ogra.phy and mast.urb.ation (and the wife catches him one day and starts wondering where he learnt the bad habit from). Or he learns how to frequent prostitutes. Or he has an affair and if he doesn't get caught he goes on to have many other affairs all in a bid to satiate the sexual hunger within him. Even those that get caught if the situation in the house isn't rectified they harden thier hearts and become more daring in thier escapades.

I know women will come here and start screaming self control and how they know "millions" of men who practice such. Let's be honest, that's a lie, you don't know up to 10 men you can bet your life on that are faithful to thier wives, not even pastors. Sexual hunger is hard for us men. We need all the help we can get in controlling it.


So if you are a married woman reading this, don't starve your husband of sex. Satiating your husband is wonderful when done in love but if you can't do it in love at least see it as a duty. It will keep him sane, less prone to outside temptation fron your female gender whom he meets everyday and who by the way smell of roses, less irritable and more compliant to your wishes.

End of part 1.

Man you just spoke the real truth and I'm guessing you're talking from experience. the op's writeup is somewhat idealistic in thinking that women want to be physically pleasured the same way a man wants in the bedroom. maybe they do initially but when we start to pressure them constantly, they too would need something to rationalize the effort they are putting into it.

at the outset, I had a hard time trying to understand why the same woman that will wake you up severally at night to have fun would all of a sudden turn a cold feet. but I later figured it has to do with men not having self control when it comes to issues of sex cos of the way we are biologically designed.

whoever desires sex the most in a relationship would usually tend to turn off the other party. its like being offered ur best meal as you're getting out of bed, then once again in the shower and another one as you are about to leave the house. it could be fun in the beginning but with time, this feeling could be replaced by resentment if it becomes the routine. its like the same feeling I get when I'm constantly being asked to provide money.

I find that my best relationships are the ones where the girl has to come and go from time to time. but once we enter cohabitation of any sort, the sex would usually dry up, except when she starts to get jealous or feel threatened by another female or I'm fully providing her needs. maybe cohabitation kills passion or something. I don't know but the passion always tends to burn out.

I said guys no longer want to pay full price for a used car that others got to ride for free when it was still brand new.

Because they don't want to pay full price for a used car.

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