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cheekilicious:
warris dis..did dey drop from heaven?..egbami me

What has "where the children came from" got to do with my question?

kilokeys:
Cos i no imagine how woman go push pikin and it turns out they're not hers

probably the doctor or someone had a problem with the family and decided to switch their babies everytime the wife delivered..
We're only assuming, not as if it has happened to someone. But it might happen tho'

SirJeffry:
And what made you have this kind of unthinkable imagination at this time of your night?

Isi o dikwa gi mma nwataa

Who said it's unthinkable? It might happen to you, who knows?

It's not my imagination, let's just say that I'm giving you an expo of your future.

And hope that your last statement didn't cuss at me?

Lemme put it this way

Just imagine that;
¤ You're 49 and your wife is 42, or you're 42 and your hubby's 49.
¤ You have 3 children, let's say 2 boys and a lady; the oldest being 20, the second 19 and the last 18years old. The three of them are already in the university.

Em, then something led to something and you did some test and found out that your 3 kids are not yours. Of course, as a man you should suspect your wife; but the test further showed that they are not her children too.

You (you and your wife) did more investigation, hoping you could maybe find your biological children, but there was nothing, the effort was just futile. The only guess was that maybe the children were switched at birth, no evidence..

What would you do?

What would be your first reaction? Would you try to make children again, knowing that the youngest is already 18? How would you tell the strange kids you raised in your home? Would you tell your family or your spouse's family and relatives about it? What about people at the office, church/mosque etc, neighbourhood?

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Emrich:
Emma chances are that they both won't be your friends when you start working and building your own family.

Let me see if I have the right info...
1. He was your friend before the girl
2. Because of 1, your loyalty leans towards the guy
3. You care for both of them
4. You know he takes care of her women
5. You know also that his love has expiring date...

Well, advise him to break up properly with the girl and find another woman, explaining to him that you can't date your friend and roommate's ex. You can tell him that in future if you are both still interested it can then happen.

I want you to understand however that dating should not be seen only as a prerequisite to marriage. The guy and the girl can both be wonderful people and when paired with the right person will make wonderful couples. In essence, what they are doing now don't make them terrible people, it means they have refused to understand themselves and are not patient to learn yet. So they need to move on. What I am trying to say is that your story with him if you choose to date him will not be the same with the other. And if it ends bad, such is life, afterall, you will hardly end up marrying your college sweetheart.

However, the best thing is to help them move on if you still want to hang on to the relationship you have with the both a little longer or if you don't want some girl thinking bad of you. This way you create and maintain a good personality (for yourself).

Thanks babe..

Dahveydson:
CuteEmma, Don't tell your her and also don't go out with him because he's likely to ditch you like that.

You can drop subliminal messages for your roommate but don't give her full details. You can bring up discussion about cheating bfs,etc.

hmmm.. I think I'd try this one.. Thanks dearie

sickstars:
Rubbish

Prove of her cheating

Stup*d thread daily hiding d truth

By the way a girl who cheats on u wont even mind if u date her sister let alone frnd cos d love is naturally gone
So d guy is just goin to hurt himself

seriously? So you mean people who cheat do not have problem with their partner also cheating? This is weird

In fact, people who cheat are the ones who want their spouses to be more faithful.

Decker:
The guy has said he would break up with his girlfriend. Please wait and see if he would actually go on to break up with her and don't try to get involved in anyway.
What if he has a change of mind and he doesn't break up with her again? What if he was actually lying and was just trying to use you?

What if he's serious, and decides to ask another of my roommate's friends, and what if she accepts? Then he'd eventually leave her and maybe tell my roommie that I was aware of his plan all along

There's this my coursemate (actually, my first college friend, we met during clearance in my first year), and he later introduced me to another of his female friend who later became my roommate. They started dating like 1month before 1st semester exams.

They've been dating for like 3years now. The first 2 years were splendid and enviable, but for the past 1year, it's been from one quarrel to another, they've been cheating terribly on each other. I've never interfered, even when she's trying to report what he did, I just tell her to forget (the even accuses me sometimes of taking sides with her boyfriend).

Recently, he guy called me and told me that he's tired of his relationship, and that he wanna date me.. I was like wtf;
1. I have a boyfriend,
2. You've got a girlfriend and you're still together
3. Your girlfriend is my friend and also my roommate.
I just told him to get rid of that crazy thought (but I remember that I used to envy 'em, and I wished he was dating me).

He then told me that he was gonna end their relationship if I accept to date him, that he dislikes the idea of ditching her and then being single again.

I also declined, and tried to talk to him but he refused and told me that he'd find someone else who would replace her, and I should also think about it and probably change my mind.
He later begged me not to tell her.

I know that I'd never change my mind to date him (it's too late), but the problem is Should I tell my roommate about it? I just don't know how leaking that info without hurting any of 'em.

I've got a feeling that he wants to date one of her friend as some wicked pay-back, and that's gonna hurt her real bad. To me, she still loves him, just that he barely has time for her that's why she's cheating.

Please advice..

Estharfabian:
Utter Nonsense! blatant subterfuge!!!


Harebrained Guys would still cheat even if they were castrated or Given birth to without A Dîck....

Sorry o.. But have you dated guys who cheat??
This one you're saying cheating is part of some guys (virgins or not) is really getting me scared.

daretodiffer:
I am sorry i should have

1) you have a friend who is bold enough to tell you that she visited one person who asked her to carry out a ritual.
2) the fact that you are still in touch with such person.
3) I don't hold any grudge against traditional religions but I bet that your friend is likely going to be a christian or a muslim. That should tell you something about her
4) Show me your friend and I will tell you who you are. Do you know who you are?
4)You are a woman. Yes I agree that we have useless men but it will do our girls good if you had aired your opinion to reflect what should be the ideal.

Well, now I understand.
The told me what she did, and she also argued that it wasn't rituals (it was here I found out that it was the same as human rituals)

She's not necessarily a friend I chose to be with, our families were friends even before I was born. She used to be good, dunno how she became wild.

I've tried to advise her, but she's the type who fixes her mind on something, and nothing can change her mind.

And I never said anything about what's ideal or not.. I only used it to point out how people change and assuming that everything that looks good comes from God is bad, 'cause it might be some diabolical facade to rob you off your real blessing from God. Capisce?

Today, I met my friends arguing that couples who marry as virgins tend to be more satisfied sexually and they never cheat; which would eventually make the marriage a successful one..

One agreed to the statement and the other was against it. Both of 'em stated their point, which was to some extent very sensible and it really got me confused..

Is this really true ? Please someone should enlighten me, thanks in advance..

daretodiffer:
Please

Aren't you ashamed to be spitting this jargon on cyberspace?

This is 2016, babe. Wake up!

Please can you tell me the part of it that disgusts you? Cause I was only trying to help a friend, and I don't know why you decided to pick on me

Simple logic... Because those same 2 toasters also approached 19 other ladies that same day..

In a week, they can approach up to 140 ladies, that's like 70 women to 1 man (That's like a thousand percent (1000% ) of the value The Book of Isaiah gave us)

In Conclusion, husbands are scarce dear..

If 2 guys toast you daily, then 14 weekly, 60 monthly; only one (1, okpa) would think about marrying you, and that's if you're lucky.

Durentt:
i dnt Want or need u to believe

See your life?? Ode

tanimola22:
I wanted to pass up this statement but decided to respond in order to enlighten the younger people who might be reading this.

Yes, your submission used to be very true at least 10 years ago, but things are changing. The number of people choosing to study Mathematics at undergraduate level has risen astronomically over the last 10 years. This partly is responsible for the increase in cut-off marks for gaining admissions into Maths. It's also responsible for the improved performances of Maths undergraduates nowadays as more and more intelligent people are choosing to study Mathematics as their first choice. Previously, it was 'they gave me Maths because I couldn't enter Engineering or Computer Science. Now, it's becoming ' I'm doing Maths because I chose it while filling my JAMB form. The result - a sharp increase in 1st class, 2:1 and 2:2 Maths graduates.

When I did Mathematics some years ago, nobody wanted me to do it because they thought the only option I had was to become a teacher. The thing is that the awareness of the relevance of Mathematics has grown in leaps and bounds over the years, and many people are making a more informed decision to study Maths because they, at least, have a clue of where it's likely to land them.

The notion of people reading Maths because they couldn't get into Engineering is fading, and we need to be aware of this. It is however not untrue that some people still accept Maths because they couldn't get into not only Engineering but also Computer Science.

If you genuinely have access to JAMB/Post-UME data, you'll agree that my somewhat contrarian opinion is plausible.

It's very easy to know the people who actually applied from those who were thrown into the department:

1. They've got no idea on why they are there
2. They try to compare their applied and given courses
3. They try to argue that the given course is better than applied course

Students who were actually given their courses do not compare, they already virtually everything they need to know about it, and they don't think that any other course is better than theirs because it has been their dream since kindergarten till the day they did their Jamb registration.

Yeap.. Only 13 chose it in Jamb (Uniben) last year but up to a hundred were admitted into that department.

Durentt:
i see ur brain is faulty, i tak nothing frm ur ma'am. Take ur words nd shove them bak into ur thick skull.

Upload your jamb result to prove me wrong.. Simple
#seeing_is_believing

Durentt:
see me see wahala nii where u there wen i filled my jamb form? Pls face front

Shut up and admit.. When students don't get their desired courses, they'd start arguing that what they were given was even better off than their originally desired courses..

You're only trying to console yourself that your friends who got their desired courses are not better than you.. Students do it every year, it's no new thing..
So what I tell you, you take it from me.. Capisce?

iWise:
I wish you know what algebra entails, you prolly wont spew this trash.

Do I blame you?? When you don't have respect for elders, why won't you tell me that I churn out thrash.. Ode

Durentt:
calculus my ass. All d 200lvl elect engr students i know are dealing with indices nd logarithm in their borrowed courses. MEC ENGR. Doin Vectors nd d rest. And dey be feeling fly

Algebra and Calculus are first year courses

Durentt:
Lol i cant seem to wrap dis idea how Engineering students think or act lik they do/know mathematics aspect more dan those who spend all their freaking lecture hours solving am Pure Mathematics student nd an engineering student came to me today saying "am wastin my time doin pure maths that dey (engineering) are equal to mathematicians plus dey hav added engineering knowledge. I was lik wtf, suite urself, i kno why i chose mathematics over engineering during JAMB. Am not a foool.
Engineering students brag to be all rounder but i refuse to accept an engineer can replace a mathematican except in a useless country lik nigeria

You didn't chose Mathematics in Jamb, from statistics. Math was prolly your second choice course in Putme. Okpari

kaziblake:
God works in mysterious ways,he can use anybody to help you.

Hmmm.. My dear, we have to be careful. If you pray for something, and you get it, please pray to know if it's actually from God.

A friend of mine told me October last year that she went to visit a Baba and he instructed her to buy eatable things worth 10grand and share it among her friends.. That it's not a ritual but simply the law of sow and reap.

I did a research on it here on NL and found out that it's still money rituals. And sadly, I went to her place of the 27th or 28th and she brought some goodies. Although she ate out of it, how am I sure that it's not one of her rituals?

My point is, don't just assume that some things are normal. If I were you, I wouldn't have accepted the guy's gift in the first place. Just as I regret eating at her place.

kaziblake:
my actual thought?
I was surprised at first but I thought it's was from God cause during that period I was praying.

And you believed that God would use a guy; when you know that most (if not all) of 'em are perverts.

Tolexander:
may they safely come back home!

Seriously? Someone still believes that the Chibok thing was real..

Do you think it's easy to abduct over 200 girls? And take care of them for over 20 months?

Be realistic, it was never possible

kaziblake:
That the reigning things with guys now,i was also surprised when someone offered to pay my school fees cause I barely know him,his brother introduced me to him.
I was happy,i thought manna already came from heaven.
When I called him to ask of the money,he gave me hotel description,i ask him,hotel for what?he told me if I needed the money I shld come dere,that was how I left him.

Wow. Some people are quite funny..

Don't lie, what was your actual thought, manna or maga?

I've experienced something similar; when one guy voluntarily offered some job (I barely need) and told me to meet him at some hotel, I was like 'for what', then he said the bar, then later, at the pool side by 6pm so we could discuss about payments and the job proper . I didn't ask any questions.

reminiscing:
I have really suffered o.A guy who happens to b a manager of a printing press that offered to assist me with my hostel Accommodation payment stopped picking my calls last week because I have refused to sleep with him.He said he loved me and all he is making for is for me to allow him sleep with him and he will give me the money he promised.I was surprised wen he promised to help with the payment because I met him last month and now imagine the Option he gave.I feel really disappointed....I wonder where our generation is headed for...

So what?

You had better change your mind and fück him, before he finds someone who would give him... For Free

lordizak:
like I said; U just come on here to pick on people. Unlike I still believe that Nigeria Will be great again. I will fight until my last breath. I believe in Buhari,... I will not defer.

Goodluck to you. I wish you'd still believe in the next PDP Government in 2019

BERNIMOORE:
repair from obasanjo ibb and abacha, obasanjo still dines with Buhari till date, obasanjo who spent 8yrs in the 16th yr rule of PDP which APC still reffered,, who bribed all 480 national assembly members with 50million each for third 3rd term agenda in the treasury loot, obasanjo a currupt flash drive inflicted on a new system and it currupts .

which new system?

lordizak:
I am sure u guys just wanna pick on Mr President[b],[/b] Who has been funding that of PDP? If APC acts, takes any line of action to work, Wailers and and PDP will be ranting that[b];[/b] Their actions are faulty, There fight against corruption is lopsided[b],[/b] need I remind u, if the fight is lopsided or not, it's a fight against corruption. The big Question is " WHAT HAS PDP DONE FOR YOU FOR 16years"?.
U guys want to make judgement devoid of reasoning. If Amechi is corrupt, where were the saints when he was driving PMB? Politics is a business, invest and get ur returns, Do necessary evil when u have to. The past administration sold oil at ceiling price, what was the dividend we gained? I am sure the scam sure p will pop into your heads. This administration is facing more challenges than any other, but the pace and steadiness they handle it with is quite commendable, I'll give them that credit. You see the uprising in the East (What will happen if they result into arms war, I think there's already the proliferation of arms), the dwindling price of petroleum world over not only in Nigeria, the rise of Dollar is crashing the economy of other countries, the growing population of urban centres (resulting to unemployment), and courts delay in reaching judgement swiftly. I just pity what social media has done to the brains of this generation.

Besides, this is 2016, You just might want to show our leader some respect. So, it can be afforded to you some day. God bless the head of state, God bless Me & You, God bless Nigeria.

Do you think with your ballz? (that's if you have)

Respect our leaders you said;

Jonathan's era wrecked this country, why was his wife afraid of him going to jail

deceiving us with obasanjo abandoned project 2nd Niger bridge

gej. has failed.

he was not fit for the job
he failed as a President

Mr $1 = N190 record high, 20% missing dollar. jona has disappointed us Now it's N250 (They say it's not only Nigeria, but this is entirely Buhari's fault; assuming he made 1naira equal to a dollar as he boasted, then now $1 would have been equal to N1.33 - noble cause) SHAME ON YOU TWO

See this your post; The man contested 2003, 2007,2011 and now he's pulling the crowd , he has no O-level yet he passed tru NDA, went for several military courses, how? The answer is very simple "The dude is a pro in corruption" He's not corrupt but he later faked some crazy certificate (make person hear word jor).

To cut the long story short, Buhari's an old dumb duche; you know why? 'cause he's a duche, just like you.

Have you ever wondered why you get so many insults when you post? It's not because you always post thrash, but 'cause your brain is just as poor as your appearance on that d.p.
#poor man - poor sense.

Please leave politics and continue with your posts on stretch marks and java phones - your java brain has stretch marks
NoOffenceSonny

lordizak:
I am sure u guys just wanna pick on Mr President[b],[/b] Who has been funding that of PDP? If APC acts, takes any line of action to work, Wailers and and PDP will be ranting that[b];[/b] Their actions are faulty, There fight against corruption is lopsided[b],[/b] need I remind u, if the fight is lopsided or not, it's a fight against corruption. The big Question is " WHAT HAS PDP DONE FOR YOU FOR 16years"?.
U guys want to make judgement devoid of reasoning. If Amechi is corrupt, where were the saints when he was driving PMB? Politics is a business, invest and get ur returns, Do necessary evil when u have to. The past administration sold oil at ceiling price, what was the dividend we gained? I am sure the scam sure p will pop into your heads. This administration is facing more challenges than any other, but the pace and steadiness they handle it with is quite commendable, I'll give them that credit. You see the uprising in the East (What will happen if they result into arms war, I think there's already the proliferation of arms), the dwindling price of petroleum world over not only in Nigeria, the rise of Dollar is crashing the economy of other countries, the growing population of urban centres (resulting to unemployment), and courts delay in reaching judgement swiftly. I just pity what social media has done to the brains of this generation.

Besides, this is 2016, You just might want to show our leader some respect. So, it can be afforded to you some day. God bless the head of state, God bless Me & You, God bless Nigeria.

Do you think with your ballz? (that's if you have)

Respect our leaders you said;

Jonathan's era wrecked this country, why was his wife afraid of him going to jail

deceiving us with obasanjo abandoned project 2nd Niger bridge

gej. has failed.

he was not fit for the job
he failed as a President

Mr $1 = N190 record high, 20% missing dollar. jona has disappointed us Now it's N250 (They say it's not only Nigeria, but this is Buhari's fault; assuming he made 1naira equal to a dollar as he boasted, then $1 would have been equal to N1.33) SHAME

See one of your numerous stupi d posts; "The man contested 2003, 2007,2011 and now he's pulling the crowd , he has no O-level yet he passed tru NDA, went for several military courses, how?" The answer is very simple "The dude is a pro in corruption" He's not corrupt but he later faked some crazy certificate.

To cut the long story short, Buhari's a dumb duche; you know why? 'cause he's a duche, just like you.

Have you ever wondered why you get so many insults when you post? It's not because you always post thrash, but 'cause your brain is just as poor as your appearance on that d.p.
#poor man - poor sense.

Please leave politics and continue with your posts on stretch marks and java phones - your java brain has stretch marks
NoOffenceSonny

Anyone who needs Schaum's Physics outline should feel free to holla, guess I don't need it anymore

SmithRussell:
Person post, he no quote you. You carry the post for your head, begin insult am.. After more than five replies, your dumb league partner go be like 'just ignore', and the bozo agree say na wisdom be that (why reply a post that wasn't refering to you in the first place?)..

Common sense no really common..

I wouldn't mind the deluded eunuch, he was only trying to cover (take sides) for a member of his dumbleague.. And he must have churned out those words from that dingy hole in the face, to himself and felt it was good.. Before typing it here ('Cause Ksslib's mental faculty is total crap.. Creepily, he's totally a moro.n (1st stage of hallucination tho') HEHEHEHEHE


The country mugu no go reply oo, he'll call that immaturity,.. But what's maturity? It's knowing what to do and when to do it..

If you don't wanna get into a fight then don't.. If you do and later run away, it's not just stewpeedity, but cowardice too..

This is total utility of brutility to avoid futility. Dat later prt mashure wel wel, y pipz go luk 4 trouble, den run nd see it az maturity