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kenzysmith:
Don't kW if any other persons is experiencing this ever since a guy whom am close to recently knew my Dad owns 3 hotels he started hating me unnecessary.
Even when I try my best to be free with him this is not d ist time is happening to me . I just have to hide my identity to people as for now on to be free with them.

Because they believe that rich people packed all the money and left nothing for others, they have this mindset that money and wealth is limited, and the more someone has the less others have to share amongst themselves, this is the mindset that limits people and keeps them poor.

There is so much abundance in the universe that if all of us provide value enough we can all be rich...

maikbanj:
How am I the problem??

He is right, you can't bail her out of every problem she put herself into just because you want to marry her, sometimes let her fight her battles herself especially the ones she put herself into against your advice, that way she would learn that there are consequences to certain actions and no one would come through for her all the time.

Ezendimmuo:
I feel like hurting my ex
I wanna hurt her so bad
I wanna hurt her for everything she made me go through while we were together...
She's older than me by a year...
She's 26 and I am 25..
She's in her final year...
I noticed she found it difficult talking about how many people she has been with...
I noticed she was always on calls even when I was present demanding things from guys..even when I gave her everything I had
I had to go through her phone..
She was flirting with other guys... denying she had a boyfriend...
I also there was this married guy she was always going to see then...
Whenever I objected...
She'd turn it into a huge fight..
I'd just have to finally let her go see him...
I found out that she has been fucking him and even had an abortion for him 3 times(according to the chat she had with the guy)
This is someone that refuses my own advances because she is either tired or has headache o..
I went through her browser and also saw she has been researching about abortions as well
She was complaining about serious stomach pain saying it's ulcer..it all started making sense
When I confronted her..
She wasn't sorry...
She was angry I went through her phone...
The next morning....
She came and apologized..
I stupidly accepted her back...
There is a particular guy I always see around her in her lodge..
I became suspicious and confided in people I trust in her lodge...
One told me she was always sleeping over in the guys room..
The other stupid person I told when to tell her about it and she got angry??
Do you blame me??
She came into my life and made me insecure...
I was having high bp anytime she doesn't pick her calls (most times, she will tell me she was with "a friend"
I just had to end it all...
For my mental health..
I still love her... that's the annoying part...
I stalk her status...
Today...she posted a picture with a tag "I need a hug"...
That's how cheap she can get...
I hate her for making me love her!!!!
I know I'll get over her soon sha

Guys..
Don't ever let any lady take you for granted...
You are the prize!!

Mumu man....you are in no position to give the advice in your last paragraph.

This is what Solomon meant by "stolen food is sweet but in the end it feels like a mouth full of gravel"

Now where ever his spirit is, he would regret ever sleeping with his brothers wife, in the beginning he may have felt excitement, now he is dead.

Even if you are not a Christian, I encourage everyone to read proverbs. The Bible is a collection of books.

Gofwane:
hello boss, I sent you a mail.

Can you text me with the number on my signature?

It's very likely your brother in his gentle and trusting nature, did some pillow talk and shared a secret, and is afraid she may use against him. She is bold because she has something on him.

Maverick777:
Excellent submission.

can anything be done to remedy the situation?

it's a downward spiral.

The truth is women are more influenced by trends and they are always looking for something to be part of as long as it's trending because women are more agreeable than men.

Our women have been influenced by the west through social media especially tik tok, our girls want to act like they are part of the times, woke progressives, rainbow flag carrying puppets. Women by nature love adventures, and they like to try out new things to excite them, because women hate boredom more than anything...

Heartbreak and daddy issues also lead women to rebel against God's order.

Some men are selfish lovers in bed...Men from time have been used by women as just utilities, "provide and protect me and I'll give you my vagina to use small" but since dildos(strapons)became a thing and women massively joined the work force and can provide for themselves...women need men less these days.

Also there is little to no consequence for practicing lesbianism in our society, many men don't seem to mind, it's the gays that collect 2 by 2 if caught.

Alot of women are runs girls and know that men wouldn't want to commit to them and love them, but their fellow woman doesn't mind her selling her body, so the trend is sleep with men for money (seen as chore) and emotionally bond with a woman.

Another angle is women release oxytocin after sex, this is what makes it easy to bond with their sexual partners, so it's easy to fully convert a girl who is trying to "experiment" the other gender, because if she reaches orgasm with her fellow girl(very likely) she'll bond with her and very soon she'll only have eyes for girls.

What do you mean you'll be 27 in a few yrs? Why don't you just state your age?

I agree as long as it's not creepy. No go dey look am like serial killer.

Karrtel:
HOW TO SURVIVE IN PORT HARCOURT!!!

1. Have money and Garri

2. Know people that have money and connection

3. Before you pack into any rented apartment ensure to ask people around, before you go dey sleep for burial ground with roof

4. Don't fall in love

5. Avoid those wey dey pin new pam or shoe...
One pin na 15k...aboki own na #20 per pin o

6 There are lots of beggers in Port Harcourt with different formats.

7. Learn to speak pigeon and avoid too much grammar

Always Mind ur business

Avoid late night

Note places like waterlines, garrison, mile3, Aba road, choba etc. Beware of their roughness

No fight ikwere person – man or woman, big or small

Carry food come ooo, especially garri, Street hard, things cost, the money for food in ur villa can only buy akara for PH.

If u think u get money, a night lounge for presidential hotel is enough to send u villa, u get y

If for night,u mistakenly hear "who goes there" omor tear race

No drag possession with highmen.
How I lost my phone is what I won't tell you

8. 1. If you Waka for Rumuokoro bridge, squeeze face small, e go help you.

9. If taxi driver ask u, u hold change, omoh know say ur money na #50.

10 . no too speak good English oo else where u suppose pay 1h na 5h u go pay.

11. Becareful before u go buy land wey belong to army general.

12 . Here na hook up things, no expect love like that else ur hrt break computer sef no go fit count am.

13 . No go find job for Etche ooo, I repeat no go find job for Etche especially if u get job interview invitation from Engr. Emma or Engr. Charles u no go come back Alive.

14. lastly If u need access power and scholarship or job abroad join OPM.

Add yours....

nice one.
If you hear Abobi wida! Hmmmm

PortHarcourtcit:
dm

please text me on my WhatsApp, my number is in my signature. Or you can drop your number.

PortHarcourtcit:
you think I'm joking, abeg no be joke ooo... I no no why we dey think say everything for Nairaland na joke...

I stay in PH city, from your moniker I see you stay in PH too.

pregnantMan:
If you dey Lagos you can actually sell that 50kobo note for nothing less than 10k per note

where in Lagos bro?

PortHarcourtcit:
you think I'm joking, abeg no be joke ooo... I no no why we dey think say everything for Nairaland na joke...

How much can I get for the 50kobo?

PortHarcourtcit:
Czarr, abeg where you dey? One alhaji dey fine that money, and it's very lucrative, if you get am plenty that one be say you don become millionaire overnight....

Lol seriously?

Datboredberri:
Did you arrest her? Report her?

You should know there are millons of rapists walking on the streets today... Politicians... Pastors and Imams... Headmasters... Police officers... Even fathers... Etc

It's not a gender thing... Some people abuse their privilege...

And yes, many women don't know it's assult to touch men without their consent... Thank patriarchy for that... Men made women out to be fragile creatures, so society finds it hard to see a woman as an oppressor... Double edged sword... Toxic masculinity...

This is why you should establish boundaries... If she holds you, tell her firmly to stop... Don't be a pu**y...

You must be a very difficult person...you talk too much, you want to be heard badly... nothing wrong with being opinionated, but you must not talk every time damn!!! Shut up for once.

Cho Cho Cho Cho! Thread has not reached half page and you've commented 3 times.

emorse:
Take a picture of the reverse side. The Sherlock Holmes in me wants to check something.

you want to buy it? or you think I got it from somewhere online? Which is it?

SweetVibe:
You took this thread too personal,abi you get small dickk?

Lol

Bluezy13:
If you don't know what it could afford back then, then you're indomie generation.


And common sense should tell you to ask an elder in your family. Or perhaps, your entire extended family is made up of indomie generation.

Ok

Ballzproblemm:
snap it frame it and sell it as NFT see which gullible fool go buy

Lol nobody is that gullible.

Guys I just saw this money in my family house, what could you afford with it back then?

Indomie generation this is not your thread.

Lalasticlala.

You don't want her to stop having sex with you, that is you fear...or you have developed feelings for her. Either way you are fvcked!

Now you are stuck in between saving for your future and paying for pussy.

Mathscum:
When Europeans discovered simple way for measuring Diick with toilet paper roll you clap for them, this na my little way to contribute to Diick research and easy evaluation at a spot and later get better approximate value of your partner dick size without him knowing you have measured his destiny

Phones have different sizes, you should have specified.
You don't have to tell people that they should not give themselves hopeless hope, that's arrogant and demeaning, personally I have a very much above average size, but understand that there are guys out there who re not blessed in that department and they are very insecure about it, spending money on stuffs to increase the length even when they know that it won't work....let's be considerate.

Mathscum:
Then you are above average.
Don't use iPhone or touch light and be having hopeless hope.
Even some Android phone do not qualify for this test

Were you insecure about your dick size and you just found out that you have the length of an android phone, and now you want to talk down on others to feel better about yourself....guys who are really endowed don't open threads like this, only guys who are average or below average.

If you see her inbox now, you would see a bunch a simps there trying to get her attention and some even asking to do nice things for her.

When she says there are no men, she is not talking about the average every day man in her inbox trying to get her attention. She's talking about the big boys with money that she also finds very physically appealing to give her attention....and they would not because those guys also have a ton of beautiful girls seeking their attention.

Sweetheart we'll talk later, take care of yourself for me.

Nigerian film.

1Sharon:
I'm 80% sure you have never left Africa or you're a new immigrant to the West.

Black men born and raised in the West don't pedestalize white woman like you FOBS because they're used to them.

Them still dey shak you.

Onyeara.

I disagree black men in the west do pedestalize white women, why is it that when most black men reach fame and money through music, basketball etc they rush and get them a white woman. I think you are the one who haven't left the shores of your village.

White women are not perfect but they are definitely more feminine and sexy than black women. You see when a man makes money he chooses to get what he always wanted and celebrity/wealthy black men get white women.

Some broke black men even rate uglyo obese white chicks over black women and y'all can't stand it. Celebrities like Chris brown and trey songs don't even feature black women in their videos or invite them to parties. So?

Acidbath:
Yours is stup1d just like your stup1d self.

Oya report this one again.

drink water and rest. Meditate and let go of the bitterness.

Most women may have led you to believe that they love "mature" guys, and by mature I mean guys that act mature, responsible or serious. This can't be further from the truth.

Most women prefer a guy that doesn't take himself too seriously, that doesn't mean being a clown or lacking coordination, it just means play a little, laugh a little, don't let "I'm mature" make you boring, remember girls just wanna have fun.

Be a little fun, it won't kill you