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FortuneTeller:
Please take your ignorance elsewhere. Where did he say he married a white woman? What do you know about African American women? You've probably never stepped foot outside of Nigeria. Did you know a Nigerian woman killed her African American husband 4 days after she married him in hopes of getting an insurance policy? She didn't know the American system would catch her. Please go play in a bush and leave the chat to civilized adults.

You are playing 'mind games' with @SmartMugu, but that is no longer my business.

Reading your post, l hear you confess to being a crazy, insecure and cunningly wicked woman who runs her husband out of his house!
Why in hell will l want to engage an unstable lunatic like yourself?

SmartMugu:
Thanks for your informative response.
1. I have been working around whatever worst case scenario she can come up with. I have funds stashed in Canada and Nigeria. Worst case scenario, I'm bouncing from the US to Canada. I've been there more than 30 time. Let them come and collect child-support and alimony there, I'll have a lawyer waiting to inform them of the laws in Canada.

2. Me and siblings were here, but they returned to Nigeria afterwards. Each have what they're doing. One ended up being a politician and the others own their own businesses in Nigeria. But they all come over to the US whenever they want.

3. I own a house in Nigeria already, I just don't live there for now. It's a 4 family flats, I have tenants there, and own the entire top floor. Since I'm not in Nigeria, my lil Sister stays there. Worst case scenario I'll just bounce back to Nigeria.

4. I work for a global consulting firm here, I already know from September this year, I'll be on projects in 3 countries in Europe and some in UAE. Let them come and take my money then, my direct deposits go to my Canadian bank accounts, I can withdraw it anywhere in the world.

5. I'm in the process of setting up accounts in Seychelles (A tax haven). That's beyond the US jurisdiction, they can't touch my funds.

Just watch, I'm playing mind games with the American system now. It's seriously flawed and only slow people will wait to be held at random over this. I married her in good faith, she switched on me and I'm supposed to deal with their consequences? Nah, that's never happening with me, I have good lawyers.

Harrisee:
Thumbs up. You're really the bomb. Don't mind the mugu. Let him continue his foolishness as if he's not a Nigerian.

SmartMugu:
1. I deleted the original post after me and her made up. It's no point sharing what goes on in my home when I don't care about what goes on in other people's homes. Plus, I needed advice back then but people ended up just cursing me out and calling me names.

2. I'm not a violent person. I've never ever laid my hands on my wife. God forbid. The dude in question came at me, I had to defend myself. We didn't get in a physical fight, but we cursed each other out. He wanted a fight, I carry a weapon (It's legal here for non-felons), brought it out and he calmed down and that was was it. No one got hurt.

3. My wife never cheated on me that I know of until the case with this dude. So, I really don't consider her a hoe. I think I was a bigger hoe than her. So, I'll take more of the blames than her. She might have done that to spite me, plus I heard of the escapades from her friends that I ended up messing with and a couple of them wanted to start coming over to my place everyday. I had a problem with that. They may have just lied, who knows. I didn't catch her in the act, but my brawl with the dude was what made me conclude they're right.

SmartMugu:
You're entirely right. Alimony and child-support is what she's been threatening me with, but humans are the ones paying those, not animals. If others paid that in the past and are still alive, I can do that too. I make enough and have never had a problem with taking care of her and my kids. Since we've been separated, I've been sending her and the kids about $800 per month, I don't expect alimony + child-support to be way more than that, a court will decide that.
It's just more complicated than you know about my case. Her parents are all in my family business and I'm definitely not willing to have then run my home for me. She runs to tell them everything happening in the home and her parents call me afterwards. I never envisaged that.

I bought a Benz about 4 years ago, her dad called me telling me I should have asked him before doing that. That even him hasn't owned one before. I had to tell him that's not my fault, I make more that him and his wife combined, so why would I settle for a jetta or Volkswagen when I can afford it? That's my business not theirs. I pay all my bills myself, why they're interested in what happens in my house is weird to me.

I got in an accident about two years ago in another Honda car I own. It was an old 1995 Honda del sol convertible. Our insurance company offered about $4500 for the car, I looked online for same type of car and found one for $2500. She agreed. 30 minutes later, her mom called talking about she doesnt want me to settle with what the insurance company offered because she she doesnt want her daughter's insurance premium to increase. What she didn't know was I was the one paying for all the insurance all along. Why her family gets too deep into my personal affairs is just much. Who I married was her, not her mom and dad, but she tells them everything

Getting back together is like starting the whole thing all over. I have a problem with that.

you will open your mouth and not be able to close it!

Just imagine if they ask you to be giving her like 90% of your total income?

FortuneTeller:
What she did is not unusual in the US. It also happened to my relative. However I thought you said she wanted to come back. If she wants to come back, then let her. I know your kids are missing you terribly. This may sound terrible, but if your wife loves money, just lure her back with that. Otherwise you may end up paying alimony and child support. Either way you will have to pay her and you won't even have the benefit of seeing your children regularly. What will you really get with another woman? It will just be the same wahala.

Chai! Come and see usual "standard procedure"!
Throw-in the kids and use them as a "pressure point on the man!

SmartMugu:
It's too late to go back to her. It's more complex than you know. I went to Virginia about a year ago for some business presentations. I was only there for 4 days. She called me saying she had left with our kids. She took almost everything in my house and shipped them all to her mom in Michigan where she's from, without my consent. She planned all that for when I wouldn't be in town. I came back and my whole house was empty.
Now I'm buying everything she took all over again. Why not be considerate? That was theft, if she wanted to go, she could have left with whatever she owned. She took mine. I live in a 3 bedroom home, all furnished when we were together, before I came back from Virginia, two bedrooms were entirely empty. I had 4 flat screen tvs, I came back to see a tiny tube tv, she took the rest. At least she left my bed. So, why would I waste my time trying to get back with someone with that type of mindset?

On the kids, me and her will be going to court soon on our custody issues. I hired a law firm handling that. All I want is just joint custody of our kids, it's ok, she can go, our kids have my genes in them and they call me everyday telling me they miss me.

FortuneTeller:
Sir I'm not even that far from you. All I will say is that I don't see any fault in what her family said to you. Really you should just admit your faults, straighten up and go back to you wife. That is my opinion.

SmartMugu:
Don't get me wrong, my wife was a decent person. She was a great woman when everything went well between us. She was all I needed. But when she started listening to other tiny voices, things changed. Mind you, we had the cultural differences, I'm African + American, she's entirely American. When she started hiding our kids passports from me was the starting point. She thinks I'm gonna someday disappear with the kids to Nigeria. She told me her friends told her that's what Africans do. I asked her to tell me of one African that has done that before, she had no names to mention.

On a serious note, her and her entire family have insecurity issues. Even her dad called me about 10 years ago when me and her were just dating and warned me that if I took his daughter to Nigeria and I end up kidnapping her, he was going to find me and kill me. I have never kidnapped anyone before in my life. I have no idea what's going on in their minds.

FortuneTeller:
I cannot say who gave it to who, because it's possible the woman you were CHEATING with got treated and never told you. The point is that you came to the thread trying to make it seem as if your wife was an awful person and you were innocent. You're not innocent. You contributed to the destruction of your marriage. It makes me angry when Nigerian men try to act as if they are saints, when it's rarely the case. What did you do to make your wife go to another man? Was it your own infidelity? Obviously you weren't giving her the love and attention she needed. See how that works.

SmartMugu:
It turned out she had a dude she was messing with. I got to meet him and we got into a brawl. Not sure if she gave me the STD back then, the girl I thought I got it from ended up not having it after tests from doctors. We went to the clinic together after mine was treated, she didn't have anything. Wife went for checkup, and she had same I was treated for and got treated too. I think it was chlamydia. So, where did it come from?

I think I know my home more than anyone, just like I'd expect others to know theirs more than me. Our breakup didn't come from the event you mentioned.
I apologized to her and she forgave me, even though I wasn't sure it came from me. One of her coworkers ended up telling me she was messing with someone else that was another coworker. I worked from home back then, sometimes I have to watch our kids while she goes to work.

Her coworker told me most times she left home for work, she wasn't at work. So, I was watching the kids while she lied about going to work and ended up elsewhere? After I met the dude, it was time to say goodbye. That was what led to our breakup, not what you mentioned.

Hannysmilez:
LMAO! Did anyone force you to donate kidney?

truthsayer009:
Hehehe, my sister ! Trust me If i donate my kidney to you, you ain't going anywhere oh, We will live & grow old together, Infact I will write a book like Toke, so our grand children can read how I donated Kidney, na me & you for the same trouser, Till death do us part

And you can't run away oh, a GPS tracker be will be inserted by the doctors alongside with the kidney

Look, women (especially in European countries and America) have upped their game and are the most dangerous object to any man alive TODAY.
If a Woman cant kill you, nothing can kill you.

This is what Nigerian Women are trying to import into Nigeria, with their Gender Equality pretence.
Once anything is "surreptitiously" coded into law, it becomes a criminal offence and "emotions/sentiments" are no longer applicable.
You break it, you get jailed. SIMPLE.

ezzylee:
My ex started acting up (issues here and there). So one time, I met up with her to try and fix things.
She said she wants to focus on her life and God.. .. and I was like that's cool. Told her I'll support her in any decision she makes. Also made her know that I still loved her deeply.
So sha, I got home that day and started thinking about what she said and I put myself in her shoes.... If I as a person told someone I was dating that we should break up coz I wanna focus on my life and God, within myself I know I'm lieing and I'm just using that as an excuse.
Also as a person in a relationship, you should be able to carry along the other party (gf/bf) with whatever decisions you wanna make.

It was with that little thought that i knew she was lieing and it pained me a lot. Felt like a fool for gullibly believing what she said all because I loved her too much. I'm very sure there's another guy in the picture and she used all that as cover up. It just happened last month sha.

demefa:
Na novice full here.Help mi advice am

BiafranYouths:
I met this sweet damsel way back 2014, our relationship was sort of perfect towards the end of 2014 I found out she was a virgin @23 I was perplexed. I was reassured I've found my better half, she was everything a man would want in a life partner. She loved me dearly,.... I helped her build her Events, Decor, Catering and Ushering firm financially and other wise as per my future wife.
Late December 2015 I had a massive contract to execute outside the State, I was to marry her immediately after the project, I didn't tell her though bought engagement ring.
I spent close to 9 Months without setting eyes on her though we've been communicating via calls and social media
Our reunion was awesome, we kissed smooch I didn't push further because I know the cooky will be mine in less than a month.
But unlike her that always reminded me of our promise to help her keep the cooky till the right time, she kept pushing, doing things we've not done before
For my mind I was like oh! So this girl missed me like this, I decided to play along to see where it leads to after reminding her of our promise.
We had Sex for the first time since I met and sadly my virgin fiance was de flowered by another!
After the deed I asked her what just happened? She started with the tears narrating how I left her I was not there for her physically that I should forgive her, I forgave and started making plans for the engagement party.
This fascinating day I was using her tablet to help her market her new design so in the process of uploading the product pictures I saw her photos @ golf course with this dude feeling all loved up, the inquisitive me looked further.
I later had a heart to heart discussion with her, asking why she got de flowered by another while I patiently kept my emotions and Dick on check...

Layer found out that the guy that ripped her puuussy apart was a Malaysian based Guy that pressed her mumu button and slept with her, upon seeing she was a virgin proposed there and then, and she said yes!
Heart broke nearly killed me for the first time in my life I cried in a ladies present and begged her, telling her even if she was to be pregnant for the guy I'll claim the baby just to be with her but she said no. I took I'll for a couple of weeks
The girl was too good.
Beauty, respect, intelligence, struggling type in fact she'll be a blessing to a Man that marries her.
Am still heart broken
I used the wedding money to put up a decent structure and move
Ima Ima mmi thanks for showing me that true love exist, I'll continue loving you and I pray the good Lord provide me with a girl just like you

olayiwola4u:
I told my fiancee to choose between her female friend and me and she told me she is going for her friend.

To be sincere, I don't like her friend that was why I asked her to choose between her friend and me.

I thought it was a joke until she told me she can never leave her friend, that she would rather leave me.

Since then, I knew I was in for a big trouble.

I begged her and we stopped talking about the issue.

I didn't know what happened to me. I forgot that story and I fell seriously in love like never before.

After few months to that incident, she changed. I was really troubled, so I ask her what happened.

She said nothing.

I asked her again...perhaps there is something she wants me to do.

She said, she wants me to leave her that she is not interested again.

After begging, someone who claimed she couldn't sleep or eat without me, for 1 month...then I realized IT WAS OVER.

I cried my eyeball out of my ball socket...sleepless nights turned to a regular routine for weeks.

Now I realized when a fiancee/fiance tells you that he/she loves someone more than you...you have to sit tight...because OUT OF THE ABUNDANCE OF THE HEART, THE MOUTH SPEAKS.

lefulefu:
A situation where a man pays for a girl's school fees and house rent plus food in her four or five yrs in the univ with the promise of marriage.after graduation she now tells the man she can't marry him cos he's almost her dads age or maybe her parents told her not to marry him cos he's not from their tribe.na wetin u go call dat one?

Newly Wed Nigerian Woman Kills Husband For $100,000 | Photos
Deolu July 9, 2017

A Nigerian woman who recently got married to her husband has been convicted in the US for planning and murdering the man so she can take his $100,000 life insurance money.

The Nigerian wife of a Cleveland firefighter was convicted Friday of soliciting his death to collect on insurance money, Cleveland News reported.
The woman identified as Uloma Curry-Walker was found guilty of aggravated murder, conspiracy, felonious assault and other charges in the Nov. 3, 2013 slaying of her then-husband of four months, William Walker.
Before the sad incident, Friday would have been the couple’s 4-year anniversary.

According to the report, the guilty woman cried bitterly as she was being sentenced. Curry-Walker cried as the verdict was read and a Cuyahoga County sheriff’s deputy placed her in handcuffs. It was the first sign of emotion the 45-year-old showed throughout two weeks of testimony.
Jurors reached their verdict after deliberating for less than two hours.

Curry-Walker now faces a maximum of life in prison without the possibility of parole. Common Pleas Judge Sherrie Miday set Curry-Walker’s sentencing for Aug. 8.

Explaining how she was caught, Prosecutors said Curry-Walker had run tens of thousands of dollars into debt through credit cards and loans, some of which she had taken out in Walker’s name. As she sunk nearer and nearer to financial ruin, prosecutors said, she plotted Walker’s death to collect on his $100,000 life insurance policy.
Curry-Walker paid about a $1,000 down payment to her daughter’s boyfriend, Chad Padgett, who went to his cousin, Chris Hein. After an initial failed attempt at Walker’s life in October, Hein reached out to Ryan Dorty to carry out the killing.
All four, including Curry-Walker’s daughter, pleaded guilty, testified against her at trial and said the plot began with her
Curry-Walker and Walker had just bought a house (the husband actually was the one who bought the house) in Madison Township and were packing up their Lampson Road house to move the night he was killed.

Curry-Walker sent her husband out to get food from McDonald’s for her about 8:30, prosecutors said.
Cellphone records show that she, her daughter and Hein placed several phone calls and text messages in the minutes leading up to the killing. Padgett and Dorty went with another man to the house and Dorty waited near the garage with a pistol that Hein had gotten.
When Walker came back home, Dorty ambushed him and shot him four times as he was unlocking the side door near the driveway. Walker’s keys were still in the door, prosecutors said.
Curry-Walker placed a frantic 911 call at 8:35 p.m. to report her husband had been shot in the driveway.
Her daughter, who was 17 years old at the time of the killing, testified that she was riding in a car with Curry-Walker and Padgett when her mother first brought up the plot.
Curry-Walker told Padgett to have the shooter pull Walker’s pocket out of his pants, to make the killing look like a botched robbery, the daughter testified.
The daughter also said her mother told her that “no one would believe I would hire a bunch of kids to kill someone when I know people that could.”
Curry-Walker showed no emotion as her daughter pinned the plot on her.
Assistant Cuyahoga County Prosecutor Blaise Thomas compared Curry-Walker’s conspiracy to a scene from the 1981 movie, “Body Heat”, in which a lawyer, played by William Hurt, hires an arsonist played by Mickey Rourke to help him commit the perfect murder and kill his girlfriend’s rich husband. Rourke’s character cautioned that there are 50 ways to screw up the perfect crime.

“If you think of 25 of them, you’re a genius,” he says. “And you ain’t no genius.”
What Curry-Walker didn’t realize, Thomas said, was that Walker had not finalized switching his life insurance policy into her name from the name of his ex-wife, who actually got the payout in the months after Walker’s death.
Curry-Walker ended up having to give away most of their belongings and moved to North Carolina to stay with a relative. Prosecutors hinged much of their case on Curry-Walker’s actions in the weeks and even seconds after Walker’s murder.
Thomas showed jurors a photograph of the blood-soaked white T-shirt that Walker was wearing when he was killed, and pointed out that a Cleveland firefighter who was one of the first emergency workers to get to the scene testified that Curry-Walker had no blood on her.

“Is it reasonable to expect that a loving wife is going to be there cradling her fatally shot husband?” Thomas asked.
Thomas had said in opening statements that Curry-Walker had left Walker’s ashes and other personal belongings in her car in Cleveland when she went to North Carolina. The car got repossessed and investigators found the box containing Walker’s ashes in the backseat. But trial testimony showed that Curry-Walker actually left the box in a drawer in an apartment, and her daughter’s father took the ashes into the car to turn them over to police.
Curry-Walker then watched as the dominos started to fall, Thomas said. First investigators arrested Dorty. Then as police closed in on the conspiracy, her own daughter flipped and agreed to testify against everyone, including her mother and Padgett, with whom she had an infant at the time.
Curry-Walker later penned a confession letter the day before she turned herself in to police, in which she said she killed Walker because he was abusive.

twinskenny:
those one that usually scavenge stuff around.. the cable was not removed by a professional.. cause it was cut in pieces. they will sell them as scrap.. if they try to pull and its difficult they use sharp object to cut it..

twinskenny:
cable was stole two times on a client site.. what we later did was that we started installing the fittings even before we finish wiring... that way the abokis will think there is power running through... they even destroyed the pop....

desiji:
My Wires were also stolen it was really a setback i had to replace a[b]nd also took counter measures to avoid future occurence[/b]
after buying with so much money

holysainbj:
I told a friend that this week a new story wil pop up to make us forget that our President is MIA, first na Evans, then Davido and wizkid, this week na flooding d man invoke come.... Buhari see abeg na even if you never die just try die make we know weda matters go better small

Firefire:
Why are you this particular about my trips?

Leave me out and let us discuss the calamity you guys brought upon Nigerians.

As many who participated in bringing this disaster (so called CHAIN-GE) upon our dear country, your reward is ahead of you.

dammy13:
Ekiti State Governor, Ayodele Fayose, has recalled six out of the 16 sacked commissioners. The governor had last week dissolved the State Executive Council in a major decision.

Fayose, however, in a statement by his Special Assistant on Public Communications and New Media, Lere Olayinka, on Sunday directed the recall commissioners to return to their duty post on Monday (today).

Those recalled are Commissioner for Environment, Bisi Kolawole; Mrs Funmi Ogun (works), Ayodele Michael (Commerce and Industry), Kehinde Odebunmi (Agriculture), Toyin Ojo (Finance) and Dr Olurotimi Ojo (Health).

The statement said the remaining 10 commissioners shall be appointed in due course, calling on the people of the state to be patient.

The governor promised to raise a good team that will give the people the deserved dividends of democracy.

http://fabinfos.com/breaking-fayose-recalls-six-sacked-commissioners/

Planning for Dividend" .........After SEVEN YEARS!

Fear don catch Fayose make those Commissioners no expose am.

JORDAN202:
I WANT TO MARRY HER AS MY 4TH WIFE !

KolaShangOne:
The Lekki flood is here again..

Featuring Lekki
VI
Banana island etc..

HungerBAD:
Dumb Cheat.

She is now free to move in with her lover,if he will accept her and i hope he the husband has the common sense to do a DNA test on the kids.

Once upon a time,married men use to be good at cheating. But sadly,married women have overtaken men and the fearful part is they see nothing wrong in it.

I blame modernization for this.

This is not fair. Our fathers had decent ladies to choose from when looking for wives,but our generation is stuck with slay queens and pepper dem gang.

By the way, any man that thinks "magun" is too primitive, deserves to be cheated on.


Our Fathers did not think so.

All Women will naturally cheat, except if prevented by fear of being caught.

lonelydora:
You guys should stop this play oooo. WHO, are you people Mr. Killjoy? You want to stop my happiness in this recession? God no go gree for una.

Haha, I can't do without mouth action.

omenka:
This guy's prognoses must have filled alot of pages because he certainly shows a whole lot of signs beyond mare dementia.

Perhaps it has to do with something he licks besides ice cream and something he snorts besides coke.

Too bad we can't help him.

mufutau55:
@Daboomb
Why are we omitting " Gari-Ijebu" from the Kuli-kuki system like in "Gari-Ijebu with Kuli-kuli" or else it's not completed o.

Hajji M.