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Crime › Re: 11-Year-Old Boy Who Belongs To Eiye Confraternity: "I Can Hack Anybody Down" by Daboomb: 6:49am On Jun 19, 2017
ZorGBUooeh:
Guy wetin dem give you drink dis evening?Abi did I lie?You will hardly see an Igbo kid try such nonsense in the street,he will rather engage himself in sumtin productive than bin a miscreant on the street.
That Chukwudubem of a kidnapper called Evans, must be an Afonja kid! grin grin
Family › Re: What Is The One Thing You Regret Not Asking Your Spouse Before Marriage? by Daboomb: 6:47am On Jun 19, 2017
Pidgin2:
I'm not Yoruba but all I'm reading in your post reeks of tribal sentiments, stop saying AFONJA!
Just leave her alone, some of these Bigots are irredeemable!

She's already got her comeuppance! undecided undecided
Politics › Re: Omosede Igbinedion Shades Ex-Husband, Prince Akenzua, On Father's Day by Daboomb: 6:41am On Jun 19, 2017
planetx13:
I think it is time that women learn to move on with their lives after divorce..... Why always trying too hard to prove points( both relevant and irrelevant). When you make a decision, live with it and stop trying to pull the other person down.
Agreed, you have been wronged and all that but talking much on social media doesn't make you a saint. ... You left because you were unhappy and everyone seems to have moved on except you... My advice is that you take it easy on yourself and move on.
Finally PLEASE leave father's day for the men... That's why it is called Father's Day
You really need to know "most" women! huh huh

"Hell has No-Fury, like a woman scorned"!
undecided undecided
Politics › Re: Omosede Igbinedion Shades Ex-Husband, Prince Akenzua, On Father's Day by Daboomb: 6:29am On Jun 19, 2017
AustineCJ:
Life sha,I can't blame her cux am equally a victim...watching my mum suffer n do the work of a dad n mum to feed I n my siblings...I couldn't even type a 4naira massage to wish my dad happy fathers day not out of hate but cuz I kip asking my self if his deserving to be called a father....God bless all the single mothers out dre.
-What most of you will realize when you finally grow-up, as in many years into marriage, is that some women create that situation for themselves and have NO CHOICE than to slug it out!

- When a woman wants to leave/divorce her husband, she DRAGS the children into the quarrel, without giving them a choice as to whom they would prefer to stay with!

- A Woman that cant afford to financially take care of herself (low income) is insisting on being the custodian of five children she sired with her estranged husband, tell me, if she is not dragging those children into a hard life?


And many of these women do it out of GREED because they see the Father of the children as their "everlasting ATM", just to be funding their bank account with Child Support money!...while at the same time, inciting the children against the father!
Some even prevent the Father from playing a role in the life of the children, just to spite him, while telling the children their Father does not care about them!

At the end of the day, they create psychological unbalanced children" that are usually Men-haters!

These women should handover the children to their Dads who has the financial means to take adequate care of them.

I have seen to many of these women and l know what l am talking about.
Politics › Re: Omosede Igbinedion Shades Ex-Husband, Prince Akenzua, On Father's Day by Daboomb: 6:23am On Jun 19, 2017
InvertedHammer:
That's a myth.

The ego in that statement is appalling. Every woman is perfect until she meets a man. SMH
Some of them, out of sheer arrogance, think they should earn PRAISE for doing Double shift!
If you need to destroy your marriage, so that you and earn praise from doing double shift, they should at least learn to do it with some dignity!
All these attention seeking UpanDown on Father's day is just an indication of BITING MORE THAN YOU CAN CHEW!
grin grin
Politics › Re: Omosede Igbinedion Shades Ex-Husband, Prince Akenzua, On Father's Day by Daboomb: 6:20am On Jun 19, 2017
hauwababy:
One of the Esama of Benin's daughters who is also a law maker , Hon Omosede, took to social media to shade her ex husband, Prince Akenzua.
The couple who divorced a few years ago, have a son together.

http://www.yeoal.com/2017/06/igbinedion-daughter-hon-omosede-shades.html
So, after all these years, she's still crying over spilled Milk?
Abeg move-on and stop disturbing the airwaves.

Any woman that wants to do the job of Father and Mother TOGETHER, after ruining their marriage, should KWANTINUE.
Its your choice.
undecided
Pets › Re: Dog Boarding And Kennel Services: Keep Your Dog With Us When You Travel by Daboomb: 5:55am On Jun 19, 2017
cyberczar:
Hi everyone, we just started a dog boarding service in Abuja area. We wish therefore to inform you to avail yourself of this opportunity to have your canine taken care of whenever you'll be out of town. Call us at 08110063205.

We have a range of dog care services and you can be sure to have your dog well taken care of. Some of our services include dog grooming, bathing and cleaning, as well as kennel services.

We also have a pest treatment program with which we keep dogs in our care free of fleas and tick. You can be sure therefore that your dog returns healthy..
Nice, you should od this in Lagos as well.
Career › Re: Interesting! Legal Diary: Legal Stories And Legal Opinions by Daboomb: 4:12am On Jun 19, 2017
Daboomb:
The Law, this is very educative, especially the succinct explanation on Battery and/or Assault.

Can you please shed some light on a term placed in a rent Agreement l cam into contact with, of recent.

In it was written FIXED and CERTAIN.
The Rent Agreement was described as "Fixed and Certain" even though it is a yearly rent
.

Will really appreciate your explanation.
Op, l am still waiting for your explanation on the above.

And if l may add, kindly add "Tenant at Will" to the above request.

Thank you.
Properties › Re: Alternative Building Material (expanded Polystyrene) by Daboomb: 4:04am On Jun 19, 2017
Teewhy2:
sir, thanks for the advice, we are not been secretive about it, the polystyrene products we deal with are much , like the Naked panels posted here are of different sizes, thickness and also different density, the designs of some the parapet and window sills affects their prices that is why in order not to confuse people we decided if you contact the email address we will send price to you based on your request.
what we are trying to do for parapets is a cost comparison between the traditional parapet and polystyrene parapets, which we will post here very soon.
once again thanks for the advice.

check below for some designs.
Can you attach unit price to those ECL Ceiling Lamp Centers, please?
Family › Re: What Is The One Thing You Regret Not Asking Your Spouse Before Marriage? by Daboomb: 3:53am On Jun 19, 2017
yvesboss:
two questions..

1. Are you a marraige counsellor?

2. All these points stated above, did you get them from a research, project or observation?
1.) I am not a marriage counsellor (why does everyone keep saying that? angry angry )

2.) I am just speaking from my own 'mind/experience" in my journey of life.
I am married and my marriage "is my experience". undecided

But all the information we need and want, is all around us, floating around as it were, we only need to be able to identify them and pluck them, so to say. I have not written anything special by the way.


Well, just ignore me, sometimes e be like say l dey talk too much sef grin
Christianity Etc › Re: Powerful Ebos (sacrifices) At The Back Of My Shrine [picture] by Daboomb: 3:41am On Jun 19, 2017
GrandFinale2017:
These descendants of the fallen angel known as Oduduwa calls themselves the most educated tribe yet they are still backwards with rituals and archaic traditional religion Yolobas and fetishness. TUFIAKWA
Your greatest FEAR...your WORRY grin grin undecided
Crime › Re: Evans Leads Police To Houses Where He Keeps His Victims (photos) by Daboomb: 2:46am On Jun 19, 2017
Wyttcat:
How come no one is trying to find out how many people died in this man"s custody or those he killed for resisting him? He's not going to mention that cos he knows it carries death penalty in Lagos.
He killed TWO Police men at the kidnap of the CEO of "The young Shall Grow Transport" in Festac.
The guy knows he is dead already.
This is Lagos, even his brothers here trying to defend him know better
Crime › Re: Evans Leads Police To Houses Where He Keeps His Victims (photos) by Daboomb: 2:44am On Jun 19, 2017
tiwasiaife:
This is my problem with Nigeria.
Two kids were born August 31st, 1980, one in
Kano (Jubril) another in Enugu (Emeka). They got
to primary school in those areas and got to
Primary 6, now the twist begins.
They both took Federal Common Entrance, Emeka
scored 168/200 and Jubril 16/200. For some silly
quota system, they both ended up in the same
class at Federal Government College, Enugu
(FGCE). Emeka continues to come 1st-3rd in the
class of 30 and Jubril 25-29th/30. 6 years later,
WASCE and JAMB were taken. Emeka had 6As
and 2Cs (WASCE) and 286/400 (JAMB) while
Jubril had 5Cs and 2Ps and 106/400 in JAMB.
Again by a warped and weird stroke they ended
up in the same Law Faculty in University of
Nigeria, Enugu campus.
5years later Emeka graduated with 2-1 and Jibril
with a Pass! Emeka is done with Law school at
Abuja - No Job after NYSC. Jubril as soon as he
gets out of Abuja Law school then one year NYSC
gets a job as a Magistrate at the Federal
Magistrate Court Abuja, 2 years later he is
promoted as a Judge.
Emeka still struggling, decides to join some Trio
Igbo Law outfit in Abuja as a junior lawyer. 5
years later he is still carrying files and coming to
defend low level cases at Jubril's court.
Now, you are Emeka or Emeka's relative, kit and
kin, will you want Nigeria to continue like this. No
way! That's the problem with Nigeria as it is. It's
strongly skewed to the advantage of a particular
ethnic group in Nigeria and cannot continue. Plain
and Simple!!!!
Then one day Emeka finds his way to Canada or
England, he immediately thrills them with his
brilliance and in less than 5 years he becomes a
full fledged Professor. That's what Nigeria is
doing to the Igbos.
Dr. Val Ozoigbo
You forgot to add the last parts of the story which says:

- Emeka later travelled Malaysia with his buttocks full of Hard Drugs.
- He was spared the death sentence by a few weeks as the law was yet to be passed.
- After his sentence, he came back to Nigeria and with his GREEDY EYES, he went into Armed Robbery and Kidnapping.
- He change his name to Evans and took many people victim, including hi sbrother who owns a Luxurious Bus Company headquartered at Festac.
- He was made a Chief in his Home Town of Nnewi (Where Ikemba Odumegwu Ojukwu also came from!) due to his show of opulence from ransom money.

Now that Evans/Emeka has been caught, his fellow Igbos from the Eastern part of Nigeria are all over Social media saying he is a victim of Quota System!

What a nice Nollywood story.

Chukwudubem, l hail una for that side of the Zooo
Crime › Re: Evans Leads Police To Houses Where He Keeps His Victims (photos) by Daboomb: 2:36am On Jun 19, 2017
obataokenwa:
Please who made you angry, did your wife cheat on you? I'm Igbo, so I don't know what you mean by your moniker


we have laws and constitution and all I did was just to see it from the point of law. Kidnapping is not a death penalty in Nigeria.

Do you know that all he's saying won't be counted in law court cos definitely he's under duress as you can see, he said all under chains and his case of having colon cancer can be used as strong evidence of duress... but we don't have good justice system... That guy will work free if a good criminal lawyer will take up his case...he confessed... but police don't have any strong evidence to nail him. Enough proof to show he's under duress is everywhere. If he's wise, he can be countering himself to dislodge them at the law court when the case is up...
Why dont you walk into FSARS and offer to be his LAWYER? shocked shocked huh

I think you are "smart enough' now.

Muumu, forming James Bond on Nairaland
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Crime › Re: Evans Leads Police To Houses Where He Keeps His Victims (photos) by Daboomb: 2:33am On Jun 19, 2017
obataokenwa:
I pray they don't silently kill him off... The case is just a few years sentence cos is not a murder case. He needs a good lawyer but you know the whole Lagos judges are like slaves to Tinubu... He won't get a fair trial... Al-Mustapha comes to mind... spent 13 cool years awaiting trial in Lagos. Thank God GEJ came to his rescue.
I have read every post on this thread and it becomes glaring that some Posters actually support this Chukwudubem alias Evans kidnapping job!
Why is it that IGBOS always support anything CRIMINAL?

Dont they have any iota of shame at all?
angry angry

Just asking?
Crime › Re: Evans Leads Police To Houses Where He Keeps His Victims (photos) by Daboomb: 2:27am On Jun 19, 2017
munas:
undecided

Who told you that?

This is a case of armed roberry,murder and kidnapping rolled in one.
Armed roberry is death...murder is death and kidnapping is life inprisonment
It is DEATH, in Lagos, where he committed some of those offences.

Chukwuduben a.k.a Evans, is a Dead man walking/talking
Crime › Re: Evans Leads Police To Houses Where He Keeps His Victims (photos) by Daboomb: 2:25am On Jun 19, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

Why are those policemen armed to the teeth as if he is a very dangerous criminal. This man never killed a soul.
This is not right...

#TeamEvans
#TeamFreeEvans
Hmmmm.....come and hear another Ibo man o!

Chukwudubem brothers and fellow Kidnappers are out here defending him on every thread.
undecided
I am waiting on them to call it #Witch-hunting, as usual.

Igbo kwenu!, l hail o.
Crime › Re: Kidnapper Evans: I Want To Die, l Can't Stand This Humiliation" by Daboomb: 2:14am On Jun 19, 2017
9jatatafo:
Too much attention is given to this con man. I believe there are several other billionaire kidnappers in this country and I expect the police to extract info from Evans and his crew to fish them out and stop all these useless confessions on properties and what have you
This Kidnapper Evans believe he will survive his present situation.
If you notice, he has refused to divulge the names of his INFORMANTS because he thinks he will still need to use them, when he becomes free.
He is craftily saying a lot of Bullshyte to divert attention from his informants.
I hope our Court Judges will not "as usual", take BRIBE and prolong this matter o? angry angry angry

According to him, someone told him his sister has been arrested, his right hand man has been arrested, so he quickly packaged his wife and children to Ghana with #20Milla.

Police needs to torture the Baaarstard and extract critical info from him, then let him face the Barrel at BAr Beach, as done in the days of Mighty Joe
Crime › Re: Kidnapper Evans: I Want To Die, l Can't Stand This Humiliation" by Daboomb: 2:08am On Jun 19, 2017
onyxo76:
Reminds me of the great Anini way back then. how come the worst of criminals are the worst of cry babies after being caught?
They always believe they will NEVER be caught! undecided
They think they are INVINCIBLE...... then when reality dawns on them, they FALL APART very badly!
grin grin grin
Crime › Re: Kidnapper Evans: I Want To Die, l Can't Stand This Humiliation" by Daboomb: 2:05am On Jun 19, 2017
akinszz:
how can the compound be impregnated with policemen...... Nigerians and their use of English
Have you ever heard of the phrase COLLOQUIALISM?

People like you are products of Almanjeri system of education!
grin grin grin
Crime › Re: Kidnapper Evans: I Want To Die, l Can't Stand This Humiliation" by Daboomb: 4:46pm On Jun 18, 2017
KingNas123:
lies there is many ways u can do that.. but if am him I will not build my House Lagos I will just go to my Village the South East and build it there... why build it in Zoo..
Hahahaha! grin grin grin

Another ANIMAL just forfeited his ill-gotten wealth to the Zoo!

Case closed...Next!
Crime › Re: Kidnapper Evans: I Want To Die, l Can't Stand This Humiliation" by Daboomb: 4:44pm On Jun 18, 2017
darkckUSA:
Go and die.. you worthless coward.. history will remember your tribe as cowards who cannot do anything but scheme to take over other people's sweat and labor. Your tribe has poisoned the president to make your brother the head of state while you divert news with Ipob and Evans story.. the truth will be found out soon enough..
~So, your notorious kidnapper brother's story is now a Diversion?

Hmmm.... Soroniyen?

Crime › Re: Kidnapper Evans: I Want To Die, l Can't Stand This Humiliation" by Daboomb: 4:40pm On Jun 18, 2017
sammydirectly:
Emotional coward.
He should have cross-dressed like his mentor did to Ivory Coast nah.
You are SAVAGE! No CHILLS at all! grin grin grin
Crime › Re: Kidnapper Evans: I Want To Die, l Can't Stand This Humiliation" by Daboomb: 4:38pm On Jun 18, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked
Too many conflicting reports...

We first heard that he was upstairs for a long time and refused to come downstairs when his compound had been impregnated with Policemen.


Now he is saying he was about committing suicide till he was prevented by a policeman.


By the way, whoever bought those luxury cars that he put up on distress sale is so lucky.
The guy is a mother-fucking LIAR!
The wife should also be arrested too, as an accomplice. She must be arrested in Ghana and brought back to Nigeria.
I hear she is trying to run-away to Canada and seek Asylum there. INTERPOL, please issue an international arrest warrant for the biatch

She told so many lies in her phone call to the Newspaper, lying that she had only #3,000 in her account, that her husband is poor, that they have only one house in Ghana. She has been in Canada for sometime but she pretends she has never been there.

Both Evans are his wife are into the business together, Which Ibo-man runs a Business and his wife is not the Accountant,` ehn?

Ofcourse, he is "singing" now like a Parrot.
Dont worry, you operated KIDNAPPING in Lagos and was caught in Lagos....... You are already DEAD.

Devil incarnate.

Lagos State Govt and the Nigeria Police should not waste time and resources on this one.
We want to see SWIFT JUDGEMENT and PUBLIC EXECUTION, to serve as a DETERRENCE to others still at large.


I think those who kidnapped the Epe Student up till now, when caught eventually, will be expect us to show them mercy, right?
But are they showing mercy to those little children right now?
Are they showing mercy to their Parents right now?
Sports › Re: Father's Day: Alex Iwobi Shares Photo With His Dad On Twitter by Daboomb: 4:27pm On Jun 18, 2017
incrediblepraise:
........


.......... Our New states will be:
BIAFRA MUNICIPAL
Anambra: Anamblinton AK
Enugu: EnuHilton EN
Imo: Imofreece OW
Abia: Abioshinghton UM
Ebonyi: Salt-lake Town ABK
Edo: Edossey BEN ( Edo go gree so?)

BIAFRA SOUTH
Rivers: Riverton PH
Delta: Deltron Island AS
AkwaIbom: Santa Aquifer UY
Cross River: Lakers Cross CAL.

We'll have our own Int'l Passports (chai).
Our own currency fit be the BIFAR.
All these Dangote Lorries that transport goods from Northern Nigeria will stop at our borders for custom check ( o boi, no be small seizing ooo). We'll have our own football clubs and play in the CAF Cup of
Nations. We'll play our own Classical Anthem when we make appearances in the World Cup and Olympics.
See levels.....
What do you think? ?
You really want to know what we think?

Well, we think that by now, you should have removed the GREED in your eyes and STOP associating the `Minority Nations with Biafra!
Its not by FORCE that they must associate and go with you.

You have not even conducted a referendum, to dtermine if they want to be part of your Biafra.
Its enough to be a minority Nation in a "Big Country", but to become another Minority Nation is a "Small Biafra" is double wahala for deadi-bodi.

ATTACHEE nor be by force!

Also, dont forget that from that moment, if they want to talk about Evans the Kidnapper, they will say "one of the notorious Biafran Kidnappers" was arrested today ..........No associating Nigeria with Kidnapping!

Anybody who claims to be an 'International Business ma[/b]n" is a "[b]Biafran Business ma[/b]n" because it is another phrase for [b]Kidnapping and Drug dealings

Even South African will not say Nigerians are ruining our country with Drugs.
But they will say "All Biafran Drug dealers must be booted out of S/Africa within the next 24hrs! shocked shocked
From China, to Malaysia, to Singapore, to Indonesia, et,c., even Ghana will not be beheading "Nigerians" anymore for Drug offences, it will be "these notorious Biafrans again?"

Fake Spare Parts will assume another name!

No more "Taiwan" as in the past, Inferior goods and outright fakery will become "Biafra-made".
Fake medicine nko? Something like "`Please dont sell me Biafra Medicine o, l want Nigerian made"! grin grin

I will go into Baby-factory later.

Okay, jokes apart, your post was a bit funny. undecided
Family › Re: What Is The One Thing You Regret Not Asking Your Spouse Before Marriage? by Daboomb: 9:15am On Jun 18, 2017
Benignasweety:
? Wow...1st am wowed u re following my diary gratia ma/sir...

But in your embolded, am sure you saw wia I said only d educated ones... I didnt jex specify dat itz an alround afonja thingy...
Well dos Nepa pipo made it very obvious dey had a beef with us! We paid 5500 out of 7000 Nepa bill and dey still cut n rolled our wire in, normally itz not done like dat!
Besides dia fellow Afonjaz leaving around, dey didnt disturb dem... I had to go ask one Iya ibeji how much she paid and mrs told me 3500naira! Why wasnt hers cut?
Another granny afonja was jex telling me if you enter my house ehnnnn and dey wia like Ekusheee ma, jex pay anytin and she gave dem only 1k for my koro koro eyes..
.

Well, thanks to Seun Osewa Nairaland, I for noknw wetin Afonja mean o, na nairalanders spoil me sef...

WE ARE ONE NIGERIA
LETS LIVE TOGETHER IN PEACE AND HARMONY...

Happy Sunday n dont forget to pray for me...
First, l am surprised that you would take this 'tribal thing" to your real life!
I am shocked that you actually would treat people, innocent strangers, based on the rubbish we write or do in politics section!
To me, l think you are actually a very "tribal, wicked person", in real life. undecided

We all insult ourselves and call each other names, in the Politics section ( from IPAD, Afonja, Cone head, Igbo, e.t.c! you need to read some of my own abusive post! grin it is fire-for-fire )
but l wont expect any matured person to now carry that to the real world and begin to insult and discriminate against fellow Nigerians, based on what they do anonymously on a "yabis platform" like Nairaland.

I was even expecting you will tell us that "You are not actually like that in real life" but treat everyone with respect and dignity they deserve.
In the real world, l am blind to anyone's tribal affiliation and would treat them solely on how they present themselves, in their interaction with me thus, l have friends from virtually all the corners of Nigeria.

Please, dont carry what you read or do on Social media, to real life otherwise, you will just become something else! A vexed and angry person.

Now, as to your Landlord & Nepa:
We all know that nepa staff are corrupt and what they need is just some "bribe".
It "could be" that your Landlord has done "I too know" wit them (Like threatening to report them, doing gra-gra with them or even physically threatened to beat them, in the past! These are all conjectures, mind you) ..and this has soured the relationship between them such that they wont give his house a "second chance" like they would do the other houses.

So, when your house owes a small amount like this, they are very eager to remove your cable.
It so happens that you are Igbo and your Landlord is Igbo (Seems there is something in common between both of you!)

It also happens that both of you are Bigoted to the core, otherwise, you should have approached one of the "Afonjas" and ask them to help you "sweet talk" the Nepa staff, even beg him (as long as he leaves your Power supply!) to not mind wetin Oga Landlord for don do am in the past.

This is what we call DIPLOMACY!

At the end of the day, you will have light, like that Iya Ibeji. undecided

But your bigoted mindset would not allow you to do "the needful", instead you will go about still re-enforcing your hatred towards others, Afonjas in particular.
We all know Afonjas are top-notch, when it comes to DIPLOMACY and that is what the "some" Igbos seem to lack in a large dose.
(Just look at how the Acting President douse the ND tension and spoke to everybody on a level ground)

But that is why Igbos also call Afonjas. "Coward"! grin grin
What an Afonja would achieve using Diplomacy, his Igbo brother is still standing there "vexing like mad" and not getting the same thing.

If l were in a position to advice igbo brethren, l will tell them to learn Diplomacy. (But l am not!)
That is the first step in winning any war, before even a single shot is fired.
Family › Re: What Is The One Thing You Regret Not Asking Your Spouse Before Marriage? by Daboomb: 8:51am On Jun 18, 2017
Roseey0:
I can't believe that aspect that he abused you financially and still didn't allow you work.
Either you just didn't want to work or
You weren't matured enough to handle this. I am guessing you married a man far older than you and was never your friend.


I use to be scared of being a house wife, because I saw many dependent unhappy house wives while growing up. I decided if I wasn't financially independent marriage wont cross my mind.
In the quest to become independent, I built my doggedness, patience and perseverance. After marriage I had to relocate to join my hubby. I was so scared of becoming dependent on a man but then I married my Friend so it won't be that bad. I prayed a lot too before making that decision to finally settle down . I dont even need to ask, for him to see there is a need and money is disbursed asap to solve it.

Having been independent myself I understand how burdensome it could be for another party to be cashing out on you for favourites. This restricts and guide my asking.
I won't be a burden forever and he knows that. I understand things may go south with him too, he has a lot going on from his family end, so I am trying soo hard to leave the housewive status as soon as possible.

Even if I asked all the questions in this world
I would still never have asked towards this direction wen though we dated for 3years.

Approach life per day basis
Thank God for your hubby and more importantly, for WHO YOU ARE!

Someone very intelligent and far more experienced, once told me that "We are a reflection of how our spouse treat us"..
He explained that "Harsh words, bring forth ANGER in the person it is directed to, while Diplomatic and soothing words evoke LOVE".

As you treat or talk to your spouse, will determine how he/she reacts towards you, eventually.
Actions and Reactions are always EQUAL ......and act in OPPOSITE direction - Newton Law of Physics

Anytime l see one spouse talking "bad" about their spouse, l always ask them the following questions:
1.) Was he/she doing all these bad things, when you just knew him/her? (let me stick with using "him", for simplicity).

2.) Was he exhibiting all these "bad actions" during the time you were courting him?

3.) If they keep answering "No" to the two questions above, l then ask: So, it was after you married him, that all these "bad behaviour" started?

4.) If they answered "YES" to this last one, l then conclude logically that "It means it is your person (which is the only different item now) living with him, that made him the Monster he has now become! You made him the Monster, you are responsible for his "bad behaviour"!

Everyone should recall and think back: If your spouse was a bad person, you wont marry him/her (at least those that courted long enough, to preclude one party hiding their character!). It was because yoy found them so gorgeous, that you decided that "No one but You"! and married them.

Now that you married him/her, the have become a Monster!
Be honest and tell us the part you played, in turning your spouse to the Monster you are describing. grin grin
But knowing we humans, we like to paint a rosy story of ourselves and absolve ourselves of any blame or responsibility.

You only need to read what some people write (and imagine you are really talking to them in real life), to have a small peep into the "World of their character".

A Fruit does not fall far from its Tree!


Happy Sunday to everybody.
Family › Re: What Is The One Thing You Regret Not Asking Your Spouse Before Marriage? by Daboomb: 8:28am On Jun 18, 2017
Katier00:
what a long epistle . I didn't Generalise, I said my previous marriage taught me bla bla. That man abused me in all ramification because I was not working. I begged for eventually everything because I don't earn. Yet he won't let me work. I will share my story some day here. It still hurts right here
Well, your problem, your headache.
Make l face my lane jeejely before you begin vent on me. undecided undecided
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by Daboomb: 9:48am On Jun 17, 2017
yak:
thank you very much. I will start off in November when the rains have gone
First, the rains does not disturb everything, it can only slow down work a bit.
You can do the foundation, even in rainy season, especially if your land id the dry, red soil type. Moreover, it does not rain everyday!

It is also cheaper to build in the rainy season, you get lower cost of labour and Materials for the simply reason that most people avoid to build in that season, which implies cheaper Labour and Material cost.

Dont also forget that prices are always going Up and Up in Nigeria, l pray inflation does not do "half-price" for you by then.

All the same, you have the final decision.

Just compare the cost NOW, and then in the Dry season and you will see what l mean

@Egunmogaji: I site your comment in the same direction. undecided
Family › Re: Woman Beaten By Her Husband For Refusing To Have Early Morning Sex (Photo) by Daboomb: 9:00am On Jun 17, 2017
PDPGuy:
Are you for real?!
You're saying it's the woman's fault that she got beaten by her so-called husband?

I weep for our generation
If you like, weep till your eyes fall out! grin grin
Truth hurts, no wonder you are weeping!
shocked shocked undecided
Family › Re: Woman Beaten By Her Husband For Refusing To Have Early Morning Sex (Photo) by Daboomb: 10:12am On Jun 16, 2017
menxer:
I don't know how to describe a man who maltreats a woman because of sex, when "sex is the cheapest thing money can buy."
He is not just "a man"! He is her HUSBAND.
She is not just "a woman"!! She is his WIFE.

Even the Bible admonishes us not to deprive each other (husband and wife) of sex.
If you dont want anyone to make a LEGITIMATE DEMAND of sex from you, then DONT GET MARRIED.

Deprivation of "conjugal bliss" (sex) in a marriage, is enough legal grounds for that marriage to be annulled.

That is how serious even the law, looks at it.

If the same Man brings-in another woman now, she will still be shouting Polygamy!
You cant eat your cake, AND STILL WANT TO HAVE IT.

The man for take it easy sha, all this panel-beating stuff is not worth the effort.
Just send her out of your house and marry another woman that is ready to be a WIFE and do Wife-duties
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Celebrities › Re: Naming Ceremony Of Kunle Afod's Son (Photos) by Daboomb: 10:06am On Jun 16, 2017
Flexygist:
Nollywood Actor and Director, Kunle Afod and his wife of 12 years, Desola, recently welcomed their fourth child, a boy. The family had a naming ceremony for their new child. See more photos from their family shoot on that day, after the cut...


Source: http://www.flexygist.net/2017/06/16/photos-from-the-naming-ceremony-of-actor-kunle-afods-new-born-son/
Women dont even know how this Pancake they rob on their face makes them look? huh huh
How can the mother of a New Born baby be looking like a New year Masquerade, courtesy of face paint?
angry angry

Welcome jare, new baby.

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