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MeNmyfamily:
You still wouldn't believe, as long as you've set your mind not to believe in "superstitious nonsense".

You'd either call it a Photoshop, or say the victim was born that way.

Give an instance where eyewitness testimony PLUS evidence has been called fake

dontrulee:
I used to think that stuffs like this is fake until it happened to a family friend of mine and I saw it with my two eyes.

Juju dey o, no reason am.

Many people like myself wouldn't believe until they experience it personally

Why didn't you take a photo or video and have it go viral?
LIAR!

Timoleon:
Always a fake story.

Backwards neighborhoods like these, you can hurt your rival by raising false alarms based in superstitions. Dumb heads will spring into mob action and lynch the person. If taking a person’s dickk is possible by touch, we’d all be dickless. Our markets are crowded, you can’t use public transport with being touched. A ‘dickk stealer’ would easily sit in between two men in our buses and get off without any suspicions. Alas it’s just superstition, everyone gets home with their dickks every freaking day.

The police must arrest the person raising the false alarm and catch scapegoats amongst the mob that tortured the man.

slam7000:
You are gullible and superstitious.

That’s nonsense. People have been harmed and nearly killed because one mentally unstable person who thinks like you raised alarm and accused an innocent person of ‘stealing’ his manhood.

Well, no one knows the extent of what is possible in our universe. If it is totally impossible why has such scenarios arisen for centuries

Saintmary:
What happens next depends on how he's been treating his wife when he had money.


It's exhausting, trying to explain to each individual I come across, something that should have been instilled in them as part of their upbringing.

Nope. What happens next is the wife will become the breadwinner and gradually become more and more bossy and insulting, while the man will be struggling to adapt to his lowered status. Things eventually break down... irreconcilable differences!

maasoap:
Lol. You don't know anything about scorned married man at all. He will use those kids to punish the hell out of her.

I'm just amazed how ignorant of human nature you folks are. They are also HIS children that he carried when they were babies, cared for, and bonded with.
Men walk away from their families all the time when they can no longer cope. No man ever offered to take care of his children so he will punish them to punish their mother!
OP is obviously not telling the whole story. A man who only cares for gambling, and doesn't care for his children will not be clamoring to be the one taking care of the children. Such men walk away from their families even without seperation or discussion

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
When will people realise that god does not exist.

When will you realise that you DON'T know that

Newyorkitis:
We have turned the white man to a God.
So because a black President met with a white president who does not have thread kidneys, it has to make front page news.

Chai who do us this thing!!

My friend black and white has nothing to do with it.
Obama was there for 8 years. It's the countries, NOT colour

ecolime:
Oyedepo supported Peter Obi but I didn't read where he predicted or prophesied.

This is why I like Pastor Adeboye, drag him from now till forever he will never say anything.

He said Naira will "rise above dollar"

Soooo, if they so powerful, how did Trump become president and won a 2nd term (but for Covid)??

Saintmary:
If life happens, it understandable, but for a man to look towards his wife's income, it's stinky behavior.

If, for example, a man gets framed and gets locked up and loses his thriving business, that's life happening. What then?

gazilion:
Your husband is possessed with the demon of Gambling. He needs deliverance! Can I pray for him??

Why do you have to ask permission to pray for him?
Show off

DonroxyII:
Men on Drug die easily.
Alomo, Ogidigba, Trabaye, Jekomo are all Death Sentence making the Heart Health Deteriorate in no time IbileIfe

Not only that, OP is full of crap. Some women respect their Pastor more than husband who "conquered them sexually"

Deepocean:
Lies

Which Mahatma Gandhi are you talking about, someone that lived more than twenty years in Africa

See below

Sycophant

(Isn't NL great?!)

Solsix:
There are so many families like that I know especially when you dwell in villages or semi urban areas. The problem is that our generation don't understand the phrase, " for better for worse" in the marriage vows. I think that's why we are seeing many divorces these days.

Almost always when the husband is the equivalent of a very good wife, while the wife goes out to work and is the breadwinner, there'd be issues and it eventually breaks down. While if the roles were reversed you'd usually have a lasting family

tonicyril:
Same people that told u that men can become a woman if they choose so?
Those that make u belive that u been a man may be a scientific mistake, hence u can choose the gender u want to be??

I heard you loud sir

Don't confuse pure science with socio-political affairs.
Secondly, what they're acknowledging is that some people are born with the opposite gender inside - or not all.

Exceed15:
Una just dey shout separate from him.. bla bla bla. None of us knew when the going was good . Madam if down in ur heart u feel your best decision is to leave the marriage then go ahead. But if u know this dude isn't that useless as you painted then have a rethink.

No one on tells a story that doesn't favour him/her . It is well with your Marriage.

You have a point. Imagine your wife comming on an anonymous forum to complain, do you think she'd tell the whole truth? No chance!
OP is obviously not telling the whole story. A man who only cares for gambling, and doesn't care for his children will not be clamoring to be the one the children stay with. Such men walk away from their families even without seperation

millionboi2:
quote her and paste this,so she can see it.

You ought first ask him what kinda job

Hubeznigeria:
I guess they are not wired to bear such load. Those who do without making complaints have a special kind of grace and are made of sterner stuff.

They usually manage to hide the resentment, but it still seeps out here and there.
There could be one or two exceptions but usually for a reason

Solsix:
It remained like that permanently

That's why I always use the words "most", "vast majority", etc.
Because there are always exceptions and outliers

sexyyoyo:
Bad advice my dear.
Don't follow such and never rush into a new relationship. All that glitters cant be gold . remain faithful to your husband even if you want space to work on yourself. Not all men are responsible when it comes to providing. Ask your mother inlaw how she managed his dad. That might help you.
Please never go out there trying to date another man hoping to get a provider, you will burn your fingers and regret would be worst ok.

This is exactly the type of advice that keep people in poverty, trapped in unhappy situations, and never attaining anything near their potential.
A young lady just told you her marriage is irrevocably broken, that she has become broke due to same marriage, that everything has failed in trying to get her husband to change, and that they have agreed that the best thing was separation. And your best advice to her is to stay in same exact situation, don't take any risks that could better her life because she could "burn her fingers"!
BAD ADVICE, my dear.
Life is a risk any way you slice it. And the most exciting, adventurous lives are usually attained taking calculated risks. While the most boring, unfulfilled lives usually come with avoiding any risks, staying with the known and safe, no matter how unsatisfying.
Many women/men have hit the "jackpot" with second, third marriages/relationships!

tonicyril:
Male urethra is not separated from the duct, unlike female urethra that is separated from the vagina

U knows that vagina comes with two holes bro.

Listen, a liquid stored in bladder, release tru urethra and u re saying its not urine ...haba naaaa, u should know the kind of brainwash u would accept bro

Bro it has been SCIENTIFICALLY tested and studied and found to be more than urine, PLUS (the big one) it is induced by extreme sexual arousal (which should be all that matters). You won't say a man cumming is same as peeing if the composition of semen were close to urine. You'd still know they are two very differnt phenomena!

yollychika:
He will never change! Get a lawyer, you could win custody of the children after divorce!!!

Not according to Google

lendahand:
if a man bearing children is abnormal, a woman providing becomes abnormal equally. If a woman becomes bossy and insulting in this abnormal situation, you don't blame her much.

Mind you, a woman assisting in doing one or two things temporarily is normal but a prolonged sole catering of the entire family will twist the normalcy and cause her to go across board.

I don't blame her at all, only stating a fact:
Women RESENT being breadwinners!

tonicyril:
where does it pass out??

So because male semen is released through the same urethra as urine, it is therefore urine??
SQUIRT IS NOT JUST URINE!!

Brunicekid:
I understand that uncertainties can happen to the man, but determined and obvious efforts should be made by the man to get something doing. It's not that the man will then relax and not make efforts after what happens.

No matter what the man gets doing, as long as his wife makes more and is the breadwinner, he go chop insults from her and bossiness, and constant complaints about little things

lendahand:
that's not the way God made it to be. A woman was never made to provide but to support the provider and bear children

But sometimes things happen. No where does it say that if a wife rises permanently above her husband and becomes the breadwinner she must become insultive and bossy!

caandi:
I don’t quite agree to this advice.

The man might end up abusing those children or molesting them out of frustration and spite for the woman

Someone that can’t fend for himself, what if he decides to sell the children?

From op’s write up she said her first child is meant to start school but no money, this means she has 1 toddler and a baby with her!

She can drop the kids for his parents though or hers if they’re alive!

OP is obviously not telling the whole story. A man who only cares for gambling, and doesn't care for his children will not be clamoring to be the one the children stay with. Also don't forget OP will be keeping an eye on them

tonicyril:
where was the fluid stored sir?? Please don't tell me its stored in the same bladder housing the urine.

And where does it pass out??

The fluid is not all urine but more importantly, it is released amidst extremely high arousal, thus tying it to sexuality

Solsix:
My mom took care of us when my father was down financially. Nobody knew except us

I bet it was clear your dad was TEMPORALLY down and would soon become the breadwinner again. Different from she's breadwinner and permanently far richer than your dad!

DyingFetus:
There's no such thing such as squirting


Woman go urinate , Dem go call am squirting

Not true. The fluid they release is only partly urine. It has been scientifically tested