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Congrats to her.
What secondary school did she finish from?

Jayslicky:
Adesua should keep a low profile for now if not she could lose her sanity, Nigerians and cyberbulling are like 5 & 6.

Or the cyber bullies should keep a low profile?
Your advice isn't right. Telling someone to shrink and hide herself just because some bastards want to cyber bully isn't right.

Nigerians really need to seperate from cyber bullying.

cassyrooy:
The most common is not having more and more sex. Such a pity.

Really?, most of the regrets I saw was about not going out and living life.
Hiding inside rooms and going from class to home and back.

That's what I saw most people regret.

tuniski:
Igbo did the right thing by their democratic choice. I am very proud of them even though I am yoruba.

People must stop criminalizing political choice. It is buhari that is being a bad leader by nepotism. Donald Trump didn't win majority American votes but leads the entire America not only the whites!

Or should Atiku win he should ignore the conservative north that didn't vote for him?

Don't mind the idiots. I don't know how someone thinks tribalism and nepotism is all right. Just because it isn't directed to their tribes.

pu7pl3:
K.o. returned to smackdown to win with a fvcking stunner....this is a great week for me guys

Are you serious? I have missed him. I'm glad he is back. Him and my big dog. Was so sad when I read about his cancer. Glad it's in remission.
Does anyone know what happened to Ambrose? I didn't see him when Roman came back. Has his contract expired already?

Didn't know Zelina is married. Andrade better treat Charlotte good. I'm about to go slap wwe writers for that nonsense of Mandy winning Asuka.

Does makydebbie still come around here? nekua?
There is one guy but I've forgotten his moniker. As I'm reading back I should see it. And I will give him a mentioñ.

johnyace:
I don't know if Naomi is stupid wrestler or that wwe are just booking Mandy rose to be pinning her all the time.
their encounters don't last up to 60 seconds and BAM! Mandy rose has already won.

Nah. Wwe's bookings for Naomi has just been horrible for years now. She and Becky, but Becky's finally gotten her big break.


Lol, pu7pl3
Just keep modifying your post to respond to this as I'm going to keep modifying mine as I keep reading back.

And all the Charlotte slander on this thread ends this instant. She is perfect and that's final.
Even if she wins every single payperview from.now till she retires it is accepted.
Until wwe can bring out another female wrestler that is good on the mic, can play both heel and face, can deliver a good match and yet can wrestle so well.

Becky can swerve for the Queen. I'm happy for Becky's push though, now I'm waiting naomi's push

pu7pl3:
And after that i hunted for you but you were soo elusive ...i had to take sometime off to hone my hunting skills and come back for you....and voila

Welcome back

You're so smooth lol and I love your meme game.

Thanks

Kaycee7:
So you just happen to return to this thread the same week Roman returned to the ring. Coincidence? I think not!

Lol, why?

I guess most people on nairaland had the same type of regrets.

tunjilana:
....If it was about child support...the judge could have ordered the man to pay a defined amount towards upkeep, fees, accomodation and all for yhe children...while he retains his assets...

What do you call child support? Did you read the post?
this habit of quoting someone just to disturb their mentioñs needs to stop

Instead of you to leave the girl and find a new one. You're crying about how Nigerian girls are golddiggers.

pu7pl3:
Replying to them like i cant be bothered? Well im sorry if you felt that way...i really am

The truth is that i used to mention you even maky too maybe you didnt see them...then i stopped

And also we really love having you around i promise

Aww this meme

It's all right
Will be on the thread in a bit.

5thElement:
Lol. You haf vexed?

lol, small

OneCorner:
Which kain dressing be dz one for kraist sake

Oh my God.
This comment + the meme killed me

Oh my.

The fact that nairaland men are so against these laws which are basically child support laws made to take care of the kids not the wife just shows that they are terrible human beings
Being angry because the judge has to force them to take care of their kids and pass rulings to make sure that they cannot maltreat their children because of any useless feelings they have about their ex-wife is just pathetic and shows they are not worthy of procreating with

5thElement:
I don't particularly like or agree with this part of the judgement...



The husband will take half which is his own share and walk away while the ex-wife will take her share and use it to cater for the kids they both have?

Miscarriage of justice, your honour.

Thank you, very biased judgement.
So the woman isn't a human being herself? Just a caretaker, no, not even a care taker because care takers get paid. Just a slave to take care of the children. She doesn't deserve anything just for herself?

“The uncompleted storey building is ordered to be sold by both parties and the proceeds divided in equal share. The half share shall go to the wife for the maintenance of the children. A divorced wife has no business being maintained,” Justice Abimbola held.

But a divorced man can be maintained. Stupid judge. The mans half goes to the man for himself. The woman's half goes to the children
-as if she impregnated herself and the children are hers and hers alone. Why wasn't the fathers share divided for the kids?

And the judge is trying to pretend that (s/he)is progressive. A situation where there are no kids. That means the woman can just be thrown out and given nothing.

Yet the useless man was shouting gold digging.

I'm tired of Nigeria's misogyny.
marriage to a Nigerian man under Nigeria laws seems to have absolutely no benefit to a Nigerian woman.


Yet somehow.
Nigerian Men think women desperately want to be married to them with all these misogyny everywhere.

pu7pl3:
This type of reverse psychology doesnt work on me jare
I remember always mentioning

Ermmm,
Das a lie.

you till you stopped replying all of a sudden and that period you were not logging in(i checked)

Awww.

You are the one that forgot us....forgot me
And we loved having you around

Is that so??
I remember giving you mentioñs on that thread and you replying to them like you can't be bothered.
Now you say you loved having me around.

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haywire07:
Let's not pay attention to the torn boxers, phone, key and that Gtbank Atmcard .

I'm only concerned about a girl who find it cool to chill with a guy who still sags his trouser at that age.

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But you are not concerned about a guy who still finds it cool to sag his trouser at that age?
Only the girl dating him?

Even on a thread where your fellow man is the one disgracing you. You still want to find a way to push blame on the woman. Misogynist

Sundarita:
It is always about the girl, like why don't you feel concerned about a guy that still sags in the age and time? Concentrate on the guy, he is the one with a torn pant and a sagged trouser.

Don't mind the goat.
If they remove their misogyny stained glasses and see things as they are for once they might die.

Sundarita:
You do not have any business with whom she is attracted to,The babe there has no fault, she is not the one putting on rag as boxer. If reverse were the case, none of you will drag the guy, it is always the girls.

Tell them

BobbyJayAms:
i don't know for u but for me instead of cheating I prefer to end thing "there are many fishes in d river loosing one fish in the net will not stop me from fishing"

Thanks. Please do. Try and run away from no sex girls next time also seeing as how that isn't what you want.

Please next time, before wasting the space on my mentions, ask yourself if you really, (and I mean REALLY) have anything worthwhile to say.
What was the point of this post now?
It isn't personal as well. I just can't be on a dear level with people who think emotional abuse and manipulation is a normal and accepted part of a relationship.
That level of dysfunction is not for me.

I can't tell you to have a nice night when you were literally wishing for op to basically give someone terrible nights.

You know what.
I wish you what you wished op's girl
Bye bye
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Quinolone:
lmao dear, everyone is dear to me, including you, we might argue, but it isn't personal

1 so what are you intentions now? try to change my mind? - lmao Not happening

2 Try to change the op's mind? - well you can try, but that's honestly none of my business

3 Try to discredit me? - lol, listen honey, people know the truth when they see it, and that right there is the truth plain and simple

4 Get some attention? - oh honey, i'd give you all the attention you desire, see i'm a nice guy lol

Alright listen, i can see you are the modern day feminist lmao, its fine, like i said earlier, its a free world.

i hope you now see that your efforts are futile

have a nice night

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BobbyJayAms:
sorry bro but I don't get jealous if I see her with other guys cos I actually know her ability.

If she stops talking to you and starts talking to other guys you won't get jealous?

And don't say "some some of(u) do not have the emotional intelligence needed to be in a relationship" that's wrong of u to say cos it's what we humans learn how to BUILD UP, no human being was born with %100 emotional intelligence.

That's my point, build up before going into a new relationship and if it sounds harsh, know I worded it that way because you're admitting to cheating on her yet trying to act surprised when she finds out and gets upset

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Quinolone:
hey dear, this is a forum where anyone can say his/her mind, i've said mine, and you've just said yours,and i respect your opinion , however the op can choose to follower the advice if he so wishes, its a free world afterall

Now

1 you call it manipulation, i call it self defense, for all we know that girl might be getting the d from another guy, yes it happens most of the time.

2 Mind you, the anger and jealousy is a very potent psychological manipulative technique, whether intentional or not.

3 The op has stated his intentions clearly on wanting a sexual relationship, she agrees, yet she doesn't comply, and proceeds to get angry when he wants to look for it elsewhere, what do you call that?

Now as i said, the op has free will to decide whether or not to follow my steps. its a free world, have a wonderful night

quinolone

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1) You said your mind. I said my mind, and we all keep "saying" our mind, you see how this goes.

2)I'm not your dear by the way. Manipulation, emotional abuse, untop ordinary relationship. Nope, I'm not your dear

3)He hasn't broken up with her. He leaves her in the relationship and tries to cheat on her yet acts brand new when she gets upset. Which is why he is asking us if he should leave her..
Besides, What was he expecting? If she doesn't get upset. You guys would use it as fodder for your "she is definitely getting the D from elsewhere" stupid lines.

4) free world doesn't mean I will carry a gun and shoot you, same way it doesn't mean you will suggest emotional abuse and trying to break down an innocent girl's life just because you don't like her relationship conditions

5) op actually agreed to her decision for no sex. He should have gotten out immediately if he didn't like what she was saying.
Case in point

BobbyJayAms:
actually the funny part is that this same issue of no kissing, hugging, sex of a thing made her break up her relationship with her ex cos she saw him with another girl and also cos d guy refused to buy her stuffs which she told me. But I decided to give it a shot hopping my case will be different but to no avail.

Boxer007:
Brother forget her. Females are useless.

Mtchewwwwwwwwwwwww

Let me put your great lip into great use. Bring it sir

Op see Someone who wants to kiss you and Hug you and have sex with you

I want to see how many likes this useless comment will get. let me know how many people are as empty as you are.

After looking at this comment, Please just tell me what use men are in a woman's life? Look at all the manipulation and emotional abuse you want to subject an innocent girl to just because she spoke her mind on the kind of relationship she wants WHICH OP AGREED TO smh.

E.Q = 0
What happened to just telling op to break up with the girl since he cannot cope anymore?
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Quinolone:
Listen brother, she is using you for the attention you give her. Right now, she holds the power in the relationship, and you can't have that now can you

What to do -

1: Don't get angry at her, its not worth it

2: Talk to other girls and have sex with them, if she gets angry, don't say anything,other than you have needs and you need to do something about them

3: If she threatens to leave or is angry or jealous, let her leave, this is a power move, and its extremely manipulative

4: When she sees that you don't care less, she would come back, this time, you have the power and can set the rules

Note: Don't rub it in her face that you are seeing other girls, it will only make you look childish

Remember a relationship is a two way thing, if you want to be intimate with her and she doesn't want that, you're free to go, and so is she, you guys simply don't fufuil each other's needs

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BobbyJayAms:
My girlfriend said no kissing, hugging talk more of sex only communication. But she will one day since six months now but anytime I stop talking to her and she sees me with other girls she gets angry and jealous. Am thinking of ending d relationship. Will it be cool?

Why enter into the relationship in the first place when you don't like her rules?
Why won't she get jealous when she sees you with other girls, are you no longer her boyfriend?
Wouldn't you get jealous if she stops talking to you and you see her with other guys?

Please end the relationship, some of you do not have the emotional intelligence needed to be in a relationship.

pu7pl3:
Your highness

Yes??

I remember always mentioning you till you stopped replying all of a sudden and that period you were not logging in(i checked)

And after that?

Jaqenhghar:
Amen sister. I know a man who married a runs girl who has a child out of wedlock. He used to see her antics.its not that they gisted him. He saw the men come pick her up and still married her. They have been married for over 20 years and have abt 4 kids. He confided in me that marrying her was the best thing to have happened to him

Lol, that's so funny, it's not that they gisted him





On a different note, as far as I'm concerned.

Nigerian men behave like runs girls. It's just that they do the paying not that they are paid. Abi wetin runs girl dey do wey them no dey do?
So I don't know why a normal Nigerian man will open his mouth to judge a runs girl or foolishly think he is better than one
That's why I call them runsmen.

chivera018:
She's right, most men will never marry ladies that smoke, drink, especially ladies that cannot cook.
They will rather marry a submissive lady, and cheat on her with the one that behaves like a IndecentStar.

Lol, how does a porn star behave?

Is to just one outfit she designed to be worn as 3 separate outfit?
She looks good in all three.

Shibaraba:
Choi!!!!

What if the guy mess you come ask yab am say the mess dey smell...your own don done be that


Same thing happen to me but my own get as e be
I just fly enter for one kain wedding. As I no want make village people know say I dey around I decided not to go home but chill around Ikeja. Na so somehow I enter "the place" for Ikeja

As I just dey chill one guy just enter with all him paddies dey my side for VIP.Them reach like four. Kack near me. As I see say dem no shark after a long time na him I kuku drop one ciroc for their table say make dem dey use am wash system. The guys just laugh say thank you. I come dey form van damme. Based on say na dolapo dey hand I just dey order. Them cancel like 2 ciroc and two cranberry packs. As I dey form don Corleone na him one of them waka comot go outside. See solid babes wey follow am enter. I no know say na the girls dem dey wait for. Na so them start to shell me drinks. Bros I nearly piss for body.
Ace of spades just litter table. They even left some unopened say make I carry dey go. Them pay their bills join my own. Omo see as I humble. When dem.dey waka I don dey jonz na him I say make me sef waka. When I see their moto na him I know say I mess up. Yankee wey I dey na story. These guys are gods. See as Porsche plenty. With one mad motor wey be like batman own.

Them no know when I japa. I disappear like mess. Those kind people na them dey cause depression.

lol

queenice7:
my boo tells me everything that happens to him, so do I... he tells me abt girls tripping on him and doing crazy things to get his attention... I tell him each time I make a new male friend and our conversations, he seem cool with it. we live in different States (long distance relationship). recently I went for a training, after de training I was hungry, so I decided to see a guy that av been bulging me to see since last year,

since I wasn't far from his office, this is the second time am seeing him and we haven't really conversed. he took me to a nice restaurant and we got food... we were eating and discussing abt politics and stuffs, only for him to start telling that he's Hot, that let's go to a lodge, I was so embarrassed but I didn't say a word to him, he got frustrated and left me in the place after paying for the food. I had to find my way home from that place since we came with a car so I didn't know de road. I told my boo this, and he got really angry @ me, and am surprised coz he called me names like cheap flirt and said he was gona show me... like he was literary threatening me, said our relationship is on de verge of break up coz of this. I didn't see this coming and I don't know y he is reacting this way, maybe coz he feels intimidated by this guy's profile, unlike de other guys I tell him about. I guess I should stop telling him anything, wah do u think?

Your first reaction isn't even to stop going out with these guys, you just want to know if you should stop telling your bf about it

Anyway. If your bf wasn't bothered in the past when you told him about things like this which had happened, then I can understand your hurt and confusion. Seems your relationship is very undefined, Your bf just needs to define the relationship and stop overreacting. Threatening you and calling you a cheap flirt isn't the way to go.

Don't allow any of these internet gangsters to bully you out of this forum. See them trying to force you to accept abuse as a way of life.
Just ignore and take the good advice, if you can't give the insults back hot or call the mods.

If only seun can give us a block button so we can block all these demons, but no.
Imagine a forum over 12 years old with 2m+ members yet no block button.
Seun why??

NoToPile:
You think they will carry placards with ' I AM FEEDING A MAN' boldly written.