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pu7pl3:
Lol yea he is heel now and rowan doesnt help him win matches he is his intellectual equal

Lol, lies. I saw him cheat.

i agree with you tho the song is kinda dull without the yes chants

Exactly. They might as well change the song.

I feel sorry for asuka too...i dont know why they treat her that way..seriously i dont know why

I'm so tired of them, they barely know how to make anyone great.

And yea MIZ does his best work as a heel but i like his new face turn too infact anything he does is awesome...JOE finally got gold and dropped his usual badass promo backstage...he will hold that one for long(i think)

I haven't seen his face turn. Was he face when he was doing that tag team with Shane. I need to watch SD soon.
Do you think wwe has stifled the career of Shaemus and Cesaro?

And yes BROCK is still the champ..his feud with seth is too cold for my liking

Every part time champion will definitely be boring.
Lol

Adakintroy:
Don't make a case for her. She is not a baby. Not a mind reader of cause she is. When you take a gift from a person that wants relationship, you reciprocate it. What has the person ask that is too difficult. You want to keep your pride, hold your head high and still gets precious things from people. Go and earn the gift or price.

Even a 120 year old human being isn't a mind reader. No one is a mind reader.
I think a gift is given without expectations or am wrong? You make a gift sound like trade by barter.
However, even if she wants to reciprocate it. She can reciprocate it the way she wants. The same way he gave her a gift because that is what he wanted to give her, Not for him to start giving her orders and expecting it to be obeyed just because he bought her a car.
She just doesn't want to cook. It's her choice. I don't know why she got so angry though, but I don't how she was asked.

By the way she should be ashamed for herself. Your boyfriend ask you to cook so he can show you off, you are all over the net. Other girls are waiting to take your place.

Lol,
And she doesn't want to be shown off that way. Nothing to be ashamed of there. She has a choice. There is nothing wrong with her choice.
I'm sure she doesn't mind if the other girls take her place

Adakintroy:
"When people give you gift you collect"

It's called bait not gift. Learn to say thank you. Thanks the only way you can keep your prestige or respect intact.

It's called gift.
She is not a mind reader. How is she supposed to distinguish between bait and gift. What is even a bait here?
If she carries this Jaded and cynical mindset around thinking that every gift she is ever given is a bait how far is it supposed to take her?

Don't push unnecessary responsibility unto another person. Instead people should learn how to open their mouths and speak. No one is a mind reader. Everyone should learn to say what they want.
Her prestige and respect is very well intact.

Isn't this the girl who is always having one drama or the other?
The boyfriend Should have just told her that the car is payment for the services of a cook.

No one should be giving anyone commands.
That's rude. Car or no car.
All these control freaks. And no she doesn't need to impress him.

That now Oga thinks he has right and be giving me command, says i should come to his house and be cooking for him continental dish, Gambian food and Nigerian food. That I should be cooking for him and his friends that i need to impress him, saying oga you are mad, are you idiot do i look like your mother i will be feeding you and your friends.

Seun:
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Lol,
Those days

Seun can we still PM you if we have any questions ?
Forget the emojis I'm being serious

Chi59:
I haven't been fortunate with guys.
My first attempt at a relationship failed woefully.
And so did the second, third and fourth.
It isnt entirely without a reason though.
I'm SS. I have been a Sickle cell advocate for many years. I don't shy away from talking about it on any level.

Apart from that fact, I'm beautiful, smart, funny, very lovely, outgoing (even as an ambivert). I poses a healthy level of empathy, self esteem and confidence.

Physically I'm tall, slim, moderately endowed. I have been told that I look healthier than some "healthy" people.
So I don't know, what am I lacking?
[b]All the guys I've been in love with, for one flimsy reason or the other just disappear for no reason. Just like disappea? [b]
Of course, I don't hide my genotype status, but then they seem cool with it. Months later, he disappears and leaves me heartbroken.

Now I find myself liking someone again (the fifth guy). We haven't gotten that close but I'm scared. Should I lie to him? What do I tell him?

Are you sure you don't know why they disappear?
I know it may be hard, but seriously, try and find out the reason why the relationship doesn't work out.
You haven't given us much information on your relationships
You are the one who has been in the relationships, you know the patterns, you know what happens, just sit down and ask yourself

It doesn't have to mean you are wrong. Maybe you guys aren't compatible, find out why you date guys who you aren't compatible with, then stop dating guys like that. Maybe you did something or act in a wrong manner, Find out why you do things like that, change and act better in your new relationship, maybe you don't like something about them, then subconsciously sabotage the relationship. Good. Find out why you choose guys like that, find out what it is you hate about them that is making you sabotage the relationship, then Change, Don't date guys like that anymore.

Just try to find out what exactly is wrong.


And if it is about your SS. I don't know.

Guys in the house,
Isn't it possible a long term relationship or get married to someone who is SS?
Isn't this possible?

Lol. Why did she dress up as them? Should have just celebrated them.

Mine would be chimamanda (love her) and any woman who genuinely supports and uplifts women, not including women who bring women down to praise men in a bid to seem objective and fair yet still want to act like they are for women.
Y'all inspire me.

pu7pl3:
Lol..."natural loving" really cracked me up i know everyone was fond of the yes movement and it was really nice but dont you admit it was getting a bit stale? This switch added life and more depth to his character and he is playing it to perfection man...its genius....

And dont worry about mandy she is still coming up..when its her time you will see what im saying...she only beat asuka cos she "cheated" and im sure asuka will retain against her at fastlane...they just using her to keep asuka busy cos wwe creative doesnt have something tangible for her yet which is toobad for a whole smackdown womens champ not to have any clear direction heading to wrestlemania

And daeylar are you on twitter? Whats ur username?

No. it wasn't. it wasssn'ttt bring my yes movement back.
OK I confess. I just want the yes movement back because his song is boring without the yes with it
He is heel now isn't he? Especially since he goes about with that guy helping him in matches.

They have never had anything good for asuka since they made her lose that women's championship when she first came. I'm so upset. They are really messing up this woman. I don't like seeing a strong wrestler used as trash. Not to talk about a whole women's champion. That's how wwwe creative used to upset me with Becky too.

pu7pl3:
I miss you trolling me about K.O. and what is K.O. without his pot belly? DB even trolled him about it on smackdown

And yes they are still my best wrestlers on the main roster....the love is still strong

The fairytale ending is one of ciampas finishers...you can check it on youtube

Biggie belle k.o LMAO

Is it samoa Joe with a championship? Damn. Gotta watch.

I like miz congrats on his second child. I really like miz. Great wrestler, great on the mic. I think he works best in his heel role? What do you think?
Wish they would give him a championship run.


Btw
Is our part time champion still the champion?

pu7pl3:
On another news...R truth issa legend i swear

And if MIZ tells you not to lose focus for 1 sec you better not lose focus man...

Congrats to joe finally...some gold on ur shoulder

I love you K.O.

I miss trolling you about K.O
Does he still have a big belly?

I can see your love for k.o and miz is in full gear.


Haven't watched smack down nor raw.

So until I watch it.

pu7pl3:
She can keep winning long as she keeps using ciampas fairytale ending

Is it a submission move? It's That good?
Gotta see.

pu7pl3:
Watch what you say about mandy unless you want to feel coreys wrath...despite her looks and body i think she is a top tier wrestler well she isnt yet but she has all the tools to be..

Corey can't do shiitttt
Wasn't he the one who used to praise Charlotte and Sasha before?/

I don't mind her looks and body.
I just know she isn't strong enough to beat Charlotte and asuka.
Those women aren't jokes.
Or if she is, she better prove it.

.lacey is also good but she hasnt wrestled since RR all she does now is pageantry and interrupting poor elias

Well If you and Kaycee are saying she is good. Then I hope she is because that RR was just an eyesore.

Lol, all elias does is going from city to city insulting the audience and their city yet everyone loves him .

Is high time you gave wwe creative that slap tho but remember their pat on the back for DB and Beckys storyline respectively

Lol,
This meme
for Becky's storyline yes. But for DB new person. Or natural loving or whatever the heck is that story line they gave him.
Hell nah.
I.want my yes movement Daniel back I want him back


@ kaycee7

Well I already saw him and the shield brothers wrestling this past raw. So let's just count down until the remission immunity wears off. Or maybe the immunity will last for a while.

As for Corey. I don't mind him because he makes the show interesting.
Why are twitter folks upset?
I don't think I've ever heard him say anything inappropriate or unnecessary sexual.
Why are they upset?

Kenshinmunac:
She has refused to be controlled and like to do what ever pleases her.

Op just please tell me that this story is a joke and you wrote this just to rile up naira land? Please? I refuse to believe that there are people this messed up yet who think their dysfunction is normal that they bring it to the GP without shame? .tell me it was all for reactions, and no relationship exists?
How completely messed up do you have to be to think that this is acceptable?
Getting upset because someone has refused to be controlled? That she does what she pleases? And it annoys you. op please never have kids and stay off women until you fix your issues. Until you learn that no one should be controlled. Please and thank you
And if you can't. Well. You're enough for yourself. And you need no woman nor child

cococandy:
You’re a control freak. She’s not your child!

Just listen to yourself and the words you’re saying.

You want to control her
You’re correcting her
You’re raising your voice at her
You get upset that she talks back at you.

Like she’s supposed to keep quiet like a child and listen to you talking condescendingly to her in the name of correction.
What are you correcting her about? What makes you think you know more than her and as such are in position to correct her.

You’re just upset that she isn’t accepting of your mansplaining.
What normal person looks for who to control?

I hope she sees the signs and leaves you before she ends up in a horrible marriage with someone looking for a subordinate, not a partner.

I wonder whose raising these prideful, egocentric boys who think they can come into a woman’s life and run the show. Oh I know.

GTFOH

Yes! Yes!! Yes!!!
Drag him
Looll!!!!

A lot of these boys on this NL are so strange. When they bring their relationship woes here a number of such woes consist of them crying about their GF not listening to their "very good and innocent corrections"
Or how their GF hasn't mutilated her personality and lifestyle to exactly what they, Her lord BF has commanded her. (Of course the bf only does it to help her, it is all part of their ever loving corrections and the loooovvvvveeeee they have for her )

These men are damaged and yet instead of trying to get help. They look for who they can break into pieces.


This is for OP's gf. (If this story is true and she exists)
Go girl!!!!!!!!
You're the MVP. Keep your strength and self esteem as high as they are now.. Don't ever lower it for any of these severely damaged creatures.

Just one word of advice dear.
When your break up with men. Let that sh*t go.
Don't ever break up and start trying to make up. That bullsh*t doesn't work. They're not going change.
Highest these men pretend for some seconds but they are still going to revert back to their original behaviour that made you guys break up in the first place.

Let! These! Men! Go!.

You're doing great sweetie

yinkarh187:
lol shouldn't the message be "stop patronizing sex workers"?

Lol.
They should pay the sex workers first.

chiedozie198100:
that fat one yansh go soft wella.

LOL!!!

Future ashawos?
Is it everything that's a joke?

So this is no longer a case of theft but a case of unnatural offence against the law of nature.
And dishonest people were arguing with me that no one disturbs gays.
People really need to stop this rubbish. Pay whatever you promised. Stop trying to scam sex workers.

Crossbow:
He never said he was an atheist, as a matter of fact, he opened his online church some time last year. He believes in God but he isn't blind to the gimmicks played by GOs and pastors..

Oh I didn't know that.
Even more reason why he should not have come for this girl. She didn't do anything wrong.

bereto:
The virginity is one standard not all
I mean you are unmarried and you lose your virginity without remorse no heaven
If you are a virgin but still harbour un forgiveness or other sins in your heart no heaven
So instead of freeze shaming her for coming out should let her know it's not just enough but we'll done

That's all, but seems this topic pained freeze badly and he started ranting unnecessarily.

She never said it will take her to heaven
She just said it’s a standard as a citizen of heaven for unmarried people.
Why is it paining him like this?
I thought he was an atheist?

pu7pl3:
Um Daeylar...seems like you have forgotten how spam bots here behave...they dont like very long or modified posts...

About charlotte..she is awesome and all but its cos she was built up to be...not to discredit her tho(i love her) but there are other women that can also do what she does if given a chance like ember moon..lacey evens..sonya deville...they can all be built up to be as big as charlotte

I honestly wish more women can be built up then. I really like Charlotte because she can deliver on the ring and the mic and she seems to be the only one booked well.
I'm tired of watching ladies with great mic skills but tragic wrestling skills, or vice versa.
Or when the problem isn't mic or wrestling skills. Vince will spoil everything with bad booking.

Imagine Mandy pinning Naomi and Asuka? I still need to give wwe creative their slap for that


Lacy Evans is that Charlotte 2.0 isn't she?
The "proper lady" with blonde hair? Only time I saw her wrestle was royal rumble and I almost cried.
Bad wrestling all through.

Has she gotten better?

all i wanted was becky vs ronda one on one but adding charlotte wont hurt too so i dont really have an issue with it...it will even make it potentially better

Lol, don't mind me. I like Charlotte but you're right. Becky vs Rhonda would have been great to see.
I hope we can see more one on one matches.
Becky vs Rhonda. Charlotte vs Rhonda. (I feel this has been done. I remember watching a match like this, am I right?)

Kaycee7:
Heard a rumour you were on his medical team!

Lol. No. I'm glad he is back.
I hope they haven't started booing him again?



I have to say. I love the way Corey graves worships some female wrestlers. It's so funny.

pu7pl3:
Take your time dear...long as ure here im good

nanakgh:
Lol to be honest even white girls do it. Hundreds of YouTube videos about it. Its something a lot of these insta girls do to be able to live that life. Its super disgusting tho, the things they put in their holes and mouths..but 30-40k$ is a lotta money

Thank you for being honest.
I think some of these guys get orgasms from attacking Nigerian girls. You're right. 30-40k is a lot of money, it's also so dehumanizing and disgusting.
The girls and guys doing this sha. the sick men who thought of this
It's all messed up

Congrats.
Nice of you to do that for your mum

Good for her for leaving the cheating man.
If she has been cheated on and she is no longer happy being married nor does she want to stay married, it's better to get divorced 1000 times than to stay just so people can congratulate you for being married or being married for a long period of time.

pu7pl3:
Um Daeylar...seems like you have forgotten how spam bots here behave...they dont like very long or modified posts...

I actually haven't forgotten. I said let me take my chances
I want to read through the thread to catch up so I said let me use one post to make comments rather than making 20 comments in a space of 5 minutes.

I'll be back to reply this and continue my reading.

Lol.

AntiBrutus:
I do not buy the school of thought that only bad guys have confidence, but knowing it will be the next things guys say...I started my post with it.

This is all that needed to be said.

Your verbal diarrhea is unnecessary.
But I understand. You can't help it.
If you don't turn a simple answer into some type of drama and spectacle with unnecessary lines filled with delusions and projections. You wouldn't be at peace with yourself.

Besides.
This

Next thing na, you will start prancing upandan, taking side comments at people who do not agree with you

from the same girl who runs up and down different threads giving people who have disagreed with her unnecessary snide mentioñs?
I've told you to stop projecting, but it's seems like a second skin to you while hypocrisy seems to be the Cherry on top

Anyways.
Don't let your hypocrisy and stupid projections hit you on the way out from my mentioñs.

You've answered my question. I'm done here.

AntiBrutus:
Madam Daeylar, before you go attacking like someone on heat...I called it useless for a reason.

Aunty Brutus. You're still projecting.
If you're on heat. Has no business with me.

If there is anyone jumping into conclusion, it has to be you.

How can it be a conclusion when there is a question mark there? Do you know what a question and a conclusion is at all?

Like how can someone ignore a whole post and focus on just the first paragraph

Same way you ignored my whole post and started flying into conclusions.

Seems like you are looking for a way to attack with without remorse and reading further wouldn't help that.
How do you do this?

More flying into conclusions.
All to divert attention from the questions I asked you.
You can answer my questions or you can move along.

CyberWolf:
Same thing Ubunja has been talking about. When you’re nice to ladies, they call you weakling, boring, etc.. Treat them like trash and they run after you.

Same thing from you.
So being nice means being boring and lacking confidence? And having confidence means you must be nasty or be a bad boy. Please. A man can have confidence and still be nice. A man can be boring and still be a devil.
All these ridiculous stereotypes.

badadvice:
Op, that guy you're talking about is a "nice guy" and you should fight to keep him unless of course you're one of those girls who like bad guys in their youth and later pray and fight to settle with a nice in the future.
I'll advice you make him comfortable around you by being yourself around him, and by being yourself, i mean being your real self i.e how you were born.
Dress in front of him.
Touch "him" like you own it.
And if possible, fvck more than enough confidence into him.
When a guy becomes comfortable seeing your unclothedness, or having sex with you, he level of confidence around you will pique and you would end up not living a boring life!

SMH

Lalas247:
Does he have a beard ? If not you know wht to do ....
Pls don’t @ me
Sipping Rum
Jokes aside if you find him boring then just decline ... trust me you will tnk me later
Trying to change a man is extremely difficult

Thank you jare.
seekingop
If you feel he is too boring for you, you can decline. You don't have to wait around hoping he gets comfortable enough to start having confidence around you, neither do you have to feel you need to do this or that to get him to have confidence when he is with you.
Man never finish for this world.


If however you want to try out the suggestions given here that's all good also. Since he is has been your friend and he has good qualities
I wish you luck.
There is nothing wrong with the way you feel.

lovelybugs:
I was going to say date an independent lady but I realised most independent ladies realised they don't need men, except for love, companionship and a faithful relationship,which most of you guys don't even know how to give so OYO. Look for the least expensive one and marry.
By the way, showering money is not love.
Love is unconditional and has no limitations.
I'm also aware that some of the black hearted men and women were once good people but turned this way cause they were unfortunate to love the wrong person.
May God heal you.
Peace?

This is a smack down

You're right. Can they give love, respect, fidelity and companionship, no, A good number of these guys, the only thing they can give is money and yet they are reluctant to give even that. Crying and whining all over the place.

cassyrooy:
You're correct, but the sex part is still visible on almost every page of this thread.

I don't think not going out to live life should be a regret, because our malleability shouldn't be a thing we cultivate just in college, it's a lifelong trait.

Lol, yeah I remember now.
Talking about how they regret not fucking that girl they could have bleeped without much effort. Or regretting being in relationships or abstaining from relationship.


Well, it depends on the individual, as long as they feel they should have gone out. Then they would have regrets.

This man is treating his son very badly

He stated that Mr Churchill failed to pay for child support and some part of King’s expenses.

He said Churchill was told to pay N200K monthly for Andre’s upkeep which he hasn’t. He also said Churchill agreed to pay Andre’s school fees directly to the school but he stopped after paying once and they have emails from the school to back their claim

Why is he refusing to take care of his child? That's so unfair. This is why that Oyo court had to basically force men to provide child support for their kids and yet nairaland babies were still foaming at the mouth.

Men like this don't deserve children. Any man that refuses to take care of his child because of whatever silly issues he has with the mother needs to be thrown in jail.

Speaking to the actress’ legal rep, Barrister Ukechukwu C Uju-Azorji, he confirmed that An Abuja customary court gave actress Tonto full custody of her and Churchill’s son after being sued by her former husband and father of the said child .

So he sued her to court and lost the case. Lol.

@ topic

Why not?
Just make sure he is not a misogynist nor a tribalist, and he is extremely generous.
Then he is perfect for me.