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Jethrolite:
Is it new? I had my first orgy with a distant relation. Thing was, there were 3 other guys, 2 of them her brothers - her immediate elder and younger brothers. I was first in line because I was the only one who had an idea of where to stick my dick in. I couldn't penetrate, I did my best as her brothers watched me struggle. I gave up and the younger brother tried . No luck. I was still in kindargaten, my lunch money was N1 and I could buy biscuit and Coke with it. It was roughly 6 years later I read about the hymen.

Imagine we got caught back then, no Internet, only landline. These kids do not even know what an orgy is and societal perception towards it. They sure know what Bleep is.

WTF did I just read.

Oh my

Why were they arrested?

Martin0:
Don't sound 18 to me please!

And don't feel shy to speak, nobody will arrest you here!

What

Anyways
Don't get snippy with me!
Don't

Keep that attitude to the side if you give me a mentioñ next time
Bye

Martin0:
OK, been a long time,

Yeah

I want us to get back together.

Hiaaannn get back together kwa? Ayam not understanding

Martin0:
Daeylar please can we have a moment.

Sure.

sulakishop:
Use him for money ritual and pay back, thank me later

smh

oolongtea


You're a king. A Fuvking king

Every damn thing is so on point. Too good Loved it all.

from points 1-5 perfection

Oh my, Bob is looking mighty fine in those pics, hair accessories and outfit. He looks cool.

I don't know why some Nigerians have this annoying mindset that once someone apologies then whatever the person said to offend someone must be forgiven by the person offended. Then the matter ended,

No matter how pathetic the apology. No matter how serious the offence, Or how the person offended feels.

Just any useless apology then the person offended must forgive and move on? And if he/she doesn't, the the offended party is made to look like the enemy,


Such an irritating mindset, and the people with such mindset keep trying to impose this on others. The way nairalanders on this thread are trying to do.

Seeing nairalanders doing the above and those making excuses for this white girl, stupid as fu*k excuses for that matter, is quite pathetic, ridiculous even.

The white girl was being racist. Clear as day, her apology is sheeeettt, she is just playing ignorant.(as they usually do when caught) She knew what she was doing.

bukatyne:
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Eat the apple at the back of their iPhones?

This is one very strong o!

@Topic: there are males who reason like that and think they can eat their cake and have it or different moral rules exist for them.

There are a lot of women who believe it too.

Addressed bold

However, the onus is on each woman to pick the kind of man they align with. Tweeting with #malelogic won't make most men who are like that change: they would either counter with 'femalelogic' or ignore the tweeters as buttressing their earlier position of disrespect.

Even if it's just one man (or whoever thinks like this) who changes. Don't you think it's something?

Most of these men let these things slip, run run run. You are not APC that can change anyone. I remember in uni, a classmate told me he couldn't make someone too 'book conscious' or 'career driven'. His mother picked him up everyday from secondary school and he was looking forward to same from his wife. I smiled because I had nothing to do with him and my boyfriend now husband loved my 'bookishness'.

It will be stupid of me to marry that guy and start whinning when he tells me not to work or stop at a certain stage.

Know yourself, know the kind of man that fits you, position yourself to attract such and end the discussion .

Are you implying that all those who tweeted with this #tag had to have the experience happen to them personally or that they had to have been close to the men before they can hear such logic? Or they have to be married to people like this to hear such logic?

And when you have sons, ensure you do not train them to have the male logic your're campaigning against.

Also one of the reasons I feel she created the thread.

cococandy:
NL Male logic :

“If I sleep with you, it’s okay. If someone else sleeps with you, you’re an olosho”.

Oooohhhh this is a good one. so silly

Saff:
This is a perfect description of some nl guys too

I know right? very perfect

iRepNaija1:
Good! Call all these men out who reason this way.

You got one of the reasons why she made this #tag

SenorFax:
Never knew some women felt this way though

We do actually though,

theunnamed:
This is just outrageous!!!


They tripping, most men don't reason like that...I know I don't

I think the lady who started this #tag used male logic because most times (if not all) it's men who came up with such logic and do continue to act like it's gospel truth,

Doesn't mean it's just men who say this though, nor do I think it's all men who subscribe to this.

ODeva:
It's good that you're not like that. Truthfully, most not all, reason like that.

Just like this poster says

He'll still die alone.


What did she wear, where did she go crew. Any comments?

hopefulLandlord:
I'm an atheist, my posts on this thread have all been sarcasm

Awww, why did you tell them? the fact that they took you seriously and responded to you based on that, made it all the more fun, and so much more funnier lol

1Sharon:
Where's Kanwulia?

As the table is shaking, let it just break completely abi.

PointZerom:
The will use FlynigeriaCoffinair.com

yettymuse:
We go gather hand beat this mods las las

LMAO
Wetin dem do you

Very very smart.

Nihilstjnr:
If you think abuse is the reason for this mess, you're clearly in denial or deluded.

The alleged abuse is a symptom of the a much deeper malaise in the marriage - the wife had clearly recognised her husband's capability for greed and cruelty.

If you're able to analyse properly, you can see that at every stage, this woman took steps to protect her investment because she knows who she married.

They made money together, but hubby decides he wants to use joint profits to fly his dad out of the country for medical treatment, as well as build a house for his parents. The woman realises that this man is ready to take full control of, and squander their joint funds, so she demands a split.

A sensible man with kids would know that his first priority is to his kids and would have first focused on putting a roof over his children's head. Instead he left his kids under rain and went to build a house for his parents. No surprise he walked away from those kids in the end.

Next, the woman builds the house in her name, again because she knows who she married. If you genuinely think that it's a mere coincidence that the man tried to order her out of the house, then I have a bridge to sell you.

Think about it, the man is claiming to be annoyed that the deeds weren't in both their names, yet he stold her to get out of a house, where as far as he knew at the time, she was listed as a co-owner anyway.

This is a guy who wasn't concerned about her rights in the first place, and the woman clearly recognised these tendencies and took steps to protect her neck.

Steps that have been justified in the end.

I believe there's a lot that hasn't been said yet, but if you think that her insulting his parents is what triggered this wahala, then mehn...you're inexperienced in life.

Nihilstjnr:
A man can fly abroad with his father, but walk away from his kids at the drop of a hat.

He can build a home for his parents with his money, but contribute only a little towards housing his own family.

That sounds like someone who's preoccupied with being a child...Instead of being a father.

That's even beside the point. What is clear to me is that the woman saw this coming and wisely protected her investment.

when you consider that:
1. he tried to kick her out of the house and
2. he's now demanding full ownership of a house he admits to contributing very little to.

it's obvious that her move was justified.

Sensible people will be asking how she was capable of such foresight... I'm sure in her heart of hearts, she knew since day 1 that she was married to a monster.

tartarus:
And some nairaland males will hop on this thread and support this "husband" cos they see every marital issue as males vs females SMH.

Please guys say the truth and shame the devil! Women are human beings for crying out loud!

When such nairalanders supported domestic violence and assault against a woman, called the victim a bitch and a very useless mod brought such a thread to FP

This one is a small thing for them to support na.

Everything is men vs women to their immature selves.
They will rather die than support a woman over a man, even if the woman is 100% right. Na their way.


Useless misogynistic men running around nairaland.

You have finished work,
Tuale.!!!!
He knew, in fact, to this moment, he knows he is wrong, that's why he started with some bullshit, it is the wife's responsibility to keep the home.

I wish Aunty heseesall, like I said earlier, can consider divorce, but Nigerians no dey like to hear divorce.

I wish them the best, but let her never change the name on the document to the Man's name, or even do joint ownership, the name should remain in her name Alone. ALONE.

"Get out of my house" because of ordinary argument,
As if that one is not annoying enough,
It's a house that he knows his wife built alone while he gave her a very tiny amount just to contribute. I mean what can be left after building his parents house and taking care of his father's illness? Yet he still had the boldness to tell her to get out of his house. HIS HOUSE KWA!!!
Mtcheeeeewwwwwwww

It's no 12, 14 and 15 that pained me pass. The man has no issues with treating his children like trash, When it is convenient for him, he abandons his children. When it is convenient, he wants to use then as a bargaining chip, not once did he care about their welfare and how they would feel in relation to all this, but some how he still feels he is right. mtchew. While the woman has refused to leave the man because she doesn't know how to explain to the kids that marriage ended because of property, this wicked man just doesn't care.


I'm praying Heseesall doesn't ever change the name of the document, it should remain in her name alone, and finds someone new who will treat her with respect.

Processor01:
1. Your wife brought the business idea - check
2. You both executed the business - check
3. You split the money equally - error
4. Unfortunately, your dad was ill and you used your own portion - check
5. You used the remaining portion to build a house for your parents - check
6. Your wife decided to use hers to build a house for the family - check
7. You supported the project and even contributed the little portion that was left of your money - check
8. Your wife puts the property in her name alone - error
9. You both get into an argument or as you said, she was verbally abusive on a particular day - error
10. Rather than pick your keys and step out or go cool off, you ask her to "get out of your house" - error
11. In her anger, she let's you know it's in her name - error
12. You get upset and move out of the house, abandoning her and your kids - error
13. To ease the tension, she offers to correct her error by putting both your names but you insist it must be your name alone - error
14. You initiate a transfer at your office to another state, without any second thoughts for your kids, at least - error
15. You are willing to let this relationship burn if she doesn't bow down and worship you - error


Oga, YOU ARE A WICKED MAN!!!


You start your write up with that nonsense to put the burden of keeping the marriage on the woman.
No Sir! You are the man, the head and the captain of that ship! If it goes down because of what you have presented here, then it is because of your pride and lack of wisdom.

Shugavee, Amberon11, saff, seems the thread was taken off FP and my comment condemning them was deleted.

After it has caused damage. I guess better late than ever.

foolbuster:
I have always maintained that the life of a man and the life of a woman is not and can never be the same. Women should stop trying so hard to live a man's life in the guise of many names like gender equality, feminism etc. This bovi question is just one instance put of a thousand others. Even among men everybody is not equal.

Which woman is trying to live like a man?
Why are men always trying so hard make themselves relevant in anything that involves women?

So gender equality, feminism means women are trying to live a mans life. If you don't know what something means. It's not by force to speak on it, sometimes silence is best.


Next time you and your overinflated ego tries to say women are trying to live a mans life.

Chill, relax, "Take a deep breath, and say to yourself, men (including me) are not that important to a woman" it will help

The whole point of this investigation was posted in the op, but still, some just decided to leave the topic and look for what they can use to bash women as they foolishly do, others decided to be stupid.

The instigators are looking deeply into the process of hiring and payment of workers by the company because it has been reported severally that UBER doesn’t hire much females or pay them equally with their male counterparts.

If the EEOC finds Uber broke the law by paying women differently than men for the performing the same jobs, the agency could slap heavy fines on the company as punishment.

It's good these women are speaking out. And it's good they can speak out and be heard.

Panther7:
they were two actually the other is Timmy but he is more funny than timmy

I thought as much, if he was the funny one then he was the one I enjoyed listening to. The other one I found boring, I never liked listening to his commentary.

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Ladies on twitter shared their views on male logic using the hashtag #tweetwithmalelogic made by twitter user @DoreenGLM