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OK, they wanted to give the guy a taste of his own medicine. All good and
(and I found it a bit funny as the was trying to close his legs and crying because he didn't want to be raped. I'm sure he would remember his victim then and would also remember how his victim struggled while he didn't care)

This is also scary, those guys who raped this guy, hope they won't go and start raping innocent people?

Las las sha this video is disturbing

MissWrite:
I'm good, babe.

The answer to your question would be: the former. I'm just not that kind of person; I'm too selfish for relationships and living with people drives me crazy.

Good to see

All right then, thanks
Now I have another question but this one is a bit more private

MissWrite:
Hey, baby girl! Long time; and how've you been? Ask away; I'll decide whether to answer you publicly, privately, or not at all. Depending on which bag of secrets you want me to spill...

Heyyyy baby
Yep, been a while, I'm good, how you doing?

All right,

MissWrite:
Ha.... ; my own case is strong. I'm not a wife o! You need to keep looking.

All the best in your search, hun; God will see your heart....

Want to know why you said the part in bold? Is that you don't see yourself getting married.? Or just to turn down the guy?

MissWrite:
Ha; my own case is strong. I'm not a wife o! You need to keep looking .

All the best in your search, hun; God will see your heart....

I have a question

hustla:
You go later die single if you continue with this useless feminist nonsense

What made the comment a feminist comment?

You don't even know what is going to happen in your life tomorrow but all of a sudden you have seen the future to know how someone else will die.

Mtchewww

Why is it bordering you that women are single to the point where you propose these misogynistic and pedophilic solutions to reduce the number of single women around.

Did the women tell you that they minded being single and did they ask you for solution?

What do you mean by early marriage? A girl under 18?

You are the kind of person dasparrow is talking about.

ddjay:
this is really serious, my seniors (girls) in secondary sch my mates my juniors... see as them plenty.its like 80% of them are single.
my suggested solution.
1) lets officially start polygamy, church can wed one,the courts can do the rest on condition that she has a job.

2) Allow early marriage. my people if a girls hand has being sought after,i suggest we allow her to go.cos she may not get that opportunity again.

3) lets start teaching girls (culture) how to look for their spouse, propose to them and marry them. look the old way of waiting for mr right is no longer working..so go after him.

4) re-introduction of concubine because it was practiced in the old testament but this time let it be clean and responsible. you see ehn,lets allow the girl to legally have children for a man with an agreed guideline that gives the two parties a sense of belonging. i leave this part for correction and modification

kunleweb:
Mark my moniker, please don't hit my mention anymore please.


Thanks

You used just one case to conclude that so many women are single, then came here and acted as if it is facts.

And I wonder why it's bordering you if women are single or not.

kunleweb:
I'm begging for an answer, why are there too many single ladies these days. Just heard of a stunt where a sister ( rich and graduate, working class with car who had no husband ) pulled a game-play to unseat her uneducated sister from her husband, i'm left bewildered why, why are there too many single sisters out-there left unmarried. I need answers. I really do as it beats my understanding.

How do you know there are too many single ladies?

So because you heard of one case you quickly jumped into conclusion that there are too many single ladies?


And why do you care?

Why do you really need answers?

I have to agree at bold

dasparrow:
Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile. No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals. It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave. Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery? Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them. Life is too short for that!

dasparrow:
Can you blame your women? In the past, our mothers and grandmothers married and stuck with our broke fathers and grandfathers. But guess what? The minute our fathers and grandfathers finally hit it big and became rich, they dumped the woman of their youth - our mothers and grandmothers who stuck with them in trying times - and went on to marry some twenty-two year old.

African men can never be trusted and I will never advice any female related to me to settle with some broke Nigerian or African nigga. Go and make money first because it takes money to raise a family.

And the MFs brag about it. Saying even if you were with them when they were broke they don't owe you any damn thing and can dump you when they get small change because it is their right, but yet the fools still turn around and wonder why women have no time for broke men, then they try to shame such women and call them golddiggers. just because they are stupid and act like they have no sense they expect women to be stupid right along with them.


This paragraph below though

This is why Africans can never seem to get out of poverty. You don't even have sufficient money to take care of yourself yet you are dreaming of bringing a woman and innocent children into your poverty stricken life to suffer with you. Nonsense!

This is too funny, so she started twerking?

Anyways It's her wedding.

She can live it up however she wants. It's her life, and she shouldn't live it to please anyone.

This comment is amazing and filled with common sense.

How can someone who calls himself a man open his mouth and say he will start explaining himself to his neighbours and everybody he comes in contact with, why he married the wife he married.? SMH
That's how you know people who have not grown up, boys pretending to be men.


And the worst part is he thinks that is a good way to live and a woman would want to marry a man who goes around explaining himself to everyone for whatever stupid reason he thinks is necessary. Subjecting herself to that foolishness because she wants to be a wife.

And his misogyny makes him think he is a saint, should his wife walk around apologizing to everyone she knows because of someone he has slept with?

Sometimes because of misogyny I see some irredeemably stupid comments on this forum.


You made sense

Josephamstrong1:
Lol, see this one.
And you're planning on settling with an Angel?
A stupid man is one who owes anybody any explanation.
Give me that single parent porn star who's STD free and vowed never to go back to her old ways and watch me wife her.
Yes, I am East.
High time we stop all this stupid, insensitive and derogatory comment about our women. Most times, they're naive, environmental factor and ability to survive can lead one to doing some things.
If you had been Miracle in that room, wouldn't you have loved to subtly gbensh any girl that falls for you in that house?
Nina would only get better and better. Guess she's even more productive with her life now than before. So let the sleeping dog lie.

wman:
The worst part is that over 240 people like his comment. Hundreds who never saw watched the video on Twitter. People judging from mere images. The world has truly gone bonkers.

And the boldness of the few who posted in saying rubbish confidently being stupid lol. it's laziness and foolishness

Topics like this are made for my likes yet you ran yourself to the front page to post your comment dipped in ignorance and even had the guts to try and defend the nonsense of that comment.
Don't allow hypocrisy to kill you.

Next time know damn well what you are speaking about so that you don't give posters the displeasure of correcting your stupid comments.

Why won't it be your last reply when you know you have been schooled thoroughly, I'm not surprised with your weak insults and funny rants. What else can you do?


Ignorant comments followed by pathetic insults and silly rants when corrected then you sink into oblivion.
Just a day on the life of a Typical ignorant nairalander who is rushing for FP so decides to post nonsense to make it


Next time know what you're posting about before you rush for FP, don't allow your misogyny make you post stupid things.

Too damn Lazy and slow to watch a damn video yet rushes to FP to post rubbish but yet foolishly has the guts to act like he knows it all.



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GreenArrow2:
Honestly, kill yourself. I couldn't care less. Topics like these are made for your likes. Original first grade internet lazybones. Quick question: Are you Ariana? Why are you so pained? Has there been any history of the said pastor gropping anyone or anything in that region? Even Cosby got to have a trial. Why are y'all so bent on putting the cart before the horse on this one? I understand that this is the entire sphere of your life (internet lousy no-good blabbing) so I'll leave you to it. He groped her! Oya go do your worst. That your understanding of the phrase screen-grab is that it relates to stills alone underscores the fact that you are indeed a dunder-brained buffoon. Lazy simplenton. This will be my last reply to you. Now go take all your pent up frustration out on someone else.

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The thing happened for like 1 second yet the video is up to 30seconds long?
It wasn't intentional yet he didn't move his hand immediately away the first time it happened but kept dragging her?

The shame here is you posting an opinion on something you have no knowledge about.

Is it by force to comment?

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germanized:
Anyone who watched the video would know it wasn't intentional. That thing happened for like 1 second and social media made a big deal out of it. Shame.

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So the way she was dressed is an excuse for her to be touched without her consent

Rape apologist and victim blamer.

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Sweetnesstwins:
Why was she even dressing like that for the first place?
With her mini gown in front of men, singing and bowing down...
Was she going to a party?
Didn't she see how all the people that performed cover up?

She has lead him into temptation na, what does she expect?

Meanwhile, I strongly believe it was a mistake, that man won't drag his reputation o the mud in front of the whole world.

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So you claim to have watched the program and saw him groping her continuously for over 20 seconds yet you come here and post this bs.

You saw the tight hold he had on her yet you come here and type that it was an awkward mistake.

That part in bold proves you didn't watch a damn thing yet you come on nairaland with one kind of stupid boldness and post rubbish, even having the guts to ask someone if he watched the program when it's obvious you didn't watch a damn thing.

A screengrab? it was a damn video. A viral video online.

Comments like your idiotic comments make me lose hope in nairaland.

Next time resist the urge to type nonsense especially when you don't know what's involved.

guys like you who have this stupid urge to defend all sorts of ills done against women just because of your misogyny and as long as it's a man in the wrong, Will get into trouble one day, and I hope it comes soon enough.

Look at his mouth like honest mistake, saying people have single digit IQs when the comment you made can only come from people whose IQ is in the negatives.
Calling people Lazybones and zombies when you're too damn lazy to watch what actually happened before rushing here to post your ill informed opinion.

The boldness you all use to type trash on nairaland eh

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GreenArrow2:
Oga, did you watch the program? I did. You've never in your ENTIRE life awkwardly touched someone by mistake in the wrong place briefly before? Then someone who wants to steal (or borrow) some shine from Aretha's big day screen grabs it and post it online and then boom! Y'all following the trend like brain-dead zombies wey no even sabi d beginning of the story.
He's apologized. Ariana hasn't reacted. Why una carry am for head like gala?

GreenArrow2:
Honest mistake made by the man. However, if we don't make a big deal out of it, how else would online lazybones have a productive day running down yet another person? All these people with single digit I.Qs running around social media assuming that a man of that stature would pick such a choice TV moment to perform such an act.

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I love this.

Roland17:
Young man, there are so many things wrong with your approach. You have single-handedly and selfishly I must add ruined your marriage.

Did you seriously think a single conversation about a lose vagina would be enough? You did not even discuss the problem with her before researching and concluding on possible solutions on your own. As if that was not enough you went ahead to present a solution during the first conversation!!!! You have traumatized your wife emotionally and rather than stick with her with patience and understanding considering your horrendous approach, you engaged her in verbal altercations to the point she moved out of the house.

Your wife is human and even if we are not talking of the psychological trauma, diminished dignity and lost sense of pride she is currently struggling with, how about the physical, biological and medical implications of using something that is not even prescribed by a medical professional on her own body!!! Come on man!!! this is so wrong and I pray you read some wisdom in my post.

The basic strategies of problem solving involve
1. Identifying the problem
2. Analyzing the problem
3. Developing multiple solution/options
4. Evaluating options/ solution
5. Picking appropriate solution
6. Test identified solution
7. Continue to evaluate identified solution

In your own case, you only utilized number 1 and 6 for a problem that does not affect you alone, a problem that requires inputs from another party for it to be successful.

I can go on and on!!! You are soooo wrong in so many ways..If you still love your marriage and wife, you had better humble yourself and drop the useless ego and apologize to her. You have really hurt that woman with your approach, attitude and poor decision making skills.

Is this pretty mike godly for him to be giving women "Godly" rules?


Look at all this nonsense

Give me sex or I will cheat on you. Threatening the woman and she is supposed to accept it just like that,
Because she wants to have a horseband

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over theat duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed ones) (SS 7v12)

Another example of the nonsense a woman is supposed to accept just to say she has a horseband
He doesn't want his wife to speak for him, but he wants to speak for her.
Where is the reciprocity?

Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.(Prov 31v23)

Strong Passion for NYSC? see lie
Anyways, that's what those who asked him why he registered for NYSC deserve,

Ask stupid questions get stupid answers.

She is kissing ass just to have plenty likes and also so male and female misogynistic nairalanders can pat her on the head and praise her for her nonsense , she is also ignorant and has internalized and now practices misogyny.
There are many of such ladies here, misogynistic ladies (like her) who post stuff attacking any thing women unnecessarily, just for likes and pats on the head from their fellow misogynists(both male and female) who love bringing women down

It's just so stupid
People don't know anything about feminism but won't shut up about it

Since when did the marital status of a woman who chooses to be a feminist matter?
Such People need to let women live and stop trying to tie the worth of women to the presence or absence of a man in their Lives.

Women are complete on their own.

Obi1kenobi:
Interesting that an opinion like this comes from a lady. You might disagree with several people in the movement whose views you might find extreme (like any movement ever conceived in the world, feminism has its extremists whose passions manifest as borderline misandry), but believe it or not, a lot of freedoms you enjoy today were hard-won from centuries of struggle from such women to be valued as something more than the property of men. It's also interesting the way you disparage women based on their relationship status (jilted, divorcees, single ladies .....blah, blah, blah...) feeding into the misogynistic trope that the value of women is ultimately defined by how desirable and amiable that they are to men.
What exactly is it about "feminism" that you dislike so much?

And she is just walking and smiling, no fuxks given

The lady that wrote
"Wash what?, na the guy suppose wash my cloth cos na him dey rush me" is a correct babe

Let whoever is doing the rushing also do the washing abeg

See as the guy vex dey call thunder

He did not remember thunder when he was looking for who the hubby to be will call to wash his clothes

Nansense

Oluwaseyi456:
But NYSC people doesn't allow someone come in with car so this guy is doing part-time NYSC?

This is NYSC however Davido wants it

They would have killed him if he tried to walk

ivolt:
Imagine if it was a guy who got stranded with no help, will he also give up is masculinity?

I just tire

I don't understand the issue some men and women against feminism.

OK they don't like feminism then let them stay in their way, yet they go all out of their way to pull feminism down. Something they don't even understand.

Comments in this thread are sickening

What kind of post is this?

Ugosample:
And the woman too should have sense too and close leg or take postinor if she does not want an "unwanted child"
Responsibility goes two ways mehn.

Did she tell you that her child is unwanted?

she understands that responsibility goes 2 ways, it's perfectly clear to her. Which is why she has stepped up and taken care of her child And it is also the reason why she is calling out her shameless irresponsible baby daddy wizkid to step up and take care of his child also.

She is running her mouth like those Afro Americans who get pregnant for thugs, and then start talking rubbish

What were you expecting?

Two irresponsible adults they are, and they should continue bashing themselves

Exactly my point.

what was the foolish thug wizkid expecting? That he can make a child and walk away just like that without consequence? What kind of stupidity, cruelty and just plain foolishness is that?

She is not an irresponsible adult, the only irresponsible adult is the person who thinks he can make a child and walk out of the child's life because of whatever silly excuse he has made up in his head.

She isn't bashing anyone, she is expecting the irresponsible man who was foolish enough to have sex raw when he knows that he hasn't had a vasectomy to step up and take care of his child.

I hope wizkid receives that karma and receives it fast
Next time if he knows he has no plans to take care of a child or be in the child's life, he'll either wrap it up or abstain

salford1:
Try that in Nigeria and mass failure especially in a uni like OAU. It won't even happen. Some itk would rather sit back in the class to write the exam .

This is what usually happens. One half of the class would want to go and complain. The other half will be forming scholars.

This girl's man is a scam artist sha.
She asked him specifically what happened, she told him that he was nice,
Instead of him to respond personally to the question, he deflected and said all men are nice at first. He made it into an all men sturves
When that wasn't what she asked nor was she asking all men that question.

I wonder if he said anything else to explain his behavior

Dear men, is this true?

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Acidosis:
Put the blame on women. Y'all are so fake, you judge men by those early gifts, those incessant calls, flowers, etc.

Men in their own discretion have mastered the arts, they know what women want so they fake it at the initial stage.

Look at the mental gymnastics you're going through just to put the blame on ladies and call them fake.

You say ladies are fake, can't explain why,. Your only excuse is to call ladies who have standards fake. Just pathetic. If men aren't judged on early gifts. Incessant calls, what will men be judged by before?

Yet your next damn paragraph say men fake it, (basically saying they are fake but without giving them the label, while you give useless excuses for them being fake)

A man who fakes his behavior to get with a woman is a fake ass man and such a fake ass man is who will take the whole blame. Don't put underserved blame on women while labelling them as fake then give excuses for men actually being fake

The man knows what the woman wants, instead of him to check himself and see if he can measure up, and bow out Honorably if he can't, will pretend out of desperation and wickedness to get the girl, yet such a man will still have the guts to call women fake.


Weak ass fake desperate pathetic Misogynistic men.
Mtchewww