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[quote author= post=70727073]Just seeing your message all day, been so busy today!

Lol , your comment WOWED us.
We only see such a sweet comment as yours here on NL, 3 times in a year!
Hugs[/quote]

This thread is funny

He left those little kids
This is so sad, depression is horrible. He is at peace now though

Disgusting
Some men just can't take no for an answer nor do they respect when a woman says no.
Stupid rapist.

[quote author= post=70698619]He went to school and said he was gonna tell people he’s gay because he’s proud of himself,” she said. 

Who taught a 9 year old something like that?!





Awwwwwwww
#InMyFeelingsChallenge
Kikiiiiiiiiiiiiiii [/quote]Lol, why did you do this?

A lady identified as @PattyAmaka on twitter has taken it upon herself to educate men on what action to take when their girlfriend cheats on them in a relationship.


ACCORDING TO HER, THE MAN SHOULD IDENTIFY HIS ERROR AND APOLOGIZE TO HIS GIRLFRIEND BECAUSE HE HAS A FAULT WHICH THE OTHER MAN WHOM WAS CHEATED WITH DOESN’T HAVE. SO INSTEAD OF LEAVING THE LADY, SHE SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT FACT AND WORK TO BE A BETTER MAN.


More below:
https://zenithnaija.com/dont-leave-her-if-she-cheats-on-you-just-apologize-to-her-be-a-better-man-lady-advises-men/

She is Very correct

Iamdazzle:
my friend write your own comment. What you contesting with me about my own opinion for

I say I blame the mother, if she had taught him right, he would have known the thought of being gay was wrong... Albeit, train up a child, sound familiar? Every child is the responsibility of his parents and from the story I chose to address the part I deemed fit..

Now respect yourself and beat it...

Who is your friend?

I posted my own comment, and my own comment is to contest with your ridiculous comment.
You're on a public forum and yet are surprised people are contesting an opinion you share.,
SMH

The problem is not him being gay, the problem here is that he was bullied into suicide. Take off your victim blaming goggles and blame the parents of the kids who left that bullying behaviour unchecked.
Or the parents of the children who bullied this boy trained up their child well?

Now respect yourself and stop victim blaming.

Iamdazzle:
This little boy might not even had known what it meant to be 'gay' and coming out? smh...

The sordid effects of hollywood and the sad reality of what America represents today that even a child starts to think its normal to be such...

Me sha I kuku blame the mother because she had first hand knowledge of his intention and 9 years of age is still tender to correct the gayness out of him but naa, she let him go on with it now the sad result, death of an innocent child...

Nuff said...

Just imagine the part in bold
As if he just woke up one day and died because he was gay,.

The people that bullied him to the point where he took his own life didn't feature in your blame game. It's only the mother you saw fit to blame.

It's bad for the boy to know what is gay, but it is not bad for the people who bullied him to know how to bully to the point where their victim takes his life?
SMH

[quote author= post=70710627]We like your profile pic about bullying.
You have a good point here and there also.
Noted.
Thanks.[/quote]You're sweet

Nigerians always focusing on the victim.

So it is unusual for a 9 year old to know his sexual orientation but very OK for his fellow 9 year olds to know how to bully him for days abi?

Nonsense.

[quote author= post=70698619]He went to school and said he was gonna tell people he’s gay because he’s proud of himself,” she said. 


Who taught a 9 year old something like that?![/quote]I think the appropriate question to ask should be, Who taught the fellow 9 year olds that it is OK to bully someone for 4 days on end just because the 9 year old boy said he was gay?

Who taught his fellow 9 year olds how to bully?
This Is the right question to ask in this instance.


The problem is the bullying. Not the boy's sexuality.

Is this true? They don't allow students under 16 in unilag?

No one should say for all public universities because I know this is not true for all public universities.

He shouldn't feel bad, he just use the one year to develop himself psychologically.
So he'll enjoy uni more. He should just see it as a good thing.

Hanseel1:
You agree with this part too? thought you're a feminist??

“That is the duty of a man. You need to provide for your
woman. You need to take care of your woman and you need
to support her. That is just the duty of every man. And I am
tired of guys that wouldn’t do these things.

I now believe most of you just try to paint the movement in bad light.
A true feminist believes provision is the responsibility of both partners.

You feel that me agreeing with that part means I disagree with what you posted here?

"Provision is the responsibility of both partners "

You're assuming a lot and flying into conclusions.

Wow

I support her On this part only.
She has a right to choose and go after what makes her happy.
She said she wanted a generous man sha. Not a rich one.

Princess didn't insult any man. But as usual pained immature idiots who don't like when a woman has standards( they don't like and/or can't attain) and makes choices they wouldn't want her to make, have resorted to calling her olosho.

Princess Shyngle, who has warned broke men not to hit her up on social media has revealed the reason behind the said statement.


When quizzed if she wanted a rich man she boldly said, “whether he is rich, whether he is successful in whatever he is doing now. He could be a banker but just be a generous person. There are many rich people who are not generous.”

“That is the duty of a man. You need to provide for your woman. You need to take care of your woman and you need to support her. That is just the duty of every man. And I am tired of guys that wouldn’t do these things. They are just about I love you, I love you, I love you and that’s about it. Now I want to see the ‘I love you,” she further stated.”

HappyPagan:


I can't blame him. I'm big - height, weight, balls, brains ... fear catch the guy. .

Lol, the guy should have asked for strength from the holy spirit instead of running away.
I'm so disappointed

Maybe he would have converted you by now and you would be here telling us how God is great

oganoble:
that’s because the black skin has a greater tendency to form hypertrophic scars and keloids mate. Nothing racist. I get the joke though

So that's what those scars that form after you keep picking at an injury is called. Thanks.

I'm still not sure the guy was struck by lightening. Looks like he had an injury all over his back and kept picking at it. Or maybe it's true
The lightening marks on the other guys didn't seem like it broke skin. Unlike the black guys own.

Hmmm,
Everyone here agreeing with timaya, either with posts or through likes/shares, shouldn't be among those who will later post comments here shaming and insulting babymamas or like and/or share such kind of comments towards babymamas

The Jehovah witness member was very lazy why didn't he even try just ran away immediately

HappyPagan:
As he left, I swear I heard him pray 'baba God, i don try for this one. Make player no go sign agent enter club. this one pass me"


I smiled, congratulated my inner demons, sent victory message to my village people, and walked into the salon for that fineboy haircut..

LOL!

All the nonsense you wrote in bold makes you feel very important right?

Why can't people like you, get a life, leave women alone and stop trying to insert themselves into the lives of women, to the point of being delusional enough to say that a woman needs a man to spend her life with. Na wa.

Such desperation to be involved and relevant in the life of a woman that you start making up delusional stories about how men are needed in a woman's life. Projecting your feelings unto women Lol,

awelekiti:
Now you realise the role a husband plays in every woman's life. He has since moved on and living his life in a low keyed manner. If I were you, I'd swallow my provide and reach for him for a reunion. Stop pretending everything is right when you know you sleep every night rubbing your pillow with tears. No matter how rich a woman could be, she needs a man she could spend her life with. Nothing could be more emotional than when a child asks his/her mum,...Mum, where's Dad? I want to see him...

Asianguy:
I used to be guilty of that too but stopped Still trying to apologize to daeylar.

Tell me your main Monicker then

Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Since it seems you're the giving type who probably doesn't like asking for money, Try dating a guy who would spend on you even without you asking. You deserve someone to spoil you too

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over.

Your guy is wicked

Friend two then advised me to be selfish when I love.

Good advice, take it.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

Better, to avoid more stories that touch, they are not the only 2 men in the world.

The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.

Ewwwooo
Aunty tell us na

Loveisascam

Were the guys nairalanders? Is nairaland the online you are talking about?
If yes, tell us their monikers, please

tintingz:
I tire ooo, I wonder what happens to freedom of speech/expression.

Not allowed
Until she tweets something that will please the misogynists she should keep shut

Criticism is allowed but it's more like it's irrelevant in this case, there are more important things people should worry about.

Culture should be something that evolve, changes with time just like our intellects, why do people always think culture must be some archaic practice and stuck to it, if she will be the courageous person to protest against the practice of kneeling down in weddings(both men and women), I will applaud her.

Leave them.
She and her husband didn't want her to kneel, her family and his family didn't mind. The villagers didn't mind. They obviously didn't see that part of the culture as something so big.
Wedding carried on as planned, married and went home.
It is now nairàland and twitter culture keepers, that want to carry culture on their heads. They are now the ones who know the culture the most..

They would rather her and her husband be unhappy about an aspect of their culture, keep shut and die in their unhappiness while following the culture, than speak up and try to look for a better alternative as they did.

There is no problem with what she and her husband did but they've turned it into a big issue, attacking her, only her mind you, acting as if the husband is a baby that she controlled, and calling her names,
Leave them, let them be hiding their misogyny under "culture"

tintingz:
Lol, why are people condemning the lady just because she didn't kneel down? Does kneeling down change the economy or bring food to the table?

Nigeria my country.

Our dear own father land

They are all pained
Painment everywhere.
Useless misogynists (male and female) are just angry because their misogyny is being challenged. They have this useless view of women and no woman should dare step outside it,

Not only did this woman find a man she loves and wants to marry. She and the man share similar views.
They got married in the way she and her man approved of, (family and villagers all approved) they are now chilling in their home enjoying their honeymoon (just saw on Twitter that she has been married over a year) and married life.

Yet people are vexing, and for what? Why is it paining them?

All she did was tweet about how the wedding was.
Now she just answered a question about who walked her down the isle
Just because it wasn't in accordance to what the misogynists expect.

Now they are angry, they want to silence her.

Why did she tweet that, why did she tweet this.
she must be this and that, trying to project their nonsense on the innocent lady.
How dare she speak she should have kept it to herself, blah blah blah,

Useless misogynists.

Imagine trying to control what someone is tweeting with her own twitter handle again,

Lmao

Oh my lord

The front page of this thread is just a simple example of the fact that success has many friends

On a normal day FP of bobrisky threads are full of what kind of person is that. "Person born this one he go think say he born pikin", e.t.c with flenty flenty likes

Now, see epistles praising him and his antics just because of endorsements, no bashing. While the epistles have flenty likes too.

Success can silence many naysayers

Some Women always breaking their neck to kiss a Man's asß.

Tope Mark-Odigie, was of the opinion that as long as a woman has gotten married to a man traditionally, he has the right to do whatever he wants to do with her.

According to her, it is the culture that we practice. She stated that traditional weddings have been created to give the impression that a woman is being bought by a man.

I wonder what culture she is talking about.

The husband should have a vasectomy,
He doesn't have control over her body in any way.

Lol
All those who come online to try to shame and silence women who have opposing views to the rules set by this patriarchal society by calling them feminists and reminding them that they will stay in their fathers house then finally go for shiloh if they don't conform are crying all over this thread.

Not only did this lady prove them wrong by finding a man she would love to marry, she also found a man who thinks like her and shares her views,


This is so sweet

The kind of misinformation in this post, and the fact that people liked and shared this.
SMH

Why would you do something like this?

MetaPhysical:
When sperm is deposited in a woman's uterus it's design is to fertilize her egg and develop into a foetus that grows in her over a period and is delivered as baby. Undeveloped eggs are eliminated during menstruation, when she ovulates new eggs are produced. There are partially developed eggs that attach to the womb and are not never eliminated out of her body during menses. They never grow and become foetus either. Since the body will not eliminate it through menses and will not grow into baby to be delivered, there needs to be a way to access her body and remove these wastes. They are not hazardous to her health before she reach menopause. After menopause she needs to get them out surgically before they become a health hazard. Someone said up here that the fibroids look like babies. Correct, they are eggs partially germinated long time ago and remained in her, never graduating into full foetus.

SifonAbasi:
Thank u sis.

How are u?

I'm good luv, thanks, and you?

lefulefu:
men who patronize runzgirls and prostitutes are customers ..not male prostitutes or runzmen (wich one come be runzmen again?). The male prostitutes are the young guys in Abuja who earn a living servicing old sugar mummies. Another name for them is gigolo.

Runzmen are men who patronise runzbabes
Thank me later