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thando:
can't wait for uti to leave.horrible loser.y is it so hard for him to admit when he is wrong instead he throws tentrums and acts foolish for the world to see for christs sake he is a grown dude.but maybe this is acceptable bhaviour where he comes from because he always very confident when he does it.i hope he logs into this thread first thing today.

Nigerians are very self confident, and it shows

I am sure that is far better than just laughing at both the stupid and sensible things said in the house, so much for strategy

Thami would have been the first to leave the BBA3 house if not for the stunt big brother pulled on the world. Any way every dog has his day

My advise, wait for the result show today, and don't say I told you

lawyerchap:
The rubbish dump was smoking yesterday with tawana and latoya giving us the best television yet on BBA3. Latoya is such a free spirit and she so understands the dynamics in the house. She should go back in the house because i think she will bring the most drama. She's already said she's hooking up with Munya as soon as she goes in the house. Tawana will just be another body in the house occupying space. I'm voting her out.

jjuummaaii:
Latoya will be the only one to bring the dynamics that will keep us talking and even Biggy knows that, the house has kind of stoodstill ever since she left. I want to c the shock on Ricco, Lucille, Mimi, and Morris faces, i tell u it will be a sight to behold.

@ LC
let me task u with what u think the dynamics would be if Latoya comes back between Ricco,Lucile,Morris, Munya and Mimi

I really do agree that Latoya in the house will be far far better than Tawana, cos Tawana has the psyche of a grand mother

I also think that the house has kind of stood still not because of Latoya's absence, but because all the house mates believe that they are all up for eviction, so they are trying to put their best foot forward

abi-abi:
D fear of God d Bible say is d beginning of Wisdom! Iwill call on d fire of God 2 consume dos calling 4 condoms 2b distributed in church.We are supposed 2b taking d church 2d world n not bringing d world in2 d church of God.I as a soldier of Christ will not sit down, fold my arms n watch d agents of darkness take over d church.I am starting a marathon fasting & prayer session to scatter d plans of these agents of darkness calling 4 condoms 2b distributed in church .I call on u my brethrens 2 join me in this Holy War against d enemies of d Church. 10x brethren

what is the position of the church on birth control, soldier

magentam:
ALL YOU WATCHERS OF BIG BROTHER ARE THE BIGGEST OLODOS KNOWN TO MAN. JOBLESS TWARTS!

You have a job and still cannot afford DSTV of N9,000, who is worse
In case you do not know, Mnet now has payment options of N4300 and N2500, here you can watch the highlight, so you don't get lost while others are talking about events in the house

The "H" is missing in your spelling of "thwarts", can be pretty confussing, I know

I am really happy with the events of yesterday in the BBA house. Uti took Mimi to the cleaners
Other house mates helped to bring out the little things she had told them in secret, regarding relationships and MORRIS.

Modups!:
this uti guy looks familiar oh, has he not been in another tv reality show before ?

Yes thats right

lawyerchap:
@Dalby
Yo man, good to see you again. And thanks for the interpretation. How's PH? (it is PH, right?)

Thanks man, apart from kidnappings, cultism, militancy and nightlife near ground zero, I think we are doing alright

lawyerchap:
The situation so pisses off Uti that he had to sing for Morris yesterday morning “when a man loves Latoya, he’s still asleep even when he’s awake,” Mumu. Uti pulled no punches in letting both Morris and Latoya know that they were falling his hand sha. He told the Tanzanian in no uncertain terms that if he was in Morris’ shoes, she wouldn’t get away with treating him the way she was treating Morris. He even coined a term for her which I have never heard before. He said she was a proper ‘shigba’ whatever that means. Uti is just so real, telling it like it is and making no bones about anything. He also doesn’t seem to be interested in hooking up with anyone just yet, despite Hazel’s best efforts. The Malawian chick seems intent on getting her claws into our homeboy, but Uti seems quite content to be alone for now. Perhaps it’s strategy, we’ll have to wait and see.

I think the term is "shamgba" another word for a prostitute or a girl that is very loose.

Your summary was a true representation of events in the house this last weekend.

It can be really irritating

nico10:
God have mercy on una.

A typical Nigerian response, afraid to talk religion and belief, especially if it slightly deviates from what MY PASTOR SAY.

Its getting hotter. The game has just begun

Let him that has not sinned cast the first stone!!!
We have all sinned and fallen short of the glory. What is wrong in distributing condoms in church?
He that is well has no need of a physician. The church congregation are humans and not saints and /or angels.
For the moralist, the married couples in church will need some form of birth control don't you think or do you advise the use of Onans method Gen 38, 4-9

Bluesteps:
@ chrisbenogor

Guy no better o.
Big brother fall our hand.
I don't like the way they are showin the shower hours.
u barely can't see anything.
belike the producer abi director dey fear make e no lose e job like the other 1wey direct Ofunneka o lose e job.

My sister jobs are not easy to come by these days, so the one when you hold, hold with everything including your teeth. Lots of mouths to feed, and extended family dependants. A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE

lonelypal:
yeah u got that right,
for cryin out load what has she got to flaunt by xposin those damn pot bellies? , Sheila 's got sumthin to flaunt though

Hahahaha!!!

Could not have put it better, at best she is damn right irritating, wanting to be seen and heard at all cost

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Just leave
Forget about all the sweet things he tells you

If your cooking is tasty, then there is a lack of trust. If he is a superstitious guy the relationship is leading no where. I won't be surprised if he does not have a fiance already or is even married and still loves his wife to a fault

All these are unfortuate, but if my husband were ever in this position I will not discard him just like that. I will just keep doing my part till we find a way out. At least work on the marriage till I see no hope. People go through worse things in life and still survive. What if the man became sick and could not work for life? Or if the reverse where the case? Would she like to be treated in the same manner? This woman does not even want to compromise. Which woman has not seen "unemployement" side of a spouse? 99% of women have seen this side because no condition is permanent. I encourage men to work and keep their families together. Women should do the same so when one person is down, the other can at least pick up the pieces and glue them back for a short while or for however long.

For people like you, I recomend you go and watch "The Pursuit of Happiness" starring Will Smith. I learned a very huge lesson from that movie!

I finally saw your movie, and I am still wondering the relationship here
In the movie, all I saw was a man without a means of survival with a child he had to feed. That film just showed why a man must never be without a job. The wife in the movie had a job and it was this bad. If the woman in the post comes back to Nigeria, with the man without a job, you will have 2 jobless adults with mouths to feed
Will Smith took the bulls by the horn and finally made it, there are also a countless number that take that road and still have nothing to show for it
In life, no body gives a damn, you take it and whatever dart life throws at you after that, you take it knowing that it was the result of the choice you made. Will Smith's wife left him in the film, who would blame her, she had endured his stories so much.
You know if she had stayed, he probably might not have had the drive or motivation to succeed. Every thing that happens to a man happens for a reason, and that which does not kill you makes you stronger
In life you really never know, thats why we are humans and not GOD.

Mustay:
lost

I dey feel you. LOST is definitely the bomb

acidrop:
thank you my sister. when u give it 2 them in a platter of gold they will stand u up. can u imagine the one i came down for, gave him everything. even my virginty. he has dumped me. make ogun kill am

He probably gave you his own too, if you were his first

Make ogun no kill am o , but wetin been happen

Mandora:
I tried not 2 play hard 2 get n guess what? A few months down d line he told me wanted space. Bottom liner, he dumped me

moderation they say

If you choke him with love, thats what you will get

yea that's all what mks him think back on d toasting days nd say my girl ain't cheap.but babes wait o, if we quick say yes them go say we nor just form we just jump put bt if we nor quick them go say we take am to d extreme.na wa o

Every time she is on the phone trying to triangulate the guy's present location
Thats what makes him say no be you be this
In his heart I mean

Scopium:
[size=13pt]Please don't continue to do that. What did he achieve from the first one he did? Don't go 100% with your heart, just go 30% heart and 70% head till you are sure she's for real only then can you give 90% heart.[/size]

The heart is not one ON and OFF switch that you can change at will, what you have just said is in theory, and is what every other person will say. You actually never know when you are hook line and sinker deep in it. Little wonder people say love is blind, deaf and dumb

9 out of 10 times, this kind of relationship never ends up in marriage except the guy gets a job immediately after school and the girls parents are very understanding
Just enjoy the moment while it last. Commitment is the last thing on his mind right now

They don't make better partners because of their naivety

people when come to separate fight begin fight

It's not like I love him any less - infact I love him more now.

You are weighing your love for him. Actually something is missing which you cannot lay your hands on

It's just that well, we're married and so life goes on.

The marriage part is settled, so lets now face issues of life and living

There are so many things to do and think about.

So many things to do and to think about sounds like it does not often include your hubby. You will actually need to set your priorities straight and better your time management efforts

The kids, the job, church, I get tired.

You still have not mentioned your husband as a part of your activities, probably feel he will understand seeing all the things you have to do. I think all the statements above pretty tells the whole story

kalmebad:
You have answered the question before asking

You are a fool but you are not alone, we all go through that once in our life,loving the wrong peole and playing dumb lass

Its a learning process for you,just get wiser in future, thats d take home assignment, beacuse experience is the only name everyone give amistake (wilde oscar)

I do not think you are a fool. I will commend you for following your heart. If you continue to do that one day you will find that special someone that you desire.

Comic

Not sure if this topic has been discussed before but:

At what age should a person began to think about marriage? At what age should a person get married?

So I'm 26yrs and I noticed that most Nigerians around me are asking when am I going to get married (that's been since I was 22); however, most of my America friends are saying "you are young, you have plenty of time".

If you are in Nigeria, listen to the Nigerians. If in America, listen to the Americans so you don't get caught up in the web of societal pressure and end up doing the wrong thing. Always best to hit the iron while it is hot

almondjoy:
I am really concerned for your overall physical mental wellbeing. You come across like someone in a trance always. I hope you do not have a sober reality check dipstick because I doubt that you can recover at all. I will keep you in ma prayers always, while you keep dreaming.

I really do not know what to say to you so you don't feel insulted.

You want to put me in your prayers when you are in real need of a miracle, what a joke
Thanks anyway, but no thanks

Uche2nna:
Maybe I am missing the issue here

Of course u should let him or her know but u don't neccessarily need his or her approval.

Correct, by telling him you are not asking for approval, because you are both adults and not married. The fact still remains, let him know