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Iaz93: Danny, you no well aswearigawd!

Popowaa: i have posted my pic before oo.less than a week ago

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And you decided to rant because of this.
Not surprised coming from a girl who posted this topic below



Make your point without insulting.

A man pays more than 300,000 Naira for bride price and items on the list and buys a brand new car for his wife.
How dare you judge him because he did not give her an engagement ring before marriage? smh

lalaosky: At the end of the day, it boils down to choices...

But personally to me, I can't propose to a lady without a ring. An engagement ring is significant. Whether men will admire a married woman or an engaged doesn't matter. A ring though small means a lot to both parties.

What I don't get is, all this brouhaha about rings. How much is ring for chrissakes?. It mustn't be a 30 carat gold ring, just any ring. Rings that teens wear around like clothes? . the cost of the ring doesn't matter, what matters is the pledge and love from the guy's heart as he proclaims to make the woman his till death do them part and the ring to seal it. So you shouldn't be bother about getting a costly ring. Get a darn ring and propose, simples. Show her some respect

Iaz93: . . .and this thread is romantic, right?

adaobi123: Why is it paining you ? Leave us alone

Arosa: Is ASUU responsible for these pregnancies? this ASUU is a bad guy.

homesteady: he has been following tpia up and down! Insulting her

DonColz1: what i need is 10 food that will increase the money in my account just like bill gate

Sexxymom: maybe if it were ayounger girl, they would ve broken up. Age means nothing, their happiness counts more.dem don born boy and girl,wetinremain God bless their union.

Marthosky: That breast tube tho

adaobi123: Yes the Afam4eva.

Zikdik: It is not saggy bag, it is saddle bag

jay bee: I'm not saying it isn't tradition. I just frown at people hiding under tradition/culture/norm whenever it suits them.

Getting engaged/married is a decision between two people willing to spend the rest of their lives together. They should decide on what works for them and not what the society deems acceptable.

The notion that a ring is a sign of commitment is all farce. Commitment is all about respect and values that the couple have for each other once they make that decisions to embark on the journey of no return. One of the main reason why this same ring has almost lost its true value/meaning is simply because most women want this same ring to show off or better still use to warn all their numerous admirers off.

Technically, being committed starts once you are in love and you both see each other as someone you had be able to spend the rest of your life with.

HisRib: I can't believe this man proposed without a ring. Who does that?

Every woman deserves to have an engagement ring. If he can't afford it, he shouldn't be thinking of marriage in the first place.

Sweetheart, my advice to you is, call it off and tell him you want a ring & if he won't give you one, go find another man who will have enough love and respect for you to give you one.

Him not having a ring is NOT a good sign. Just think of all the other things he will disregard once you guys are married. RUN while you can!