GisterBlogger: A corps member has been mercilessly flogged by one Deacon Friday Udoka, the principal of her PPA, the Government Technical College in Abak, Akwa Ibom State.
According to reports, the assault was because the lady, Kolawole Olaitan Adeola, helped her friend write her name in the attendance register of the college, on Friday, October 19, 2018.
The principal was said to have flogged her in his office before dragging her outside to continue the flogging in the presence of students. Udoka then proceeded to notify the NYSC Local Government Inspector that he no longer needs her in the school.
Next time, wear your khaki and head straight to any barrack! But she no fit edge the man some calm down attack Was she the only Corper there? What the hell were others looking at!!! 3weeks @camp no bi joke nah.
The saddest part of this story is that a corper who is a leader of tomorrow is already engaging in fraud today. What type of future leaders are we grooming in Nigeria?
All she was asked to do was to serve and she's already skipping attendance.
The corper erred to have earned this discipline from the deacon who like my parents is a disciple of Proverbs 22:15. Don't forget that this is Africa where the child doesn't belong to the parents alone.
And that corper is old enough to be the principal's granddaughter.
So if x = y + 3z 3z - x is still y.
I'll try not to be bullet forward with this. She erred, fine! Then you start to beat her, that's violence at its peak! As man wey I be, that man go don dey hospital by now, 3weeks torture in camp was strictly for self defense. What the hell happened to query
If you love computer science study it as a side interest.
Job prospect for Mech Engineering are higher than Co sci in Nigeria. Y
Especially with our oil and gas industrry. You may or may not get a job in the oil and gas/manufacturing yindustry but i suggest you cross that bride when you get there.
Hope your grades are still in 2.1 range?
Very very important abeg.
A dont need a degree in co. sci to get a co. sci job, but no one will hire a co.sci to do the job of a mech engr.
You are not in the US, Apply Sense abeg.
We shall get there soon!
@op a computer science degree isn't about programming. There's prospect of definition to development in severe regards. You think you're loaded, go for computer science.
shege45: Let me tell you guys a brief story. When i was in secondary school, i was the best student in my class. I was so good that I represented my school in any competition held.
Going to university, i still had that flare. I was still very serious. I read like a mad person , but due to some factors , my gp was really bad in yr 2 and 3. Regardless of the fact that I studied hard. Other years were good but it was unfortunate i came out with a 2.2 degree. If a degrees were to be given according to your level of seriousness, I would have made a first class.
However, i came out of school thinking that atleast its not like 2.2 is a bad result, It’s average. I tried looking for a job, but everywhere says minimum 2.1. I had to settle for a teaching job which i still do now. I have given up on looking for job because everyone says the same thing. 2.2 has made me believe i am no longer intelligent. People in my family, my friends , my colleagues at work all believe that i am intelligent. But my degree tells me otherwise.
Now here is what saddens me. A friend of mine whom i knew i was better than academically back in school posted a picture of a car given to him by his employer. He came out with a 2.1 (p:s he got that job without knowing anyone in the company,he saw it online and applied).Everyone in the department knew how he always passed his exams. Although i am genuinely happy for him, but I am sad for myself. Do employers think that we 2.2 graduates are totally worthless? Coming out with 2.1 is a nice achievement and many people who got it worked really hard for it but many factors can make a bright student come out with 2.2. I have been teaching for three years now and I sometimes ask myself, would I continue like this? I don’t want to be like some of my colleagues who are way older than i am and still teaching. I am 25.
An advice to people in universities. Do any thing you can to come out with a 2.1. Don’t let that no job thing fool you. Read , cheat or buy 2.1, but do whatever it takes to come out with it. Get it first then listen to the no job story because your story can actually change with it. As for 2.2, there is actually no job unless you have somebody somewhere.
Firstly, stop beating yourself down! Look up at yourself and tell yourself you can be great! Do yourself the favor of avoiding comparison! My story was that of betrayal but all by, that's gonna have to stay in the past. Let them that wanna be manager be, when your time comes nothing can stop it. Regardless, start something... Chase a dream... Chase a vision... Chase anything... Get everything!!
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zionmade: Computer science seemingly has more calculations for those who think that chemical engineering is all about chemistry and chemicals. Every single course in chemical has calculations. Difficult ones at that. By the time u start a solution by guessing two parameters and after spending 30mins in calculations and it doesn't converge, u will come back and guess again that's wen u will prefer packing ur lot with computer science
Lolz, do you think at all That shows how dumb olunloyo is, you do business in Ibadan. So? When we send you packing you'll understand. You guys don't think, that's your problem.
nowadays I don't really know what guys values in ladies... am not talking about the pictures o... have seen many pre wedding photos here and it make me believe guys good for beauty first...
Boys think girls are like books, If the cover doesn't catch their eye they won't bother to read what's inside. and if u tell them this... the reply is
" so will should take electron microscope along to see inner beautiful" maybe this man is pointing to what he value most in his wife to be I don't know and it ain't my concern but just a piece of advice "u will leave with the character all your life not the beauty "
and some is out there saying It is because pheals is ugly
Presentability also counts, we guys love to boast about our girl and you really wanna hear your guys eulogize you when they finally meet her.
Eberex: I am a woman in my early thirties. I got married 3 years ago. Prior to that, let me give you a brief of myself and how i was raised.
My mum made it a point of duty to educate us on the issue of sex before marriage. Which I would say was successful because even during my university days I kept my virginity. The only thing I allowed myself do was cuddling, kissing and caressing. The guys all wanted sex but seeing that I was very adamant on my stand, they end up leaving.
After my graduation and NYSC, I got a job. I still meet guys who ask me out but during dating and they discover my rules of no sex before marriage, they leave.
This continued until I met a man who was a member of my church. He asked me out too and didn't mind my request for no sex. He said he is okay with it. But we do the usual kissing and all that.
We got married. On the eve of our wedding, he disvirgined me and only lasted for a couple of minutes, probably 5mins. And then claim tiredness which I guess was as a result of the wedding stress and all that. These were my thought back then anyway.
We are blessed with a baby girl who is 4 years old, I guess from the early sex we had.
Since then, it's been less than 5 mins. After each time he sleeps, or his joystick doesn't get erect. He always claims tired. This has continued for the past 4 years now.
I saw by mistake a test result which he left carelessly. The result shows "erectile dysfunction". I called his attention to it, he cried and told me he couldn't tell me.
Right now I am helpless. I have been crying for years, hoping one day it would all end. We make love only once in a month if I am lucky, or let's say if the JT gets erect.
I don't know what sex is, talkless of an orgasm. I had the impression sex is just a 5 mins thing.
Was it wrong to say no SEX before Marriage?
My mother in law is always picking on me, on when I would give her more children, and I can't start telling her these things.
You haven't done anything wrong, in fact you have achieved a feat many could not achieve. You should be proud of what you stood for. I have read a few comments talking about sampling but if you take a random sample, you would discover how pathetic the life of most samplers turned out to be. I remember my mum once told us confidently of how she never messed herself up, I wonder what story the samplers would have told.
Now, all you're currently being faced with is a problem and I bet all problems have solutions except that you might have not discovered them yet. The fact that he *cried* is a display of how deeply he feels sorry for the whole situation and that he did a test you didn't have to beg, force or cry him to doing is a sign that he is striving to fix what is wrong. Most of the comments I have gone through are from people who just think of marriage as a try and err thing but I implore you to fix your home and consciously make things work by helping your spouse get the help he needs and has being seeking for. As I assume you know, love is all about sacrifices, persistence, hope and realism but marriage goes farther especially for a virtuous woman like you.
importexpert: Sometimes ago, you thought it was the right time to be in a relationship. You met your partner, and you were convinced they were the best thing to exist since sliced bread. You started the relationship, and it was pure bliss. You called yourselves repeatedly. The online chats were intense. You both would chat late for thirty minutes only to realize it’s actually been three hours and it was almost 12 am in the morning. The text messages were constant. The surprise love gestures were unending. The glow on your face was too hard for anybody to miss. You both were happy. You were crazy about each other. This was your heaven. This was what you always dreamed of.
Until one day, your partner started missing your calls. You’d wait for hours before the return call came in (if at all it ever did). If you complained, you received the “I’ve been very busy response.” You both are now online, but the chats have halted. You ask why they have not been reading and responding to your messages and they reply that they were not actually online because they forgot to log out. Slowly, you are getting used to not seeing their calls for days. Loving them seems to be like you’re doing yourself a favor. Everything they’ve been doing to make you feel special has stopped. When you register your grievances, they make it sound like you are nagging. You would have walked away, but your heart would just not cooperate. You are crazy about them, and they know this. This is why they feel they are at liberty to act anyhow because they know they will get away with it.
Meanwhile, you are getting sad because you’ve invested so much in the relationship and did not want it to crash. Yet, you can feel the distance between you two widen continuously. The feeling of love you have for them now seems to be your punishment. The weight of having a partner who does not take you seriously anymore is draining you. Your partner is taking your love for granted. You can feel it deep within your heart because this is real.
Hello. Are you A lady or A guy? Do the above describe you? Having a partner who takes you for granted can be frustrating. It can even be crushing if you have put so much into the relationship to make it work. The funny thing is that in some cases, your partner would not end the relationship but yet would not fix things up. So, what can you do about such a relationship? Below are four action points that you can take. While these points are not a guarantee of taking the relationship back to how it was, they are the logical steps that can help you become free in the long run.
Action point one: Talk with your partner
This is the first step to every problem in a relationship. When you sense your partner is taking you for granted, it is time you had a one-on-one discussion with them. It is not a time for phone calls or online chats. If there is distance barrier, you can make use of Skype. But conversations such as these are best done in person. Let them know your grievances. Sometimes in a relationship, there are things you will be angry about which your partner has no idea about. Tell them how you’ve been hurt by their actions and give specific examples.
Action point two: Talk to a close friend
This is the next resort if nothing changes about your relationship. Your partner ought to have a friend that roots for the two of you. This is where they can come in handy. While some people tend to frown at this approach, it can be very helpful. It can help you gain a better understanding of what is really going on. But if you feel this action point is not for you, you can ignore it.
Action point three: Withdraw for a while
If you were busy and you dropped your phone elsewhere, how long would it take you to notice its absence? Thirty minutes? One hour? The reason is that your phone is important to you. We are wired as humans to observe the absence of anything that matters to us. If you got home after a hard day’s work, you are more likely to notice the absence of your television compared to your shoe. Getting the drift? Likewise, you need to know if you are still important to your partner. Withdraw from them for a while and watch if they notice your absence. Quit the calls, the visit, the messages and everything. If they notice it and come back pressing to know what is wrong, you should have another dialogue with them. If they don’t notice and don’t press for it, that is a bad sign.
Action Point Four: End the relationship
If they don’t notice your withdrawal, it means it is time to let go. It is a sign that they are taking you for granted because they stopped loving you a long time ago. Yes, you may still have feelings for them, but it is time to move on. Don’t try to force someone into accepting you or staying with you. You need to recognize when it ends.
An extra action point
Work on yourself: Rather than mope around about the relationship, engross yourself in something new and challenging. Doing this can help you heal faster. Take a trip and visit new places. You can learn a skill or new languages. You can write a book or take a special course. Whatever your choice may be, channel your sadness over the relationship into becoming far better than you are now. Your partner may return or not. What you do with that is entirely up to you. But you can choose not to remain hurt and pained anymore. Remaining in a dating relationship where you are being taken for granted is an abuse to yourself.
"Taking your love for granted" sounds somehow to me except you've actually developed a metrics to that effect. People get busy and bored a times. Sometimes ago, my dearie would always complain about me being busy she later woke to the reality of programmers and coding. It got better after all.
My point There's no such thing as trivializing love. Its either someone has moved on or something needs to be fixed.
Flashmove: A Company will soon do that, They are working to make sure that Nigerians uses less Data when chatting and calling, The app will be out soon. Though the government is kicking against it cause the App will make Nigerians not to buy cards again
The government cannot kick against an app except it does the unusual but on the basis of less recharge purchase it is a no.
vickyluvu2: u are actually right! But let's be very sure of something b4 passing judgement o. That's a camoflage he is wearing it's sold in d market and anybody can decide to buy it and impersonate a soldier to misbahave in town. He is not fully dress so how sure are we that he is actually a real soldier? Am just asking sha
I hope the right personnels get to the root of this.
nnamdi1998: If the guy raped your sister and i decided to punish him does it mean I'm wicked? Do you know his offense? No military personnel can punish you just like that without you offending him. Please don't ever quote me again
..you offending him? Who is he? Who are you? This country has made this soldiers believe they're something they're not. They lack decorum, reasonability, and everything in the world. All military personnels are supposed to be housed in the jungle. You obviously don't fit in the society where there's a respect for the law. Even in your analogy, you were wrong! How can you say you decided to punish! Who gave you that right! The military personnels that I have heard of, seen or read about obviously don't display any tincture of training, courtesy, discipline and reasonability.
Damn his crime!
If it were the other way round, if a soldier steals and mobs gathered to make him do this, you this dogmatic, irrational, refutable, irrelevant, irresponsible, callous, brainwashed piece of nothing won't be here justifying them (mobs). Certainly because you play the god and always think you're right.
Please don't quote me if you're just as annoying as the quoted.
Amoyinoluwa24: This video trending online shows how a man was being made to swim in very dirty mud water. Reports have it that the unidentified man was "punished by Nigerian Soldiers" for an unknown offence.
In the video, the alleged soldiers are heard saying "Oya put your head inside, enter well. If you no put your head, I go wipe you koboko". Watch below;
In a country where there's a law? I hate Nigerian Soldiers with passion, this isn't there first animalistic behavior. They seem to be above the law! If these ones were sentenced to life jail for misconduct, others will learn. But by whom? The corrupt judicial system that we operate?
BMCskullHunter: After writing all the jargon you put up there, better start thinking about how your region will survive without Niger Delta oil because there would be none for you soon.
This is very funny. I'm earnestly praying for a breakup, just to let you realize SW is good to go. Maybe you've not realized why the second largest refinery in the world is been constructed in Lagos. You guys are right, you should be left alone. No wonder Awo did great with Cocoa money and the right mentality.
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Crime › Re: Principal Flogs Corps Member In Akwa Ibom (Photos) by darealez(m): 12:57pm On Oct 20, 2018
Was she the only Corper there? What the hell were others looking at!!! 3weeks @camp no bi joke nah.
