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I made a third class in school and I knew there was no way I would start looking for work. After my one and only job that I carried over from NYSC, I focused on self employment. Now I run a travel consulting firm and no one sends what I graduated with.

You did pay on delivery option. I propose you call them with your ordernumber to verify. The probably tried to contact you but couldnt get through.

AllGood: Bought some Huawei phones on there too. My first time, though. Please what could 'Pending - POD Unverified' probably mean in one's order status?

Numero uuuno: Has anyone been able to transact successfully with konga on the so called 'yakata' platform.
If yes,please share your experience because i haven't been able to do so.

I did 3 transactions and purchased 4 items. It was tough in the morning but by evening things had calmed down. Waiting for the Phantom A+ now but @shopkonga said its till Monday o

domack99: Can you re-sell to me, PM me if you are game

Sorry I bought it for my brother in law. He will kill me if I sell it.

Deolaw: How much were you paid to lie. Konga pişs off!!!

Ahah? Lie ke? I have more important things to do with myself biko.

I bought the PS4 for 60k on konga. Also bought the Galaxy Note 10.1 for 40k.

Segeggs: 16yrs-18yrs... twenty guys a month


20yrs-23yrs... two guys a YEAR


24yrs-infinity...mostly none.



Abi na lie?

Omo, I'm 30 yrs old with 2 kids and i get hit on constantly.

I dont exercise cos I'm just to lazy. However, I walk a lot.

I bought my car from OLX.com. The guy even lives close to my house set, he let me test drive, gave me all the car docents and I haven't even paid him his money in full yet. I made a new friend.

danderson: Am currently negotiating a Toyota Prado and the owner claims he is a custom officer but when i asked him the name of the current comptroller of custom, he seems to delay that signal is poor. I need advise.

Its a scam. Thy tried to scam me too. Run !

:'tnx for d "comforting" word(

kpele but you need to prepare your mind. You might get lucky and be a Hebrew woman.

Baby montana: This has been bothering me for a while.i met a guy in school i.e very religious.i liked his character nd we bcame frdz cuz i wantd him to help me in my spiritual life.frm bin frdz,we startd havn feelings 4 each other.one day,he sat me down nd told me he rly loves me bt he is nt ready for commitment nd he wants us to have sex dt anytime am Hot,i shud alwz cum bk dt he wil satisfy me.am stil a V.i was dumbfounded.i tod hm t nt posible bt lately he hz bin disturbn me dat he regretd teln me d truth cuz f he hadnt,i wud v hd sex with him.he z so obsessed with dz sex issue.i stil dnt undstd d kind of frdshp.

Don't do anything you are not comfortable with. My friend just got married to her husband after a 2yr sexless relationship. It's possible. If he can't deal with no sex then bow out, after all na u get urself, don't be pushed into doing what he wants.

breadplanet: I went to their showroom yesterday and was impressed by the things i saw. Their 6burner gas cooker with 2 ovens one gas the other electric goes for N95,000 that got me worried cos it sounds too cheap. Please if anybody is using it or any of their products i want to know how durable it is. Please advice!

Sweetie everything in Nigeria is over priced. Those ppl are doing you a favour, grab it with both hands before they get the drift and raise the price.

ifyalways: Na so una dey miss luck. Do you know who I am? Google "senator Ify . . ." , ogbomosho east senatorial zone.

Anyways, I prefer "the congo" shined,shone then eaten. I can't compromise on that one lai- lai. At this point, it won't work between us.

I think Daresh is interested but too shy to ask. Try her. Good luck sugar boy.

PS: if you change your mind on "congo procedure" then we might likely meet @ Lagos. You know banana eyelands?

No Ifyalways I'm not interested. I'm congo is shined and eaten well well, I even have discreet back up I don't have to pay

[quote author=isha.salam]Kai. Now im scared s**tless Am 8 month gone n d stories r not helping my BP@all : [/quote]Anyone that tells you not to be scared does not like you o! Be very very afraid and get an epidural! I had my first after 41 weeks of pregnancy. After endless chest pains, belly scars backaches and stretched out skin, I was induced at 10days past my due date. I was given plenty drugs or I may have died . But it still hurt like hell and I kept throwing up. His father was like, "please give her something , she can't sleep like this, she's in pain". The nurse be like is she supposed to be sleeping? Then after the 15hr labour period, the pretty doctor came in, I was 8cm dilated and we started to push. After 10mins of pushing, I had my son. His father was there to cut the cord. I was stitched up all the way to my anus men, that sh1t hurt like hell.

The second was also dramatic. I had her after 41weeks too and I was induced again. I bullied the poor oyibo man into inducing me cos I have a history of not gong into labour. This time my cervix no gree open, I was there for like 9hrs and only opened 4cm. The doctor was like " Oh we gonna have to stop and try again 2mrw". I said hell no I was in the labour room with my aunt and she says, Babe we have to get this out today. So the doctor comes back in an hour or so and I'm 7cm, just like that! We keep at it and in an other 2hrs, I'm 10cm. And mehn, I was in agony, it hurt like shege, cos I didn't get an epidural. After a few pushing, I got my 9ibs baby girl out and she was so white! Not yellow oh! White like oyibo baby!!! . Her Dad wasn't there this time tho .

The nurses be hailing me, you are so strong, you didn't cry. I'm like, "I'm a badass"! I don't cry.

The owner of the property is the one to pay the Land Use charge not you the tenant. Please communicate with your Landlord and if he insists you pay then you have to consult a lawyer and take it out of his rent.

ifyalways: ASL nko?
Answer the congo query here so I can decide if you're worth my time. How "good" are you?

Where's your location,how much per hour?

^ those are vital questions you must answer here before we go private.

Hope you are light skinned? I've had enough amala dudu to last me till eternity,gaddemit!

Tenk.

[quote author=E.M.Ezzy]i think especially in this part of the planet most women do have attitude problems if they are financially indepenent dont you think[/quote]I have always had an attitude even b4 making money. However, now that i make my own money, I don humble cos d hustle aint beans. Nigerian men just want to step all over you and u not have a say. They know if u have ur own money you won't take any bullshit from them

This girl you are a goat o! So you are still talking? It is cretins like you that give females a bad name. Many females do not cook for any boyfriend, have sex with him or even attempt to make him take her to any eye alter. Why will u de-rep yourself like that?



[quote author=mizzocho.cinco]You still have your girlfriends asking you to do them favours after they cook, clean or spend a good time with you, i believe the same label you are stamping on me is the exact same label you should be stamping on your girlfriend

Men want a woman who can prove themselves worthy before they take her to the alter, a good cook and someone who can make him have a great time in bed, a good and hygienic wife and mother. why can't i have a man prove that he is a good provider before accepting to walk down the aisle for?

Does this mean women have to accept whatever comes their way, whereas women have to be put through some tests before they are considered to be wife material?
Food for thought[/quote]

Eyop: If one is greedy in any business transaction,he or she is likely to fall for scam. Recently we've been receiving post or should i call it advertorials from several people claiming that Customs are auctioning cars and they go as far as posting ridiculous prices e.g a 2010 Toyota Camry selling for #600,000 when we can't get that anywhere from a legitimate dealership.

Also avoid buying cars from individuals online except you have someone that can assist you check the vehicle and meet with the seller face to face prior to committing money. So it's always advisable to deal with companies that due diligence can be performed on them before transacting.

Ol boi, this exact thing happened to me today. Someone claiming to be customs that said I shd come and buy CRV 2008 for 780k. Alarm come dey blow for my head when he said I shd pay 120k for clearing into his personal account. I knew something was wrong when the guy started trying to intimidate me. I just boned his side jor.

If your husband isn't volunteering to help, then you ask him to. I had to start asking and the man started by sayin "that's a house girls work". Well as we no come get who go do am? After I somehow managed to get thru to him that I am not magic woman and I can't do it all, he helps out now especially with them kids. Before I run mad in the name of being AWESOME

Bombaybombay: Many times writing helps calm my spirit down. I am sad, heartbroken and unhappy.
Here is why.
I picked his phone dis morning,i do once a while. And i saw his chat with dis gurl. Dis gurl's chat i av always followed up cos i wasnt sure they r just friends. Its either he is asking her to call him, or asking really deep questions of eachother. Now 2day, i saw him saying he misses her but hard to say, or he wants to see her nd d worse, "my P is doing geezgeez as am chatting with you". I tried to confront him and ask him what kind of chat that was eventhough am nt sure it was d right thing to do. B4 i knee it he has twisted everything b4 me. Saying did i catch him cheating. Dat i dont av a point. And i rem d last time i saw his chat with this i asked him y they where dat close, he said shez his padi.
He is ere acting as if he did nutting wrong nt a single word of apology, he isnt sober. Am shedding tears nw nt even becos of what he did cos i know dats just a tip of d iceberg. But am sad now cos of d way am bin ignored by him. This same man i make love to like a LovePeddler just to keep him. I do all, i submit. Anyone would advice me not to leave my marriage cos of this, but right now i dont feel respectedaor loved, instead bin apologised to am blamed for picking his phone. How would i pass my message across that am sad, i av cried in front of him he ignored me bluntly. He knows am gulllible, he knows even if i pack out i av no where to go. Is dat y i get treated dis way. I was hurt nd i snapped at him , is dat y i dnt deserve anytin. Anyone will say dont leave ur house for another woman to come in is it not better to be a single mum without a man to stress ur life.
Single girls dis institution called marriage can be d worse night mare once u rush into it like i did, cos i loved him and i tot he did too

Ignore him. Get someone to make ur own toto go geez geez. Haba! And you are crying? I know it's cliche and all that, but don't invest ur happiness in anyone else. Make urself happy. Your life belongs to you.

I was taught this in Human Geography in school and its about the only thing I remember. The poor have no other means of recreation so they have endless sex. Coupled with high illiteracy and not knowing or not being able to afford birth control, they reproduce like rabbits.

I'm really sorry for women that I see lugging 5 kids around inside bus, under the sun. I'm like "Woman use your head"

From all the story I have read on this thread, I deduced the biggest hurdle to cross is the Letter of Administration. People, please, let us learn to write wills. If the deceased has a will, the letter of administration isn't needed. Also, we need to do our research well on the PFA we use. I believe that we need to ask question from different people, employees and other clients to a PFA and be sure they are capable of handling your money well and will be able to deliver it come retirement with minimal fuss.

Just my 2 cents

One has only to look at a matter independently, broadly, and un-influenced by common-place ideas and truth will look back at him. Such is the approach to be adopted in the recent outcry over vehicles supposedly purchased by the Aviation Ministry; one has to even set-aside fundamental truths that the Aviation Ministry comfortably maintains the well-deserved position of
Transformation Ambassadors in the on-going administration
.It is no longer a surprise when Aviation Minister, Princess Stella Oduah gets above her share of well-deserved media attention. Of course this is expected as her achievement in the past and on-going as well isn’t news anymore. What is slightly new however is the approach ‘economic detractors’ have adopted, in what can be religiously referred to as,
‘a shameless and tenacious persistence to do harm to one already anointed.’What else could be truer than that? The purchase orders for the said bullet proof BMW’s did not bear the Ministers name, neither did the bank papers. The cars were not parked in the Aviation Ministers residence, or in the parking lot allocated to her at the ministry. There is no official document that links the Aviation Minister directly to the purchase from either First Bank, or Coscharis Motors or any of the fine public serving institutions these allegations has sought to ridicule. To go a bit further, even if there was, wouldn’t that simply be suspicious? Isn’t it even remotely possible that the said figures were self-generated?
The reckless series of self-serving actions to capitalize on the sentiments in millions, of people already betrayed through spreading half-truths and quarter-lies will surely come to end.
The attempts of recent development detractors, some under the false guise of ‘experts’ to mindlessly feed off the negative emotions innocent Nigerians already marred by a series of failed administrations by putting a knife on our differences in cultures, ethnicity, religion, world views and ways of life will also come to an end.
They will come to know that Nigerians have grown weary at believing in change from the lips of those once granted the opportunity and failed to even point at the ‘promise land’, talk more of reaching it.
Although what gives strength to these false figure blabbers is that they understand that we as a people have become disarrayed at the actions of previous administrations and that our common problem has become an inability to see the problem as it is. That we fail to act when it becomes necessary, fail to recognize, pin point and identify our common enemies (they), masquerading in various forms. So they constantly attempt to shape-shift and deceive us each time. What else can make activists out of former ministers, or deliver righteousness to one who isn’t even God-fearing.
It is of no surprise therefore that the capacity of the Aviation Minister to do so much in so little time, has gained her so many social ‘distractions’. It is simply the mutual worry that some interests are no longer being represented and the actions now set in motion is one that will redefine the political machinery.
In truth, we are no longer angry at the figures we see, or the names we hear or the actions that have been taken by those in office. We are no longer angry at being neglected, at being forgotten, at automatically being un-important, or left out of the political machinery. In less than a week, it will be a miracle if a larger amount of mis-appropriated funds does not cloud the loudly talked about vehicles.
We are not angry at Princess Stella Oduah, how can we be? She is a model of all the things we haven’t had in a long while, a physical manifestation of the power of the ‘Nigerian Woman’, an enigma to the aviation industry and the Nigerian government, an idea of consistent and creative development, an ideal that our current state of affairs forces us to seek and violently oppose.
We are not angry at the Aviation Minister. We may be angry at our legislators, at our governors and local government chairpersons, but surely not at an ‘angel of good tidings’’.
Or perhaps we really are angry that we have been left in such a deplorable state that we can no longer recognize truth from lies. That the organs we depended on to deliver to us the gains of a democratically elected government, as well as manage our God given natural and human resources failed us to such an extent that we can no longer distinctly separate successes from failures, or technocrats from criminals. No, I doubt that.
One simply has to forget that the aviation industry is the most vibrant, committed and dedicated sector to the national transformation philosophy of the Goodluck Jonathan Administration. One simply has to forget the shiny new airport terminals spread from the North to the East, or the marvelous road-map put in place to welcome foreign investors from far and wide to Nigeria.
To put quite simply, one has to forget the Super Eagle flying back home safely, clutching victory in their hands after an odyssey of failed attempts. We are not angry at the Aviation Minister

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Vivax511: . Hmmm, state ur statistics.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sex_ratio

101 males to 100 females. That's a lot when you calculate for 7 billion people.

Hmmmnn! See gbege

[quote author=♥Dεs•Chγκσ♥]This is a generally acknowledged fact, that there are more females than males in the world. It's a really good motive for the females to work harder in maintaining the bond in their relationships, while the males focuses more on their natural bread-winning role.
However, it counts for nothing when such males go against the ethics and norms they'll have to observe, with respect to their relationship.[/quote]I hate to burst your bubble but your statistic is wrong. There more more men than women in the world. However women are more attractive and are less incarcerated, away at war or at sea than men. That is why you tend to see more women than men. But statistically, more men than women.

OAA82: I'm married to an abusive man. To the outside world, he is a nice man and to be honest he is a good husband 90 percent of the time. When he gets angry(at seemingly silly things) I feel the full weight of his anger. He kicks, punches, slaps and uses his belt.

It's been happening since I got married. To be honest, he hit me about 6 months to our wedding and I called it off but was convinced otherwise. I was told it was a one off thing, was told its obvious he loves me, was told he is a good man, give him a chance. Fast forward 6 years down the line and here I am. Each time it happened, I believed it was the last, told my self it will not happen again but it always did.

I've come to realise it will happen again, I've stopped fooling myself. I'm financially independent and I could easily move on with my life. I don't know why I stay(I think it's because he is a good husband most of the time).

I have 2 children, my head tells me to run for my life......

You and I are in the same situation except in my case, the first time was on our "honeymoon". The last time was on Friday. I know I need to leave.

jollyqu: I just think swag queen can learn from my case.
I have been married for 15years and was constantly abused by my H, was not working for 1st 4 yrs of our marriage. I worked from yr 4 to yr 10 and then lost my job. When i was working, he was spending his money on other things and refuse to take care of the house. When I lost my job, he will abuse me verbally for asking for anything from him. He beats me and lock me outside to sleep in the compound.

I have caught him sleeping with my maid in the night and he said i am at fault, if i have finished all his sexual urge by giving him 12hrs or more, he will have no more energy to meet my maid, he sleeps with any small girl and even cleaners around. He is at a managerial level in a bank, good looking and very quite looking.

Two years ago, during one of the episodes, i went to our pastor who called him as usual and he told him he cannot stop beating me, then i knew i have to act fast.

1. I prayed and told God i want to act now, i dont want my action to lead to divorce but i want a solution, however if divorce is the only way out, then so be it.
2. I reported him to a human right organisation here is Nigeria who wrote him a letter, and threaten to charge him to court and inform his employer of his acts, he called my pastor and threaten to kill me if the human right group should do any of such. So he maintain his distance from me. He left home for a while and then came back.
3. I dont talk to my family about his act, but now i did. My brothers and sisters called a warned him never to try it again.
4. I prayed to start a new job or business, no job was coming and no money to start a business. I told him i want to sell my car which i was giving as payoff from my previous employer. He refused but i insisted, i waited for him for 4 months to suggest something else i can do but when it was obvious he did not want me to do anything, i took the car for sale. He came there and paid for the car and took possession. I had my cash and started my business with lots of prayer and fasting.

Now my business has started doing well, he returned the car back to me. He still sleeps around, but i am praying and i try to look away. It now surprise him that i have ignore him. One day i heard him praying , God help me to change, dont give up on me, dont let my time of grace expire.

My husband is still very far from what a good man should be, I knew i cannot make him to change, but I have the power to change.

He pays the children schools fees now,no more abuse. He tries to use verbal abuse, but i warned him i will give him some response that will make him to cry. Since he cannot beat me for the fear of the human right group and my family, he has stopped.

We leave like two strangers in the house now, only talk when it is important but it sure better than the abuse.

We are now learning how to relate without trying to dominate.

Please can you give me the contact details of the NGO that helped you out? I need them to help me in my own marriage.