I have to hand it to these girls that date and marry celebs. Ol boy I no fit o!

Haywhymido: Yea, dat y i lyk it been on my own. I hate insult. Am d blunt type, u insult me i give it bck to u regardless of who u r.I don't kare. So stayin wit my broda means i shd wash his cloth? So y did he marry. Rubbish

You are a very stewpid boy. I know your type. If you know you won't wash those clothes you better move urself out of that house sharply. Olodo. I can't stand fools,

As soon as the teeth comes out, I start brushing. That's the way to do it.

You need to stop hanging with dumb girls. In my opinion guys are the dumb ones.

not only tribe, i still want to marry outside my race. Maybe an Arab or Indian.

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some undergraduates and foolishness. I am not saying stealing is good o, but the best thing to me is to travel out of the country, keep a low profile then after sometime invest the money thereby creating jobs for others. But babu!!!! they will want to show they have "arrived".

Ol boy ehn if na me tiff that money, since. Januray, I don run go obodo oyibo. The maga even stayed back in Lagos. Dundee united!

A lady complimented my hair yesterday, felt strange but it was aight.

dayokanu: Who wants a lazy asss wife who sits at home all day what we call ALABODO (Feed and Ffuck)

Whats the cooking and cleaning? is she cooking for a whole country? That would take the whole day or when the children are in School what would she be doing? Gossiping?

If cooking and cleaning is the problem let the couple split the responsibilities. Wife cook, Husband clean and both go to work.

The Okonjos, The Alele-Williams, Top Lawyers, Engineers, doctors etc the numerous women on top of their career are they barren or dont they have families?

Why did her parents bother sending her to school if all she wants to do is sit at home

And the excuse of lazy folks spew that "Kids need their mother" dont they also need their fathers? Let both parents sit at home and see maybe na sand them go chop

Deciding to stay at home is a sign of laziness

So what do you teach your daughters? That once God blesses you with a vagiina you dont have to work in life.

You got it all wrong dude. When I had my son, I was compelled to stay home. I didn't have a maid, my mum is no more and I sure as hell was not going to leave my new born in a school. Men it was hell! The pickin dey cry, house is dirty, I never chop, never rest, how will I even think of watching tv? You just think it is beans to stay at home.

My husband used to say exactly what you are saying until the day I left him home with the boy, who was already 6 months by the way and his wahala had even reduced, and he kept complaining kpe, this boy will not let me rest.

Now I work outside the house and my life is a lot calmer. I have less anxiety, less stress and much much less work. No one went to school to sit at home, but the truth is, someone has to stay with the kids in the early stages on life. I will not do daycare for 3 or 6month old child. They both hit 18months b4 leaving me.

Staying at home is not laziness, it is much more challenging that hustling. In fact I laugh at how easily I make money, and men would be making noise like it is so difficult. *hiss*

I watched thunder sub, the little prince, adventures of teddy roxpin, voltron terra hawkes. I was even a contestant on speak out! I miss child hood Walahi.

OP you better mind your business. What is our own? Are u his mother? A grown up man cannot see he looks untidy or notice his shirt is dirty before putting it on ba? It is his wife's job because he is helpless and crippled? Rubbish

My LG microwave was a wedding gift and I've bn using it for the past 5 and half years with no problems

Pepsi tastes better

Me sef I don't understand . Why would you be content to play second fiddle? Only getting quickies in hotel rooms and can't be taken any where but coded joints? Sorry o but I think they are totally insane.

Ok since I'm a lady let me respond from my own point of view. Sometimes, you enter a gathering and are about to say hi and you are met by stony gazes and eyeballs looking you up and down. So I just Pam and enter quietly and sit down. Or you say hi, how's everyone doing and no one responds I'm like WTF? Or even worse a girl is with your guy friend and you smile at them, she ignores you and keeps walking. After a while you don't even bother to say anything again before one small girl will insult you. However, if you enter to smiles, haba you must reciprocate.

Truth is if women stand together and forget the bitchiness we can take the men down. No need to fight for man or sleep with mother woman's man a lot of problems will be avoided.

My 2pence

write2obi:
Are you sure is the driver that got her pregnant or *cough*, i mean did you ask questions.
You knw we are in the End *cough* period so anything can happen*cough* *this my cough self* *akpan come go buy me coflin*

She had already left my house b4 she got the belle. The guy accepted that and even promised to marry her. But just I predicted and warned her, the guy dumped her with a kid and took off. Funny enough she still comes around with her baby when we go to the village (they brought her from there). The other one came to my house pregnant, stayed a few days b4 I figured it out and sent her away. Oh I forgot the one that they brought from Togo on a Saturday. I told her " Monday morning we go for blood test". Monday morning before I dress up finish the girl don take back door run comot. Only God knows what disease she had and was afraid I would find out. That was the last straw.

I don't have a maid, I just don't have strenght for the drama. I've had a few ppl live with me in that capacity and while they were here, we eat the same food, from the same plates. I do not permit anyone to eat in rooms or kitchen, it must be on the dining table. They collected salary and I did their hair a bought toiletries. But it was just for a short while.
These girls come from their homes with all sorts of wahala. One came to my house and was dictating what she would eat ( found out she was pregnant). The other one would go and make her hair and I won't see her till 9pm. She will fix her nails and eyelashes. For who biko? Or the one that was cavorting with my neighbors driver and got pregnant? Let me not mention the lying, the stealing anf the unnecessary long throat. These are grown up ladies stealing 10 naira school biscuits for my kids.
I gave up eventually. Now I have a cleaner, she comes in the morning and cleans up the mess we made while I get kids ready for school and I head out. I cook and do other chores round the house after work. I no fit shout for all them mails abeg their wahala is too much.

lady gogo: Damn! I wish I was thandie newton right now. That scene with Chiwetel Ejiofor. *shudders*

oh gawd you are such a ho

ayusco85: If i was the lady i will sue the governor for $1million. Evidence already on camera and several witnesses. I for don hammer o

That is ehn! I go hammer on top the guy head

LaShawn my advice is the same that others have given you. Keep moving on, don't look back, don't acknowledge him. Move on cos he has not changed.

ade2008:

You better grow up. You and this ur childish behaviour sha. If u like change ur handler hundred times i know u are the one. Uve seen the response of matured women here, if u like u better make use of it. U better stop fooling urself .

Biko what is going on? Are you the husband in question. Gimme gist o!


My husband will not even try to ask for s3X if he has vexed me. For what now? I will just spit in his eyes ni.

I always like to try new things. My husband calls me good time girl, but mehn I have to enjoy my life not just exist. We go to dealdey.com a lot to get inspiration on what to do. From go-karting, to boat cruise, I just bought stage play tickets for both of us. He will wear shoe and we spend time together. The other day I vexed and bought ticket to calabar after begging him to come e no gree. Next thing I know, he is buying his own to come along.

Its just necessary to make time out to spend with your spouse. I just dont get the one of work work work, no time to hang. We do Tuesday movie well well, free drink and popcorn on top N1000 ticket. We stroll out to buy suya after putting the babies to sleep. Just sha try, make the effort to be together and you would enjoy it.

bbankky: Na wa o....these is serious, a woman leading in armed robbery.. May God help us in this country.

whatever a man can do, a woman can do better

delinb: @Daresh How do you expect me to keep distance from the mother of my son at this time, my son is only 3yrs do you expect him to come out on his own and meet me? impossible

Keep ur distance doesnt mean you should stand outside and horn for the boy. It means dont talk with her too much, or pay her any mind. Just ask her the most necessary questions and focus your attention on the boy.

delinb: LewsTherin @ I fully understand you bro, I dont know if she expect me to be hidden things from her, maybe next time if am visiting my son I wont tell her maybe this will solve the problem. Women dont like someone telling them the truth they prefare lies than truth serious.

You see this is the thing that annoys me about you men, you think you know it all. Ok then lie to her, and let her find out you went there secretly. What message does that pass across? It will seem like you are playing hanky panky with your ex. Im a lady, I gave u good advice, instead you choose to ignore and do what you think is wise. Tomorrow you will come and start singing divorce tunes. Well goodluck to you.

delinb: @Daresh My Son and ex live in another city 2 hours drive away from where I stay. I dont think is Ok to go with my wife, she may get too jealous and do something stupid or maybe am wrong but I know my wife is extremely jealous.

Look you have to find a way to make it work. With time she might take her jealousy out on your son. Take her with you even if it is 7 hours away. Let her know you trust her not to do anything rash and keep your distance from the boys mun while u are there.

crystalballs:

I need advice on what to do and get the best from her.

Mr Crystal balls let me tell you what to do. Get a vibrat0r and put in new duracell or energiser batteries.Get lube too and keep it beside the bed. Then put on slow soft music and start kissing her, from head to toe. Dont just do mouth and breast o, do her neck, her arms, her fingers, suck her toes every single bit of her. Then eat her Womanliness with focus on her cl1tor1s. then pull out the vibrator and place it there. Do up and down and up and down and varry the speed. Make sure u apply plenty lube to it. She will scream but this time it wont be from pain. Then focus it on her clit and put it on the highest speed. She must come. When shes done, wipe her off and go to sleep. DO NOT TOUCH HER. If you do she will assume you did it for yourself and not for her.

Tomorrow, she will be begging you for more. I'm speaking from experience here, when a woman is pregnant, the vagina does not lubricate. When there is no lubrication, sex is very painful. I had to use lube to make it better. Till now I still use lube sef, cos I sometimes dont lubricate as well as I want to. You can get a vibe and lube from zeevirtualmedia.com. Next day delivery.

smartmom: My advice is this; if you really love your wife and your child which I suspect is the case, you must find a way to reassure your wife that she is the woman you love, not the mother of your son. Once she is secure she will not be so jealous. However if she is still acting up, include her in your visits to see your son. As your son grows up suggest he is allowed to spend time with you in your own house with your wife.

I suspect seeing how close you were to marrying the mother of your son, your wife feels threatened and under some pressure. Reassure her and you will see the difference.

this is the same advice I would give. Mr Delnib, take your wife with you when you go to see your son. Let her see the relationship btw the 2 of you and you need to reassure her there is nothing going on btw you and ur ex.

He has to look well put together and speak properly. When his language is pure and he is hot good looking, then you know I will be attracted. He has to smell good too. Oh mehn that's why I fell for my man!