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beordune: I stay in a compound of five flats, my landlord occupy the second floor, and I share the first floor with his mother,while two other tenants share the ground floor.
On Sunday while trying to bring out my landlord's visitor car from my compound, cos he packed behind me..cos I knew it would be difficult for me to move out the next day cos am an early riser, so to avoid the early morning disturbance I called them to come move their car so that I can packed behind them,only for me to be told the owner can't come out again for the day, so I had to move the car my self since nobody could volunteer driving it.

So while moving the car on a reverse, though slowly, I observed the brake wasn't good, thank God for a big stone in front of the other neighbor's house that stopped the back tire. I came out of the car and asked if I had injured anyone and I was told "NO".
After re-parking the two cars back into the car park I decided to apologies to some old women who had already gathered around the scene, and there they told me two of their kids were almost hurt, contrary to what I was told earlier, so I pay their mothers a courtesy visit.
From what I notice, all the noise of been hurt were exaggerations, I dint even do as if i know that; I just continued with my apologies.

My worries began when I got home last night and my younger brother told me that my landlord's mother who was staying in the flat behind mine asked after that I see her.
And when I finally did that night, she talked about the issue with the neighbors, she was complaining bitterly that something of such happened and I disrespected her by not telling her, she talked to the extent that henceforth she's going to tell me to start parking my car outside (eventhough we have a car park), the worst happened when her last son who should be in his twenties stood up to interrupt our discussion, and said I was talking rubbish when I said I dint take what happened as something that is that serious, cos to me, it had been settled when the stuff happened.

Now my question:
Does been a tenant mean one will be paying homage or worshiping his/her landlord or family?

Ol boy you try o! I have always made sure I dont live with ANY LANDLORD. They are pure tyrants. Thank God my landlord is a good man. Doesn't have time for this crap.

Dygeasy: Look At You.

Its Better To Do The Separation When They're Innocent. Not Like I'm Against Siblings Of Same Sex Being Together But In This Age, You Don't Wanna Know What Supposed Siblings Do Together.

You Don't Need A Maid To Corrupt Your Kids And You Can't Totally Control What They're Exposed To Except They're Not Gonna Step Out Which Is Impossible.

And Nobody Wants To Have A 'Masculinized' Female Child. Trust Me This Often Happens In Female Kids.

It Takes God's Mercy To Make Children Turn Out As Their Parents Want.

I Pray God Watches Over Your Kids And They Shall Live Long Enough For You To Enjoy Them.

My prayer is for God to watch over them and keep them safe.

I like being a woman. I don't want to change.

You need to take your wife to a psychiatrist. She is clearly mentally unstable. If you want I can give you the name of a therapist to help her out. You give her an ultimatum. Either she goes or you go. I never see this kain wahala be this?

Exactly. My older brother moved out of the room himself. My younger brother moved in with my older brother when he was 13. No one seperated anyone, they both moved when they were ready. No need to separate.

@Ewuro I'm not offended, I just dont see the need to start drawing lines. My son has been asked for a car bed sha , maybe it's time.

Evanisgud: Seperating them nw means drawing the wrong signal, wen they ar of age, they wil b the ones 2 tel u to seperate them.

I don't even want to think about it.

Pretyangel25: Ever since I step my foot in my sis house, the husband have been disturbing my life, first he sent me message and I taught it was a joke just last night he purposely touch my breast when I was in the kitchen cooking and I became so angry that I refuse 2 eat and my sis ask me why I'm that angry, I couldn't utter a word because he was staring at me.

He sent me another text this afternoon telling me that my sis is travelling on wednesday this week 2 come back on sunday and that he will have me all 2 himself, can u imagine? should I tell me sis and how will she feel? Because I don't want to create problem btw them. Advice please

Call your mum, call his parents. Better yet, tell your father or a male relative let them warn him off. Also when your sister leaves, I advice u to go too before he rapes you.

Baby mama: A church in Boston actually carried out a survey
Totally anonymous questionnaire and the couples were asked to be very open and sincere
It was a marriage enrichment seminar
Over 90% of the men said they would pick their wives again
Only about 30 or 40% of women said the same about their husbands

greatestluv4all: Things are moving rather fast this age.

Your time may not compare with what is obtained now.

It depends largely on what you epose them to. I dont have maid or help to tach them rubbish. On tv its Disney jnr and KidsCo. I am teaching them not to let anyone touch their privates. Kids are curious.

@Ewuro it is not about bonding. I'm not trying to make them bond anything. They are innocent and dont know theirs a big deal in their being different. My daughter tries to stand and pee like her brother and its hilarious. Why should I seperate them and treat them differently because they are different sexes?

tomber: Next time he'll consider well the effect of his jokes.
1. He was comparing white n black girl. Black girls don't give in easily.
2. invariably comparing black and white men: black men on frustration go on raping.
3.on a general note. Women are the cos of rape. rape is somehow justifiable.
so black ladies are gold diggers n the men rapists

Conclusion. It was too expensive. moreover for a celeb like him with his exposure, he shed av knwn that joke wud get such feedback

I agree, he shd have kniwn better.

[quote author=-Mr Cork-]...LISTEN UP LADIES...IF U CAN not TAKE A JOKE..MY ADVISE....SAVE YOR ENERGY & USE YOR TIME TO FIND A MAN....BASKET MOUTH IS 100 PARSENT RIGHT & BLACK WOMEN R GOLD DIGGA....PIRIOD

...All they do is chop YOR money and don't eeven giv u ordinary punny in return for compensation! [/quote]Learn how to spell right first.

Jaerymes: All y'all calling for his contract to be terminated, I hope your brothers and husbands eventually lose their jobs over stupid reasons. bad bellé pipu

Silly reason? Rape is a silly reason? I guess men will never understand the fear of rape.

I'm so ashamed of most of you here. Someone equated rape to stealing. Do u know almost every woman's nightmare is the fear of rape? i WOULD CHOSE DEATH OVER RAPE. Please no amount of chop and clean mouth can ever justify rape. Rape is not a JOKE. I dont care about his endorsements. Be it far from me to deny a man his bread. But he should find other things to crack jokes about.

shoerack6: Hello house,

Whenever I have disagreement with hubby, he'll decide not to talk to me. He won't eat my food and also will not sleep on the same bed with me. I'll have to beg and beg before he finally decides to talk to me.
I'm so sick and tired of his attitude. I tried discussing with him that we should look for a better way to resolve issues but he said he doesn't want to discuss anything with me.
We are presently not talking and have promised myself that this year, no more begging and begging. Have apologised to him like thrice since yesterday, i've sent him messages apologising even though I know that i've done nothing wrong.
Now i'm always in my room because even when I go to where he is, he'll stand up and leave d place.
This is killing me inside. Don't know what to do.
Pls mature advice only.
Mod pls I don't want this thread on front page.

Why are you letting someone else determine your happiness? If he bones you no mind am. Continue to do your thing. My husband used to do that one too, me wey no like to cook, when he starts boning thats the day I will grill chicken, make ofensala. I cannot be begging anybody biko, he is turning you to his slave.

bellong: Hmm.....

I wish the guy allowed her to be prosecuted. She committed crime against the state and not just her husband alone.

What a greedy wife who is not contented with what she has. She has a job yet sniffing life out of her husband to give what he doesn't have.

Singles, make una shine your eyes well well ooo.... Love has never and will never be blind. Infact, love is now using magnified lenses to detect destiny wasters....

I don't think she's greedy, I think she's plain insane. There are many men who don't provide at all for their families yet no one loses his dick. She's just a mad woman.

njokusboy: Lolzz, I wasn't going off, I was deliberately expanding the topic... I didn't say a girl should entertain a wheelbarrow pusher, dats absurd, I'd personally chase any such wheel barrow pushers with a matchete if they come knocking at my house.. I was merely stressing the fact that women should lower their expectations, part of the reason why there are so many unmarried, pretty ladies is bacause most won't even give you a second look if you dont drive a range, live in VGC and more absurd,look lyk brad pitt... Let's face it, there are more women than men as it is and the number of men in the rich category are less than 20% so there is likely to be a whole lot of unmarried women in the near future, if they don't stop making materialism a priority... My cousin for one, she is an accountant but the man she married doesn't even have a degree, just a struggling man trying to survive and they are happily married.. Now how many women do you think would go for that??

I agree with you on this one. I have a few pretty, well educated friends that mouth this bullshit. Stuff like "He has to drive a Range Rover" or "he doesnt live in Ikoyi". I'm like shege which time u enter island? No be village your papa marry your mama you dey here dey find person wey get mansion in Banana Island. I tire o.
Another example, I reated a group for my classmates in secondary school and you know as girls dey gist. So this girl comes back and says 'Oh you guys kept gisting and my fone kept buzzing all thru my date, the guy must have been wondering whats up". And I say " Why didnt you just put your fone on silent". Her reaction was terrible!!! She went all haywire saying "For what?" "Why will I do that?". I just shook my head. No tell you there was never a second date.

zizle87: Let me share another....Oregun road....pls b very careful there at night...very very. Because the road is very accessible alot happen there in seconds.4 friends went clubbing at ikeja...all boys. One of them is my friend. Dey left the club and were headed back home when anoder car with four guys too drove past dem ...dey were evn making fun of them inside d car that this one way boys just dey comot with no single babe dese days when the car swerved and stopped in front of them. Dey ran into d car. By instinct my friend who sat in front with d driver told him to reverse immediately. Dey were doin dat all d way back when 1of the guys from the Other car came out and shot directly at their windscreen. Out of confusion dey reversed into d covert which halted the car.dey got out and started runin...wat surprised dem was that the boys came out and chased dem all d way down that road shooting at them. Till dey finali took a turn. My friend thought he had died and na him ghost still dey run.because they don't know how dey escaped..I saw him the following dey wen dey went to get the car. This is the funny part. Nothing was missing from the car.i asked what he thought they wanted. He said his best guess was dat they were ritualists and they wanted at least a body and had probably been searching since because of the kind of car dey were driving and the fact that they bashed it without care of expenses.

Ha! See gbege!

LyfeJennings: U are the biggest fool on Nairaland. Amadioha strike ur mouth. Where were you when Frank was going all on the pages softsell magazines b3gging Catherine to change her ways. Where the f*cck were U when he was still begging Catherine to come back home when she left..
now thw guy don find happiness. U are saying shit. Infact,God punish U too for judging the beautiful lady and Frank.... ode oshi

Begging Katherine to change what ways? You dont know he used to beat shege out of the woman. Abeg close your mouth there.

joromi: Husband Snatcher....
Ole....
And the yeye radarada husband too
Mtchew

Please she did not snatch anyones husband. He and Katherine were divorced before she married him. Please dont insult an innocent woman.

Woged2005: It depends on the resources available to you. Number of rooms in the house and if you have help with chores.

1. Generally, in a standard 3 bedroom flat, Daddy and mommy sleep in the master bedroom, all the boys in one, and the girls in one even as early as 1yr or less (girls rooms are usually painted with bright colors like Pink, yellow, with matching bedsheets / furniture, lots of adorable dolls that scare boys away. ).

2. If you have limited room, use double bunker beds to separate them rather than multiple beds.

3. As for bathing, start from day 1 to bath them separately. Let them take turns. However, if you didn't start on time, today (now) is the right time to bath the girls desperately.

The idea is to treat your girls graciously, and respectfully like little princesses so they can grow up being soft, lady-like, and not accepting disrespect from men later. If their parents and brothers treat them with respect at home, they will demand for it outside and also will get attracted to gentlemen and not 'bedroom bullies' for date.

Ok I'm gonna have to disagree with your post. Growing up, my brother was closest to me in age and as a result we did everything together up until secondary school. We bathed together, slept on the same bed till I was in SS1. It wasn't a lack of space thing, our house had 7 rooms. We were just together and treated pretty much the same by my parents.

Now I have a son and a daughter and Im the same with them. They sleep on the same bed, that one you no fit try separate them sef. They bathe together, eat together play together. They only separate in school. We have 3 rooms, my husband and I have one, they have one and 1 is vacant. No body will agree o.

I really don't see the need to separating them, at least not yet, he's 5 and she's 2.

I must buy this book. Walahi!

Abbott: Are you really serious Daresh?!

Dead serious. We just fixed the car windows today. I still have cuts on my legs from the shattered glass. Drove all the way home with glass everywhere. The kids slept off hugging each other in the car.
Its a big shock and now I know not to be in traffic at night. Nigeria is just getting worse.

Last weekend, we all went to Amuwo Odofin. On our way home at that turn at Mile 2 we were all laughing and talking in the car when suddenly, the windows of the car where shattered simultaneously. Thre guys started grabbing stuff. The kids were screaming the guy was trying to grab my bag shouting " Where's the money"?. They took my husbands new Note. I held onto my bag tight, I no gree. MY children were shell shocked. We had to climb the divider and speed off, the guy was still trying to take my bag.
The level of violence in this country is becoming something else. Not too long ago they would knock on ur glass and try to intimidate you. Now this smashing car windows and grabbing. God help us.

Its psychological. You need to relax and let things happen naturally. If you want you can get durex play lubricant or an arousal gel, try www.zeevirtualmedia.com and search for libido boosters for females. The most important thing is to relax. Just relax.

[quote author=Mary_John247]I have been a follower of the family section for a couple of years. I have a serious issue that is threatening my marriage, I have no one to talk to as I am abit conscious about discussing my marriage with others even family. I am hoping to get some advice or ideas from here.

I have been married for a year now, my husband and I dated for a while before tying the knot. We never had sex before marriage, though we did alot of other things, I was just never ready to take it to the next level. After the wedding, trying to have sex was very difficult. I was very tight and it was extremely painful (unfortunately, pain is one thing I have never been able to tolerate). What did we not try, getting drunk, taking drugs. Long story short we finally had sex about 5months into the marriage. I have to say that my husband was very understanding and I will forever love him for this.

The problem now is that sex is extremely uncomfortable for me. It is always a battle for him to penetrate, because for me the pain always feels like the first time. Just imagine that everytime we want to get down there is always a struggle before he finally enters. My husband is tired and has told me that i need to find a way of solving this issue. Infact he said I should not speak to him until I am ready to open my legs and stay put for him to penetrate. He says he is loosing all the desire he has for me at the moment. I dont know what to do, I am so distraught. I feel like a failure as a wife, I mean who has ever heard of a new wife running from sex because of the fear of pain.
I dont know if its psychological or if there is something wrong with me down there physically. All I know is that I need help, because I cannot imagine loosing my best friend and soul mate. Pls is there anyone who has gone through this, can anyone help with suggestions on how I can learn to open up, relax and deal with the discomfort. Because I believe that if I can do this, then I can be able to let go and then it will be pleasurable for him and myself as well.[/quote]

I agree. Very good.

[quote author=Slasha!]Even though it sounds funny and embarrasing,I think he did a good a thing in sending them their living daughter to re-train than inviting them to bury her un-trained corpse after giving her a life-taking beating[/quote]

snika: No kids yet.

Nice copy and post though

Please all Igbo people living in diaspora:

Take your kids home at least for this Christmas. Don't raise bastards that call their own tribe ibo, and call i as h, and h as i.

If you don't go home now then don't complain when Fashola and Tinubu 'deports' you.

We won't support you because you have taken your origin for granted, and since your only contribution to the Igbo nation is just bearing an Igbo name, we owe you nothing.

Thank you.

SMH. Local champions, who wants anything from you? FYI I'm a citizen of the world.

I'm sorry but I can't watch this. This is man's inhumanity to man. I never watched the ALUU 4 video and I won't watch this one. This world is a sad sad place.

I think I've started to believe these people want to eliminate us. Honestly I've never thot like that till I started reading about population control methods. We too many for this part of the world.

francababy: I cannot believe that guys will sleep with those rough looking, unkempt girls you find in brothels. Seriously what fun is it to sleep with a girl that has had sex with like 10 guys before you that day? I created this topic because I was driving home now and passed Obalende. Come and see them.. Chai

Guys do you even enjoy sleeping with any of these girls?

I wonder the same thing over and over again.

Godmother: Long epistle; couldn't read it. But from the topic, if you show your wife love subjection will come easily to her. Infact she will become a "yes sir" yes sir" woman. The problem with some Nigerian men is that they don't play their part but expect the woman to do hers and they are always so quick to quote scriptures about submission. Though whenever they are reading that verse of the Bible they close their eyes to the part where the Bible first says men should love their wives.

If its not that then its the issue of them cheating and treating the women like crap, even in public. Imagine a man calling his wife a goat and in public for that matter! The poor woman wanted to sink into the floor out of shame. Not all men sha, but some men act this way

I agree. I have never met a man who truly loves his wife and she does not submit. You cannot treat a woman like crap and then force her to submit, abi na donkey e marry?

paccino: Hello there,
Thank you for staying with us as we embarked on a history making journey today. Day 1 has ended and we have broken several records.

Find attached official word on what we learnt from Day 1 of our Fall Yakata Sale.

You can upload this to your various social media (if you have one), thanks for your efforts and support.

PS: We totally sold out all units of the PS4 we had and will be bringing an even bigger sale of the Tecno Phantom A+ at 19,000 on Monday

Kind regards,
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8 Montgomery Road, Yaba, Lagos, Nigeria.After Konga flopped its scheduled black Friday yakata sales.....they have the guts to send me this mail:

Please can anyone in Nigeria boldly say he or she got the PS4?
These guys are just a bunch of ******

FYI I got the PS4 for 60k and the Galaxy Noe 10.1 for 40k. You better believe its not scam.

Im aiming for the Techno Phantom A+ on Monday so stay tuned. I'll let you know when I buy it.

RedBenson: Your hands aren't clean. You need to consult 'Ndem Ibibio' for cleansing asap. Dont forget, age is no longer on ur side.

This a very stewpid post. Its shitty talk like this that shows ur level of stewpidity. Age is no longer on ur side. GOAT