InfinityFabric:

The Bible version, as we all know Bible can't be fully trusted.


This is only human, not woman.


Correct. Women are allergic to accountability, this is why Men have to take charge so that women don't disgrace everyone.


Mostly.


This is a feature NOT a bug.
How's this a bad thing ? They're NOT capable of leading nor do they hands to fight for their beliefs.
Men and women are NOT the same.


Have you heard of true genuine desire ? She might NOT know what she wants until she met you and only wants to have your baby. I will overlook the other untrue points but this, I won't let it slide. How would you say "someone wouldn't know what they want..." Yet you say they're sensibly okay in their decision making

C'mon you can do better!

REDPILL exists so that you don't hate women for what they can never be to you.

KingLennon:
When I see the present generation and upcoming generation of girls; I will just cry inside me why I never got married in the 80's









Social Media and peer influence has finished them ...

Trendylove:
Kuli kuli,kai kai,mago mago,tusa tusa,wuru wuru,chuwa chuwa,woto woto,poto poto,jaga jaga,yori yori,wo Wo,fu fu.shine shine,boy boy,patch patch,talk talk,waka waka,bum bum,chop chop,sharp sharp,quick quick,Jedi Jedi,kro kro,koi koi,blow blow,jee jee,Tom Tom,borrow borrow,maza maza,puff puff,moi moi,chin chin,wee wee,tummy tummy.

SharingIsLife:
It's like Nigerians like calling things (and even people) twice. I saw a post on Facebook asking for such names. See a long list oh! I'm surprised.

Please, add your own to the list. Don't spoil the show oh!

Things that Nigerians Call Twice

Moi moi
Chin chin
Puff puff
Woto woto😭
Tom Tom
Mymy
Kai kai
Fufu
Juju
Bum bum
Kwuli kwuli
Toto
Jedi jedi
Tummy Tummy
Dodo
Wee wee
Krokro
Bobo
Yori yori

pansophist:


I don't think migration is an expression of helplessness, but more of hopelessness. Nigerians move abroad because living in Nigeria is like pouring water in a basket, all your efforts don't hold. Criminals live better than the good man. The system rewards the worst in people.

Besides, not only the Western countries our kinsmen migrate to, but even those that migrated to Western countries must have paid their dues, such as paying taxes to qualify for benefits in the first place.

To be self-reliant, you need a working system. If you think you don't need the input of a healthy society for self-reliance, see if you can go live in the middle of a forest and rely on yourself completely. We are interdependent.

But how I understood what Cave is saying through that passage is that suffering is just part of life, and your money can't rescue you from it. Money can alleviate, not rescue. So in essence, we all need help.

For a start, we will all die, and we don't know when. Or maybe plagued by a sickness that has no cure, which makes your money irrelevant. Or maybe found out in your 70s that two of your kids aren't yours, or maybe a billionaire as wealthy as you deal with you with his own political connection. How will your wealth help you here?

Or maybe hit by a truck, or your private jet crashed or your wife poisoned you, or your bodyguard killed you, or your country was at war and you became poor overnight. There are so many things that can happen to a person that make their wealth useless.

That's how I understand that sentence, that we all need help in reality. It is the difference between material suffering and existential suffering. Your money can help materially, but not existentially. In reality, we are really helpless.

This also makes me think bragging and showing off is a fool's idea of glory. Such a person havent seen real problems, that's why. If correct problem wey go gym handle you, you go humble.

Tomek09:
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE PRISON IMMATES.

In the same Kirikiri prison and in the same occasion.

Just take a look at the male picture and that of the female inmates.

�| 4thestatereporters

donbachi:
U wey dey mind ur own business since.na e ur name never show for billionaires list.

pansophist:
I Find her interesting, then I'll need to hold on to the shaky faith in me to ask her out despite my fear of rejection, wondering if she will ever accept, and how I'll live with myself if she refuses. If she finds me interesting, then she would just give me green light, and pass the burden of chasing to me. If I didn't chase, she can safely conclude that I'm gay, that I'm not interested in her, or not man enough. Whichever case, the burden of performance rest solely on me, a position I can not negotiate myself away from.

So I finally summon the courage to ask her out, and she accept to go out on a date with me. Hallelujah. But a new chapter begin, I'll have to impress her. It's implied. Even if she finds me interesting, she knows she reserves the privilege to choose, why I reserves the liability to pursue. I'll have to be a gentleman to pay for the date, and probably pay for her uber if she is the broke type. The closest time I felt like this was during a job interview. The employer holds the power to choose. Let's not deceive ourself jare. She holds the power here, and even me the man's knows that. Only God knows the calibre of men in her contact list that she is ready to replace me with if I fork up. So I better be at my best behaviour.

Ok fast forward to the real deal. so she agreed, and we started dating. Now it's time to fork. I enter bed gallantly like John Cena, assured of my bedmatic skills to knack anything. But the problem is that even at my best, I may not measure up, because only God knows the gallant warriors that has gone through that route and set the bar so high, that she feel disappointed after the act. See me feeling like a superstar that I was able to reach three rounds, meanwhile, previous men de knack overnight non stop. Night vigil on top her body, for real. Again, the burden of performance rest solely on me. Just because I'm a man. Doesn't matter if other men don spoil show before me. Doesn't matter if na her fault for sampling multitudes of deeks, I just have to deliver satisfactorily.

Fast forward another day, on midnight. We are sleeping jejely. Then we heard a big knock, with a loud voice screaming, "open the door". She looks at me, shivering with her eyes saying, "baby, are we safe"? Of course implying that I should go check who is knocking on the door. It's not a duty to negotiate, it's my job as the man. And if anyone will be given the introductory slap, it definitely has to be me. Even if she a feminist, at that point, equality doesn't matter anymore. Gender role reactivated. She is a woman and I am the man. How about the two of us go see who is at the door? Two head is better than one? Well not in this case. The burden of performance rest solely on me.

If this is what is means to be the head, please, let's change role abeg. I'll gladly choose to be the neck, the liver, or even the oesophagus. All this responsibility and even multiple orgasm to compensate, I no see. Just a few sperm burst like tube toothpaste and I'm done. The one that pains me the most is that even in my innocence, just because the other party is a woman, then by default, the burden of proving myself innocent rest on me. She may give me a dirty hot slap in the street, and people will wonder what i did to deserve such slaps. Meanwhile if I do, all I'll hear is "do you want to kill her"? "Don't you know she is a woman? Real men don't beat women etc. If I was unlucky that it happened in a bad neighbourhood, I may be beaten public style, by boys who are quick to use my predicament as an opportunity to virtue signal.

Oya time to marry, I am ready, she is ready, but we are both broke. Although somehow, the burdens of brideprice, wedding expenses, proposing, buying ring, going to visit her family, arranging the house she will move in after marriage, and even more, falls on the man. Lots of men are unmarried nor because they are not ready but because they can't financially perform. Meanwhile, lots of women are unmarried not because they are not ready, but because they haven't met guys who will perform. My personal circumstances of being broke even if the economy is equally nacking us is unacceptable, but all I hear is, "bro just perform".

And this is one of the aspect I detest about maleness. That in relation with a woman, i bear almost, if not all the liability because I'm perceived as strong, and also that the burden of performance rest on me. Baba God, why?

Think4Myself:
How do I become a nairaland mod and what's their job specifically

athenswonders:



SIMP

tnerro1:
I go ask her to check for male version of the cloth too, we go rock am together, abi you no know say craze person self also get relations

benqo01:
Truth is if every man there was to be very comfortable they will get married,if the money is there why not? Na pocket we dey look like this

Ahmed0336:


Percentage of women that contributes to finance their wedding are few.
Wetin men dey face eh, mouth no fit explain am.

czarr:
I have never in my life, in all my conversations with guys hear a man say he is looking forward to marriage...infact I would say most men marry just because they feel by society standards it's the right thing to do...children seem to be the only motivation for men.

Why do most women dream about their wedding day even as children , while the men don't seem too eager to get married. How do we reconcile the two?

Iniobong34:
Creation,love,gratitude

jaybenugo:
Nollywood actress, Mercy Aigbe took to her Instagram handle to celebrate herself on Father's day, today June 20, IgbereTV reports.

She wrote;


https://www.instagram.com/reel/CQVaoqKBFEY/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

FalseProphet1:
I see her and davido having another child, I see chioma going fully into porn after Sophia gives birth, I see some male celebrities bedding chioma, I see davido marrying Sophia.

This I have seen.

BlessedNuel:
Seen

elisha820:
Happy new week everyone.
I decided to bring this up on this platform cos I want candid and lucid advice. I be brief on this.

I am a Pharmacist working with one of the government owned health care centre. There's this girl I've been with for more than 2years now. She is a law student in her penultimate year in university. Like most Nigerian relationships, we started with lot of distractions and lacked commitment but over time it remained just the two of us.

At the beginning of this year 2021 we made relationship goals and decided to be transparent to each other. We shared every secrets, went through each others phone and asked questions where necessary. All went well until last month when I went to check on her in the university, asked for her phone as usual wanted checking her whatsapp. She didn't let me, said till she comes for weekend when we'll have good time for that. I was surprised, had my doubts but let it slide. She later came for the weekend, I acted as if I don't care anymore and that was it.

Similar event happened last night after she went through my phone (whatsapp, facebook, twitter etc) cos she has my password but I don't have hers. I unexpectedly asked for her phone too, she said it's late and we should leave it till am back from weekend call later in the evening. I kept my cool last night but was bent on seeing her chat this morning not until she bursted into tears. I ain't perfect, have my flaws but I am free spirited whenever I am around her. It normal for a lady to have lots of guys in her dm, but I think it's a problem when it becomes secretive to your partner.

Should I play along, start having secrets too or what's your thought guys.

NB: I skipped so many things, decided being straight to the point.

Lalasticla...I remain loyal, hoping you'll do the needful

Davash222:
Na man you be!

Avoid that liability of a girl same way you're avoiding poverty.

ProfDview1:


Trust MI.. She doesn't need any help... She sef na runz girl.... Person dt indirectly insulted me tonight but I just forget.... Sometimes she fit go out to meet man, when she come back, that one go dey question am, she too go fire back, na fight again..... This same guy was fvcking her and her former roommates ooo.. They suspected dt the guy is fvcking d both of them but the guy will be lying dt he is not.... Las las, she n her frnd fight.... D girl come kuku kon dey stay with the guy.


I have discovered that ignoring people's rants is the best way to deal with them... I don't even eat her food coz she is arrogant, too much curses... Chai.. Forget it dear


D lady can curse ehnmmmm

Very rude and sassy but I am only concerned with the way the guy beats her......

I feel as if I shud be happy but I am not even though I don't like her

onwuakpachris:
as a struggling but hardworking young man..if u lucky enough to find a decent hardworking girl that really loves you in this our crazily monetized generation... then build up ur future with her(encourage nd support each other)...then marry "lowkey" when u guys can feed well together... u must not spend millions 4 wedding nd all d other wedding related stuff..(Igbos..our own worse pass..cus we too dey like to show off)..then when married..both of u shouldn't just start popping up babies everywhere like rabbits..embrace family planning...boy or girl..child na child...two kids at most will do 4 me...then enjoy ur lives together and make sure u give ur kids the very best of life...then die nd go and rest...nothing dey this life las las..u must not have it all..