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XhosaNostra:
Sometimes it's like guys don't know what they want. Some complain about parasitic, golddiggers & yet they still have an issue when a woman has her priorities straight.

What is it exactly that you want?

rawpadgin:
Its not even about the age. 95% of successful women are toxic, rude, unapproachable & feels that a man can't control them

makydebbie:
God's official secretary and sure candidate for heaven has spoken. Go sit your ass down judgemental hypocrite.

mommaJ:
nothing yet...still hopeful

mommaJ:
GOOD DAY NAIRALANDERS.I M STILL HERE...DONT GIVE UP ON ME YET. https://www.nairaland.com/4312232/husbanda-good-man-help#64524181

spongeisback:
Why're Christians so judgmental? They judge even a corpse. Why's it so hard to type RIP and move on? Why say she's in hell or repent blah blah blah. Let's try to be sensitive when we talk, she's someone child.

Benblaq:
oh my dear, i blame myself for ur death..i won't forget dat october 2nd wen i met u at phne village, you were there wen d whole world was against me, u wer there to calm me wen d noise frm my neighbours was crazy..now u just left me..rip OH MY FOLLOW COME EARPIECE rip

iamtardey:
now that they've released me from ban... i just want to tell the person that banned me something,
1)if facebook will ban any individual because of comments, it won't be this big.
2)youre very stupid for banning me.
3) ban me again and you will still be stupid

Tallesty1:
Who are you?


We are women.


What do you want?


We don't know.


When do you want it?



Now! Now!! Now!!!

GraGra247:
This is so annoying and extremely infuriating. This feminism of a thing is now being extremely abused.

A lady will consciously sexually lead you on and at the very edge of it all will yell no and cry rape if she gets slightly displeased.

Next an innocent guy is humiliated & locked up for more than 20 years and he loses his entire life to regrets. Something should be speedily done about this wickedness.

nicanony:
Nairalanders, your advice is needed. Had to open a new account to post this for a friend who is currently in a mess.

LONG POST ALERT!!!

She dated her ex-fiance for 9years during which a lot of things happened.

She happens to be one of those cool-headed naive girls. He had carnal knowledge of her when she was 17 without her consent (assumed rape). She told no one out of fear, stigma and condemnation. The guy came back begging that he loves her & would like to marry her in future and since the deed was done, they should just start dating. After much pleading, she agreed to date him (Her biggest mistake). She noticed the guy use some slang when talking with his friends but felt it was normal guys stuff & didnt know what it meant and moreover after they started dating he disassociated himself from them. He brought out the idea of them making a blood oath to keep d relationship solid & to marry each other which after much persuasion they did it. Unknowingly to her, the guy was a cultist.

While they were in the uni, she got pregnant twice & wanted to keep d baby but the guy insisted on a D&C cos he wasnt ready to father a child as @then so he took her to d hospital to get it done. After graduation, his attitude changed and he started flirting with other girls, dated 2 known ones and always came back begging. My friend loved him & took him back despite his excesses. Suitors started coming, d guy started hitting her, gives death threat to any man who he perceives is asking her out via phone/message & threatens her. To the extent, he threatened a Captain (Navy man), the man wrote a statement that her ex was a cultist & ordered his men to teach him a big lesson but d girl pleaded on his behalf. She had to call our friend whose father was a soldier, he intervened & the captain later dropped d case after much pleading. He later stopped the hitting & threats on her after she stood her ground on one of those occasions but said he was never breaking the oath that must get married.

She got a fair job, supported him financially cos he couldnt get a good job after graduation. He proposed & marriage plans kicked off, she spent all her savings 4 d plans and getting him a good house for dem wen dey eventually get married. N.B: She didnt stay in d house. Both families had met and all that was left was to get the formal marriage done. They started having issues & d quarrels became much, so she decided to give him some space for 3months which they both agreed to. After 3months, she returned & found out d guy was dating someone else who he camped in his house. The guy said he has moved on since d girl gave him space & dat he loves d new girl & wants to marry her and all he wants is to break the oath they did when they were young, that they were never meant to be. They met with a pastor who broke the oath for them. The new lady even went as far as threatening her never to call her ex-fiancé line again if not she will see what will happen. She recorded d call & told her sister. After the call, she noticed she has been falling ill off & on, she thought it was normal until her mind went back to the threat call.

She was devastated and almost committed suicide if not for d intervention of a friend of ours. After the suicide attempt, she told us everything (her close friends), we also found out her ex-fiancé was a suspected cultist. During the suicide attempt, she was rushed to the hospital cos she fainted (before now, she sometimes complain of lower abdominal pain). Several tests & scan were carried out on her & it was detected that her womb was okay but are fallopian tubes were blocked due to infection after the D&C which means she has a very slim chance of ever conceiving unless through IVF. Since then, she hasn't been herself. We told her to let go but she keeps insisting on paying her ex in his own coin becos she can't lose all.

These are d steps she intends taking:

1) She wants to report the guy to SARS as a suspected cultist for him to be indicted (There are evidences that he has given 3men death threats who approached her marriage(including the Navy man who wrote a statement of him being a cultist). She approached the Navy man recently who is now a Vice admiral and he said he is willing to give her any assistance needed.
2) Reporting a threat to life case in SARS/any police station on the new girlfriend so she should sign an undertaken cos we heard she is into diabolical stuffs (hearsay) and there is an evidence (the threat call she made).

OR

1) She wants to make a report to d army barracks on him owing her money (she was a military student) i.e the money she spent during the end days of deir relationship (house rent, money he borrowed etc) running close to N800K. He would be made to sign an undertaken (undertaken will be drafted by a lawyer) stating that the money must be paid, he would also pay for the treatment needed to flush the blocked fallopian tubes and pay for any other damages. All almost running to the tune of N1.5M.
2) Reporting a threat to life case in SARS/any police station on the new girlfriend so she should sign an undertaken cos we heard she is into diabolical stuffs (hearsay) and there is an evidence (the threat call she made).

ARE HER PLANS REALISTIC?? WHAT OTHER ADVICE CAN BE GIVEN TO HER??

Toks2008:
I guess this erroneous mindset of "there are many niggas" might just be why the guy dumps the lady cos many ladies tend to use this line as consolatory remarks just to get dumped again and again and again. ..just saying...

4reala:
Na ur life, live am d way u like. But if you ar a christian, its better u let the bible be ur guiding principle

RuthDaniels:
And you are a cretinous being to reply me this way!

Not only have you acknowledge the fact that you have no self control, you can do a minor who dresses indecently but also the fact that you have a very low IQ. There is a difference between being "controlled " and being "moved". Ask me nicely I might school you.

I am no God to change the fact that men are moved by what they see, but I am god enough to inform you that you are the most stupid fellow I have ever come across on Nairaland. Get lost!

pocohantas:
He already started the violence by pouring food on her. What if she picked the cutlery and stabs him outta anger?
We would start hearing women are wicked.

Seems I am the only one that avoids confrontations sha.
I like my life too much.

removetheturban:
You do not have to reason with him. He is an anti-JW blasphemer. He is a Catholic on a smear campaign against the JW. All his posts since 2016 have been 'copy and paste' from anti-JW blogs. Ask him to explain his own doctrines to you and he will run away. He should explain Limbo and purgatory to you first

Khostlybeauty18:
So.... erhm....there's this guy that approach me for my number sometime back, I didn't give him and I think I responded rudely kind of...I was really tired that day...But since then, I've had this huge crush on him...We make eye contacts alot wheneva we're at the same place, but I can't see him making another attempt to come...Now m leaving the area soon....How Do I Get Him?

dhardline:
Please read this

Luke 11:24-25

24 “When an impure spirit comes out of a person, it goes through arid places seeking rest and does not find it. Then it says, ‘I will return to the house I left.’ 25 When it arrives, it finds the house swept clean and put in order. 26 Then it goes and takes seven other spirits more wicked than itself, and they go in and live there. And the final condition of that person is worse than the first.”

This is the simple reason why you can't beat your addiction alone cause when you quit you have created a void within which only Jesus Christ can fill but you left it empty. Hence once the impure spirits return your condition only gets worse.

Cry to God for help, be very sincere, surrender all... Your words,thoughts and action to Him. You have to take a decision and stand by it no matter what it may cost you. Come to Christ Jesus today and be saved.

Favouramani:
why
I think you are above 30

Utchgirl:
I luv NwaAmaikpe...

Hop i can see him in person...jus to tel him hw much i luv all his post here in nairaland.Dude is very intelligent,versatile and alwaz current.

Mods,plz u guys shld unban /free him.Nairaland can be boring wit out those his funny comments.

elgramz:
See handsome cute guy o. I expected the picture of NwaAmaikpe to be an old man wearing white singlet with wrapper and chewing stick under a mango tree

ibori1:
y did u step on my shadow, u wan injure my spirit?gel its over

Davedgr8:
deep. Ayam crying, pls tell me to stop

Exciton:
Going through with this line of reasoning, one has to wonder why pain (no matter how small) existed BEFORE the original sin as everything was perfect and Adam+Eve were created in his image. Wouldn't make sense for pain to exist before the curse.

But like NPComplete said, these arguments are only for educational purposes. [b]They're trivial compared to other logical inconsistencies in the Bib[/b]le.

greenhulk:
Ok now u are making sense. Kudos

irynterri:
one of the reasons why I decided to write this,most churches today preach more about conquering the earth whereas in reality Jesus came that we can have have a share in paradise not earth,we do not belong to this world but that which is yet to come,thanks for your contribution

orisa37:
The Seroent was an Animal too. He ate the fruit first in Spirit for all Animals, humans and pure.

Eeroh95:
About the forbidden fruit,I still wonder why God put it there knowing fully well that eve or Adam was eventually going to eat it and ofcourse the word, GO AND MULTIPLY which means to me [giving birth to children]....was the sin/apple/fruit necessary for human population?.. Remember God knows the beginning and the end ... enlighten me

JudgementHammer:
Since you can think, you should have also thought of why you have to wear clothes to cover ur nakkeedness unlike animals, why u have d highest developed brain among animals and why you can't pick foods from the floor or have sex on the streets without being shy. The same proof that equates you with animals as long as labour pain is concerned, should competently equate you with them in those areas too. Your thinking is half-done just like an animal's thinking shd be.

Do you know that animals struggles to get food existed with them before God created man on d 6th day. When God created Lions and other animals in d world, they immediately begin their struggle to fight for prey and the preys with immediate sense to elude their predators. They were also created with their physiological responses to childbirth.

Man alone was d one created out of special consideration..God said now let's create man In our image and likeness, why were animals not so lucky? After creating them in his likeness, be also put them in a special garden called eden guarded by angels. They were so special, they were d only one that could talk and with the highest developed brain. In the same special way, he made them without labour pain until they brought themselves under the curse by eating the forbidden fruit as recorded in the bible and also had to be clothed unlike animals.