₦airaland Forum

my sister did it.

kokoye:
The ladies choosing their kids are those from polygamous or failed marriages. They expect the same from their husbands.

Sorry lots. Then they wonder why these men go out to chase other women.

Thank God I shall never have to choose.

All I have belongs to my wife.

Yes o, its not only all that i have belongs to my wife but me, myself and i.

ha ha ha , hillarious topic. Na by force for man to marry.

And how many men keep to this.

And to tell u that no matter how good or perfect a wife is to her husband, if the husband is the type that will stray, he will stray.

otukpo,
I do appreciate your honesty. Your problem is lack of trust (maybe from your past relationships) and for any relationship to grow you need trust (just like our relationship with God). Who told you a lot of men stray? once again, i am guessing your views are as a result of the bad experiences that you've had with men.

Girl, i don't know about you but if you ask me who i would take between my kids and my wife, I WOULD EASILY TAKE MY WIFE.

This is rubbish.

If u ask my husband, he will tell u that he has a perfect wife, a God-sent, and if there is marriage in heaven, he will still marry me.I like being real. I give the best any wife can give to my husband, but to talk of the kids i brought into this world, my own flesh and blood, that is a different ball game.

The bible says that for this purpose shall a man leave his mother and cling to his wife and they shall BECOME ONE FLESH.

By the way, you seem to forget who gave you those kids in the first place, if you don't cherish the man, then you probably don't deserve him because you probably just treat the man like a sperm donor. If the guy couldn't have any children, you probably would have divorced him long ago.

In case you keep forgetting, do you know how many single naija girls are looking for a husband that they can love with every ounce of there body and you have one and yet you don't even value him that much because you don't make him the number 1 person in your life. This is one of the reason that single women are usually attracted to married men.

otukpo
You deserve to remain single the rest of your life. I don't know whether your views come from your bad relationships with men but why don't you go have a child out of wedlock like most akatas who are single mothers since you are not worthy of a husband. And people wonder why some men have extra-marital affairs, its because of women like this, if i was married to you, i would probably have an extramarital affair.

Now that's were a lot of women go wrong. . .they focus their whole attention on the kids neglecting their husbands. . .only a woman who's husband wasn't worth it would say she would neglect him and save her kid. . .

The reason why we should all pray for guidance when making decisions that concerns choosing a life partner. . .because if you have a good man. . .a man who has always and would always stand by you. . .then he'll be important to you. . .


As for me. . .my husband would be as important as my kids cus he is not only the father of my children. . .but the vow I would take at God's altar already joins us together as one. . .so he is not just a husband but also part of me!

Thoniaslim
Nice one there. You hit the nail right on the head. The bible says that a man should love his wife to the extent that he should be willing to lay down his life for her. How can i lay down my life for a woman who pushes me to the backburner?

chiogo:
LOOL @Village is not my type. Chai orishirishi

Nooooo leave am, let her continue with her 'i am better than you' attitude.

Bayelsa 19.98%

Bayelsa ke?!?!?!?!?

I highly doubt that.

Trailers pose the greatest menace because of there size.

Don't worry, when naija becomes developed all this things would fade away. When the LGA chairmen and permanent secetary starts providing electricity and bringing industries to this villages people would not fear juju, they would run back home because multi national corporations no send shrine or babalawo house, them go just demolish all of them to build highways or factories.

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=363283.msg5076448#msg5076448 date=1260321878]Village is not my type. [/quote]Look at this one!!!! get of your high horse. I can't stand that your i am so much 'advanced' than everybody else. Newsflash for you, you are not better than people who live in villages.

holycaves:
bro i strongly disagree with u. i would blame tribalism on parents and institutions. if an igbo boy in the north is made to believe by his parents that the hausa's are bad there will be no one to convince him otherwise because that is what he has known since he was a child. also most of these posts posted on this page will make people who previously had clean minds to start harbouring hate for the other person's tribe who posted something nasty about his tribe. it would be to the person like " [b]what so this is the general view or opinion of this tribe towards mine[/b]" and that's not good at all.

GBAM. You hit the nail right on the head. I never thought i was a tribalist and i appreciated other people's culture until i came to nairaland, the things i used to read from Eziachi, oziomatv and co. just made me lose and made me fire back and write statements that i still deeply regret.

platinumnk:
eyyaaah sorry about your losses. , i cried too over the Tigers

but u have said it all it was only a matter of time before FL Fell
But Bama better than Texas, you might have one there Im not sure though,
Nick Saban is an awesome football coach

Na the Nebraska own wey pain me pass, i have never felt sooooooooo bad about a football game. It was just awful and it came down to that awful mistake on the part of the kicker.

Since most Nigerian guys are like 5 ft 2 then I understand where you are coming from LOL

You are right, a lot of our guys are short.

[quote author=n-guage link=topic=360140.msg5056359#msg5056359 date=1260047042]NO!!!! Siasia/Westerhoff '09[/quote]So we can end up getting knocked out in the second round again? abeg, it is time we started aiming for the Cup itself and not just the second round or quarter finals. I am tired of that "at least they tried sha" mentality that Nigerians have.

Our jersey for the 2002 World Cup was the best.

vislabraye:
I think most men would look at the configuration of her hips, the size of her bosoms and her overall beauty before considering her height.

If she's tall and have these qualities in the right proportion, she'll be a catch, take this gal for instance

May be not extremely curvaceous, but she's hot

GBAM!!! O ri e pe. I am too busy surveying the most important things than to be worried about height.

Those tricycles are like the ones used in India and other Asian countries.

What is bush man, this is just like obama eating McDonalds. Gosh, Nigerians you guys have that mentality that your food or your culture is primitive to western culture, boy this is terrible. This is the "kolo mentality" that Fela was talking about and in case you didn't know, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH OBASANJO EATING GARRI.

Ogidiboy,
If you think Nebraska was bad, just see what the Alabama D would do to you guys. That Nebraska D is probably the most dominating defense i've seen all year long. If not for there incredibly useless offense or that useless kicker who kicked the ball out of bounds, you guys would probably have been playing in the fiesta bowl. Ndamukong Suh is definitely the most dominating defensive lineman i've ever seen in college football, he was absolutely dominating and even with the double teams, he still managed to get to McCoy. He should definitely be the number 1 pick in the NFL draft after that performance. It was simply incredible. Now if Bo Pellini can get a good enough offense to complement that D, then Nebraska would probably be playing for the National Championship next year.

Boy, what a terrible saturday this was, first of all watching Pittsburgh which was on the verge of a big upset lose a game due to a botched extra point was absolutely heart renching, then watching Bama absolutely crush the Gators was just depressing. To make matters worse, Nebraska was on the verge of probably the greatest upset in recent memory and that useless Nebraska kicker ruined it by kicking it out of bounds almost made me cry profusely. College football sucks.

Let m educate you a lil. . . . .

Our faults was our defense during the SEC Championship. Our best defense was suspended for DUI during the week before the game.
Ok, lets not blame him. Tebow was not protected during saturday's game.

Apart from our defense, we deserve to be number one.

And you night want to recheck again. . . .our score has been wayyy better than Texas.

Everyone, including your puss.yc.ats were well surprised we lost to Alabama.

First of all, i want to congratulate Saint Nick on a great job on saturday, the man is now 14-0 in revenge games.
Fl Gators,
You sound like somebody who just started watching football ( you probably just did), but Carlos Dunlap would not have saved Florida at all in this game, he wouldn't have made a difference. Alabama was simply better than the Gators in all aspects of the game. They dominated the Gators in both offense, defense and even there special teams weren't that bad.
I have to give my hearts off to the offensive cordinator of Bama, they came out with a very aggressive game plan. The crimson tide might be a traditional power running team but Bama started the game with the shot gun and attacked the Florida secondary making it easier for Ingram, Upchurch and Richardson run all over the gators. As far as everybody is concerned McElroy was the man of the game, he was efficient and he attacked the gators. Charlie Strong tried everything possible but nothing worked Alabama was just too incredible. Now i wish Bama the best in the National Championship game, i hope they destroy Texas.

[size=18pt]BOY, LIFE IS NOT FAIR . I HATE COLLEGE FOOTBALL, ALL THE TEAMS I WAS ROOTING FOR LOST FROM PITTSBURGH TO NEBRASKA (EVEN CLEMSON). WHAT A VERY VERY DEPRESSING SATURDAY. [/size]

You can never go wrong with the master himself, Fela Anikulapo Kuti.

TexMex:
C'mon, you guys should cut the guy some slack. Been admitted is a function of quality of other candidates. I once interviewed with a top software company and they later told me they 're moving on with other candidates. That doesn't mean I wasn't prepared but that some other candidates were better than me. In this economy, there are so many folks with stellar CVs looking for openings be it admission or job placement. And it's not even a once-in-a-lifetime thing. The institutions will give you another opportunity down the road, you only have to make sure you 've bolstered your CV with improved materials (experience, qualifications, etc) by then.

My guy, na him talk am with him mouth say he no dey ready na the reason wey we all dey surprised.

WHAT?!?!?! I LOVE TALL WOMEN.
I don't care much about height but i like when a woman is at most 6'1 because i myself am very tall so i can't imagine dating a girl that only reaches my chest, how the heck could i kiss her then.

[size=18pt]I LIKE IT, IT SHOWS THAT UNCLE SEGE IS JUST LIKE THE REST OF US. ITS JUST LIKE OBAMA EATING McDONALDS. [/size]

emmakc
That picture is superb.

Boy, i used this program in my first year in Engineering.

nastydamus:
I'd rather pitch tent with Guus anyday. Truth be told though, Amodu isn't the man for the WC in S.A.

Omo, you wan bankrupt NFA?

Lady 234:
Why do Nigerian girls prefer White men to Nigerians.

LIAR LIAR LIAR LIAR LIAR.

Maybe you are running out of thing to discuss or maybe you saw 2 or 3 naija girls with an oyinbo man now you conclude that the 70 million (my own guesstimation) Nigerian women prefer oyinbo. LIAR. SHAME ON YOU.

SEFAGO:
my guy I was thinking the same thing

shaaaay, i would give anything for that kind of interview, afterall, its almost like a once in a lifetime thing.