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Social Media is filled with so much sexual contents... Only God can help the kids of this generation as most of this uncensored contents are all a click away!!!

Listen to her...I share her opinion

babythug:
Marriage does have its ups and downs and only the matured can survive it.

You’ve gone in prematurely and have been immediately plagued with financial pressures hence your feeling this way.

What is done is done!

What you can immediately do is to try and redirect your mind and be strategic about the next steps. Before addressing Mrs’s issues you need to get certain stuff straight.

Work fastidiously at increasing your income
Capacity while still having some savings. It’ll be hard and tough but do what you must.

The shortcomings of your wife are what they are -shortcomings. She may or may not change. Reduce your expectations. Correct her in love and step in as best as you can. If she cannot cook at home successfully then obviously a catering business isn’t her next port of call . Think of other stuff she can do , maybe even paid employment.

In all I just feel it’s the financial pressures making you want to exit all you detailed about her past may or may not be true but it’s in the past now where there is true love all that won’t matter.

If you try these and in another year still feel the same way then perhaps you will need to discuss a separation but ensure the children’s interest is top priority

Good luck

P.S- did you have an actual commitment ceremony or she got pregnant and moved in? If it’s the latter she’s not a Mrs in the actual sense and perhaps you can both have a review of the situation alongside your parents and what nots.

Sorry about all you've gone through... Trust me when i say so many people have stories to tell on how miserable life could be(I'm sure you don't want to hear mine). But we all have got to keep thriving and keep body and soul together.

Nothing is wrong with you mentally, Nigeria can make a young man feel mad. Continue as your place of work while you work at trying to get a degree. Success stories are sweeter when suffered for. It is well with you!

This is terribly terrible!!! Lol

Alright...Thanks!
I will do the needful

Xbee007:
This is a very terrible advice and you have succeeded in misleading a lot of people. All these advises you gave have been thoroughly disproved and regarded as extremely dangerous and even counterproductive. I will advice you to take it down for the sake of people who will be using it in the future or you edit it accordingly.


Here are some sources with better suggestions on what to do:
https://www.webmd.com/first-aid/snakebite-treatment


https://adventure.howstuffworks.com/snake-bite2.htm

The right thing to do is to research the topic and correct your post accordingly. You may never know whose life you'd be saving in the future.

Thank you.

It is all in your mind i guess... Make a conscious effort to always look away from ladies. That might help. It is well!!!

Sorry abt that brother...

akan102:
What's the work of the onion, just a question thanks

It neutralizes venoms mildly...

Jesus!.... I have so many questions to ask

Thanks for the enlightenment... It is highly appreciated

KayyDee:
Hello Friend, I'm not really totally countering your points, but I see that most of the things you suggested here, are simply against the advice of medical Doctors at WebMD.

See below for details:
Do not:
1. Cut a bite wound

2. Attempt to suck out venom

3. Apply tourniquet, ice, or water

4. Give the person alcohol or caffeinated
drinks or any other medications.

Save your marriage... Your daughter will one day grow up and leave the house. You'll be left with your hubby and trust me you don't want to be with a man that has lost his love for you. Please be wise dear.

45% right... Most women (not all) tend to transgend their emotional trauma to workplace.
It is very common in Nigeria

Thanks for not doing more than yourself... You simply tried for your age biko!

I only see a slim man in a senegal like khaftan clothing trying to breathe in fresh sea breeze...

He is a man of insight... I give it to him!!!

The name is inversely propotional to the height of the man ... Congratulations to the couple!!!

This is becoming very serious

It is surely not a snake bite neither is it a scorpion sting as both won't take up to a week for you to feel the above syptoms... I suspect you were struck by a mildly poisonous arachinda specie (Spider)... Take penisolon tablet (Dnt knw d spelling) and rush down to the hospital ASAP!

Chelseaplus:
Her breast is so sexy, man, you don't need to walk away bro

My brother in the Lord... That is why i need to runaway

She is different... She is one of the very few officers in black that i respect and hold in high regards.

Richdad50:


You are who you follow. Malians are a group of retards who will follow men that affirm the very belly of their stupidity. Show me a Malian and I will tell you one who can be lead by Wall Gecko.

Richdad

I concur

I choose to walk away... Thanks!

It was brutal to say the least ...UFC fights are sometimes just too gory if you're on the receiving end of the battering

I am suspecting this bros

Issorite... Though I'm not a fan, i must admit he has also come a long way in a short period of time.

Lol... This our country is just so filled with humorous drama!!!

The monkey has got to hustle also...

Hmmm.... I am impressed

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