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Fasholas personal effort? Why cant Akala, oyinlola, Daniels and Oni also put their personal effort to better their states?

Have you been watching games?

Clichy is one of the worst LB's out there based on form, he is at par with Diego Contento

medjai:
I think he just needed time. He is one of the best coaches around.
This was one of the most difficult jobs available. By taking this job, he stepped into some mighty large shoes and was always going to be compared to his very successful predecessor.
He was also very unlucky to have been appointed Inter's coach at a time when the Inter team have reached the peak of success; motivation was always going to be a challenge

I believe the part in bold also and this should be good new for Bayern who play them in the CL next round.

Inter havent been too stelar but in the league they have 2 games at hand which could change their league position drastically

Kamoru,

Ibi ise ni mo wa Mi o le ri gbogbo awon aworan yen. O di igba ti mo ba dele. Sugbon oro awon omo adofuro yen su mi.

Gbogbo won ni won fun ifun gbe mu.

Idowu obo,

Ti enu kamoru ko ba wa ruff, Kini o fe ki enu re ma wa? Se o fe ki o fe enu ma wa igbo abe re ni?

If you want a left back there are a few in the market

Baines, Tremoulinas, Criscito, and Coentrao

Eku ipalemo odun Keresimesi o

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=571955.msg7384210#msg7384210 date=1292965842]IN FANTASYLAND - I would love nothing than even helping my Hubby UnCloth and unwind with a massage after a hard day at work, then proceed to run him a bath whilst serving his food whilst on my knees, then proceed to handwash his clothes, iron and lay out the ones he needs for the next day, then come back to kneel down and wait till he finishes his meal


IN THE REAL WORLD - ***gulps*** Housework sucks bigtime [/quote]Can I kneel behind you while you kneel also?

Rmours of Leighton Baines, Shaqiri and Luiz Gustavo coming over in january are growing by the day

mamagee

I think mamagee likes me

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=572207.msg7383647#msg7383647 date=1292959031][color=deeppink]When someone is emotionally and mentally mature. . .

Also got to be financially stable. [/color][/quote]So mamagee lets get married

armyofone:
Dayo, you will be washing my clothes.
Anyway i will wash my husband's clothes. but i hope he wouldn't make it an habit of leaving the work for me forever even when dirty clothes are overflowing the clothes cabinet.
abeg, make i chose better man biko

Thats my babe .

I hope You too wont leave me mow the lawns alone forever when the lawns are overgrown.

Meanwhile you have found the best man in Dayokanu

Can anything good come out of PDP?

My Oga just bought a Harley Davidson bike and he took us all to wash it.

While I am on Nairaland looking for Arsenal fans to abuse or single girls to flirt with.

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=571215.msg7383248#msg7383248 date=1292954950]I am deffo coming as a Naija man next time Seems they have all the fun [/quote]Come and spend the holidays with me so I can teach you/make you a Naija man

ACN all the way.

All traces of PDP should be booted out including GEJ, OBJ, Anenih etc

A HH is much more easier than a colleague at work, What are the chances that you would see your colleague at work in towels or what are the chances of him seeing his neighbours daughter on the couch sleeping with thighs open?.

Moreover a colleague at work can decline your overtures but how many HH can decline?

A married man living in the same house with a hot chic most likely would be tempted, And its best for him to avoid the scene than try to fight the temptation.

Ujujoan:
I keep saying that he failed his wife because in his mind, this girl is now so improtant that he can't even admit to a mere attraction to his wife. But of cos, the attraction is not 'mere'.

Why has he failed his wife, Some women here have even admitted that they would feel bad if their husband should admit something like that. The man knows his wife might be someone like that and he can predict her reaction.

Find example of a female post below where she said she would react in the way the man predicted his wife would.

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@OP,
How can you girls tell him to tell his wife the reason?? SAY WHAT?? Miss cc imagine yourself in the same situation and your husband tells you that honey' we should not take this housegirl in cos my bulge starts growing everytime I look at her' as a woman and a human being how would you feel? Women are emotional creatures and I for one will not take it lightly with him,  It would affect me emotionally and bring down my self esteem and I would throw it in his face everytime we have a fight. Callme childish,  At least I am being honest.

Some wife wont even see anything bad in their husband telling them he branched at an Ashi joint just before coming home while a lot would raise HELL.

Shebi some people have open marriages because both spouses can deal with it, The man knows his wife cant deal with such revelation without repeating it over and over

@ invincible

such a scenario can NEVER happen to me.

We know Uju is superhuman

But if it did, I'll jokingly tell my husband that his driver is cute and might be difficult to resist. If that doesn't do the trick, I'll lie and tell him that the guy was 'cutting eye for me' during the interviw! if that still doesn't do it, I'll find a way to keep my libido in check. I wont let my husband loose someone he truly likes because I'm an ashewo!

We know you are superhuman, We are actually talking about mere mortals who can fall into temptations like most of us.

BlueDiva:
@ Cougar/sauron

The game has been canceled, deal with it.
When next we meet, we'll whoop your backside.

I would also love to spank that bootay

I just weak for you.

If only you know what you are playing with

Hi Ifyalways

armyofone:
Marriage for nigeria na suffer head o.
imagine those strong clothes, jeans, heavy khaki pant, skid marks pant etc all na woman go wash am eyaaa

thank goodness for washing machine, just put him clothes inside pour soap and go read my magazine or flip channel. if i remember to put am for dryer, good. if i no remember, then i think you get hand, 2 for that matter. siddon there dey wait for me. when i get done painting my fingers, i will get back to the dryer that is if am not too tired or getting ready for work or class. i must make money too abi?

gosh!!

We dont even need to wash our clothes as long as we hump all day and night

This thread is hilarious.

Subscribing

Ujujoan:
I am NOT crucifying him oh. Why would I? Like you said, I'm no saint. But when I do something wrong, I admit to it and not expect a pat on the back.

True, attraction is NOT a choice, but acting on it. The man doesn't want the girl around because he won't be able to control his urges against her. Abeg how is that a good thing?

Acting on attraction is not 100% voluntary either.

If a guy wants to quit smoking, Should he go and sit in the midst of smokers?. The guy admitted that this is a 18yr old pretty girl and he did the right thing which is to avoid her coming near.

Ujujoan:
Dayo
Now my problem is that you guys are encouraging him. Whether he tells her or not, he has failed her. Telling is not so important when the deed has already being done.

How has he failed his wife? By being attracted to another girl? So if you are attracted to another man you have failed your boyfriend/Husband? Help me understand.

The issue for me  is 'is he right by being attracted to a teenager or not? To the extent that he can't control himself'? I don't think he is and the only way to redeem himself is to ask himself why a little girl can threathen his marriage because that is NOT normal. His poor wife on the other hand needs to know that her husband is lusting after little girls. She deserves to know that her marriage is in trouble!

Is he right to be attracted to a female apart from his wife YES,

Is he right to avoid the scenario from degenerating ABSOLUTELY YES.

Uju, If you are attracted to another man aside your boyfriend, have you commited a sin? I dont think so.

If you dont try to avoid the likelihood of committing the sin and end up doing IT, Then you are wrong

But even if he's too ashamed to tell her, I think she deserves more than an insensitive 'I don't like her'!

Give suggestions on possible explanation that your BF can give to you in such instance that would suffice.

Ujujoan:
@ Dayo

Are you saying a man is right to sleep with his househelp as far as she's hot

Is the man trying to sleep with the househelp? I think its the other way round, He is trying to avoid it or where did you get the idea from that he is trying to sleep with her?

Because I think the issue here is if his actions are justified or not. It's one thing to admire or crush over someone and it's another to be sexually attracted to the person to the extent that you can no longer control yourself. Now I dont expect this man to be above that, but don't except his wife to be happy about it.

And maybe I can't help if I'm attracted to my husband's hot Driver, but am I supposed to say it to him and expect him to 'understand'

Where has the man told his wife explicitly that he is attracted to the househelp and expecting his wife to understand? Isnt that the reverse of what the situation is?

@Uju,

I am sure most women (probably)including you still have crush on some guys that are not your bf or your husband.

Are you saying after being married, Everyone else stop being attractive to you?

If your husband now decides to employ a guy you find attractive as a househelp, Would you go ahead and tell him that the new houseboy makes you wet?

armyofone:
when you find a guy who wouldn't make you cook till you drop dead, even it takes you toothless years to do that, sure that's the time
who wan die for kitchen  

When Hauwa return from war

Ujujoan:
. If a full grown man can lust after his teenage prospective househelp, then he's not so high on morals. That IMO is the real reason why he doesn't want to tell his wife why he's rejecting her.


He can go ahead and reject the househelp, but it doesn't change the fact that he has failed his wife!

I'm surprised sha that men think being faithful is some sort of big virtue, when in actual fact, it's what is ordinarily expected in a marriage.

Did you see the comments in bold? Now How many married men would not be turn on by a pretty 18yr old? Thats why I said married people are still flesh and blood not Stone and wood.

I have asked that why is the Pope who is high on morals not surrounded by hot 18yr old babes

CC,

How far as per wetin we talk?

Merry Xmas to you too.

The fact that people are married doesnt stop them from being human.

In case you dont know,

Married women still see some guys out there and have hots for them, Married men still have erections looking at other women or girls

But any sensible woman/man would try to avoid the girl/guy instead of hanging around him/her and trying to resist the devil.

Wife is pregnant and possibly lost appetite for sex, Young nubile Househelp is around with Pointed Booby. Perfect recipe for trouble

Mutter, I believe there are some roles fit for men and roles for women.

It would likewise be a shame on the husband to be home and the wife trying to fix her car, electrical gadgets, mow the lawn or carry heavy loads.

If you say the husband should do his laundry, then the wife should also fix her car whenever it needs to be done.

Each should do their own thing, Husband cook his food, wife cook hers maybe that would satisfy the women of nowadays who see every female chore in the house as being treated as a slave.

We have seen different topics on here, Husband should help with cooking, help with laundry, help with kids, Is there anything left that the woman can do alone?

I bow for the hopelessness of your club o

Why not Kaita or yakubu