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onatisi: MY POINT IS THAT THIS BULLSHIT IS GETTING CLOSE.IGBIRA PPL CONSIDER THEMSELVES TO BE YORUBAS IF I AM NOT MISTAKEN,I DONT THINK WE NEED TO SHY AWAY FROM THE TRUTH BEAF SAID IT EARLIER THIS GROUP IS NOT TOTALLY A NORTHERN GROUP,WHICH MEANS THEY CAN STRIKE ANYWHERE AT ANYTIME,AND THEY WILL BE ABLE TO MELT EASILY AMONG US ,THAT IS MY POINT

Its only to mor0ns that Ebira would consider themselves yoruba to.

What next? Igala, Nupe, Tapa, Agatu also consider themselves yoruba?

afam4eva: He was unlucky to be at the wrong place possibly at the wrong time. I know America has more security but it's sad when a 5 year old boy just kills his mother, father and siblings. Who does that? It's that kind of psychotic crimes that scares me about America.

Afam another one

What did Mrs Wilkie do wrong?

https://www.nairaland.com/1008733/naval-brutality-sapele

ronkebp: oh!!!!!....what natural disaster do you have there then?....actually someone just told me tornadoes!!!! so they have tornadoes .

hurricane in houston e.g Hurricane Rita, and Iyke

Tornado hit some suburbs of Dallas early this year

steph7: Me too, I don't know what to expect in marriage again o! Seems like its a lot of stress and work. So as a wife I'm not allowed to lose my cool once in a blue moon and talk back to my husband. Must I always be in agreement with my husband ? What really should I expect when I get married ? I guess love doesn't conquer all.

Is your husband also allowed to lose his cool and talk back to you?

Knowing what most naija women are It wont be a surprise that maybe things just took a downward turn for the husband two months ago and the wife started throwing tantrums

I have a friend whose wife would complain how lazy he is, That she was the one paying all the bills for the past 4 yrs of marriage.

When both the man and the wife were called it was discovered that the man lost his bank Job in December and by March the wife was already screaming to the high heavens that he is irresponsible even in the presence of family, kids and neighbours.

The woman obviously couldnt deny it cos the man brought his bank statements out to show his expenses on the house for 4yrs before his job loss.

The man revealed the kind of humiliation meted out to him in the last 2 months by his wife who enjoyed his own money when he was working.

Whenever that guys gets another job or comes into money. lets see how he would act and Maybe the wife would come on Nl to post how wicked her Husband is

dedeike: Ignorance is when you log into Nairaland to turn a blind eye to all the numerous achievements recorded by this govt in one year.

Ignorance is when you pass through Apapa-Oshodi and pretend you don't see the reconstruction work by Julius Berger on that road.

Ignorance is when you see the dedicated bridge linking river pool roundabout to Tin can and pretend it doesn't exist.

Ignorance is when you don't know that Benin-Ore-Sagamu was a hideous eyesore abandoned by previous govts in Nigeria but GEJ is now doing it.

Ignorance is when you saw the award for the construction of second Niger Bridge and Dualisation of the second phase of Kaduna-Maidugri topics on Nairaland, you exit the thread thinking no one will notice.

Ignorance is when you don't know anything about the massive reforms in our oil sector and the provisions of PIB

ignorance is when you dont know anything about ongoing power sector reforms, revival of NIPP, refurbishment of power plants, and the significant improvement in power nationwide

Lies is when dedeike logs in to NL and credits retardeen Jonathan for Ibadan-Ilorin road whose contract was awarded in 2000 and has been in use since 2010

[quote author=Efemena_xy]That's not true and you know it Dayo.

The bottom line here is about someone who wants to eat his cake and have it.

Mark my words, it's just a matter of time before a r[i]e[/i]t[b]a[/b]rd opens up a thread here with the title: OMG!! My wife's poo isn't blue in color. Should I divorce her??[/quote]Ok tell me the point of the previous female posters who affirmed it that once a man cant leave money for food, he doesnt deserve to eat. Or even serve him an empty plate .

And you think the man isnt noticing this? Once money comes you would now have threads like My husband doesnt regard me.

Thats why Naija women most of the time deserve no pity.

A Man should pay every of their bills, buy them weaves, buy them phones, buy them cars, buy them pads. So what do naija women contribute to the running of the house

Useless police.

They can foil attempts on PDP secretariat but not on churches

[quote author=Efemena_xy]^^ Okay!

I guess the question then is: WHAT DOES EVERYBODY WANT SEF??

And no, I don't support starving your fellow human being, be it man, woman or child.

But for those pig-headed twerps that demand absolute submissiveness from their wives, total control of her thoughts and actions, and dominance over everything she does, then surely a simple basic task of providing food for his family should not be an issue?

After all, if the average Nigerian guy wishes to act the part of a caveman, going by the threads opened up here of recent, then he should go out and hunt and gather like they did! Abi??[/quote]And if the man is the sole provider and the woman is just sitting like a piece of furniture, then shouldnt the man have the right to clear her out together with other pieces of furniture occupying the space at home?


So the bottom line on this thread is that once a man cant provide money for his house regardless of the circumstance he is not worthy to be a husband

Honestly with the attitude of most naija women, I see no reason to blame the men who treat them like trash.

They both deserve each other

[quote author=Efemena_xy]And what if the guy has got a job and the means to provide the basic needs for the family, but chooses to spend it outside / on girlfriends?

How d'you know he isn't saving up to get a second wife so he can ditch the first one, because suddenly, she looks "old" to him?

What if the wife's decided not to "drag" trousers with him, so he should fulfil his role as the Alpha and Omega, the sole provider and head of the home?

Honestly, sometimes you guys are hard to fathom. If a woman works her fingers to the bone, pregnancy or not, serves the man his dinner whilst kneeling on the floor, he won't be satisfied. He'll find faults because she placed the knife/fork/spoon/cup in the wrong geographical position.

If she chooses to let him run the ship i.e be the sole provider, he'll complain that she's lazy, non supportive, etc.

If he goes to the toilet and she wipes his a$$ for him, he'll still complain that she used toilet rolls instead of baby soft wipes!

Honestly, WHAT DO YOU GUYS WANT SEF??[/quote]In this particular instance do you know the details?

In a marriage when did the man become sole provider? if the man is supposed to be sole provider what does the woman contribute into the union?

if a woman doesnt contribute nada and she chose to be just a property and not a co-owner in the house then she deserves to be discarded anytime she is past her use date like other properties in the house?

So you are in support of starving the man whenever he doesnt provide money for food?

So now tell me why a woman should eat if she too doesnt contribute to the running of the house?

Like I said when it comes to responsibilities, women remember the man is the head, when it comes to benefits, they remember they are equal partners

WHAT DO WOMEN WANT SEF?

ronkebp: I think it depends on how the home had been run from the beginning...

- are there shared responsiblities? is the woman taking care of the kitchen while the man pays other bills in the home?

- is the man jobless ( has never worked, 'full house husband" or he just lost his job and the woman stepped into the situation to help out)?

- Is the woman a full house wife and has no income and solely depends on the husband?

- Is the man just not interested in footing the bill when he knows that his wife is N0 3 above?

Now we are talking!!!

Count the number of women above who have condemned and called the man names before even knowing the details.

You sef check am is that right?

Truckpusher: ... Define cluelessness or you just dey open your gutter becos too many idiots are opening theirs?

Cluelessness is when a President tells us we have to pray for criminals to confess.

Cluelessness is when a President tells us we have to endure terror attacks

Cluelessness is when a president gallivants all over the globe while the country is burning

Cluelessness is when a presidnet tells you he cant visit Boko haram zones for over a year because there is nowhere to land.

Cluelessness is when a president comes on air to exonerate a terror group on Octber 1 2010 before the smokes of the bomb even settled

Cluelessness is when a president makes himself the spokesman of a terror group who has killed several citizens

kulyie: @ tgirl theres always a trying tym in everymans life (financially) and d woman has to b supportive and understandin,dis is where d man nids d woman to b supportive yet humble and respectful,howeva wen tables turn around and things r rosy with d man and he starts givin me stories instead of money,ehen,we can stat dragin our shirts

Exactly,

if the man doesnt have money and you ridicule him even with something like food. Then hopefully when he has the money he would treat the wife too like the trash she is

Ujujoan: @ Poster

Please STOP playing the perfect wife!

Your concerns now should be the health of your child and not trying to ensure your husband goes to work with a lunch box! Isn't there any mama put close to his office? Why do you keep complicating things for yourself.

Listen, a man will only remain stubborn and strong headed if you let him.

Once in a while go all cr[i]az[/i]y on him so he'll know you can also be stubborn.

Dont, I repeat DONT, let a man get away with treating you badly, no matter what!

If he refuses to give you a pillow, snatch it from him and hit his head with it.

If he refuses to put off the ac, switch it off yourself and break the controls to pieces.

Yes you are tempramental, it's your right as a 9-month old pregnant wife!

Stubborn men only respect you when you show them your own strenght. Trust me, I'm talking from experience.

I belive that any woman can make her man into who/what she wants him to be. If you try the gentle way and it's not working, then get violent.

Remember this is only the beginning. When you have your child things will get tougher. You CANNOT cope with your husband if you keep letting him get away with all that.

Just my 2 cents!

Since the woman would be the one to introduce violence into the relationship, I hope she can go the whole lenght when everything in the house turns to fistcuffs and exchange of blows.

Its funny you think the wife can resort to violence and get away with it

Remember this is Nigeria, Wife beaters get away with it even the society would ask you whats new in husband beating wife.

With most of these approach the wife would eventually lose. I dont think a 9 month pregnant woman should be courting violence

See women.

Now tell me why a housewife deserves to eat when she doesnt contribute anything to the family.

Tgirl you story isnt complete, Does the guy have a job, Does he have money? is he using his money to do something greater for the family like building a house or paying school fees?

Even if he doesnt drop maybe because he doesnt have the means that makes you to starve him and he is no longer the head of the family?

na wa oo. You now see why most Nigerian men think little of the women because they know they are only there when things are rosy and they can drop money for food, the moment they cant drop money, they are no longer worthy to be called husbands

That woman you are talking about is a shame to women. What happened to for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness in health

I really cant understand how most women reason

Mrs Cotton Idibia

How far? Good morning

duduspace: RVP's true nature comes out. If he is not interested, Manure won't be after him and making this much noise in the media.
Can anyone imagine Del Piero signing for AC Milan from Juventus? That boy doesnt respect us end of, and we will show him in exactly the same way the Barca fans showed Figo back in the day.
So, after Manure have been soundly trounced in the money games with PSG over Moura, they want to salvage their wretched transfer summer by buying RVP?

Okay naa, I siddon dey look. Arsene and Gazidis, over to you.

DelPiero has nly played for one club all his Life and thats Juve, Same with totti and maldini.

GAYYners like you are forgetting they bought RvP from Feyenoord, So if you are yarning tripe, What should feyenoord fans do?

BTW, Baggio left Juventus for Inter for AC, Vieri did the same, Inzaghi did the same, Ronaldo Lima too

edoyad: Teeeheeeheeeeeeeheeee

It's so funny when you act dumb on purpose.

PS: Name one, just one DM in the Bundesliga that any UCL team coach would pick over Song. And I beg you not to ridicule yourself by mentioning people like those your Bayern players

Luis Gustavo over Song, Sven bender over Song those 2 for a start. Not to mention Anatoly Tymoschuk

Pray

This is what National discourse has been lowered to?

While boko Haram and MEND ravage the country, the elders are in a Diick measuring contest of who is more retardeed.

Well Retardeen jonathan still holds the first position, you need to struggle for second place

Cluelessness is an impeachable offence

Another session like below?

See mumu in action

https://farm5.static.flickr.com/4112/5018900473_5a9bcb9266.jpg

GEJ: What can I do for you ma.

Hilary : Whats your name

GEJ: They call me Jona, Sometimes Azikwe, or Goofluck, Ibos call me Odechuckwu, Yorubas call me Ademumu, Hausas call me Abdul-clueless, Moslems call me RETARDeen. So you choose anyone.

Hillary: Good. What are you core competences

GEJ: Ask Madam Turai, I can cut grass, catch fish, Wash bra and pant, cook and clean even prepare Akpu. Most importantly I obey orders

Hillary: Thats impressive, Oya lemme see how you can obey. Odechukwu shine your teeth

GEJ: [img]http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSUIMNYkQFPJg8jflub7zMYgSKUiuVq5L0S0GfRlonPS6rcfmtJ[/img]

Hilary: (Covers nose) Thats ok. Oya close your teeth. Now make sure you appoint Jega as INEC chair he was recommended by CPC and Buhari

GEJ: Yes ma

Not only are Liverpool also interested in a loan deal for Real Madrid midfielder Sahin, but Arsenal are unlikely to pursue him unless they end up selling Alex Song .

Barcelona and Bayern Munich are both interested in the Gunners' midfielder, but Song is under contract until 2015 and Arsenal are in no rush to sell.http://www.mirror.co.uk/sport/football/transfer-news/arsenal-transfers-nuri-sahin-yann-1232344

http://www.fussballtransfers.com/bundesliga/fc-bayern-arsenal-star-als-alternative-fur-martinez_29863


How true is the rumour that Song is leaving cos bigger teams like Bayern and Barca are looking at getting him. Even though i think this is a dumb transfer.

Song is one of the least disciplined DM in the trade. I would take Martinez for 30m than take Song for 15. Even I would take Mikel over Song

Not only are Liverpool also interested in a loan deal for Real Madrid midfielder Sahin, but Arsenal are unlikely to pursue him unless they end up selling Alex Song .

Barcelona and Bayern Munich are both interested in the Gunners' midfielder, but Song is under contract until 2015 and Arsenal are in no rush to sell.http://www.mirror.co.uk/sport/football/transfer-news/arsenal-transfers-nuri-sahin-yann-1232344

http://www.fussballtransfers.com/bundesliga/fc-bayern-arsenal-star-als-alternative-fur-martinez_29863


How true is the rumour that Song is leaving cos bigger teams like Bayern and Barca are looking at getting him. Even though i think this is a dumb transfer.

Song is one of the least disciplined DM in the trade. I would take Martinez for 30m than take Song for 15. Even I would take Mikel over Song

mpumalanga: They will touch the man because they are not like the two brothers in festac.
You know the story.

You mean like Chief Vincent Duru did to Ikechukwu Okonkwo at otokoto hotels

cotton101: he is not on NL - the type of job he does has made him a topic of conversation on NL.

No disrespect but if his family can't get thru to him strangers will not. This used to bother me a lot but now I'm less fussed as I have moved on. I just wonder how someone wakes up and does this everyday, and I hope when he hears I have remarried he does not decide to show his face.

Thanks for all the comments at least i'm not the only one that thinks this behaviour if bad and strange. I kept the door wide open and went over and above to try and help him show interest but no one can force another human being to be responsible and act right.

You mean you also had a child for 2face Idibia?

[quote author=One_Naira]LMFAO comedy

He is a big fat NOBODY!!!! Unfeared, easily deafeated but big mouted whimp. That is what adekunle is FACT. He got demoted simply because he lost every fight he got in. If not for the fact im using my phone. To type all this, i would included links to help you out. Someone even posted the links on other threads. Google it. Noone knew him FACT, very few knew him, abd most learned about him on this very site. I f2king dare to go to any igbo community you can think of and ask them who adekunle or black scorpion was, i bet less than 1% will even recognized the name talkless his action pr rather yet lack of action. Go to the ex-biafran soilders and do the same thing, and the answer would be the same. I dare you, i double dare you. Lmfaoooo.


Sorry to break it to you but your black scorpion was a NOBODY. Lmfaooo, my uncle told me if any soilder was seen as ikemba, information traveled around biafra soilders like wildfire in an effort to warn the soilders so prepare themselves incase they ever ran into the said person. Lmfaooo yet black scorpion did not even reach his barracks neither my bf's father barracks. Both men were stationed in different barracks. ROFLMFAO @ SHOOTING TARGETS yet they barely talked about him nor did they even know him. Plus he lost every fight. Comedy to say the least[/quote]Read about him from your Ibo website

http://www.kwenu.com

Yebariba samboribobo :O :O

MRbrownJAY: ^^ come back!!!!!! let me "settle" you since you seem to be a Murray connaisseur:
A) Murray has been dating his gf since WAY BEFORE he ever played proper tennis, or won any tournament for that matter (they have been dating since 2005, and became official in 2006)

B) he turned pro in 2005, so that means he has earned a little over $2m per yr from professional tennis....i dont know about you, but to me thats not being successful AT ALL, many can do just that by simply entering as many tournaments as they possibly can and losing well before the semis!
btw remember that he has to pay for all them flights, trainers fee etc so a lot of the money goes out of his pocket as soon as it goes in, lol!

C) he has only won 23 single titles in his whole career......again, i dont know about you but that is NOT successful in terms of tennis....especially when NONE of these tournaments were grand slam OR that this guy has been pro for 8 long yrs.

so again, the reason he ever won ANY match (let alone tournaments) could possibly be thanks to his gf, since she has been with him from way back when he was a NOBODY!

as for court and marriage, anything that was gained DURING marriage must be shared with the person you decided to become ONE with......unless these vows were made in a drunken state, lol!

So MBJ.

let me now throw another twist.

Assuming tomorrow, Andy murray breaks up with his gf and marries another girl called Sandra, So what would Sandra have contributed to his life to deserve half of his fortunes he laid a foundation for before he even knew Sandra

So if by tomorrow, I build my house on 3rd Mainland bridge, the govt should come and relocate my and also pay me compensation

Ask the makoko residents who gave them the land they built their houses on?

Antivirus92: Sometimes i wonder why it's always the yorubas that jump up to insult any thread that have igbo/biafra on it. If nigeria divides today, the hausas/northeners have their surplus land to farm on. Igbos have coal,limestone and oil, niger-delta have oil also.but yorubas have nothing natural resources to hold unto.they are not good business group, they are not enterprising. So i wonder what gave them the gut to talk to the igbos.

I laff in Gurumaharaji


With all these things you claim Igbos have why dont they go back to their villages? Why are they always in Kano, lagos Portharcourt etc,

Some Ibos would rather die in Damanturu than go back to their cursed land

mpumalanga: He lost your so called election but his civility and exposure made him to accept
it like a great man he is but the champion of a mere geographical expression could not deliver his region
to his party and wanted to devour the popular omoboriowo and olunloyo.
I can see that the bitterness you have because of akinttola's death is eating
you to the extent that you don't have a line in what you can say about people.

I REFUSE TO BE LIKE YOU.

I am proud Akintola fought to his death like a man even when as a civilian facing soldiers unlike a popular soldier who fled to Abidjan.

Shortly afterward, a detachment of soldiers led by Captain Emmanuel Nwobosi arrived at Akintola’s residence. Upon sighting the soldiers, Akintola opened fire – lightly wounding a few of them including Capt Nwobosi. After bravely fighting for his life and engaging the soldiers in a gunfight, Akintola was shot dead by Nwobosi and his men.

http://www.kwenu.com/publications/siollun/1966_coup2.htm

The bolded is what valiant men do, They dont wear G-string and run to Abidjan in the heat of war. A military warlord commanding an army and fleeing to Abidjan in the heat of war must be the lowest thing any human can do

Ojuku is a disgrace to all men of Uniform even Man O war, Boy Scout, Civil Defence and traffic wardens would be ashamed of such act