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PoliticsRe: This Is No Time For Strike Threats, NURTW Tells NLC by ddeola: 1:27am On Sep 04, 2023
Agberos don enter power undecided undecided undecided
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Will You Hire Him? by ddeola: 1:24am On Sep 04, 2023
Na to ask am when e wan start to dey use dat talent work for my IT firm nau. grin grin grin grin grin

If you no employ am...remember what happened in 1972. grin grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by ddeola: 5:09pm On Sep 02, 2023
I too know and I too sabi attitude sad sad sad sad sad sad
SportsRe: Toni Kroos on players moving to Saudi Arabia: “They Go For Money” by ddeola: 1:33am On Sep 01, 2023
What is ruining football is racism not players moving to where they love to play. If these people are honest, then they must see football as the same everywhere. Any league that can attract top players should do so, football entertainment is not meant to be enjoyed in only one continent shikena. sad sad sad sad sad
Foreign AffairsRe: President Paul Biya Changes Military Formation In Cameroon by ddeola: 2:04pm On Aug 31, 2023
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Appeal Court Upholds ₦50M Damages Against Abbo For Slapping Intima Gadget Seller by ddeola: 1:19am On Aug 31, 2023
Sex-toy senator sad sad sad sad sad sad
FamilyRe: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by ddeola: 6:42am On Aug 30, 2023
Your husband has really disappointed you no b lie but really there's nothing new under the sun. You need to handle the situation with godly wisdom and carefulness because it's your home we are talking about, it must not crash for vultures outside to come and take over. I believe your husband loves you but he just can't handle that side very well (konji na bastard when e hold you especially if you can't control yourself), am not trying to excuse your hubby but am just trying to help you see that he can still be faithful to you if he can handle the situation well going forward. Am not a relationship expert but I will suggest the following steps if one or two will help:
1. Take the matter to God in prayers. your closest ally here is God and He will fight for you. Reclaim your husband from all these strange women (the girl might not be the only one in the picture). Decree no more erection for him when he's with another woman. Take charge in the spirit because the Bible say em bodi na your own and your bodi na em own in marriage. Decree that every other woman’s “thing” should become irritating like gutter to him say na only your own “thing” go dey appealing to am. Decree that anytime konji hold am, you will be the only woman on his mind and na only your “thing” must dey hungry am to “chop”.
2. Have a heart-to-heart talk with your hubby, don’t be confrontational and don’t raise your voice of fight with him. Let him know how you discovered that he is sleeping with d girl and express how it broke your heart and betrays your confidence in him. Let him know that:
- He put both of you in danger by sleeping with her without protection STDs can destroy any marriage. My own elder sister’s husband gave her HIV, now they are separated but not divorced even their daughter also have HIV. This is a truth am sharing with you
- He is hindering his own prayers because God will never grant his prayers because of unfaithfulness (whether you discovered or not it is still d same because nothing is hidden before God)
- He has united himself with strange forces/spirits by sleeping with another woman. You can’t tell the level of damage spiritually because you don’t know what these ladies have gotten themselves into and when they sleep with a man, they share their demons
- One woman is enough to give him sexual satisfaction all his life. He just needs to be creative and spice up your marital bed. The main thing a man needs in sex is satisfaction, as long as you can give him that satisfaction most of the time even if not all the time it will help
- He can be faithful to you whether or not there are other ladies that are coming at him freely. He only needs to make up his mind to stop being unfaithful and God will help him.
3. Get him to make a commitment never to sleep with any other woman again but you only. You should also make the same commitment to him.
4. You may need to find out why he fell into the habit. e.g. maybe you started it by being unfaithful to him, maybe you no dey give am well or you no dey service em “thing” as he liked, maybe you dey always give excuse when em wan do, maybe you don’t appeal to him sexually like wearing wrapper all d time wey your appearance no dey give an erection, he is your husband you must always seduce him, make him want to grab you and do nasty things if he gets the opportunity, afterall na em get dat “honeypot” let him lick, drink, and be drunk with you ecstasy, that is the only place he is permitted by God to get really jiggy allow him explore the kingdom and chop till “belle-ful” everytime, he no go see another woman again etc. To be honest, if he stops, you have to fill in the gap for him, grant him full access anytime and everytime he wan “chop”, you also must pursue him constantly and regularly say you wan “chop”or say make he come “chop”. (At times, when a man is getting full satisfaction and is well-serviced at home, he will not be bothered about wetin dem dey throw for em face outside, he will always look away)
5. Pray together, forgive each other, hold hands and promise to work on your marriage and ensure that there is no crack for any funny thing to creep in. If your marriage sweet well well, na una go enjoy am with una children. Be a good Christian or Muslim (I don’t know your faith) and render quality worship to God
6. Pray, pray and never stop praying for your husband, you are his watchman, his backbone, his ally, his everything only after God. He will be absolutely helpless without you, so you are that important in his life as his wife (some men don’t know this unfortunately)
7. Be a blessing to him and the whole world. May God make your home a model home worthy of emulation and not an excuse to avoid in Jesus name
FamilyRe: Should Nigeria Limit Children Born Into Each Family In This Economy? by ddeola: 1:51am On Aug 28, 2023
God's commandment remains be fruitful and multiply shikena !
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Losing 400,000 Barrels Of Crude Oil To Thieves Daily: NSA Ribadu by ddeola: 1:26am On Aug 28, 2023
That you people know the exact figure makes the whole thing suspicious. 400,000 barrels no b 4litres. undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Music/RadioRe: Afrobeat Is Nothing, Lacks Substance- Burna Boy by ddeola: 1:15pm On Aug 27, 2023
Na una misquote Burna. I honestly don't listen to all these our young artistes including Burna Boy himself because dem no get content, I mean real message. If na lie, please listen to any old song by Ebenezer Obey, Orlando Owoh, Sunny Ade, Haruna Ishola, Fela Anikulapokuti etc. you will see what Burna is talking about. I feel sorry for the young generation who are being fed with junks in the name of music and entertainment. Some of dem don do 10 different remix of just one song and they claim they are creative. Abeg, make una rethink and doll out correct songs, you all can do it. wink wink wink
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Swore In Serving NYSC Member, Hannatu Musawa As Minister by ddeola: 1:36am On Aug 25, 2023
I never hear dis wan before o, say person abandon NYSC and then after some years he come again say e wan serve. Naija! undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
PoliticsRe: We’ll Release Tinubu’s Records If Court Grants Atiku’s Application, Says CSU by ddeola: 1:23am On Aug 25, 2023
I think the school should just confirm whether he attended the school and state when he graduated, etc. not to release his academic record to a third party, especially politicians. undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Foreign AffairsRe: Niger: ECOWAS Denies Influence Of ‘Foreign Power’, Insists On Independence by ddeola: 1:33am On Aug 24, 2023
The day you people start war in West Africa and destabilize the region una eyes go clear say una be FOOLS ! Awon BAD LEADERS buruku!

Some external forces are pushing you people to kill your brothers and cause chaos among una own people. It's so unfortunate that the same people who divided us with borders are still the ones making it difficult to for our people to live in peace and harmony. Meanwhile , they are busy exploiting, raping and impoverishing Africa. SHAME ! undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
FamilyRe: After 9 Years Of Trying My Wife Finally Gave Birth by ddeola: 1:25am On Aug 24, 2023
Congratulations !
PoliticsRe: We Won’t Tell Lies To Defend Govt – Information Minister, Muhammed Idris by ddeola: 1:22am On Aug 22, 2023
Tell this to Lai Mohammed and Femi Adesina. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
FoodRe: Concoction Native Jollof Rice Recipe | Palm Oil Rice With No Tomatoes (Photos) by ddeola: 1:10am On Aug 22, 2023
With all these ingredients why not kuku cook jollof rice or white rice and correct fried stew. Those days, we cook "concor" because ingredients no dey or e no reach.

Common , you can do better than this with all these ingredients. grin grin grin grin grin
Foreign AffairsRe: Turkiye President, Erdogan, Opposes military intervention in Niger by ddeola: 1:03am On Aug 22, 2023
It is a SHAME that African leaders didn't see this until the Turkish president is telling them. War and instability in West Africa on top of all the present hardship will favour "some"demons - I mean people. undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Foreign AffairsRe: Malian & Burkinabe Troops Arrive Niger Amidst Cheers From Nigeriens by ddeola: 12:50pm On Aug 21, 2023
Africans are not wise, outsiders instigate them to kill themselves and they do it with pride. undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
CelebritiesRe: Police To Arrest Farida Abdukabir Who Attempted Suicide Over Failed Marriage by ddeola: 8:11am On Aug 20, 2023
The guy should be arrested instead and the marriage annulled because it's based on deceit and the guy tried for extortion and deceit. The law should have its course. undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
SportsRe: Victor Osimhen Mobbed By His Fans Making Him Visibly Angry (pics/video) by ddeola: 8:00am On Aug 20, 2023
Calm down ogbeni. grin grin grin grin
Foreign AffairsRe: Niger: ECOWAS Delegation Meets Ousted Bazoum by ddeola: 7:55am On Aug 20, 2023
Thank God say ua no allow outsiders use una to start war wey go spread across west Africa. undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Music/RadioRe: Nairalanders, Pls Rate My Music by ddeola: 2:40pm On Aug 10, 2023
Nice one bro 7.5/10. wink wink wink wink

No worry you go "blow" by God's grace
FamilyRe: Men Can You Bath Your Wife, Wash Her Clothes And Do Chores, IF She Is Pregnant by ddeola: 3:43am On Aug 09, 2023
A man should do all for his wife all the time afterall na you dey "gbensh" your "thing". sad sad sad
HealthRe: Physical Effects Of Eating Spaghetti by ddeola: 3:17am On Aug 09, 2023
Na food allegy o, e be like say you dey allergic to pasta. No chop am again
SportsRe: Basketball: Liz Cambage Says She's In Talks To Represent Nigeria by ddeola: 8:42am On Aug 08, 2023
The team doesn't need her simple ! wink wink wink wink
PoliticsRe: Tinubu’s Cabinet: SWAGA Expresses Displeasure Over Exclusion Of Its Members by ddeola: 1:29am On Aug 07, 2023
shocked shocked shocked
PoliticsRe: Olubunmi Tunji-Ojo In NYSC Certificate Controversy by ddeola: 1:14am On Aug 07, 2023
CRIMINALS ! angry angry angry angry angry
PoliticsRe: We’re Ready To Be Aso Rock Sweepers, Miyetti Allah Begs Tinubu For Appointment by ddeola: 7:22am On Aug 05, 2023
Ehen, change is the only constant thing in this life o so Miyetti troubler can be humble like this
SportsRe: Zambian Coach Bruce Mwape Accused Of Rubbing Player’s Chest At World Cup by ddeola: 7:10am On Aug 05, 2023
Abegi, make dem leave dem biko. The players are all adults, if no player ever complains people should please mind their business. Yes the coach may be a man, the players usually treat them as friends. Una never see female players jumping on their coach and even carry their coach up. Please don't kill their team spirit na everybody know how dem dey bond for their teams. sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad
PoliticsRe: Dr Bosun Tijani's Old Tweet Surfaces by ddeola: 9:08am On Aug 03, 2023
The internet never forgets. sad sad sad sad
PoliticsRe: Okoye Blessing Nwakaego Jailed 3 Years For Cyberstalking Eniola Badmus by ddeola: 3:48am On Aug 03, 2023
Hmm...dem go dey dey careful now wey one of dem don chop 3 years sentence. sad sad sad sad sad
PoliticsRe: Hannatu Musawa Weeps During Senate Screening, Says She Comes From Poor Family by ddeola: 1:52am On Aug 03, 2023
She dey shed tears now, make we see who go shed tears when she don become minister. undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

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