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CelebritiesRe: Kanye West: I Caught Chris Paul With Kardashian by DearGorgeous(f): 2:59pm On Dec 02, 2022
ahnie:
Honestly .
If you checkam well most of them are housed,clothed and even fed by Nigerian women.
Truly. Sometimes I even wonder if it's not a NIGERIAN woman that gave birth to them. We're enduring a lot in the hands of these boys/men. Always talking down on us on social media. God help us ooo.
CelebritiesRe: Kanye West: I Caught Chris Paul With Kardashian by DearGorgeous(f): 2:53pm On Dec 02, 2022
God, I thank you that Kim is not a Nigerian, otherwise, by now, my ear drum would be buzzing how that every Nigeria woman is a w*hore/ olosho, for the sins that A Kim Kardashian committed ooo.

Lord have mercy. To be a Nigerian woman is really no longer easy, abeg!
O Planet Mars, await my relocation.
RomanceRe: Husband Crashes His Car After He Caught His Wife Kissing Her Boyfriend by DearGorgeous(f): 2:24pm On Dec 01, 2022
TheChameleon:
Lol. Can be a fake story.
Not a fake story when it's from Kenya, Uganda,
Zimbabwe and our own Igando Magistrate Court grin here in Lagos. They always have weird events happening in those localities, Olohun.
RomanceRe: How I Lost Everything In Just 7 DAYS :'( by DearGorgeous(f): 6:45pm On Nov 28, 2022
Seyiemath:
My bad smiley smiley smiley smiley
Not a big deal, bro.
RomanceRe: How I Lost Everything In Just 7 DAYS :'( by DearGorgeous(f): 6:40pm On Nov 28, 2022
Seyiemath:
Thanks for the kind words broderly
Sisterly, actually.

You're welcome.
RomanceRe: How I Lost Everything In Just 7 DAYS :'( by DearGorgeous(f): 5:57pm On Nov 28, 2022
Seyiemath:
We definitely thank God for life
That's the right thing to do.

Life experience is usually a phase to usher in something greater, that's if we didn't give up along the way.

I wish you multiple recovery of every good thing you've lost.

Greater days ahead.
RomanceRe: How I Lost Everything In Just 7 DAYS :'( by DearGorgeous(f): 4:44pm On Nov 28, 2022
Thank God for your life, Op. Writing your life's experience clearly shows you overcame.
Nairaland GeneralRe: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by DearGorgeous(f): 9:35pm On Nov 27, 2022
Jackanda1:
Hello house. Is there any one that has this problem? It seems there is a part of my brain that is wired this way for years now.

While most people lie to escape punishment and blame etc, i tend to lie for no reason atall. Sometimes i need to lie further just to modify the initial lie.

Examples:
1. I went late to work because i had to take home some office files which i worked with all through the night. When asked, i lied to my boss that i had a compound dispute tha made me come late. Saying the truth would have earned me praises from my boss and saved me alot of stress.

2. I got injured at home. When my landlady asked how, i lied that i had a serious accident when going to work that morning.
I told her a long story about the accident scene and all. She was sympatizing with me and almost wept. embarassed

These are just few examples i can type now, there is more.

I can't help but lie most of the time i have conversation with people. Any advice?
John 8:44 (King James Version)

44 Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.

Na Bible talk am ooo.

My advice is that you should repent and give your life totally to God.
FamilyRe: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by DearGorgeous(f): 9:22pm On Nov 26, 2022
sisisioge:
Another way I would do it is.....I would come to Nigeria unannounced with some company. Stalk the family until they send the boy to go and sell pure water, then take him straight to the airport and straight to SA. I hope he has a passport. They stole him, I steal him back. Infact, I steal him back shortly after his father's denise a long time ago.
I prefer this method.
PoliticsRe: Pictures From APC Presidential Campaign Rally In Lagos by DearGorgeous(f): 5:05pm On Nov 26, 2022
alizma:
Tinubu will win the election.
Yes ooo!

In the dream actually!
PoliticsRe: The Moment Tinubu Arrived Teslim Balogun Stadium For Lagos Rally (Video) by DearGorgeous(f): 4:57pm On Nov 26, 2022
PrinceOfLagos:
They had to force market men and women to close shop and be at Tinubu campaign ground or lose there shops

Madness!!
That's their modus operandi, jare. Always applying force in everything they do!
RomanceRe: I Feel So Down And Depressed by DearGorgeous(f): 7:48pm On Nov 25, 2022
@Op, that feeling is all the lie of the devil, in order to make you feel worthless, forgotten and depressed. Please, don't fall for it!

At least you've a daughter right? You mentioned all that people around you have achieved that you haven't achieved yet. Now take time to reverse that thought - that's what you have that others don't have.

1. Do you know they're some married people that could give up everything they've to have just a child of their own?

2. Do you know they're people who toil day and night, yet they've nothing to show for it? They live from hand to mouth and some live on loan, borrowing to pay back at the end of the next month?

3. My sister, they're people somewhere now who have no place to lay their heads this night?

4. Do you know they're people who invested all their life's savings in a business that just crashed? And most of the capital was from bank loan with huge interest?

5. Op, do you also know that they're people that have the wherewithal of this world, yet they don't have health? Some are presently on oxygen!

I could go on and on, but the point I am trying to make is that you should seat down, take out a note book and begin to mention those 'seemingly little things/blessings' you think God has giving to you. List them, and you'll be amazed at God's benevolence over your life.

Most importantly, learn to praise and appreciate God. Draw nigh unto Him, and see Him pick you up from 'those ashes' of depressional thoughts.
Read books, meditate, listen to music as well, etc.

Finally, don't you ever give up! And stop comparing yourself to others, ok?

This advise comes from someone who has, in the past, felt same way as you're feeling now. But the Everlasting Arm of the Most High, dragged me out of that miry clay through a book I read, titled " When God Doesn't Make Sense' by James Dobson. That book spoke directly to my situation, and here I am today advicing you not to do it!

It is well with you, my sister. Even this time shall also pass, you'll see!

Take care.
AgricultureRe: What Would You Do With 50 Acres by DearGorgeous(f): 4:12pm On Nov 08, 2022
greenermodels:
If you have 50 acres of fertile farm land in the southwest, what would you do with it?
Give it to me first, and come back with this same question in a year's time.

Presently, my brain is already conjuring up different kinds of projects on that land!

Waiting for your handover call.
FamilyRe: TV, Printer, Hand Dryer , Gen , Computer For Sale by DearGorgeous(f): 6:16pm On Nov 07, 2022
harkinlaby77:
i have a semi new hp printer that i can sell to you, if you still need one
How much is the semi new HP printer then? Is it coloured or black and white?

I still need, if it's affordable, otherwise I'll hit computer village for fairly used one.
FamilyRe: TV, Printer, Hand Dryer , Gen , Computer For Sale by DearGorgeous(f): 8:33pm On Nov 06, 2022
You said the printer is N60k? I'm actually interested in the printer, but it's rather on the high side. What's your best buy, please?
PoliticsRe: 4-Million-Man March In Lagos: Obidients Are Ready (Photos) by DearGorgeous(f): 1:22pm On Sep 23, 2022
We're fully ready from this hood.
We Move!

We're exceeding 4Million sha. So you all know.
CrimeRe: Professor Zainab Duke Assaults Orderly, Charges Maids To Beat Her Up by DearGorgeous(f): 3:48pm On Sep 22, 2022
[quote author=kingthreat post=116899010]Question here is why should the police be trained on tax payer's money only to become orderlies in people's homes?
Second observation is why is it that yam legged women have a knack for assaulting their maids and staff who are fellow females like them?
[/quote



Zanaib is not an Igbo name. She's only married to a Duke, who could be a Niger Delta man, precisely from Cross River State.
CelebritiesRe: Buju Receives His Bentley Car Gift as Winner of Headies Next Rated Awards by DearGorgeous(f): 4:17pm On Sep 11, 2022
ASAPFERG:
money wet go reach build like 60 rooms standard hotel with pool, club, etc.
True talk, jare.

Bentley should pack one side, abeg.
CelebritiesRe: Buju Receives His Bentley Car Gift as Winner of Headies Next Rated Awards by DearGorgeous(f): 1:42pm On Sep 10, 2022
Viraltrends123:
Hater, this thread should be a thread of celebration. Someone won a Bentley Bentayga 2022 worth about 300 million naira, you are here saying rubbish.

As for the topic, Buju should just sell that toy in that same US, and use the money to build a big hotel in his state Ogun, or Lagos.
Wetin I wan use N300 million worth of car do in this era, nitori Olohun? The money I'll use to erect beautiful structures for rent, and/or acquire some properties in strategic locations bai?

I'll simply ask the organizers to give me the cash, even if they want to slash the price amount, I don't care. Kpatapa, I'll visit Bentley showroom, tip the staff and pose for cameras with their latest model. All join, jare.
FamilyRe: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by DearGorgeous(f): 1:21pm On Aug 17, 2022
Soulflai:
just be careful with words you use with me,you don't know what I am passing through
Soulflai, I pray for God's Grace upon your life, and that of your children. Please take the children to your mother or sisters and separate from that woman. She's not worthy to be called a wife.

And take life easy for the sake of your children.
FashionRe: Richard Mille Unveils World's Thinnest Wristwatch, Costs ₦1.1 Billion (Photos) by DearGorgeous(f): 3:32pm On Jul 22, 2022
N1.1bn abi? As per say the watch will tell me what my future holds, or the exact date of the second coming of Christ?

The money I'll invest on properties, na im I go waste untop one wrist watch ba? Issorite.
CareerRe: 100k Job On The Mainland Vs 150k Job On Island. Please Help!!! by DearGorgeous(f): 5:59pm On Jul 21, 2022
Profmetoo:
Good morning guys

So I currently work with one of the top commercial banks and I was posted to one of their branches on the mainland very close to my place of residence. So I incur close to zero cost of transportation, no traffic issue, no stress. And the salary is 100k, no promotion in sight, career growth is uncertain and the role isn't really great for my CV. I'm a teller.


Last week I did an interview via zoom because of the nature of my work and I got another job, but on the island. It's a private equity firm and the pay is 150k. The cost of transportation for the month is about 20k. There's great career growth and opportunities for self development. However, I fear the stress of going to the island and back daily. Waking up as early as 4am sometimes and coming back home late.

Please advise me on which to choose. I have till Monday to decide.

Those working on the island and staying on the mainland, how do you cope?

Thank you.

Mods
Lalasticlala
Working in Island no be beans at all.

The hellish traffic, indiscriminate increase in TFare by the drivers, especially in the evenings, if you're not mobile; stress, waking up earlier than usual, encountering those terrible human beings on Akpongbo bridge or around National Theatre, cost of eating decent food, etc?

The list of disadvantages is rather endless, but I will advise that you seek the face of God concerning this matter, for He alone knows the end of a thing from the beginning thereof.

Wishing you best of luck on whichever decision you take.
FamilyRe: How To Make Vegetable Soup With Bitter Leaves And Water Leaves. by DearGorgeous(f): 3:13pm On Jul 19, 2022
ahnie:
Inclusion of bitterleaf inside veggie soup?
I haven't heard or eaten such,but I m willing to give it a trial.

When preparing my veggie soup,I do infuse perewinkles and big crayfish.

But the only probs be say...I nor dey ever feel the perewinkles inside the soup when m eating it...lolz
In that case, don't always buy the periwinkles without shell. Buy the ones with shell, ask the seller how to wash and use it for cooking. All you have to do after cooking is to suck it out from its shell while eating. By so doing, you'll feel the periwinkles inside soup while eating.

Alternatively, you can try not to overcook the shell-less ones.
FamilyRe: How To Make Vegetable Soup With Bitter Leaves And Water Leaves. by DearGorgeous(f): 3:06pm On Jul 19, 2022
It's Akwa Ibom delicacy, and it usually tastes good.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Called Me A Coward Because Of This. by DearGorgeous(f): 2:13pm On Jul 19, 2022
Johndagr8t:
how can I unread this





idiot
Why are you calling your mother an idiot?

@Mods, please look into this asap!
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Called Me A Coward Because Of This. by DearGorgeous(f): 1:27pm On Jul 19, 2022
Be calm Op. Your babe was only joking. Remember she refused to leave you alone even when you asked her to go, for her own safety ooo. She was even at the verge of shedding tears when they were manhandling you and all you think of now is calling it quits with her?

Ol' boy, reason well, abeg. You should dash to the next wine store, get yourself some cool bottles of wine and toast with her for being such a dependable girlfriend, who could stand with you even in times of danger.
Music/RadioRe: Name One Nigerian Song You Dislike But Find Yourself Singing Always by DearGorgeous(f): 6:06pm On Jul 09, 2022
Vinnie2000:
Lolsss...Story for the gods, the gods ooo.

Ur Colleague must have been an Alcholic guy..An Ogogoro man.
He doesn't even take alcohol. Only God knows why he was so in love with that particular Olamide's song.
Music/RadioRe: Name One Nigerian Song You Dislike But Find Yourself Singing Always by DearGorgeous(f): 11:06pm On Jul 08, 2022
That year, oh that year! Oti mu dongoyaro, monkey tail" nearly drove me crazy. I was always singing or humming that song, even in the church. It was an unconscious act. I hated the song so much, but I had a colleague that we usually drive to work together. Day in, day out, that was the only song he plays. Just like that, I found myself unconsciously singing that song any time, anywhere, anyday.

I thank God for setting me free at last! It was so embarrassing, abeg.
Christianity EtcRenewed Mind - The Power Of Love In Christ Jesus! by DearGorgeous(op): 11:59pm On Jul 06, 2022
HALLELUJAH!!! ������
Co-founder of SA Satanic Church resigns, now believes in Christ after Christians 'show him what unconditional love is' and he encounters a visitation from the Lord Jesus Christ!

Riaan Swiegelaar, co-founder of the South African Satanic Church (SASC), has resigned from his post as presiding priest of the controversial church on 30 May 2022. He also resigned from the church council, as well as dissolved his membership with the organization.

In a live video broadcast on Facebook, Swiegelaar said, “To be very honest, I initially thought I’d quietly slip out the backdoor and I didn’t think people would be so interested in why I do what I do.” "

He said he engaged in Satanism because it resonated with him at the time, and because he was “very sad and very broken, without realising it”. "I think a lot of people resonate at Satanism when they come from a very broken place." "

"I have met thousands of Satanists over the past year and they are extremely hurt and broken—that's the one thing they all have in common," Swiegelaar added.

He burst into tears and added, "To this day, there have only been four Christians in my entire life who have shown me what unconditional love is. "

Adele Frey, one of the people who supported him, messaged him, saying she just did a simple thing by showing him love. "People, showing love for others is everything. You showed me the love of Christ, I saw it in you".

He adds that Frey showed him unconditional love at a time when he was an "ugly monster", and when he adopted Christians who do that. "You showed me unconditional love. "

In mid-May, Swiegelaar conducted his last interview as a member of the SASC on the CapeTalk radio station, not knowing it would be his last radio interview as an oldie.

Swigelaar said in the interview that he does not believe that Jesus Christ exists. A lady from the radio team walked up to him after the interview and hugged him in a way he had never been hugged before.

A week later, he saw on WhatsApp that the woman is a Christian. "I never had a Christian do that. I have never experienced a Christian show so much love towards a self knowing satanist. "

"And it stayed with me, though. "

A week later, when Swiegelaar had to perform a ritual to see "what the next phase is to gain more influence and power", he did the ritual and during the ritual Jesus appeared before him.

He said, "If you are Jesus, you have to prove it. "Dizzy says he is overflowing with the most beautiful love and energy. “And I recognized it right away, like the woman at the radio station pointed it out to me. "

"This is how I recognized the love of Christ. "

Dizzy expands more about his experience in the live Facebook video that's over 30 minutes long.

Impostor said he would not answer queries from the media, and that the video is his testimony.

A press release by the SASC, whose member number according to Swiegelaar is growing by the day, reads: "We, as the SASC Council, want to thank Swiegalaar for his contribution, both as the pastor and the co-founder of the SA Satanic Church. We wish him success in all his future endeavors. "

God wins!!! What a cool testimony. God can save anyone.

You can watch Swiegelaar's video here: https://www.facebook.com/riaan.swiegelaar/videos/610599526944658/
CareerRe: Can I Sue My Employer For This?? by DearGorgeous(f): 11:57pm On Jul 05, 2022
zedegit:
This will achieve nothing. They are touts themselves. Besides those touts you hire will task you on top money you haven't seen.

Not a good advice.
Well, it was just an advise that may, or may not work.
CareerRe: Can I Sue My Employer For This?? by DearGorgeous(f): 6:49pm On Jul 05, 2022
What of legal fees and the number of years you'll waste going to court?

Start looking for something else to do and quit the job. But make sure you gather some hard looking guys to pay your direct employer a visit, with a strict warning that if by the end of the month you don't receive your full payment, they'll then come in their full element.
That will instill fear in him/her and you'll be paid. I believe this should work.
PoliticsRe: Beatrice Nwanneka Ekweremadu In HMP Bronzefield Prison, UK (Pictures) by DearGorgeous(f): 5:32pm On Jul 05, 2022
So they'll soon bag the title of "ex convicts". Omo see transformation!

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